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eireyes · September 2014

@mom2boxers How did the sleep sack nap experiment go for your LO's naps at daycare? Hope it worked out for you!

fireflygirl12 · September 2014

Yesterday DH and I had our first serious conversation about thinking we might go for a third kid since we're starting to get a handle on this whole 2u2 thing. Then my toddler kept me up all.night.long. Cruel game.

hordol · September 2014

I'm assuming this is just a growth spurt, but can a baby eat too much? All weekend DS has been ravenous. He would nurse until I was bone dry and freak out until I gave him a bottle and then nurse again afterwards. My mom is watching him today and he has had 12 ounces within 4 hours.....normal? Or could something else be at play? That's double what he has normally had in that amount of time.

Bluebird2318 · September 2014

fireflygirl12 said:

Yesterday DH and I had our first serious conversation about thinking we might go for a third kid since we're starting to get a handle on this whole 2u2 thing. Then my toddler kept me up all.night.long. Cruel game.

You're on that slippery slope, girl! Before you know it, you'll be the Duggars.

Ashleypixie · September 2014

Uggghhhh this baby! She's been fussy and I finally got her to fall asleep in my arms, two minutes later something the builders were doing in the basement set off all the smoke alarms and woke her up. Surprisingly she thought it all hilarious. Then I'm talking to DH on speaker phone and her daddy's voice coming out of the phone was absolutely terrifying and it took forever to calm her down. Now she's not happy and we're both exhausted

speechie517 · September 2014

jodibolivar said:

Have a FB friend who has a son that is three months old. She is the uber competitive type that has to have the perfect baby who's advanced beyond his age. It's ridiculous. Anyway, she posted today that her son is starting mashed organic bananas because her pedi said he was ready for it. She also claims her EBF baby is drinking 15 Oz a session. Is that even possible for a 3 month old to handle that amount if breast milk?!

PoppySeedWindsor · September 2014

Bluebird2318 said:

fireflygirl12 said:

Yesterday DH and I had our first serious conversation about thinking we might go for a third kid since we're starting to get a handle on this whole 2u2 thing. Then my toddler kept me up all.night.long. Cruel game.

You're on that slippery slope, girl! Before you know it, you'll be the Duggars.

This is my biggest fear right now. Also, we might just effing go for it. One a year. Think we could get our own TV show?

Bluebird2318 · September 2014

hordol said:

I'm assuming this is just a growth spurt, but can a baby eat too much? All weekend DS has been ravenous. He would nurse until I was bone dry and freak out until I gave him a bottle and then nurse again afterwards. My mom is watching him today and he has had 12 ounces within 4 hours.....normal? Or could something else be at play? That's double what he has normally had in that amount of time.

It's normal for a baby's appetite to jump and fall like craziness, so I wouldn't automatically assume there's anything wrong with it. I mean, yes, it's possible for a baby to overeat, but if he's not spitting everything up then I would just assume he's going through a growth spurt.

fireflygirl12 · September 2014

Bluebird2318 said:

fireflygirl12 said:

Yesterday DH and I had our first serious conversation about thinking we might go for a third kid since we're starting to get a handle on this whole 2u2 thing. Then my toddler kept me up all.night.long. Cruel game.

You're on that slippery slope, girl! Before you know it, you'll be the Duggars.

No way! We have always been stuck between 2 and 3, but neither of us wants more than 3 for sure. One of our considerations for not going for 3 is the chance of getting twins. Yikes.

Bluebird2318 · September 2014

PoppySeedWindsor said:

Bluebird2318 said:

fireflygirl12 said:

Yesterday DH and I had our first serious conversation about thinking we might go for a third kid since we're starting to get a handle on this whole 2u2 thing. Then my toddler kept me up all.night.long. Cruel game.

You're on that slippery slope, girl! Before you know it, you'll be the Duggars.

This is my biggest fear right now. Also, we might just effing go for it. One a year. Think we could get our own TV show?

You would have to be the complete opposite of the Duggars--tat up all your kids as soon as they hit 18, encourage promiscuity, etc. etc. Gotta fill different TV niches, but then you're set!

