There's a mom on the 3rd tri board who doesn't want the grandparents to see the baby for 6 months so they can have family bonding time. I'm all for bonding time in the first few hours/ day but 6 months wow, just seems mean. I also loved the extra help from my mom and MIL
becole42 From my understanding that Sara girl is real. As others said for Mamatobe- but it's just so hard to believe. I just
read through all her posts and they seem like things someone stalkerish
could know and use to pretend to be her. Nothing seemed too damning to
me. And of course that Sara chick could have made the Mamatobe account. I'm still skeptical of it all and I stand by my statement that I am now an Olympian's wife! )
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@sstwinklinglites , that's what I was thinking. Baby proofing has nothing to do with that. We just did some baby proofing which is why I went to read it and got really confused as to why the heck she was still there.
i'd also love to know where her parents are in all this. If they are such good christians then why haven't they pulled her out of that situation and offered her and their own granddaughter a home
@Emmagk , she also mentioned her dad making six figures then said she grew up middle class. I don't know what it's like in Texas but where I'm from, six figures a year, you're sitting pretty in my book.
i'd also love to know where her parents are in all this. If they are such good christians then why haven't they pulled her out of that situation and offered her and their own granddaughter a home
I would assume because the boyfriend is not allowed to move in with her. Either that or they are way extreme and kicked her out.
If the above was the case and she wouldn't leave without her boyfriend and I was her mother, I'd be contacting CPS, getting a removal order, and filing for emergency custody.
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i'd also love to know where her parents are in all this. If they are such good christians then why haven't they pulled her out of that situation and offered her and their own granddaughter a home
My guess is they did but told her to leave the boyfriend. She wouldn't, so she went to stay with his family. I feel really bad for that poor little baby. Hope she gets her out of there asap
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Seriously, if I was her parents and knew my granddaughter was living like this, I would probably call CPS. And who watches the baby while she goes to work. This scares me. WTH is spice? You know you're old when the kids are doing drugs you've never even heard of.
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That makes me so sad! I'm sure her parents could help her! That's their granddaughter no matter what terms they are on! How terrible. The little girl has no control over her situation and the mom needs to do better for her daughter! Who cares how much you love him. You're child should be number one in that situation IMO! If being with him is hurting her then he has to go!
In a nutshell, people got upset that new TOU were coming out and no one had answers. They started cursing bumpMay. The new TOU came out and the parenting mods got banned for unknown reasons. Everyone got upset and started cursing TB and bumpMay even more, thereby violating TOU. Hence, they're all getting banned and moving over to pro boards
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Do private bump groups have to follow the TOU? Are they monitored?
They are not moderated, but I think the TOU still applies
Who enforces tous in private groups? Can they be read? Like if I wanted to post a picture of my kid- can someone from the bump see it that's not a group member (like bump may?)
Sounds like the bump gods can see everything, if they decide to look.
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Good timing for all us newbs who came out of lurkdom! :-S I was going to intro on Parenting since I've lurked there a bit too. The situation doesn't make me feel too good about the site overall but this board seems like it will avoid the same fate?
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https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12483370/grandparent-drama-over-visiting-after-baby-is-born-help#latest
Yeah, this is good stuff!
This is stuff of Bump legend. We've had a lot of those lately....
WTH is spice? You know you're old when the kids are doing drugs you've never even heard of.
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