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Rant: Trying not to be a B

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Re: Rant: Trying not to be a B

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  • I stopped posting because I have a JOB. That I work hard at. And then I pay taxes on the money I earn there. So I can go home and not receive welfare. Because I don't need a fucking hand out. When shit gets rough I get a second job, or DH does. Or we both do. And it saddens me that there aren't more people out there willing to take responsibility for themselves and their own. Walmart is always hiring, so is mcdonalds, Taco Bell, etc.
    Me (26) DH (28)
    Married 6.22.13
    Hoping for a Herd Linky
    4/15--TTC #1
    12/15--IF testing
    3/16--Dx Unexplained IF
    Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI + Progesterone cycle
    Cancelled due to cysts. Started 3 weeks of BCP.
    4/16--Cute Ute! Clomid+Ovidrel+IUI+Progesterone TI.
    Cancelled-no response
    5/16--Hemmorhagic cyst and other cyst discovered.
    No medicated cycle. MRI scheduled to rule out
    septate uterus.
    6/16--Septum discovered. Consultation for surgery.
    Surprise BFP 6/8/16--EDD 2/13/17
    Kole David--1.7.17--Tiny but Mighty, born at 34+5 after HELLP syndrome
    Chart Stalk Me

     
  • Wow! I can't even read all of this thread.  

    I think the bottom line is we all have to pay taxes...for roads, public education, police and firemen and yes healthcare. None of us will ever approve on every single category; however, the majority of tax money goes to benefit ALL of us as Americans. Some people receive extra government assistance, and some do not. Some abuse the system. Many do not. For those who are not on government assistance, just be thankful. 

    So back to OP's original post...maybe you don't know the whole story OR maybe you have hit the nail on the head with this broad...either way, just be grateful you aren't in that situation. 
    I am incredibly grateful to not be in a situation where I need assistance and even more thankful that even though we may not make much money we are not living paycheck to paycheck.

    As far as the friend. She may have been boasting the other day about all the aid she was going to be getting but as of last night she is freaking about the responsibility and the fear that now she may have to live this way the rest of her life. I feel bad for her.
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    Love: March 2010  Marriage: July 2013  Debt Free: October 2014  TTC: April 2015
     BFP: April 10, 2016 EDD: December 19, 2016 Team Blue!
    Oscar born November 20, 2016 at 35w6d






  • Also, OP, if you want to have a baby, pray about it with your husband. Of course, you want to be somewhat financially stable, I understand that, but money isn't everything. I'm not sure how bad your situation is, but if you and your husband are basically financially stable, and have food, shelter, jobs, etc then maybe you should consider having your baby.  You can love and provide a child without showering them with toys. I'm sure when the time is right for both of you, you will conceive a wonderful little angel.  Focus your energy on your family and try not to get too upset about this other girl. 
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  • Me (26) DH (28)
    Married 6.22.13
    Hoping for a Herd Linky
    4/15--TTC #1
    12/15--IF testing
    3/16--Dx Unexplained IF
    Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI + Progesterone cycle
    Cancelled due to cysts. Started 3 weeks of BCP.
    4/16--Cute Ute! Clomid+Ovidrel+IUI+Progesterone TI.
    Cancelled-no response
    5/16--Hemmorhagic cyst and other cyst discovered.
    No medicated cycle. MRI scheduled to rule out
    septate uterus.
    6/16--Septum discovered. Consultation for surgery.
    Surprise BFP 6/8/16--EDD 2/13/17
    Kole David--1.7.17--Tiny but Mighty, born at 34+5 after HELLP syndrome
    Chart Stalk Me

     
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  • I guess I live a life I can afford. With backup plans in case I lose a job or DH does or one of us gets sick.
    Me (26) DH (28)
    Married 6.22.13
    Hoping for a Herd Linky
    4/15--TTC #1
    12/15--IF testing
    3/16--Dx Unexplained IF
    Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI + Progesterone cycle
    Cancelled due to cysts. Started 3 weeks of BCP.
    4/16--Cute Ute! Clomid+Ovidrel+IUI+Progesterone TI.
    Cancelled-no response
    5/16--Hemmorhagic cyst and other cyst discovered.
    No medicated cycle. MRI scheduled to rule out
    septate uterus.
    6/16--Septum discovered. Consultation for surgery.
    Surprise BFP 6/8/16--EDD 2/13/17
    Kole David--1.7.17--Tiny but Mighty, born at 34+5 after HELLP syndrome
    Chart Stalk Me

     
  • MandJS said:
    Also, OP, if you want to have a baby, pray about it with your husband. Of course, you want to be somewhat financially stable, I understand that, but money isn't everything. I'm not sure how bad your situation is, but if you and your husband are basically financially stable, and have food, shelter, jobs, etc then maybe you should consider having your baby.  You can love and provide a child without showering them with toys. I'm sure when the time is right for both of you, you will conceive a wonderful little angel.  Focus your energy on your family and try not to get too upset about this other girl. 
    Thank you for your kind thoughts on my situation.

    Please know I mean no snark from this post. However the whole god/prayer having anything to do with TTC is really hurtful for a lot of people and is going to get you flamed really hard on this board and any other on the bump for that matter.

    I for one wont be praying about this as I do not believe. I come from a strong Mormon family and know the way they pray and see where you are coming from and respect it it is just not personally for me. Science will be what I turn to.

    ETA: Flamed not Flammed.
    I may have disagreed with you through most of this thread, but did want to say I appreciate your empathy for others and your understanding of how science works. No snark, I'm being completely honest here. This slow clap is for you.

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    Love: March 2010  Marriage: July 2013  Debt Free: October 2014  TTC: April 2015
     BFP: April 10, 2016 EDD: December 19, 2016 Team Blue!
    Oscar born November 20, 2016 at 35w6d






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