Vent: TL;DR ... MIL is still BSC and up to her antics again.
I wanted to spam and tell you last night, but I needed more details first. Long story short DH and MIL are at it again. He stormed out of the house around 8 last night in a fit on his way to confront her. Last we all spoke was when DH and I stopped over last month and she decided to gift is the gift we would never use. But we left on good terms.
My mom informed me that MIL never RSVPd for the gala and has yet to return multiple phone calls and messages. We think that since she couldn't bring her 40 guests she boycott. So I told DH, and since then he has been trying to reach her (I've even called). Apparently she is ignoring all of us and upset because no one asked her to help do anything for the baby. Huh!??
She wants attention and to be begged for help. She needs to feel like you need her. I swear this lady is crazy. DH is beyond pissed and told her not to be mad when Dolce calls his fathers wife (MILs ex husbands new wife) grandma. Well that really sent her into a rage. He doesn't want anything to do with her anymore.
All I know is, I am so uneasy with the thought of her being alone with my child. And by alone I mean not in my presence. I don't think I will ever be okay with her around the baby. Gosh!! I just want some normalcy.
That is a crazy situation! I wish she realized this shower is about you & not her!!
Question for all you momma's: NOT asking you to diagnose me (bc, I know we're all licensed physicians here!) I have a constant numbness/pain on underneath my rib cage on my right hand side... I'm going to the Dr. on Friday so I'll be sure to bring it up then but I didn't know if anyone else had experienced this previously (either now or in a previous pregnancy)..?
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Annnnnd my boss still couldn't give me an answer. We're a fairly small family owned company and he needs input from the owner and his two sons. Who I almost never work with. Glad they'll help decide this. Wtf.
He told me hopefully by Friday. I told him that this is incredibly stressful and I know he feels bad but "Take a deep breath and try not to worry" has helped precisely no one ever.
This week needs to end. Pronto.
I hope everything goes well! I was hoping to read an update today! Thanks for keeping us in the loop. Let us know when you know.
@foxslaw sorry the chicky I tried to be nice to went all crazy on your ass. I am not having good luck with the newbs lately!!
Also, I just thought I would cheer you all up with the fact that I am now #5 in my hockey pool out of 40. I rule!!
You win the "Board Sweetheart" badge and next thing you know you're making enemies! I think you let your guard down after the big acceptance speech HA!
***July Siggy Challenge*** Favorite Summer Time Treat: "Anything Poolside!"
@foxslaw sorry the chicky I tried to be nice to went all crazy on your ass. I am not having good luck with the newbs lately!!
Also, I just thought I would cheer you all up with the fact that I am now #5 in my hockey pool out of 40. I rule!!
You win the "Board Sweetheart" badge and next thing you know you're making enemies! I think you let your guard down after the big acceptance speech HA!
@Lizzybean, thanks-- I think the anticipation of MIL's arrival is more stressful than the actual week. At least, let's hope. @mahalo3, thanks & good luck to you, too. Mine doesn't really cook, so there won't be much helping unless I can enlist DH.
I got the supersoft cropped leggings at gap, but the full panel ones are comfy, too (I tried them on). These just worked better for me. You totally should get them! I'm in the market for some skinny jeans to wear with my boots. It's too cold to just do leggings and boots right now!
Also, FIRST WATCH! DH takes me there every time we're in Tampa, and we're hardcore Floridian French Toast fans, too. I always get a side of bacon with it
Annnnnd my boss still couldn't give me an answer. We're a fairly small family owned company and he needs input from the owner and his two sons. Who I almost never work with. Glad they'll help decide this. Wtf.
He told me hopefully by Friday. I told him that this is incredibly stressful and I know he feels bad but "Take a deep breath and try not to worry" has helped precisely no one ever.
I promise I'm not trying to start shit, guys. I just want this new poster to go away. Can we vote people off the island? How self serving was her response in the anxiety thread? Makes me see red!
I promise I'm not trying to start shit, guys. I just want this new poster to go away. Can we vote people off the island? How self serving was her response in the anxiety thread? Makes me see red!
