I just got a fucking text from SO saying he just got fired!!
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WTF?!?! Completely freaking out here... He said he's home now getting changed and going to try to get a job today, but I doubt that'll happen! FUCK!
@alexandria22489 That's pretty freak'n rude, I would have been pissed too.
@frecklesinside I had to wait two years for hubs to build me a desktop. I've been lugging around my junior year laptop for ages, like over 8 years we're talking. I hope you can back up everything before it dies completely and can find a cheapo replacement in the meantime. Major pain, I know, not to have the computer you want/are used to having.
Woah @cinderella021714 wtf happened? I hope he can find something new quickly!
"Serious is only something you have to be until you can be silly again."
Oh no!!! I'm so sorry. WTF happened?! I would be losing my shit.
His boss has always been an asshole and would dangle a raise in his face but change his mind all the time because his coworkers always talked shit about him putting blame on him for THEIR fuck ups, so his boss would say he wasn't working hard enough to deserve a raise.... When in reality he was picking up their pieces everyday and actually doing all the work while they were fucking up. Basically he was treated like shit and has been looking for something better with no luck, and now he fired him because he fucking went to my ultrasound yesterday.... Are you kidding me?? Beyond livid with that dude..
@pearsforpoops That shouldn't be legal.. But what do I know. I'm just pissed off and if he doesn't find something by next week idk what we're going to do.
Glad you're feeling ok, Wendy! Hope it's a fast recovery! Hugs!
@Cinderella021714 omg! I hope he's able to find something else soon! That sucks!
Good luck with all the appointments today! I always look forward to updates!!
Both the Ebola patients have been released from the hospital, and I cried seeing Dr. Brantly standing there with his family. These hormones are ridiculous! I cry over such silly things....
Thinking of you today Wendy! Wishing you a speedy recovery! (Hugs)
@Cinderella021714 that's definitely not legal, like Wendy says I would see if fmla protects him, if not file for unemployment until he can find something. (I'm in CA so we have great unemployment, I don't know where you are but it's worth checking into, it will cover for wrongfully terminated and at least it's something until he finds a new job) I'm so sorry you guys are going through this! Sending good vibes to you that he finds something very quick!
Think of you today Wendy. T&P for comfort and healing.
@Cinderella021714 I hope your SO is able to find a new job soon with much better coworkers.
FX for good appointments for everyone today!
Second speech therapy appointment completed. So hard to try to get my son to participate in the activities we are supposed to work on and not just let him have his way I really hate upsetting him, even though I know it is probably better for him in the long run. The therapist is bringing an autism specialist to observe my son at the next appointment.
@Cinderella021714 Dude, that sucks so hard. I'm so sorry. Fingers crossed that he can find something soon.
On the bright side, it sounds like he worked with a bunch of douche bags so perhaps this is a blessing in disguise? I hope it all works out.
He's such a hard worker with anything he does and always gets taken advantage of. His boss was always at the office never actually witnessing anything while SO was out on jobs working hard and minding his own business. One of the new guys who would fuck up and blame it on him just a got a raise last week too!! It's bullshit. God I could punch somebody right now..
@Chuggles1013 I told him the same thing that we need to look into unemployment from them and I'm going to check fmla. Really hope we have rights to something that will help us in the mean time.
I'm excited that my old co-workers are coming. Over to visit this weekend , we have known eachother for about 12yrs ... I'm not looking forward to cleaning the house.
As I mentioned yesterday getting my US today and see what kind of twins we are having Fraternal or Identical. I don't care either way.... Glad DH is coming since I didn't invite him to my last apt and he didn't get to see there were 2 buns in the oven.
Oh no!!! I'm so sorry. WTF happened?! I would be losing my shit.
His boss has always been an asshole and would dangle a raise in his face but change his mind all the time because his coworkers always talked shit about him putting blame on him for THEIR fuck ups, so his boss would say he wasn't working hard enough to deserve a raise.... When in reality he was picking up their pieces everyday and actually doing all the work while they were fucking up. Basically he was treated like shit and has been looking for something better with no luck, and now he fired him because he fucking went to my ultrasound yesterday.... Are you kidding me?? Beyond livid with that dude..
oh no, I'm so sorry that is extremely stressful. Good luck finding another job!