Bluebird2318 · September 2014

aronie82 said:

I always try to remember what I hear the pump say to me and then I forget. And then I feel crazy

The pump I used when DD was getting breast milk always used to "say" the same thing to me, but I can't remember what it was anymore. DH swears the pump I use now says "om-boo-ray, om-boo-ray..."

Ashleypixie · September 2014

For my EBF friends.....funny https://www.theonion.com/articles/new-study-finds-link-between-breastfeeding-always,36823/?utm_source=Facebook&utm_medium=SocialMarketing&utm_campaign=LinkPreview:1:Default

edoliesmom · September 2014

@Ashleypixie I'm just now seeing your new and improved siggy, and it made me lol. Or more of a snicker... so I SOLd.

Twirple · September 2014

Whew, finally caught up!

@Deidremaria hugs to you.

@Poppyseedwindsor, Congratulations!!!

@Celticlullaby I hope you feel better soon.

I am so torn right now. Before we ever had children, I told DH that I don't believe in spanking. I was spanked a couple of times growing up, and don't remember it, but I think there are other ways. Well DH has been really regressing in his potty training, so the point where we have been changing his underwear more often than we had to change his diapers when he was in them. He would get off the toilet, poop, we would put him back on the toilet, clean him up, put him in new underwear, and he would poop again.

Two weekends ago, he and DH went camping together. DH asked him if he needed to go potty a couple of times leading up to their hike together and DS said no both times, as they were getting ready to go, DH smelled poop and took DS to the bathoom. As DH was cleaning DS up, it became clear that he had been sitting in it for a while, and lied to DH about it. DH cleaned him up, gave him a smack on the bum and they went for their hike.

DS hasn't had an accident since then. He is even wake up dry overnight.

DH didn't tell me until Friday night that he had done that. I mentioned how great Chase was doing with his potty training and DH spilled the beans because he has been feeling guilty for a week.

I know he didn't really hurt Chase, just scared him, and I'm absolutely thrilled that Chase has finally figured it out, especially since we have tried everything (3 day potty training, sticker chart, M&M's, taking away toys, earning a trip to the movies, etc.) I hate that this is what worked. Sigh.

Twirple · September 2014

@Ashleypixie that is too funny!

fireflygirl12 · September 2014

Bluebird2318 said:

aronie82 said:

I always try to remember what I hear the pump say to me and then I forget. And then I feel crazy

The pump I used when DD was getting breast milk always used to "say" the same thing to me, but I can't remember what it was anymore. DH swears the pump I use now says "om-boo-ray, om-boo-ray..."

Mine says "whack a ho, whack a ho"

Twirple · September 2014

fireflygirl12 said:

Bluebird2318 said:

aronie82 said:

I always try to remember what I hear the pump say to me and then I forget. And then I feel crazy

The pump I used when DD was getting breast milk always used to "say" the same thing to me, but I can't remember what it was anymore. DH swears the pump I use now says "om-boo-ray, om-boo-ray..."

Mine says "whack a ho, whack a ho"

Mine just breathes heavily. Depending on my mood it has just run a marathon, is really turned on, or is stalking me.

Ashleypixie · September 2014

@Twirple‌ You can't be sure that the spanking is what did it. It could be that he's beginning to figure it all out. Because he lied about it shows that he feels a little ashamed and was already aware that dad wouldn't be happy, and from this point on he's becoming more aware of when he needs to use the potty before he has an accident. Don't feel bad about the spanking, he won't remember it and hold it against you as an adult. I spanked DS once and I'm so against it. Write it off as a parenting blooper. Obviously your potty training method is what has been working, not a little pat on the behind.

edoliesmom · September 2014

Twirple said:

Whew, finally caught up!

@Deidremaria hugs to you.

@Poppyseedwindsor, Congratulations!!!

@Celticlullaby I hope you feel better soon.

I am so torn right now. Before we ever had children, I told DH that I don't believe in spanking. I was spanked a couple of times growing up, and don't remember it, but I think there are other ways. Well DH has been really regressing in his potty training, so the point where we have been changing his underwear more often than we had to change his diapers when he was in them. He would get off the toilet, poop, we would put him back on the toilet, clean him up, put him in new underwear, and he would poop again.

