@honeyzoo Swaddle-carrier-bed was ok, not flawless, but he did go to sleep faster than normal. Right now, however, homeboy is just fussy enough for me to be awake but not enough that he needs anything. Just noisy every 5 min. Mom needs sleeeeeeeeep.
BFP #1 May 20, 2013 MC June 27, 2013 BFP #2 August 2, 2013Baby Boy born 4/25/14 (3 weeks overdue!)
April 14 August Siggy Challenge- "This time last year.."
Ugh. Huge hugs for all of you that had rough nights!
I think I know the answer to this: I should take the infant insert out of the car seat when dd can hold her head up better right?
I think it depends on your seat. I have the B-Safe and it has an insert in it but it stays in and it moves as I move the straps up in the different slots based on his height. I did have to move the buckle between his legs out a slot once he hit 11 lbs.
Yeah our insert moves too. She's been in the seat a lot this week unfortunately and due to the almost 100 degree temps she's sweating. DH wanted to take it out but I wasn't sure. Good point about the buckle though. We moved the shoulder straps but not that one. I'll have to look at that.
Ugh. Huge hugs for all of you that had rough nights!
I think I know the answer to this: I should take the infant insert out of the car seat when dd can hold her head up better right?
Yes but some people will tell you to take it before , because it's after market and not recommended
My boy slept til 8 which was nice but my boobs are baseballs In other news considering chopping off my long hair to medium bob length but all I can think of is that it is a very new mom thing to do , I mean chopping hair not the actual hair do. Altho it could be worse I could get that hairdo Kate gosselin had
@macgrs Agreed. I will jump off cliffs to avoid wasps. I have an actual phobia. Almost broke my hand trying to get away from one last summer... Yeah, not my shining moment.
@ebie79 - it's funny to me that a lot of our parents really have not kept up with the recommendations and act like we are crazy when things are done differently now. People think I'm crazy or my crib isn't comfortable because I don't use bumpers... Um, okay.
Eff spiders. Whenever DH is home I make him kill them, lol. But when he's not I have to man up and do it myself cuz no way am I letting those little buggers roam free!
TP to all the husbands acting douchey. My DH actually did good this morning and held her while I got breakfast and phone conferenced with a parent (teacher wrapping up the year-end-stuff)
Now I have to go move all my classroom stuff into next year's room. Thank goodness SIL is coming too to help watch DD/ move stuff
With the possible exception of the equator, everything begins somewhere. - C.S.Lewis
This thread was busaaay last night, what's up with that? Y'all act like you have babies keeping you up all night or something
Snuggling in bed with LO, watching Dr Phil and sobbing. Some of these episodes are toooo much.
I found out I was pregnant two months after our wedding! So we are going through our first year of marriage PLUS a new baby. It's been tough to say the least.
This thread was busaaay last night, what's up with that? Y'all act like you have babies keeping you up all night or something
Snuggling in bed with LO, watching Dr Phil and sobbing. Some of these episodes are toooo much.
Have you noticed some of the kids books are tear-jerkers too? On The Night You Were Born gets me. In those first few weeks when I would read this, it really got me.
Yep, there's another one by the same author that I think is called My Love Will Always Find You. Also, You Are My I Love You. They get me every time!
Sick mom over here today. I don't know how to handle baby when I feel this shitty. Splitting headache and throwing up. When I bend down to pick her up I feel like I'm going to vomit. Plus she going through a week of terror and won't nap during the day and cries so much. I'm also supposed to drive to my parents and stay overnight (hour away) and as much as I don't feel up to the drive, it's the only way ill get someone to help me with baby since SO won't be here til Saturday. Not a great morning over here.
Why do my boobs look so good? Then I peed on a stick...
Small aw: I've been nursing & pumping for a week or so now. DH and I are planning to leave dd overnight with my mil in two weeks so I needed a stash for that.
Well I organized my milk today since I'm lazy and leave it in the fridge until it's about to expire. Well I have enough already for the overnight, plus three bottles in the fridge! I'm so excited! I was kinda worried I wasn't going to have enough and we wouldn't be able to stay over! Yay for some mommy and daddy time!
If the asshole neighborhood kids ring my doorbell one more time I'm taking the baseball bat out to chase them with/ward them off. Merri BARELY slept last night and she's out right now.
Since when did kids become such assholes again?
Noted: I sound WAY too crotchety and old for being 28.
ETA: I will not actually hit said ahole kids with aforementioned baseball bat.
