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• ASmallWonder member

  July 2014

  I'm like, giddy over here.  All through high school I had a very best friend and in college we had a falling out and then grew apart.  Before Aiden was born we reconnected on a superficial level, like FB and xmas cards and I've seen her a couple times.  I do miss her but we've been busy with kids and work and all that but just this week we reconnected with a plan to take all our kids out next week so that made me happy and then I got a text from her, inviting me over for girls night with her friends on Friday night.  It seems like our friendship may be finding a new groove :-D

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• GraceInCA member

  July 2014

  steamboat123 said:

  majwv8 said:

  How have I missed this anti feminist stuff? Must pull head out of sand.

  Same! Its been a while since ive tuned into the world.

  https://m.washingtonpost.com/blogs/she-the-people/wp/2014/07/30/is-this-what-an-anti-feminist-movement-looks-like/

  
  I think steam came out of my ears. These women are so sheltered. You don't need feminism because your boyfriend is nice to you. Oh honey. Edit I had stupid, but that isn't nice.

  
  Word.  I want to start responding to all of them.

  "I don't need feminism because equal pay for equal work is overrated."

  "I don't need feminism because glass ceilings are pretty!"

  "I don't need feminism because it's fun to turn over control of my reproductive health to old men."

  
  
  
  

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• ASmallWonder member

  July 2014

  calikat80 said:

  True story, DH is so paranoid about strangers knowing our kids' names that he won't allow monogrammed clothing. We had a "Graham" hoodie we got as a gift and he won't let him out of the house in it. He will however let him wear tee-shirts from his childhood that have Mikey on it to really screw with people. G is so chatty though if a stranger came up to him and said, "would you like candy Mikey?" he would probably say, "my name's not Mikey, it's Graham, and I would love some candy!" The no stranger danger thing is a little scary, he's too much like mommy.

  Worse?  My kid would be like I'm Aiden Lastname!

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• bumpuser7846882 member

  July 2014

  Benjamin fell asleep in the car for the last 5 minutes home from library story time. So now he thinks he doesn't need to nap. He's also figured out how to open lever-handle doors.
  
  Welcome to day 2 of no naps. Now we're in phase "I want to cuddle. No I don't! Why are you trying to put me to sleep, woman?!"

  

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• HeartLikeMine3 member

  July 2014

  Yesterday we put an offer on a couple acres to build our future home. We have heard nothing back no counter offer or anything the anticipation is killing me. [-O<

  

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• WasNotWas member

  July 2014

  Jo581011 said:

  Benjamin fell asleep in the car for the last 5 minutes home from library story time. So now he thinks he doesn't need to nap. He's also figured out how to open lever-handle doors. Welcome to day 2 of no naps. Now we're in phase "I want to cuddle. No I don't! Why are you trying to put me to sleep, woman?!"

  Jo, I like you, we need to get you a name with less or no numbers
  

  

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• HeartLikeMine3 member

  July 2014

  Me and LO went to eat with my mom at Jason's deli for lunch it was a disaster. LO did the windshield wiper and kept swiping all the food off his tray. Then he proceeded to rub all the food from his hand in his eyes and hair. Whew I'm exhausted.

  

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• WasNotWas member

  July 2014

  HeartLikeMine3 said:

  Me and LO went to eat with my mom at Jason's deli for lunch it was a disaster. LO did the windshield wiper and kept swiping all the food off his tray. Then he proceeded to rub all the food from his hand in his eyes and hair. Whew I'm exhausted.

  Our LO's are at that age where having them eat in public is a nightmare. With Bradley we stayed at home until he was 2...
  

  

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• WasNotWas member

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• ASmallWonder member

  July 2014

  Ok so for the girls night I need to bring either an appetizer or a dessert but it's only 3, max 4 people.  Suggestions??

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• bumpuser7846882 member

  July 2014

  @WasNotWas‌ I'm not sure how I even ended up with this sn but it seemed like a hassle to change. Is it easier than it seems? I'd love a useful sn!

  

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• WasNotWas member

  July 2014

  Jo581011 said:

  @WasNotWas‌ I'm not sure how I even ended up with this sn but it seemed like a hassle to change. Is it easier than it seems? I'd love a useful sn!

  there is a new easy way that I don't know about ladies??
  

