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CMDD

The important part of this is that when people post special snowflake posts just about themselves or they make repeat posts we are less likely to respond. So the community breaks down. I know I have been on here less the last few days.

nik6499

I think it's unrealistic to believe that we are all going to be spouting rainbows and sunshine all the time. We need to be able to express our frustration with the fly by posters who come to ask their own question and get their own question answered and have no consideration for anyone else and cannot be bothered to respect the community enough to reach out to others with similar problems. Society has fostered this idea that we need what we want right now can't wait and we are the most important person in our reality right now. I don't appreciate people that do not invest. The 'mean girls' in this thread, the girls that are open and honest about expressing their frustration are the very same that comment on these repeat posts and answer them or refer them to search they are also the ones who comment on EVERY single loss and most of us have experienced a loss ourselves we know first hand how scary and terrifying those stories can be and yet we still open and read and empathize which each and every one. Just my two cents

VesperLove

nik6499 said:

I think it's unrealistic to believe that we are all going to be spouting rainbows and sunshine all the time. We need to be able to express our frustration with the fly by posters who come to ask their own question and get their own question answered and have no consideration for anyone else and cannot be bothered to respect the community enough to reach out to others with similar problems. Society has fostered this idea that we need what we want right now can't wait and we are the most important person in our reality right now. I don't appreciate people that do not invest. The 'mean girls' in this thread, the girls that are open and honest about expressing their frustration are the very same that comment on these repeat posts and answer them or refer them to search they are also the ones who comment on EVERY single loss and most of us have experienced a loss ourselves we know first hand how scary and terrifying those stories can be and yet we still open and read and empathize which each and every one. Just my two cents

I like your pennies.

BostonBaby1

BabyOnBoard1215 said:

I am sorry if anyone felt that I was calling someone a moron.  I really just feel like people don't read.  People are so quick to just post something and there is a whole topic about it with a bunch of responses two posts down....

Agreed! I like your post because it stopped me from having to post something with the GTFO … well, if I'm being honest, i'm certain I'm going to post another snarky gif sooner than later.

@nik6499

rockinmathchic

gerblah said:

I would totally call people morons.  Perhaps that's why I've stopped answering questions...

^This!!  So true.

rockinmathchic

nik6499 said:

I think it's unrealistic to believe that we are all going to be spouting rainbows and sunshine all the time. We need to be able to express our frustration with the fly by posters who come to ask their own question and get their own question answered and have no consideration for anyone else and cannot be bothered to respect the community enough to reach out to others with similar problems. Society has fostered this idea that we need what we want right now can't wait and we are the most important person in our reality right now. I don't appreciate people that do not invest. The 'mean girls' in this thread, the girls that are open and honest about expressing their frustration are the very same that comment on these repeat posts and answer them or refer them to search they are also the ones who comment on EVERY single loss and most of us have experienced a loss ourselves we know first hand how scary and terrifying those stories can be and yet we still open and read and empathize which each and every one. Just my two cents

BostonBaby1

CMDD said:

The important part of this is that when people post special snowflake posts just about themselves or they make repeat posts we are less likely to respond. So the community breaks down. I know I have been on here less the last few days.

BabyOnBoard1215

jillianmangrau

Someone had to say it

enigmaanjel

I missed so much on here. I still cant gif....gah. Anyway this made my day

SoCalBeat

nik6499 said:

I think it's unrealistic to believe that we are all going to be spouting rainbows and sunshine all the time. We need to be able to express our frustration with the fly by posters who come to ask their own question and get their own question answered and have no consideration for anyone else and cannot be bothered to respect the community enough to reach out to others with similar problems. Society has fostered this idea that we need what we want right now can't wait and we are the most important person in our reality right now..... Just my two cents

SoCalBeat

To all the new people coming onto this thread and getting offended;



....and hopefully they don't report and deport me!

nik6499

SoCalBeat

nik6499 said:

BostonBaby1

Lmfao

SoCalBeat

Ken122014

I like how people come here and tell us just to not read repeat/annoying posts and not comment if we don't like it. Take your own advice! We have a good thing here, if you don't like it, leave us alone!

BostonBaby1

Karawe said:

I like how people come here and tell us just to not read repeat/annoying posts and not comment if we don't like it. Take your own advice! We have a good thing here, if you don't like it, leave us alone!

Exactly sweetheart!!!

amw2133

I can't believe I missed all of this. I LOVE this thread!

cristinapage72

I'm not new and I wasn't offended. It wasn't me that was being referred to as a moron.

nmonty15

Happy Friday all!!!

BostonBaby1

Happy Friday!!!

cristinapage72

Edited because I can't get it to work :-S

Ken122014

Anyone have one of those mornings where you're supposed to be at work in 5 mins but instead you're sitting on the couch looking at gifs with wet hair and no make up? Oops...

BostonBaby1

Karawe said:

Anyone have one of those mornings where you're supposed to be at work in 5 mins but instead you're sitting on the couch looking at gifs with wet hair and no make up? Oops...

Kara, the are people in need of your help;-)



Love you sweetheart!

CMDD

When should I tell my family? When are you telling family? When should I tell on Facebook? Is this a bump?

BostonBaby1

CMDD

The same story over and over

BlueWaffleSpeshul

nik6499 said:

BlueWaffleSpeshul said:

nik6499 said:

Wasn't directed at you, but ok

OK, apparently I should have indicated that was my joking font. Should I change colors to make sure? Joking can be pink, sarcasm red, normal magenta.

BlueWaffleSpeshul

And just because this is awesome:

Ken122014

BostonBaby1 said:

Karawe said:

Anyone have one of those mornings where you're supposed to be at work in 5 mins but instead you're sitting on the couch looking at gifs with wet hair and no make up? Oops...

Kara, the are people in need of your help;-)



Love you sweetheart!

Haha, I did get my butt up to get here in time for my sessions

nik6499

Ken122014

CMDD said:

When should I tell my family? When are you telling family? When should I tell on Facebook? Is this a bump?

Ugh this is really annoying me lately! I don't know you! How do j know when you should tell your family?? I told people right away... Does that mean you should to? No! Make up your own damn mind.



also just to clarify- I am speaking to the people who are ACTUALLY asking these questions, I know you were not actually asking

Edited because my mobile app sucks

redfallon

@cristinapage72 said:

Edited because I can't get it to work :-S

Code shows you did everything right. I'm not sure why it didn't work. I had one do that the other day.






ETA: didn't work for me, either. Weird.It's a cute one, though! Here's the link if anyone wants to see it!

https://gifsec.com/wp-content/uploads/GIF/2014/06/Its-friday-funny-gif.gif

kristen2b

We're getting a reputation.. Lol!!

CMDD

Hahahaha

enigmaanjel

Lol awesome

Marchmellow2

Babygotbags said:

We're getting a reputation.. Lol!!

Lol!! Yassssss! What BMB was that from?

kristen2b

@Marchmellow2 it's from the November birth moms forum, their FFFC thread I think. I like to creep on other boards.

SoCalBeat

@Babygotbags @Marchmellow2

I creep other boards too!!! Bwah hahahahshaha =P~






It makes me think of this YouTube video; enjoy
https://youtu.be/tLPZmPaHme0