Two weekends ago, he and DH went camping together. DH asked him if he needed to go potty a couple of times leading up to their hike together and DS said no both times, as they were getting ready to go, DH smelled poop and took DS to the bathoom. As DH was cleaning DS up, it became clear that he had been sitting in it for a while, and lied to DH about it. DH cleaned him up, gave him a smack on the bum and they went for their hike.

DS hasn't had an accident since then. He is even wake up dry overnight.

DH didn't tell me until Friday night that he had done that. I mentioned how great Chase was doing with his potty training and DH spilled the beans because he has been feeling guilty for a week.

I know he didn't really hurt Chase, just scared him, and I'm absolutely thrilled that Chase has finally figured it out, especially since we have tried everything (3 day potty training, sticker chart, M&M's, taking away toys, earning a trip to the movies, etc.) I hate that this is what worked. Sigh.

Try not to be too hard on yourself (or your husband). It was a one-time thing, and it seems like that's what needed to happen in order for Chase to make progress. You said yourself that nothing else was working. As long as he doesn't seem traumatized by what happened (you said he didn't hurt him, just scared/surprised him), then you should really try to not let it bother you too much. Easier said than done, I know, but if he's happy and the same sweet boy (who's now successfully going potty! <:-P) then you should try to move forward!

Ashleypixie · September 2014

mommyofmac said:

@Ashleypixie‌ (((hugs))) mama! Hopefully LO was able to calm down and you were both able to relax.

Haha thanks! I got her to fall asleep again, then some guy came to the door to drop off some wood (they're supposed to just put it in the basement) and my hippy little dog went insane. Fortunately though, she woke up for a second and then just passed out. Whatever.

deidremaria · September 2014

Don't be hard on yourself Twirple. Be optimistic and enjoy the fact that Chase has progressed

Roufi · September 2014

My child has turned me into a sap. At the wedding on Saturday, I cried while the groom danced with his mother, imagining someday dancing with my own son at his wedding.
Last night I teared up because Shea was cooing along to "all of me" in the car. Like, really sounded like he was singing along.

Somebody smack me.

hlm184 · September 2014

Twirple said:

I am so torn right now. Before we ever had children, I told DH that I don't believe in spanking. I was spanked a couple of times growing up, and don't remember it, but I think there are other ways. Well DH has been really regressing in his potty training, so the point where we have been changing his underwear more often than we had to change his diapers when he was in them. He would get off the toilet, poop, we would put him back on the toilet, clean him up, put him in new underwear, and he would poop again.

____

If it makes you feel better, that typo made my day!

Serenla · September 2014

jodibolivar said:

unfamiliarroad said:

jodibolivar said:
Have a FB friend who has a son that is three months old. She is the uber competitive type that has to have the perfect baby who's advanced beyond his age. It's ridiculous. Anyway, she posted today that her son is starting mashed organic bananas because her pedi said he was ready for it. She also claims her EBF baby is drinking 15 Oz a session. Is that even possible for a 3 month old to handle that amount if breast milk?!
Tell her video or it didn't happen. Can't imagine the vomiting that would ensue even if you could get the baby to take that much.

I just asked her if he had a hollow leg because ain't no way a 3 month old 15lb baby can handle that! And the responses are that I'm wrong because she is such an excellent mom and why would she lie about that. Ummm... same reason she does everything- attention!!!! I really should delete her.

I would delete or hide her.

ambarnett1 · September 2014

Went to the baby story time group and it was a good experience. I met two mom's and plan to go back on Thursday! Bubba had a great time as well

Twirple · September 2014

hlm184 said:

Twirple said:

I am so torn right now. Before we ever had children, I told DH that I don't believe in spanking. I was spanked a couple of times growing up, and don't remember it, but I think there are other ways. Well DH has been really regressing in his potty training, so the point where we have been changing his underwear more often than we had to change his diapers when he was in them. He would get off the toilet, poop, we would put him back on the toilet, clean him up, put him in new underwear, and he would poop again.

____

If it makes you feel better, that typo made my day!

