@asws1208 have you ever heard the phrase "you can't legislate morality?" So what, you had a HOUSE before you had sex and what the fuck ever else you think is the "right" way to do things. Not everyone can or wants to live your life. Your "fuck the poors" mentality is extremely small-minded and gives the impression of not having a lot of life experience. Signed, Person in the Highest Tax Bracket Happy to Pay Taxes for the Betterment of Society.
Don't worry guise, I have a solution to this problem. Anyone read the essay "A Modest Proposal?" Poor people earn money and are no longer burdened with starving children, and think of all the tax revenue that can be earned. That Jonathan Swift was a smart man!
DH (32): SA is ok, slightly low morph, normal SCSA Me (32): Slightly low progesterone, hostile CM, carrier for CF, Moderately high NKC, High TNFa, heterozyogous mutated Factor XIII, and +APA
October 2012-May 2014: 4 failed IUIs, 3 failed IVFs, and 1 failed FETw/donor embryos
November 2014: IVF w/ICSI #4 Agonist/Antagonist with EPP and Prednisone, Baby Aspirin, Lovenox, and IVIG for immune issues. Converted to freeze all due to lining issues. 2 blasts frozen on day 6!
January 2015: FET #2 Cancelled due to lining issues
I also just want to throw out there that in 2012, I had everything. A house, a good job, a new car, an iPhone, money to spend on pretty much anything I wanted. My biggest worry was over picking what restaurant we would go out to. Then in 2013 my son was born 14 weeks early and 1.8 million in medical care later, that was all gone. I was the main breadwinner. I got laid off shortly after my son was born. I can't go back to work until he is healthier. My husband is in a field that will never pay a ton of money, and any certifications he could get to make more would mean missing work, which we cannot afford for him to do.
I'm not trying to play the pain Olympics because there are so many people who are struggling worse than us, and we are so fortunate to have friends who care and family who loves us. But we did all the "right" things and it still wasn't enough. I know by your whacked-out standards that this means I "deserve" assistance since I went to college and everything. But I'll let you guess how much my fancy college degree helped when we found ourselves in debt up to our eyeballs (spoiler alert: not much). Crap happens. People need help. That's true whether or not you deem them to be worthy, asws.
That is the least surprising thing you've said in 11 pages. You still don't get to judge others.
And since you LOVE the anectodal evidence... I have several friends who got KU while on BCP (or actually, one who had undergone a tubal ligation). How do you know all these people TRIED to get KU? Birth control is not fail proof. And I'd wager a bet I know your stance on abortion. So, then what? All the people just suck and are screwed?
ETA: words.
Under no circumstances. I would bet most of you would rather just abort the babies because they were 'accidents'.
Your logic makes no damn sense. I had an unwanted pregnancy at 17. I did NOT choose to abort my baby and I now have a beautiful 10 year old daughter, whom I fed with food stamps for many years. So what should I have done? Had my baby and struggled to feed her for years on end because you think abortion is wrong? Or keep her and feed her with food stamps?
Let me tell you what I DID do (and please, don't anyone go reporting me, this shit was ages ago and I was a desperate 18 year old single mom). I bought food on credit cards I knew I couldn't pay for. I wrote checks for bank accounts that I closed before the check could hit the bank. I opened new credit cards and bought more food on those. I fucked a lot of people and a lot of companies out of money because I needed to feed my kid and it was the only way I knew how, before I learned how to apply for food stamps. I fucked up my credit at the ripe old age of 18 just to keep my kid fed and clothed. But I guess that's more noble than food stamps, right? Paying for shit with money I didn't have knowing full well I was screwing someone else out of money.