  

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• WasNotWas member

  July 2014

  elmoali said:

  Ok so for the girls night I need to bring either an appetizer or a dessert but it's only 3, max 4 people.  Suggestions??

  For a girls night? Cheese platter with grapes, apples, nuts, and crackers to pair with wine? Or a fancy chocolate box? I don't know if you want to make stuff or buy
  

  

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• bumpuser7846882 member

  July 2014

  What is the standard way? I can handle hassle tomorrow morning between dropping off B at daycare and waiting for my A/S!

  

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• ASmallWonder member

  July 2014

  @Jo581011 go to TheKnot.com and click on your profile and there's a "change screen name" option right there

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• ASmallWonder member

  July 2014

  WasNotWas said:

  elmoali said:

  Ok so for the girls night I need to bring either an appetizer or a dessert but it's only 3, max 4 people.  Suggestions??

  For a girls night? Cheese platter with grapes, apples, nuts, and crackers to pair with wine? Or a fancy chocolate box? I don't know if you want to make stuff or buy
  

  She's giving me zero direction so I"m afraid one of the other girls is bringing the obvious stuff lol  I'd prefer to buy and it needs to transport well for an hour drive.  I'm considering hitting up the bakery.

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• WasNotWas member

  July 2014

  elmoali said:

  WasNotWas said:

  elmoali said:

  Ok so for the girls night I need to bring either an appetizer or a dessert but it's only 3, max 4 people.  Suggestions??

  For a girls night? Cheese platter with grapes, apples, nuts, and crackers to pair with wine? Or a fancy chocolate box? I don't know if you want to make stuff or buy
  

  She's giving me zero direction so I"m afraid one of the other girls is bringing the obvious stuff lol  I'd prefer to buy and it needs to transport well for an hour drive.  I'm considering hitting up the bakery.

  I think bakery is a good idea, and bring wine (or booze if that's their thing) just in case you miss the mark!
  

  

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• ASmallWonder member

  July 2014

  @Bleachy14 it's fairly recent and they only rolled it out to TK and not TB (yet).  Parenting had a field day about a month ago changing names.

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• HeartLikeMine3 member

  July 2014

  It wasn't packed but there were a good amount of people. So @wasnotwas you just eat at home ALL the time?!?!
  Well guess we will be saving more money for our future home.

  

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• momofcatan member

  July 2014

  Now I want to go change my sn, but I have not idea what to change it to. This is actually DH's sn for everything, but my typical sn includes my name. I have no creativity when it comes to these things.
  

  
  

  
  

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• WasNotWas member

  July 2014

  araziza said:

  Now I want to go change my sn, but I have not idea what to change it to. This is actually DH's sn for everything, but my typical sn includes my name. I have no creativity when it comes to these things.
  

  2Cute2Poop?
  

  

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• WasNotWas member

  July 2014

  HeartLikeMine3 said:

  It wasn't packed but there were a good amount of people. So @wasnotwas you just eat at home ALL the time?!?! Well guess we will be saving more money for our future home.

  Either we get take out or only go out for breakfast (where we can go nice and early). I feel like if they can't act right at home they aren't going in public...
  

  

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• HeartLikeMine3 member

  July 2014

  @HoneyB1993‌, your only 21 ?!? I'm so jealous. 1993 should have been a good indicator but hearing 21 is totally different. You should definitely not have to order your own cake do you need me to call your DH?

  

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• ASmallWonder member

  July 2014

  Bleachy14 said:

  elmoali said:

  @Bleachy14 it's fairly recent and they only rolled it out to TK and not TB (yet).  Parenting had a field day about a month ago changing names.

  Fascinating! I had no idea. I just wish if you changed your SN, your old posts under your old SN didn't still show up under the old SN. Or, maybe I just wish you could delete posts... haha..

  If that's what you want just request a deactivation and start a new account. You'll look like a total newb though with zero post count

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• WasNotWas member

  July 2014

  @honeyb1993 that's bologna. My MIL bought a cake for me for my birthday that was my husband's favorite flavor..I didn't eat a bite! I would have murdered H if he proposed me calling to order my own cake! It's not like you are asking for a homemade cake. Calling and ordering something is no easier for you than it is for H.