Oh! That does make me feel better! Thanks for pointing it out. You know what, I'm not even embarrassed about the typo!

Twirple · September 2014

MrsStanton87 said:

Vinny424 said:

For those wanting to participate in the exchange can we set a baseline for the package? I had some people with concerns about feeling bad if they got a package of a certain amount and they sent one worth half that. Any ideas?

Is $30 too much? That's what I was thinking.

This sounds like a good amount to me.

edoliesmom · September 2014

Yuuuuuuuck! lol

RocksInTheWater · September 2014

Bluebird2318 said:

aronie82 said:

I always try to remember what I hear the pump say to me and then I forget. And then I feel crazy

The pump I used when DD was getting breast milk always used to "say" the same thing to me, but I can't remember what it was anymore. DH swears the pump I use now says "om-boo-ray, om-boo-ray..."

Mine is currently saying "let it go, let it go, let it go." Listen up, milk!

Twirple · September 2014

poru said:

LoriMc12 said:

Bluebird2318 said:

aronie82 said:

I always try to remember what I hear the pump say to me and then I forget. And then I feel crazy

The pump I used when DD was getting breast milk always used to "say" the same thing to me, but I can't remember what it was anymore. DH swears the pump I use now says "om-boo-ray, om-boo-ray..."

Mine is currently saying "let it go, let it go, let it go." Listen up, milk!

Let it go, let it go, be one with the earth and sky.....

No? something else?

(damn frozen loving toddlers)

This is the first thing I thought of too. I, too, blame the frozen loving toddler.

avidkeo · September 2014

Twirple said:

poru said:

LoriMc12 said:

Bluebird2318 said:

aronie82 said:

I always try to remember what I hear the pump say to me and then I forget. And then I feel crazy

The pump I used when DD was getting breast milk always used to "say" the same thing to me, but I can't remember what it was anymore. DH swears the pump I use now says "om-boo-ray, om-boo-ray..."

Mine is currently saying "let it go, let it go, let it go." Listen up, milk!

Let it go, let it go, be one with the earth and sky.....

No? something else?

(damn frozen loving toddlers)

This is the first thing I thought of too. I, too, blame the frozen loving toddler.

I managed to avoid Frozen until about a week ago. Now I get the hype and damn that song is catchy!!!

avidkeo · September 2014

DD has been really interested in food for the last couple of weeks and has mostly lost her tongue thrust reflex. a week ago we let her have a little taste of Kumara (like sweet potato but more purple and sweeter) and she loved it! So the last three nights I have given DD a little bit of pureed pumpkin and sweetcorn, which she also loved! It was so cute seeing her open her mouth and actually move her head toward the spoon! Did not expect that! and by a little bit I mean maybe a tablespoon in total.

Now I had actually intended on just doing BLW once she was 6 months, shes only 4.5m now, so it way too soon to do solids really.

BUT.. the last 3 nights she has slept right through... I don't believe in doing something just because it helps them sleep through, and it could be a coincidence. We have also started her in a sleep sack which may also be helping.

My dilemma, do I keep up with a small amount of puree each night, or not! lol. This is one of those "I would never do that" things (feeding any solids before 6 months!". Although my biggest reason to leave solids till 6 months is because I'm too cheap to pay for baby food, so the plan was to start BLW where she will get a small sample of what ever we were eating - appropriate of course.

Why is it so hard to make simple decisions! My gut is to leave it another month because I don't want to risk the possibility of food allergies, though no one in either of our families has any food allergies at all.

ETA wow sorry for the novel. I guess I'm really just thinking out loud, but would be interested in your feedback.

fireflygirl12 · September 2014

We are waiting until 6 months and starting BLW like we did with DS1. Who knows if it actually helps with food allergies, but the chance that it might seems worth it to me to not have to deal with life long food concerns. Also, this being my second, I'm not nearly as excited to get him started on solids as I was with DS1. It really is a PITA for awhile.