Seriously. I am trying to play nice with her. I've told her multiple times to stop and lurk. She just won't listen. Now she wants to delete her posts in the WTF thread.
She comes off to me as another super young Mom like our little friend from last night (no offense intended to teen moms, Im just getting a bit of a vibe from her...) She seems super clueless, but still wants to be "cool" but doesn't want to play nice. Does that make sense? My brain isn't functioning today..
I promise I'm not trying to start shit, guys. I just want this new poster to go away. Can we vote people off the island? How self serving was her response in the anxiety thread? Makes me see red!
Seriously. I am trying to play nice with her. I've told her multiple times to stop and lurk. She just won't listen. Now she wants to delete her posts in the WTF thread.
She comes off to me as another super young Mom like our little friend from last night (no offense intended to teen moms, Im just getting a bit of a vibe from her...) She seems super clueless, but still wants to be "cool" but doesn't want to play nice. Does that make sense? My brain isn't functioning today.. ***** I gotcha @lizzybean. She posted a picture in HDBD, and I got the vibe that she's not a teen mom.
I promise I'm not trying to start shit, guys. I just want this new poster to go away. Can we vote people off the island? How self serving was her response in the anxiety thread? Makes me see red!
Seriously. I am trying to play nice with her. I've told her multiple times to stop and lurk. She just won't listen. Now she wants to delete her posts in the WTF thread.
She comes off to me as another super young Mom like our little friend from last night (no offense intended to teen moms, Im just getting a bit of a vibe from her...) She seems super clueless, but still wants to be "cool" but doesn't want to play nice. Does that make sense? My brain isn't functioning today..
I promise I'm not trying to start shit, guys. I just want this new poster to go away. Can we vote people off the island? How self serving was her response in the anxiety thread? Makes me see red!
Seriously. I am trying to play nice with her. I've told her multiple times to stop and lurk. She just won't listen. Now she wants to delete her posts in the WTF thread.
She comes off to me as another super young Mom like our little friend from last night (no offense intended to teen moms, Im just getting a bit of a vibe from her...) She seems super clueless, but still wants to be "cool" but doesn't want to play nice. Does that make sense? My brain isn't functioning today..
I promise I'm not trying to start shit, guys. I just want this new poster to go away. Can we vote people off the island? How self serving was her response in the anxiety thread? Makes me see red!
Seriously. I am trying to play nice with her. I've told her multiple times to stop and lurk. She just won't listen. Now she wants to delete her posts in the WTF thread.
She comes off to me as another super young Mom like our little friend from last night (no offense intended to teen moms, Im just getting a bit of a vibe from her...) She seems super clueless, but still wants to be "cool" but doesn't want to play nice. Does that make sense? My brain isn't functioning today..
Sorry. I think @psychobutthead needs to pass me the drama llama badge for the last few days. Thank goodness I have you ladies!
Lol I feel the love.
As an update I found out at the hospital that I was still dehydrated from before when i had the stomach virus and was dehydrated. Dh acted like an ass for about an hour then came back to the room. I don't think the nurses where too impressed with him since they kind of gave him the stink eye after he came back. I'm sure they heard the way he acted.
And monday someone mentioned going to counseling. DH refuses to go. I've asked him for over a year to see a counsler with me because we cant work through the issues we have together and he still refuses.
Pregnancy #1 DD 08.30.2007 Pregnancy #2 Natural Miscarriage at 6 weeks 03/2014 Due date 11/9/2014 Pregnancy #3 DS 02.23.2015 Pregnancy #4 Missed Miscarriage at 11 weeks 11/2018 Due date 5/22/2019 Pregnancy #5 Positive test 12/11/2019 Due Date 8/17/2020
So, I'm parked at the beach since my coordinator forgot to tell me that there was no kids' rugby today and I didn't want to backtrack all the way home just to go back to town an hour later.