4/15--TTC #1 12/15--IF testing 3/16--Dx Unexplained IF Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI + Progesterone cycle Cancelled due to cysts. Started 3 weeks of BCP. 4/16--Cute Ute! Clomid+Ovidrel+IUI+Progesterone TI. Cancelled-no response 5/16--Hemmorhagic cyst and other cyst discovered. No medicated cycle. MRI scheduled to rule out septate uterus. 6/16--Septum discovered. Consultation for surgery. Surprise BFP 6/8/16--EDD 2/13/17 Kole David--1.7.17--Tiny but Mighty, born at 34+5 after HELLP syndrome Chart Stalk Me
4/15--TTC #1 12/15--IF testing 3/16--Dx Unexplained IF Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI + Progesterone cycle Cancelled due to cysts. Started 3 weeks of BCP. 4/16--Cute Ute! Clomid+Ovidrel+IUI+Progesterone TI. Cancelled-no response 5/16--Hemmorhagic cyst and other cyst discovered. No medicated cycle. MRI scheduled to rule out septate uterus. 6/16--Septum discovered. Consultation for surgery. Surprise BFP 6/8/16--EDD 2/13/17 Kole David--1.7.17--Tiny but Mighty, born at 34+5 after HELLP syndrome Chart Stalk Me
And seriously, OP if I were you I would make a come back so everyone knows that you aren't THAT person.
I figured leaving completely would be best.
Here is my comeback. I think the system is incredible. When I was 13 my step father was injured on the job and lost his leg. It turned our financial world upside down and he collected disability for a few years. My mom supported the family. When I was 16 he committed suicide and we got social security for I believe 6 months. After that we lost the house and the daycare she had run for 17 years. We got in with a non profit organization who had a rental property and we combined home and business and started over in a new town. We used food stamps for a few months after we got settled.
I am 100% for the system. But I know it violates laws in the state of Maine to drop your kid off at a daycare and skip work/school if the state is paying for it. I have watched my mom lose many kids because she reported them to avoid having to pay back the money to the state. That was my main frustration in this post. Not that the woman wanted to have fun with her friends. She risked hurting a good company in doing so. I find that appalling personally.
She is having a second child now which is bothersome to me because I wish she was using this help to better herself like I have seen so many do before rather than to just use the government. Her bragging on Facebook about her state aid going up bothers me. She has since my OP privately spoken to me about how awesome not paying rent will be and that she hopes its a girl so she can get a three bedroom apartment. I in no way want her children to suffer for her choices but I do believe I am allowed to be frustrated that this abuse is happening in front of me. I know this is not the majority.
When my step father was collecting disability we pooled coin jars and saved as a family to go to six flags in Massachusetts. It was an incredible vacation I will remember and be thankful we took for the rest of my life. I would never think somebody wouldn't deserve a vacation or a day off even.
This post blew up way beyond anything I expected it to be. I just wanted to vent some frustrations and feel a little self pity. I have to say though I don't believe that me venting on a public form makes this okay...
And seriously, OP if I were you I would make a come back so everyone knows that you aren't THAT person.
I figured leaving completely would be best.
Here is my comeback. I think the system is incredible. When I was 13 my step father was injured on the job and lost his leg. It turned our financial world upside down and he collected disability for a few years. My mom supported the family. When I was 16 he committed suicide and we got social security for I believe 6 months. After that we lost the house and the daycare she had run for 17 years. We got in with a non profit organization who had a rental property and we combined home and business and started over in a new town. We used food stamps for a few months after we got settled.
I am 100% for the system. But I know it violates laws in the state of Maine to drop your kid off at a daycare and skip work/school if the state is paying for it. I have watched my mom lose many kids because she reported them to avoid having to pay back the money to the state. That was my main frustration in this post. Not that the woman wanted to have fun with her friends. She risked hurting a good company in doing so. I find that appalling personally.
She is having a second child now which is bothersome to me because I wish she was using this help to better herself like I have seen so many do before rather than to just use the government. Her bragging on Facebook about her state aid going up bothers me. She has since my OP privately spoken to me about how awesome not paying rent will be and that she hopes its a girl so she can get a three bedroom apartment. I in no way want her children to suffer for her choices but I do believe I am allowed to be frustrated that this abuse is happening in front of me. I know this is not the majority.
When my step father was collecting disability we pooled coin jars and saved as a family to go to six flags in Massachusetts. It was an incredible vacation I will remember and be thankful we took for the rest of my life. I would never think somebody wouldn't deserve a vacation or a day off even.