Do you guys have days where you look at the clock and have no idea where in the hell the day went?! I'm still in my pajamas and in bed with LO with zero plans to do anything else. Yikes.
@allyandmike24 My LO seems to enjoy less and less his swing (which used to be my go-to 'let the baby nap while I get housework done') so I've been more inclined to let him sleep on my lap and less inclined to put on more than my bathrobe and sit on the sofa all day...
Currently trying to catch the middle episode of Supernatural that I missed when DH surprised me with a short visit this morning.
Well, I'm a dumb ass. I have a few cloth diapers and I couldn't figure out why they kept leaking. I was showing a friend of mine them who is a CD genius and she said, those are fitteds. You need a cover.
@KendraColeslaw and other doggy experts - If a dog starts to get aggressive with other dogs, would you worry about them with kids too, even if they've always been good with kids in the past?
Thinking about taking in a dog who got nasty when one too many dogs was adopted into the home, but she's always been great with DS1 and he loves her. She was a rescue with a history of abuse, but she's only been sweet for years. I'd love to keep her in the family, but I don't want to put the baby and toddler at risk at all. DH and I keep tossing the idea around but I really don't know...
A dog that is aggressive toward other dogs is more likely to be aggressive with people. Typically aggression is stemming from fear, dominance, or a strong prey drive - kids are pretty good at bringing all of these things out in a dog. If you can find out what his aggression stems from, you'll be better able to curb the behavior. I wouldn't recommend bringing in a dog with past aggression issues if you also have children and have already said "I don't want to put my kids at any risk" because a dog like that is always one step from biting humans (or on the other hand, one step from rehabilitation - it just depends on how you'd manipulate his behavior).
I don't necessarily agree. More likely to be aggressive with people? No. Dogs can be aggressive to other dogs because of fear reasons and trouble reading other dogs' signs. But that does not make them more inclined to be aggressive with people. Now with LOs that could definitely be a different story, as they don't give dogs signals they can recognize. It all depends on the signs the dog shows to other dogs vs the signs he shows to people (play bow, rolling onto his belly, wiggly, defering/head turning). If you're really interested in it, I would get a behaviorist to observe the dog with other dogs, and then observe the dog with your family and kiddos, to see what the triggers are, and if there might be any around people.
@KendraColeslaw and other doggy experts - If a dog starts to get aggressive with other dogs, would you worry about them with kids too, even if they've always been good with kids in the past?
Thinking about taking in a dog who got nasty when one too many dogs was adopted into the home, but she's always been great with DS1 and he loves her. She was a rescue with a history of abuse, but she's only been sweet for years. I'd love to keep her in the family, but I don't want to put the baby and toddler at risk at all. DH and I keep tossing the idea around but I really don't know...
A dog that is aggressive toward other dogs is more likely to be aggressive with people. Typically aggression is stemming from fear, dominance, or a strong prey drive - kids are pretty good at bringing all of these things out in a dog. If you can find out what his aggression stems from, you'll be better able to curb the behavior. I wouldn't recommend bringing in a dog with past aggression issues if you also have children and have already said "I don't want to put my kids at any risk" because a dog like that is always one step from biting humans (or on the other hand, one step from rehabilitation - it just depends on how you'd manipulate his behavior).
I'm not a dog expert...I'm just going to give my unsolicited 2 cents:)
We have an aggressive dog. We got her prebaby, and she didn't start out aggressive. After several uneventful trips to the dog park, she began getting into full on attack fights with the dogs there. Then she began displaying aggression to people on the street if they got too close to her personal space. Her aggression is fear based, and most likely stems from poor socialization as a puppy (she was a rescue). We have done extensive doggy school and training at home. She is an incredibly sweet dog - but requires a much different approach than any other dog we've had. She is great with the baby - but I wouldn't trust her out in public. If a child or a dog came running up to us, she'd go on the defense. We muzzle in public for this exact reason. When we have company over, they are instructed to ignore her. It works great with adults. But, we have a friend with a 2 year old - and we kennel anytime they come. He loves running towards her kennel and yelling, which sets her off. All this to say - I don't know if aggression to other dogs becomes aggression to people. But, if I were to adopt all over again, I would choose a different dog. Don't get me wrong, I LOOOVE my dog. But there are thousands of dogs out there that need a home and with 2 kids to worry about, I wouldn't bring in a dog that you know could have issues. I would find a dog better suited for your family that wouldn't leave you worrying half the time.
Why, universe, do you give me a baby who's finally becoming less fussy and simultaneously give me a toddler who is a moody, blubbering mess?!? Very funny, motherfucker.