2 classes cancelled today! Whoop! So I decided to finally go change my drivers license. After a very cheeky man did my eye exam (I had a little trouble but there was no need to continually call me Helen from that point on) I went in to do everything else and apparently I needed proof of new address... No biggie they said I can run to the post office and fill out my change of address and come back... So I did... (There may have been a stop at Micky Ds for some fries. Whatevs) and I go back in to the DMV and guess what? That won't work. So I'll be back next week assuming I get the confirmation in the mail from the post office.
Ughh these random posts are seriously just getting annoying!!! I wish someone could just delete all the stupid threads. Anyway currently have a tray of french fries in the oven..yummmmm
How many brownies would one consider to be "too many" the day before a glucose test?
Asking for a friend....
A pan? I say this as someone who has a glucose test tomorrow and ate a cinnamon roll for breakfast, had a large chocolate shake at lunch, and a brownie in the afternoon. All week I planned to be really good today and then failed misrably at it. I blame having to drop DH at the airport and I won't see him for a week (he's running a race this weekend) until I join him for our last hurrah before the baby comes.
I do think a pan would be too many. Good thinking.
I'm having like church-level quiet giggling over this, for no apparent reason. CCB is just hitting all my funny bones today.
Anyone watch bachelor Canada? I know its a long shot but do we want to talk about what a BAD CHOICE TIM MADE?! I am so angry.
Agh! If I went home I would have finished it! I want to talk about it maybe later tonight/tomorrow.
Please remember to talk about it with me. This is killing me LOL
God you Canadians are adorable.
MAYBE I am not really a Canadian? I just really like Canadian things. Like Bachelor Canada, and moose, and poutine. I mean there has to be Americans who like our stuff.
@Alygohome I'm American, went to McGill, and married a Canadian. DH grew up in the same town as the first Canadian bachelor and knew his older siblings, so we watched that one for all of the giggles.
Re: It's Hump Day- Spam
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Favorite Summer Time Treat: "Anything Poolside!"
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Favorite Summer Time Treat: "Anything Poolside!"
(Hah, kidding. You know what makes me cry? Stale cookies like the one I just had. Boo.)
(Also, I wrote "rums back" at first. Wishful thinking.)
:P
I got the supersoft cropped leggings at gap, but the full panel ones are comfy, too (I tried them on). These just worked better for me. You totally should get them! I'm in the market for some skinny jeans to wear with my boots. It's too cold to just do leggings and boots right now!
Also, FIRST WATCH! DH takes me there every time we're in Tampa, and we're hardcore Floridian French Toast fans, too. I always get a side of bacon with it
NO MORE HEARTBURN!
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TWIN LOSS 7.2.15
BFP 9.7.15 CP
BFP 12.31.15 MC 2.28.16
BFP 10.14.17 CP
BFP 3.10.18 D&C 4.13.18
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TWIN LOSS 7.2.15
BFP 9.7.15 CP
BFP 12.31.15 MC 2.28.16
BFP 10.14.17 CP
BFP 3.10.18 D&C 4.13.18
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I gotcha @lizzybean. She posted a picture in HDBD, and I got the vibe that she's not a teen mom.
We just proved that @lizzybean isn't a catfish
Pregnancy #2 Natural Miscarriage at 6 weeks 03/2014 Due date 11/9/2014
Pregnancy #3 DS 02.23.2015
Pregnancy #4 Missed Miscarriage at 11 weeks 11/2018 Due date 5/22/2019
Pregnancy #5 Positive test 12/11/2019 Due Date 8/17/2020
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TTC 10+ | Stage 4 Endometriosis
3 Laparscopy's
BFP - 06.15.2014
EDD - 02.16.2015
I will be sure to page you for a chat as soon as I finish watching.
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TTC 10+ | Stage 4 Endometriosis
3 Laparscopy's
BFP - 06.15.2014
EDD - 02.16.2015
Anyway currently have a tray of french fries in the oven..yummmmm
I can't imagine someone not liking poutine. It is the best thing French Canadians have ever done for us. Gravy and cheese and salty fries goodness.
You know what is amazing. Eggs benedict ONTOP of poutine. Yes. I went there.
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TTC 10+ | Stage 4 Endometriosis
3 Laparscopy's
BFP - 06.15.2014
EDD - 02.16.2015