This post blew up way beyond anything I expected it to be. I just wanted to vent some frustrations and feel a little self pity. I have to say though I don't believe that me venting on a public form makes this okay...
alyssa32713 I actually just meant saying "hey, thats not me, thats not the OP" because people were starting to get confused but your post really was ok. Much better worded.
In that case Thank You! Also let me just clarify! I am the OP. Haha. In a thirteen page thread I stopped bothering to comment on 11 pages ago I can see where that could have gotten completely lost.
Love: March 2010 Marriage: July 2013 Debt Free: October 2014 TTC: April 2015
BFP: April 10, 2016 EDD: December 19, 2016 Team Blue! Oscar born November 20, 2016 at 35w6d
And seriously, OP if I were you I would make a come back so everyone knows that you aren't THAT person.
I figured leaving completely would be best.
Here is my comeback. I think the system is incredible. When I was 13 my step father was injured on the job and lost his leg. It turned our financial world upside down and he collected disability for a few years. My mom supported the family. When I was 16 he committed suicide and we got social security for I believe 6 months. After that we lost the house and the daycare she had run for 17 years. We got in with a non profit organization who had a rental property and we combined home and business and started over in a new town. We used food stamps for a few months after we got settled.
I am 100% for the system. But I know it violates laws in the state of Maine to drop your kid off at a daycare and skip work/school if the state is paying for it. I have watched my mom lose many kids because she reported them to avoid having to pay back the money to the state. That was my main frustration in this post. Not that the woman wanted to have fun with her friends. She risked hurting a good company in doing so. I find that appalling personally.
She is having a second child now which is bothersome to me because I wish she was using this help to better herself like I have seen so many do before rather than to just use the government. Her bragging on Facebook about her state aid going up bothers me. She has since my OP privately spoken to me about how awesome not paying rent will be and that she hopes its a girl so she can get a three bedroom apartment. I in no way want her children to suffer for her choices but I do believe I am allowed to be frustrated that this abuse is happening in front of me. I know this is not the majority.
When my step father was collecting disability we pooled coin jars and saved as a family to go to six flags in Massachusetts. It was an incredible vacation I will remember and be thankful we took for the rest of my life. I would never think somebody wouldn't deserve a vacation or a day off even.
This post blew up way beyond anything I expected it to be. I just wanted to vent some frustrations and feel a little self pity. I have to say though I don't believe that me venting on a public form makes this okay...
You know who shouldn't have babies? Dipshit 22 year olds who have no clue how the world operates.
That is all I have to say.
I agree with every single thing you said. Bravo and love tits!!
I agree with ever single thing in your response. Bravo and love t
Also agree with everything said--great wording! End of the day--if you genuniely (like someone says it straight to your face) know someone abusing the system, yeah, you have a right to be annoyed. I would be too. I feel fortunate the system exists and is there to help out everyone that needs it. It's good to know if I needed it, the system would be there to support me. Shit happens.
Never once did I mention abortion.
I honestly think this thread should just be stopped. Obviously there are differing opinions and it is causing a lot of animosity.
this is the best part of thi post.
Can someone give me back the few mins I lost reading this shit?
You are offensive because you are woefully and completely ignorant. I am almost feeling sorry for you, at this point, because it is so uncommon to encounter someone that knows as little about a topic that you do.
I am almost shocked about how little you know. I guess facts are not your friend.
I am shocked at how completely judgmental and "know it all" that all of you are. How can you possibly say something like that from a few comments that I have made based on how I feel and my experiences? Most of you have entirely different viewpoints than I do but I have not called anyone ignorant or clueless or told anyone that I 'hope you don't have kids' like someone said to me. I am completely blown away by everyone's unwillingness to even accept the fact that someone has a different viewpoint from them. When having a debate or a disagreement with someone it is expected that you will have opposing viewpoints and that is just fine and what makes the world go around. Just because my views happen to be on the extreme side does not make me ignorant by any means.