@Cinderella021714 that sucks big time and it doesn't seem like that should be allowed. Hope he finds something else quickly.
Wendy hope you have an easy recovery.
I feel like shit today. I don't have time for this. I still need to finish my planning for next week, paint the kitchen and our bedroom, and do the dishes. My plan was NOT to lay on the couch all day, but the room spins when I get up :-(
My random is actually a mini-freak-out that I had this morning. I went to the dentist for a cleaning. I figured I might have a cavity because I noticed something weird on my tooth last week. Sure enough, tiny cavity. I talked with the dentist about how I'm pregnant and whether filling the cavity was still safe. He said it was no problem. He also said that Novocaine would be safe if I wanted it. He said I could wait until 2nd tri if that made me feel more comfortable. I'm 11.5 weeks, so I decided to just get it over with today. We started off without the Novocaine, but I couldn't handle it, so he gave me some. It was seriously a small cavity and took 10-15 mins fix. But then I got home and started having the "Oh shit, what did I do? I didn't even research this before doing it!" guilt. I called my friend who is a dentist and she assured me that local anesthetic is fine during pregnancy. PHEW!!!! I was all, "yeah, I went through labor, let me try it without novocaine." Fuck that shit.
My random is actually a mini-freak-out that I had this morning. I went to the dentist for a cleaning. I figured I might have a cavity because I noticed something weird on my tooth last week. Sure enough, tiny cavity. I talked with the dentist about how I'm pregnant and whether filling the cavity was still safe. He said it was no problem. He also said that Novocaine would be safe if I wanted it. He said I could wait until 2nd tri if that made me feel more comfortable. I'm 11.5 weeks, so I decided to just get it over with today. We started off without the Novocaine, but I couldn't handle it, so he gave me some. It was seriously a small cavity and took 10-15 mins fix. But the I got home and started having the "Oh shit, what did I do? I didn't even research this before doing it!" guilt. I called my friend who is a dentist and she assured me that local anesthetic is fine during pregnancy. PHEW!!!! I was all, "yeah, I went through labor, let me try it without novocaine." Fuck that shit.
My sister has had about a billion cavities filled and NEVER uses novocaine. Not even when she was like, 12. She hates it. She also has a weirdly high pain tolerance. I think she's nuts.
@JessParmesan79 lol! I think that way too when it comes to pain: "oh I had my son with no meds, I don't need anything for :insert pain:" unless it's something like that or like how my scoliosis is acting up and causing spasms. Sometimes we just need to give in to help. I'm glad you got reassurance on the Novacain. I think I have a cavity too so I'm nervous for the procedure and glad that is approved during pregnancy!
@JessParmesan79 lol! I think that way too when it comes to pain: "oh I had my son with no meds, I don't need anything for :insert pain:" unless it's something like that or like how my scoliosis is acting up and causing spasms. Sometimes we just need to give in to help. I'm glad you got reassurance on the Novacain. I think I have a cavity too so I'm nervous for the procedure and glad that is approved during pregnancy!
Yeah, but you also don't have the hormones of labor working for you any other time!
@JessParmesan79 lol! I think that way too when it comes to pain: "oh I had my son with no meds, I don't need anything for :insert pain:" unless it's something like that or like how my scoliosis is acting up and causing spasms. Sometimes we just need to give in to help. I'm glad you got reassurance on the Novacain. I think I have a cavity too so I'm nervous for the procedure and glad that is approved during pregnancy!
Yeah, but you also don't have the hormones of labor working for you any other time!
Turning a double post into my random. I woke up with horrible abdominal cramps at 3 am and couldn't get back to sleep. I'm hoping it was just bad gas pain and nothing else.
My sister has had about a billion cavities filled and NEVER uses novocaine. Not even when she was like, 12. She hates it. She also has a weirdly high pain tolerance. I think she's nuts.