  I HAVE FEELINGS ABOUT THIS!!!

  

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• ASmallWonder member

  July 2014

  @Bleachy14 deactivation poofs your entire bump existence.

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• lioness13 member

  July 2014

  I just got my car washed for the first time in over a year. How crazy. I need to talk to my DH about stepping up an taking care of that for me. It was never an issue before having KJ but now bringing a kid to a car wash is just not ideal and my free time is limited.

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• TheTamedShrew member

  July 2014

  I've been on a strict diet since last Friday, and I think it's been going really well. Then my dad babysits last night and leaves beer and little debbies in my house. Someone come save me from myself.

  
  
         
  

  
  

  
  

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• bumpuser7846882 member

  July 2014

  It is done! ...I think. I am now the VitaFelix formerly known as Jo#######.

  

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• WasNotWas member

  July 2014

  TheTamedShrew said:

  I've been on a strict diet since last Friday, and I think it's been going really well. Then my dad babysits last night and leaves beer and little debbies in my house. Someone come save me from myself.

  
  

  

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• WasNotWas member

  July 2014

  vitafelix said:

  It is done! ...I think. I am now the VitaFelix formerly known as Jo#######.

  Love it VitaFelix!!
  

  

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• bumpuser7846882 member

  July 2014

  @majwv8‌ 1. You should make him do it. 2. Good for you for doing it now. My MIL has been cleaning out FILs office stuff, which they've moved at least 3 times. He has that sort of crap from 30 years ago! He also isn't really helping.

  

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• WasNotWas member

  July 2014

  I fucking love getting carded.

  

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• momofcatan member

  July 2014

  I always give DD something to eat first if we are going to a restaurant. That way I can share whatever we are ordering and not worry about ordering her own meal which she might refuse to eat. 
  

  
  

  
  

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• ASmallWonder member

  July 2014

  Is it wrong that having a 21 year old on the board didn't phase me because I don't think of the rest of us as being that much older BUT the idea that people were actually born in 1993 wigged me out lol  

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• momofcatan member

  July 2014

  I was thinking of making my new SN bipolarbear, its the nickname I gave DD for when she going from cranky to laughing and back (DH gave her the nn bear cub so I came up with bi-polar bear). I'm not sure if I'm crossing a line. Is it insensitive/making light of real mental health problems? Am I a complete douche for even thinking about using that as my sn?
  

  
  

  
  

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• Monkeybutt80 member

  July 2014 edited July 2014

  sctiger said:

  We are going on vacation with my husband's family next week and I'm worried about eating out and dinners at the house. His family tends to eat really late, like 8 or 9 (drives me crazy even before kids). One of his cousins is really strict about her kids schedule so I'm hoping that because of them and not having as many people this year it won't be that bad. My husband isn't concerned about this and doesn't think it's a big deal so I'll let him deal with potential meltdowns. I'm not super rigid about our schedule but I'm realistic and know that having her in a restaurant at 8 or 9 is not a good idea.

  @sctiger We had this exact discussion when Colton was maybe 4 months or so. We were going down to FL for a sister in law's baby shower along with his parents. They made a reservation for dinner at 8pm (they normally eat late too). I voiced my concerns to my husband, he said he didn't want to be "one of those parents" who are soooo rigid with their schedule. We fought and he was being stubborn. I said, at least, let's try this out before we go then. We went to a local loud, kid friendly Mexican restaurant at 8pm. He had a MAJOR meltdown because it was way past his bedtime (then he was going to bed at like 630-7pm). After that night, he texted his brother, told him to count us out for the 8pm dinner reservation and the family decided to eat at home so that we could put him to bed first. 

  
  

  ETA: basically we tested it out before going to FL. Couldn't tell if that was clear. 

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• WasNotWas member

  July 2014

  Ty got bit today when he tried to crawl into a lady friend's cot at naptime. This is the second time he got bit this week...

  

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• HeartLikeMine3 member

  July 2014

  @araziza‌, I think it's funny but if I were bipolar I probably wouldn't feel the same. :-?

  

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• GraceInCA member

  July 2014

  I haaaaate some of my co-workers today. Which is unusual because I mostly love them. But there are a couple of them today who are annoying the fuck out of me.

  
  
  
  

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