I am shocked at how completely judgmental and "know it all" that all of you are. How can you possibly say something like that from a few comments that I have made based on how I feel and my experiences? Most of you have entirely different viewpoints than I do but I have not called anyone ignorant or clueless or told anyone that I 'hope you don't have kids' like someone said to me. I am completely blown away by everyone's unwillingness to even accept the fact that someone has a different viewpoint from them. When having a debate or a disagreement with someone it is expected that you will have opposing viewpoints and that is just fine and what makes the world go around. Just because my views happen to be on the extreme side does not make me ignorant by any means.
If you think that you have been polite here, you are not only ignorant of this issue, you also have no clue how you come across. Poverty is not funny, yet you have tried to make several jokes about it. You make inflammatory statements and then act all innocent say that you never meant things the way people are taking them.
There is a reason that people are reacting this way to you. You are not the only person on here that has expressed opinions similar to yours. You are the only person being flamed. You may want to spend some time thinking about why.
And I do this for a living. You are ignorant. But that gives you the opportunity to grow and learn and lose your ignorance about this.
I never said poverty was funny the "jokes" were because of the outrageous accusations towards me like I thought poor people are the scum of the earth! And i might not have been polite but no one else is here either!
I never said poverty was funny the "jokes" were because of the outrageous accusations towards me like I thought poor people are the scum of the earth! And i might not have been polite but no one else is here either!
People are not going to take kindly to someone that is putting down many of the women on here. How can you not see that? And you keep saying that you are not ignorant about this. You are! People have even given you information to peruse so you will become a tad bit educated about this. But, I get it. Some people prefer living with their heads in the sand and parroting Michelle Bachman and Anne Coulter. Respond if you like, don't if you don't. Engaging you is like banging my head against a brick wall.
I do not condone small children starving. I don't think that anyone should starve. For the 10000000th time.. I think the system DOES NOT WORK and that people need more person responsibility and humility about themselves. I am sure that my view is different than some of yours because of the way I was raised, the area I live in, and the things I see in my day to day life of people that live near me and that I know. I am not a horrible person and I don't wish bad on anyone. And my child will be raised that he is responsible for his actions and his mistakes.
Jesus. I do NOT THINK PEOPLE SHOULD STARVE. I think that the system needs work so that there is no abuse and people have a little more fire under their ass to get on their own two feet.
If you are sick, this does not apply. If you are laid off, you deserve help for a short period of time. Things like that.. yes, that is what the system is for.
BUT, my whole point is that when someone chooses to make bad decisions in their life why should the government be responsible for taking care of them? And if the government is going to help take care of them and their children, there needs to be extremely strict rules on what is allowed and not allowed. You and your children need food stamps? Fine. But you get only the necessities. And you should not be taking vacations, getting manicures, drinking beer, etc.
You need free day care while you go to work? Fine. But the child only goes for the exact hours while you are at work.
Instead of giving people years and years of food stamps how about we work on making college more affordable? Let's pay tuition for single mothers for a limited time rather than years of WIC and EBT cards.
You are married and can't afford kids but still want to have sex with your husband? Let's make birth control of different widely acceptable. Let's educate our children better on the consequences of premarital sex and educate them on safe sex.
I am not for throwing poor people and their children to the streets. I am for strict entitlement program reform and educating people on taking care of themselves and being responsible for their actions.
I do not condone small children starving. I don't think that anyone should starve. For the 10000000th time.. I think the system DOES NOT WORK and that people need more person responsibility and humility about themselves. I am sure that my view is different than some of yours because of the way I was raised, the area I live in, and the things I see in my day to day life of people that live near me and that I know. I am not a horrible person and I don't wish bad on anyone. And my child will be raised that he is responsible for his actions and his mistakes.
I have so many stories that prove your bullshit wrong, but you aren't smart enough to comprehend them, so I'm not going to waste my time.
What do you think there is to PROVE WRONG? Nothing I have said is WRONG. It is different than what you think but I have seen first hand the things I have said. They aren't made up. How is it WRONG?
Seriously? You may disagree with how I see things but asking me if I think it is better that a child died rather than go on assistance? That is the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard. And given my stance on abortion why the hell would I be glad that someone lost a child? You are just looking for an answer from me so that you can raise hell about it.