Oh man! Your sister must have nerves of steal. The dentist was like, "OK I'll go slow. Raise your hand if you want me to stop." I think I lasted a minute. That shit hurt!!
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Yes yes, much love to Wendy
@jessuhmarie Hope babe feels better soon!
@lisap0924 Ugh, sorry. Hope the court thing goes quickly and painlessly.
@jenny0314 @katydid2014 @missycee @cygnet15 @dani727 Hope the appointments go well!
@alexandria22489 That's pretty freak'n rude, I would have been pissed too.
@frecklesinside I had to wait two years for hubs to build me a desktop. I've been lugging around my junior year laptop for ages, like over 8 years we're talking. I hope you can back up everything before it dies completely and can find a cheapo replacement in the meantime. Major pain, I know, not to have the computer you want/are used to having.
Woah @cinderella021714 wtf happened? I hope he can find something new quickly!
"Serious is only something you have to be until you can be silly again."Good luck to everyone with appointments today!
And sending all the creepy internet hugs to Wendy today
@chrain still thinking of you. I hope you're feeling better.
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@Cinderella021714 omg! I hope he's able to find something else soon! That sucks!
Good luck with all the appointments today! I always look forward to updates!!
Both the Ebola patients have been released from the hospital, and I cried seeing Dr. Brantly standing there with his family. These hormones are ridiculous! I cry over such silly things....
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BFP 7/4/14 ~ EDD 3/17/15
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I'm sorry about the bad news @Cindarella021714
@Cinderella021714 that's definitely not legal, like Wendy says I would see if fmla protects him, if not file for unemployment until he can find something. (I'm in CA so we have great unemployment, I don't know where you are but it's worth checking into, it will cover for wrongfully terminated and at least it's something until he finds a new job) I'm so sorry you guys are going through this! Sending good vibes to you that he finds something very quick!
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@Cinderella021714 I hope your SO is able to find a new job soon with much better coworkers.
FX for good appointments for everyone today!
Second speech therapy appointment completed. So hard to try to get my son to participate in the activities we are supposed to work on and not just let him have his way
I really hate upsetting him, even though I know it is probably better for him in the long run. The therapist is bringing an autism specialist to observe my son at the next appointment.
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As I mentioned yesterday getting my US today and see what kind of twins we are having Fraternal or Identical.
I don't care either way.... Glad DH is coming since I didn't invite him to my last apt and he didn't get to see there were 2 buns in the oven.
I really need to try to get up and try to eat something, but I'm not sure I can make it to the kitchen without throwing up.
Wendy hope you have an easy recovery.
Good luck to everyone with appointments today!!
My random is actually a mini-freak-out that I had this morning. I went to the dentist for a cleaning. I figured I might have a cavity because I noticed something weird on my tooth last week. Sure enough, tiny cavity. I talked with the dentist about how I'm pregnant and whether filling the cavity was still safe. He said it was no problem. He also said that Novocaine would be safe if I wanted it. He said I could wait until 2nd tri if that made me feel more comfortable. I'm 11.5 weeks, so I decided to just get it over with today. We started off without the Novocaine, but I couldn't handle it, so he gave me some. It was seriously a small cavity and took 10-15 mins fix. But then I got home and started having the "Oh shit, what did I do? I didn't even research this before doing it!" guilt. I called my friend who is a dentist and she assured me that local anesthetic is fine during pregnancy. PHEW!!!! I was all, "yeah, I went through labor, let me try it without novocaine." Fuck that shit.
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TTC #1 May 2014
BFP 7/4/14 ~ EDD 3/17/15
My Chart
@jessuhmarie Hope little J is feeling better soon. Sick babies break my heart.
Good luck to everyone with appointments today. We have our NT scan at 4 PST. Will be sending positive vibes for you all.
MC: 2/19/14
TTC #1 May 2014
BFP 7/4/14 ~ EDD 3/17/15
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Dude..... I never thought of that.
MC: 2/19/14
My husband started grad school today. He left before I could take a picture of him with his backpack on the front steps lol.