BFP: 7/5/10 EDD: 3/13/11 Miscarriage 8/1/10 at 8 weeks
BFP: 10/30/10 EDD: 7/7/11 Born 7/11//11 7lb12oz, 20 in.
BFP: 7/30/13 EDD: 4/9/14 Born right on time on his due date! 8lb10oz, 21.5 in.
Awesome prophetic fortune cookie: Love is a present that can be given every single day you live
Thanks everyone! Somehow the universe decided to help me out today. Did some side-lying nursing and LO has been napping with me since. My headache is better and I don't feel nauseous anymore. Morning sickness? Hahaha SO would flip.
@celticlullaby: I adopted my dog before I knew I was pregnant. He can be super aggressive around other dogs if they aren't introduced correctly. He wants to show his dominance over other dogs immediately and/or protect our other dog (who has poor manners and wants to play with other dogs in ways they don't typically appreciate). He has shown no aggression towards the baby and mostly just doesn't understand what she is. He's also very good with the few younger children hes been around, lets them hug him and pet him and (before I can tell them no) even let's them kiss his face. I would agree with PP if this is a very special dog, ask a behaviorists opinion, but make sure you get a good one! Adopting my dog, the behaviorists had his personality pegged completely backwards than how he is.
Why do my boobs look so good? Then I peed on a stick...
@TallaB that's our dog Ziva exactly. She can't be trusted around other dogs (except our other one) but she is wonderful with us and our children and friends/family. I would never leave any dog alone with the kids anyway, even if it seemed to be the most docile and friendly dog imaginable.
@sking72 I hope you are feeling better! Nothing worse than being sick and having to take care of another person.
And I forgot who brought up wasps, but I, too, am deathly afraid. Phobic afraid. I can't even look at photos of wasps. And guess what we have haunting our house ALL SUMMER? (
Nap time sucked today ( got the big kids in bed by noon and then LO didn't go down until 1. Big kids were up an hour early right as I got LO to sleep.
Currently making a cup of coffee.
~Missed MC at 8 weeks. D&C at 12 weeks on 4/17/13~
Well, I'm a dumb ass. I have a few cloth diapers and I couldn't figure out why they kept leaking. I was showing a friend of mine them who is a CD genius and she said, those are fitteds. You need a cover.
Face.Palm.
Hehe I did that too... But posted a thread on here asking... Oops
May the Fourth Be With You: Our 5-4-14 Baby: Andrew Joseph
FFTC: sometimes I feel so overwhelmed that I have to put LO in his swing with a paci and walk away so I don't start crying in front of him. I feel like I'm not good at anything right now. I can't calm him down, I can't pump enough to keep up with his growth spurt, and money sucks right now. I'm having to pull frozen milk from my stash at least every other day (haven't added to the stash in nearly two weeks) and pull money from our savings to cover bills while I've been "medically unavailable" to search for jobs. Now I'm finally cleared and they decided to audit me which means no benefits for at least 2-3 more weeks.
I guess I just thought the first six weeks would be a struggle and then it'd get easier. But it only seems to be getting harder. My family lives six hours away and I just feel so isolated, especially with DH working late the past couple weeks.
@Stace0616 Fun fact: What you're feeling is totes normal for us new mommies. Does that make it ANY easier? Heck to the no. But you're doing awesome. And what's really important is that you can recognize when you need a break. That's good...nay...GREAT for you AND baby. Seriously lady, you're doing an awesome job (My secret new mom powers tell me so). Keep giving yourself compassion and a bit of a break, k? Hugs to yooooooou!
Re: Longest Thread EVER! (aka Random Thoughts Thread )
BFP: 7/5/10 EDD: 3/13/11 Miscarriage 8/1/10 at 8 weeks
BFP: 10/30/10 EDD: 7/7/11 Born 7/11//11 7lb12oz, 20 in.
BFP: 7/30/13 EDD: 4/9/14 Born right on time on his due date! 8lb10oz, 21.5 in.
Awesome prophetic fortune cookie: Love is a present that can be given every single day you live
I think I know the answer to this: I should take the infant insert out of the car seat when dd can hold her head up better right?
Swaddle-carrier-bed was ok, not flawless, but he did go to sleep faster than normal.
Right now, however, homeboy is just fussy enough for me to be awake but not enough that he needs anything. Just noisy every 5 min. Mom needs sleeeeeeeeep.
BFP #1 May 20, 2013 MC June 27, 2013 BFP #2 August 2, 2013 Baby Boy born 4/25/14 (3 weeks overdue!)