I COMPLETELY AGREE!!! I believe the assistance is supposed to be a HAND UP not a HAND OUT!!! It drives me up the wall seeing all the people LIE or are just LAZY and don't work just get assitance!
Oh I'm sorry bumwaters I didn't realize I can't have an opinion or participate in discussion boards? Did I need your permission? No...Oh I didn't think so. Just because it's my 3rd post, that doesn't mean that I haven't been on discussion boards or read them. And by your comment offended because I think people that ABUSE the system are PATHETIC tells me that you're probably one of them. I didn't say getting assistance is bad. I said abusing the assistance is bad.
No I think someone that feels they should criticize my OPINION and be so immature as to give me an "eye roll" and sarcasm of it only being my 3rd post is really immature. I can handle people having a different opinion and sometimes someone else's opinion causes me to change my outlook. I don't appreciate when my words are mocked just because I have a different opinion. Yet again it's not a fallacy, it's just MY opinion, just as you are entitled to YOUR opinion.
Also I never said EVERYONE is abusing the system. Just like other people have said and yet ignorant people like you that LOVE THE DRAMA like to twist people's words. Sorry I actually have a life and don't have time to read all 14 pages of a discussion board. actually I only read the original post until small minded big mouthed you got crappy because I have an opinion different than your own. I too don't mind contributing to people that are ACTUALLY in need. However, most of the people I know that get assistance blatantly LIED to get that assistance and those people and ONLY those people are the ones I have a problem with. If it's someone that actually needs assistance then fine I don't mind helping for as long as help is needed. I help people in need on a weekly basis and I'm not talking about with my taxes from my paychecks.
@nikyasmith2011 I have learned after my participation in this debate that the majority of the people on this thread do not agree with us. As they think we are judging them, they are judging us for our viewpoints and beliefs. They think that all these numbers they throw at us are completely accurate and that we are assholes because we believe in personal responsibility. It may be best to just walk away. Hot heads never change their opinion unless it's their idea.
4/15--TTC #1 12/15--IF testing 3/16--Dx Unexplained IF Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI + Progesterone cycle Cancelled due to cysts. Started 3 weeks of BCP. 4/16--Cute Ute! Clomid+Ovidrel+IUI+Progesterone TI. Cancelled-no response 5/16--Hemmorhagic cyst and other cyst discovered. No medicated cycle. MRI scheduled to rule out septate uterus. 6/16--Septum discovered. Consultation for surgery. Surprise BFP 6/8/16--EDD 2/13/17 Kole David--1.7.17--Tiny but Mighty, born at 34+5 after HELLP syndrome Chart Stalk Me
No I think someone that feels they should criticize my OPINION and be so immature as to give me an "eye roll" and sarcasm of it only being my 3rd post is really immature. I can handle people having a different opinion and sometimes someone else's opinion causes me to change my outlook. I don't appreciate when my words are mocked just because I have a different opinion. Yet again it's not a fallacy, it's just MY opinion, just as you are entitled to YOUR opinion.
You have an opinion. Great. But you also failed to back up said opinion with any hard facts. You added nothing to the conversation. And people are most definitely allowed to criticize an opinion. Especially when there is no solid foundation shown on which that opinion was built.
FYI, capitalization of certain words is not enough to provide a solid view point.
I COMPLETELY AGREE!!! I believe the assistance is supposed to be a HAND UP not a HAND OUT!!! It drives me up the wall seeing all the people LIE or are just LAZY and don't work just get assitance!
@pageed I know which is fine. Clearly their ignorance and lack of comprehending any thing greater than their own thoughts is a total loss. I'm fine with that and I am completely content knowing that I will always rest easy knowing I was raised right with morals, ethics, and integrity.
@nikyasmith2011 We may not be able to change their opinions or our country, but we can raise our children to be responsible for all their decisions without taking advantage of our government.