That being said, I'm not at all judgy towards those who start solids earlier. You know what's best for your situation

Twirple · September 2014

avidkeo said:

DD has been really interested in food for the last couple of weeks and has mostly lost her tongue thrust reflex. a week ago we let her have a little taste of Kumara (like sweet potato but more purple and sweeter) and she loved it! So the last three nights I have given DD a little bit of pureed pumpkin and sweetcorn, which she also loved! It was so cute seeing her open her mouth and actually move her head toward the spoon! Did not expect that! and by a little bit I mean maybe a tablespoon in total.

Now I had actually intended on just doing BLW once she was 6 months, shes only 4.5m now, so it way too soon to do solids really.

BUT.. the last 3 nights she has slept right through... I don't believe in doing something just because it helps them sleep through, and it could be a coincidence. We have also started her in a sleep sack which may also be helping.

My dilemma, do I keep up with a small amount of puree each night, or not! lol. This is one of those "I would never do that" things (feeding any solids before 6 months!". Although my biggest reason to leave solids till 6 months is because I'm too cheap to pay for baby food, so the plan was to start BLW where she will get a small sample of what ever we were eating - appropriate of course.

Why is it so hard to make simple decisions! My gut is to leave it another month because I don't want to risk the possibility of food allergies, though no one in either of our families has any food allergies at all.

ETA wow sorry for the novel. I guess I'm really just thinking out loud, but would be interested in your feedback.

My instinct would be to wait until she is 6 months, but that is much easier to do when your LO isn't interested in food.

My Mom gave Carlene a taste of ice cream last night. I wasn't happy, mainly because we're not introducing dairy until she is a year old.

Bluebird2318 · September 2014

@Vinny424 I'm impressed. I would be freaking out running to get a towel! I can't handle wet stuff on me (unless we're talking about a shower or a pool or something).

@Twirple Don't feel too bad! I'm sure he wasn't hurt and the fact that it happened and worked once doesn't mean that it's now your default method of parenting.

@MaiTaiBeth It sounds like she's doing awesome! Preemie or not, I really do think all babies develop their own way and a "delay" doesn't necessarily mean there's something wrong. My preemie was always on schedule with social and vocal behaviors, but lagged a bit on some of the physical stuff. She didn't walk until 18 months, but there was nothing wrong.

I'm waiting until 6 months to really try any solids on DS (though I have dipped my finger in yogurt to let him taste it), but I don't necessarily think there's anything wrong with people who test the waters sooner as long as long as they are following baby's cues and not forcing food because it suits them.

avidkeo · September 2014

poru said:

haha -- I would totally keep giving her a spoonful even though I am planning on waiting till 6 months, because, you know, all the sleep. That being said, it's probably the sleep sack

Yeah I'm going with the sleep sack

I definitely wont be giving her any the next few nights so will see what happens. Its only really 6 weeks till shes 6 months so that's nothing! Just hope she will wait that long now that she has had a taste! lol

Twirple said:

My Mom gave Carlene a taste of ice cream last night. I wasn't happy, mainly because we're not introducing dairy until she is a year old.

Yeah that's one that's not even an option!! I've had a few people ask if I've given her icecream and I

I'm hell no! And as we are heading into summer, this is going to be tricky!

I was talking to DH about it and I'm going to be really strict about what I give her. He let her try some yogurt yesterday when I was at work - which she hated (thank god!). I didn't say anything to him about the whole dairy thing, but my biggest thing was actually the added sugar! I'm really against things that are processed because of the added crap. Another reason for the BLW.

Thanks ladies, I'm going to stick with my instinct and just wait.

RedDawnsRevenge · September 2014

When you say cheat sheet you mean like location, likes, hobbies, baby info, fav food, dislikes?

fireflygirl12 · September 2014

Ugh, YoBaby yogurt is the worst. It's made for babies and I think the #2 ingredient is sugar. My 2 year old LOVES plain greek yogurt because he's never had the sugary flavored kinds. Sometimes I mix real fruit into it, but he will easily eat it plain. We also use it as dip. He will eat just about anything if he can dip it.

ambarnett1 · September 2014

RedDawnsRevenge said:
When you say cheat sheet you mean like location, likes, hobbies, baby info, fav food, dislikes?

At least the active ones

rtv3 · September 2014

Went to pick DD up from the babysitter after my first full day of teaching and she totally gave me a huge smile and reached for me. Made my day

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