April 14 August Siggy Challenge- "This time last year.."
Yeah our insert moves too. She's been in the seat a lot this week unfortunately and due to the almost 100 degree temps she's sweating. DH wanted to take it out but I wasn't sure. Good point about the buckle though. We moved the shoulder straps but not that one. I'll have to look at that.
My boy slept til 8 which was nice but my boobs are baseballs
In other news considering chopping off my long hair to medium bob length but all I can think of is that it is a very new mom thing to do , I mean chopping hair not the actual hair do. Altho it could be worse I could get that hairdo Kate gosselin had
I think you remove it when she has head control in that case
TP to all the husbands acting douchey. My DH actually did good this morning and held her while I got breakfast and phone conferenced with a parent (teacher wrapping up the year-end-stuff)
Now I have to go move all my classroom stuff into next year's room. Thank goodness SIL is coming too to help watch DD/ move stuff
With the possible exception of the equator, everything begins somewhere. - C.S.Lewis
Yep, there's another one by the same author that I think is called My Love Will Always Find You. Also, You Are My I Love You. They get me every time!
Then I peed on a stick...
Well I organized my milk today since I'm lazy and leave it in the fridge until it's about to expire. Well I have enough already for the overnight, plus three bottles in the fridge! I'm so excited! I was kinda worried I wasn't going to have enough and we wouldn't be able to stay over! Yay for some mommy and daddy time!
BFP #1 May 20, 2013 MC June 27, 2013 BFP #2 August 2, 2013 Baby Boy born 4/25/14 (3 weeks overdue!)
April 14 August Siggy Challenge- "This time last year.."
I'm not a dog expert...I'm just going to give my unsolicited 2 cents:)
We have an aggressive dog. We got her prebaby, and she didn't start out aggressive. After several uneventful trips to the dog park, she began getting into full on attack fights with the dogs there. Then she began displaying aggression to people on the street if they got too close to her personal space. Her aggression is fear based, and most likely stems from poor socialization as a puppy (she was a rescue).
We have done extensive doggy school and training at home. She is an incredibly sweet dog - but requires a much different approach than any other dog we've had. She is great with the baby - but I wouldn't trust her out in public. If a child or a dog came running up to us, she'd go on the defense. We muzzle in public for this exact reason. When we have company over, they are instructed to ignore her. It works great with adults. But, we have a friend with a 2 year old - and we kennel anytime they come. He loves running towards her kennel and yelling, which sets her off.
All this to say - I don't know if aggression to other dogs becomes aggression to people. But, if I were to adopt all over again, I would choose a different dog. Don't get me wrong, I LOOOVE my dog. But there are thousands of dogs out there that need a home and with 2 kids to worry about, I wouldn't bring in a dog that you know could have issues. I would find a dog better suited for your family that wouldn't leave you worrying half the time.
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BFP #1 May 20, 2013 MC June 27, 2013 BFP #2 August 2, 2013 Baby Boy born 4/25/14 (3 weeks overdue!)
April 14 August Siggy Challenge- "This time last year.."
BFP: 7/5/10 EDD: 3/13/11 Miscarriage 8/1/10 at 8 weeks
BFP: 10/30/10 EDD: 7/7/11 Born 7/11//11 7lb12oz, 20 in.
BFP: 7/30/13 EDD: 4/9/14 Born right on time on his due date! 8lb10oz, 21.5 in.
Awesome prophetic fortune cookie: Love is a present that can be given every single day you live
@celticlullaby: I adopted my dog before I knew I was pregnant. He can be super aggressive around other dogs if they aren't introduced correctly. He wants to show his dominance over other dogs immediately and/or protect our other dog (who has poor manners and wants to play with other dogs in ways they don't typically appreciate). He has shown no aggression towards the baby and mostly just doesn't understand what she is. He's also very good with the few younger children hes been around, lets them hug him and pet him and (before I can tell them no) even let's them kiss his face. I would agree with PP if this is a very special dog, ask a behaviorists opinion, but make sure you get a good one! Adopting my dog, the behaviorists had his personality pegged completely backwards than how he is.
Then I peed on a stick...
@sking72 I hope you are feeling better! Nothing worse than being sick and having to take care of another person.
And I forgot who brought up wasps, but I, too, am deathly afraid. Phobic afraid. I can't even look at photos of wasps. And guess what we have haunting our house ALL SUMMER?
I guess I just thought the first six weeks would be a struggle and then it'd get easier. But it only seems to be getting harder. My family lives six hours away and I just feel so isolated, especially with DH working late the past couple weeks.