4/15--TTC #1 12/15--IF testing 3/16--Dx Unexplained IF Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI + Progesterone cycle Cancelled due to cysts. Started 3 weeks of BCP. 4/16--Cute Ute! Clomid+Ovidrel+IUI+Progesterone TI. Cancelled-no response 5/16--Hemmorhagic cyst and other cyst discovered. No medicated cycle. MRI scheduled to rule out septate uterus. 6/16--Septum discovered. Consultation for surgery. Surprise BFP 6/8/16--EDD 2/13/17 Kole David--1.7.17--Tiny but Mighty, born at 34+5 after HELLP syndrome Chart Stalk Me
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Don't worry guise, I have a solution to this problem. Anyone read the essay "A Modest Proposal?" Poor people earn money and are no longer burdened with starving children, and think of all the tax revenue that can be earned. That Jonathan Swift was a smart man!
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September 2012: Start IF testing
DH (32): SA is ok, slightly low morph, normal SCSA Me (32): Slightly low progesterone, hostile CM, carrier for CF, Moderately high NKC, High TNFa, heterozyogous mutated Factor XIII, and +APA
October 2012-May 2014: 4 failed IUIs, 3 failed IVFs, and 1 failed FETw/donor embryos
November 2014: IVF w/ICSI #4 Agonist/Antagonist with EPP and Prednisone, Baby Aspirin, Lovenox, and IVIG for immune issues. Converted to freeze all due to lining issues. 2 blasts frozen on day 6!
January 2015: FET #2 Cancelled due to lining issues
April 2015: FET #2.1
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I'm not trying to play the pain Olympics because there are so many people who are struggling worse than us, and we are so fortunate to have friends who care and family who loves us. But we did all the "right" things and it still wasn't enough. I know by your whacked-out standards that this means I "deserve" assistance since I went to college and everything. But I'll let you guess how much my fancy college degree helped when we found ourselves in debt up to our eyeballs (spoiler alert: not much). Crap happens. People need help. That's true whether or not you deem them to be worthy, asws.
I'm not new. I just hate The Bump.
Where the heck did this train get so far derailed?
Married 6.22.13
Hoping for a Herd Linky
12/15--IF testing
3/16--Dx Unexplained IF
Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI + Progesterone cycle
Cancelled due to cysts. Started 3 weeks of BCP.
4/16--Cute Ute! Clomid+Ovidrel+IUI+Progesterone TI.
Cancelled-no response
5/16--Hemmorhagic cyst and other cyst discovered.
No medicated cycle. MRI scheduled to rule out
septate uterus.
6/16--Septum discovered. Consultation for surgery.
Surprise BFP 6/8/16--EDD 2/13/17
Kole David--1.7.17--Tiny but Mighty, born at 34+5 after HELLP syndrome
Chart Stalk Me
I honestly think this thread should just be stopped. Obviously there are differing opinions and it is causing a lot of animosity.
Married 6.22.13
Hoping for a Herd Linky
12/15--IF testing
3/16--Dx Unexplained IF
Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI + Progesterone cycle
Cancelled due to cysts. Started 3 weeks of BCP.
4/16--Cute Ute! Clomid+Ovidrel+IUI+Progesterone TI.
Cancelled-no response
5/16--Hemmorhagic cyst and other cyst discovered.
No medicated cycle. MRI scheduled to rule out
septate uterus.
6/16--Septum discovered. Consultation for surgery.
Surprise BFP 6/8/16--EDD 2/13/17
Kole David--1.7.17--Tiny but Mighty, born at 34+5 after HELLP syndrome
Chart Stalk Me
Here is my comeback. I think the system is incredible. When I was 13 my step father was injured on the job and lost his leg. It turned our financial world upside down and he collected disability for a few years. My mom supported the family. When I was 16 he committed suicide and we got social security for I believe 6 months. After that we lost the house and the daycare she had run for 17 years. We got in with a non profit organization who had a rental property and we combined home and business and started over in a new town. We used food stamps for a few months after we got settled.
I am 100% for the system. But I know it violates laws in the state of Maine to drop your kid off at a daycare and skip work/school if the state is paying for it. I have watched my mom lose many kids because she reported them to avoid having to pay back the money to the state. That was my main frustration in this post. Not that the woman wanted to have fun with her friends. She risked hurting a good company in doing so. I find that appalling personally.
She is having a second child now which is bothersome to me because I wish she was using this help to better herself like I have seen so many do before rather than to just use the government. Her bragging on Facebook about her state aid going up bothers me. She has since my OP privately spoken to me about how awesome not paying rent will be and that she hopes its a girl so she can get a three bedroom apartment. I in no way want her children to suffer for her choices but I do believe I am allowed to be frustrated that this abuse is happening in front of me. I know this is not the majority.
When my step father was collecting disability we pooled coin jars and saved as a family to go to six flags in Massachusetts. It was an incredible vacation I will remember and be thankful we took for the rest of my life. I would never think somebody wouldn't deserve a vacation or a day off even.
This post blew up way beyond anything I expected it to be. I just wanted to vent some frustrations and feel a little self pity. I have to say though I don't believe that me venting on a public form makes this okay...
That is all I have to say.
Love: March 2010 Marriage: July 2013 Debt Free: October 2014 TTC: April 2015
Oscar born November 20, 2016 at 35w6d
Love: March 2010 Marriage: July 2013 Debt Free: October 2014 TTC: April 2015
Oscar born November 20, 2016 at 35w6d
Love: March 2010 Marriage: July 2013 Debt Free: October 2014 TTC: April 2015
Oscar born November 20, 2016 at 35w6d
this is the best part of thi post. Can someone give me back the few mins I lost reading this shit?
You are offensive because you are woefully and completely ignorant. I am almost feeling sorry for you, at this point, because it is so uncommon to encounter someone that knows as little about a topic that you do.
I am almost shocked about how little you know. I guess facts are not your friend.
If you think that you have been polite here, you are not only ignorant of this issue, you also have no clue how you come across. Poverty is not funny, yet you have tried to make several jokes about it. You make inflammatory statements and then act all innocent say that you never meant things the way people are taking them.
There is a reason that people are reacting this way to you. You are not the only person on here that has expressed opinions similar to yours. You are the only person being flamed. You may want to spend some time thinking about why.
And I do this for a living. You are ignorant. But that gives you the opportunity to grow and learn and lose your ignorance about this.
Oh I'm sorry bumwaters I didn't realize I can't have an opinion or participate in discussion boards? Did I need your permission? No...Oh I didn't think so. Just because it's my 3rd post, that doesn't mean that I haven't been on discussion boards or read them. And by your comment offended because I think people that ABUSE the system are PATHETIC tells me that you're probably one of them. I didn't say getting assistance is bad. I said abusing the assistance is bad.
Married 6.22.13
Hoping for a Herd Linky
12/15--IF testing
3/16--Dx Unexplained IF
Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI + Progesterone cycle
Cancelled due to cysts. Started 3 weeks of BCP.
4/16--Cute Ute! Clomid+Ovidrel+IUI+Progesterone TI.
Cancelled-no response
5/16--Hemmorhagic cyst and other cyst discovered.
No medicated cycle. MRI scheduled to rule out
septate uterus.
6/16--Septum discovered. Consultation for surgery.
Surprise BFP 6/8/16--EDD 2/13/17
Kole David--1.7.17--Tiny but Mighty, born at 34+5 after HELLP syndrome
Chart Stalk Me
@pageed I know which is fine. Clearly their ignorance and lack of comprehending any thing greater than their own thoughts is a total loss. I'm fine with that and I am completely content knowing that I will always rest easy knowing I was raised right with morals, ethics, and integrity.
Married 6.22.13
Hoping for a Herd Linky
12/15--IF testing
3/16--Dx Unexplained IF
Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI + Progesterone cycle
Cancelled due to cysts. Started 3 weeks of BCP.
4/16--Cute Ute! Clomid+Ovidrel+IUI+Progesterone TI.
Cancelled-no response
5/16--Hemmorhagic cyst and other cyst discovered.
No medicated cycle. MRI scheduled to rule out
septate uterus.
6/16--Septum discovered. Consultation for surgery.
Surprise BFP 6/8/16--EDD 2/13/17
Kole David--1.7.17--Tiny but Mighty, born at 34+5 after HELLP syndrome
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