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FFFC.
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Re: FFFC.
Yes, I agree, singular sleeping around also spreads disease. I think it's just funny that you are trying to make it look like I am some kind of cheerleader for cheating. That's like hearing someone talk about eating a hotdog, and accusing them of beating thier dog.
I don't get sexually aroused at the idea of swinging. While you are on your soapbox of tolerance, might there be room for my sexuality too?
ETA) grammar
What the fuck are you babbling about? Are you day drunk?
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Lol I wish. It would make these wild leaps of your logic make more sense.
Me not wanting to swing =/= advocate of cheating.
ETA: aaarg quotes!
Lol I wish. It would make these wild leaps of your logic make more sense.
Me not wanting to swing =/= advocate of cheating.
What the actual fuck are you babbling about?
Pele: I don't get cheating because there are diseases.
WCIBN: It's not any worse than single people whoring around spreading them
Pele: That's not even comparable! I wasn't talking about diseases.
WCIBN: Uh, yes, that is exactly what you are talking about and yes it is comparable.
Pele: Some rambling incoherent mess about cheerleading, sexuality and hotdogs.
WCIBN: Que?
Seriously. Put the bottle down or share.
Eh, I agree it's a stupid thing to argue about, that's entirely my point. If you had said 'it's not any better', I would have agreed with you. It's not. Instead you insinuated that I thought cheating was aces because I didn't like swinging, which I disagreed with.
I'm actually having a really great day, and am pretty relaxed. I know tone is hard to convey.
I'm sure you don't bat an eye to someone that has sex before marriage that may be exposing themselves to the horrific diseases you mentioned. But married people doing that is the debil because it's not your preference? Holy double standards. And that makes you the only one judging someone else's sexuality.
Are you ok? Not being sarcastic here, genuinely concerned. Usually you don't get so upset in a discussion. Especially about things that haven't even been said.
I almost didn't tit it because I didn't feel like having it brought back up but yes, I wash my hands most of the time. I'm not a fan but I do it.
I do pick up my dogs shit too. Surprisingly i don't mind it as much as I thought I would. It does make me feel like a better person/pet owner.
::ashamed::
I go back and check comments that I post that I think are funny for validation that I'm not falling on my face, but to know (after several months of posting) the first time someone loves one of your comments?
I don't know how many comments she has, but I am guessing around or more than 1k. That's a lot of attention!
I've only been stopped in a Target if I bought something that wasn't in a bag... If it's all in bags, I've never been stopped anywhere.
Places like Costco, Sam's, and Ikea I always wait my turn and show the receipt. It doesn't hurt me to show them so why try and fight it...?
Me (29) DH (29)
Married 5+ years
TTC #1 8/2012~Chronic Pelvic Pain Condition began 10/2012~Told I was crazy by many doctors until a good specialist DXed a labral tear and bone impingement in left hip 4/2013~Surgery on left hip: 5/31/13 SUCCESS!!! Pain flares to continue indefinitely (but mostly gone).
Resumed TTC 6/2013~Chronic stomach pain and distension: 8/2013~TTA 1/2014 Until Resolved ~7/2014: Trip to the Mayo Clinic--SUCCESS!! Finally on the road to getting better.
Resumed TTC 7/2014! Third time's the charm....8/2014 Visited the RE~DX: MFI/low morph~Straight to IVF with ICSI! 9/2014~Transferred 1 perfect beautiful 6AA blast with 10 to freeze!!!~10/8/2014: BFP!!!! EDD: 6/17/15 STICK LITTLE BEAN!!! IT'S A BOY!!!!!
I also decided I needed new summer clothes (and shoes!) yesterday so I started at Green Street, which a consignment shop by my university. The undergrads here consign designer stuff - yes, please. My next stop is H&M :-)
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@Joy2611 and @RinnyBee I suggest two strong pours of wine or two cocktails. You also have to move pretty fast to get some good work done before the lazy/sleepy phase kicks in. I also suggest not overdoing it because it can be awkward to be drunk in a place like Macy's where everyone else is sober
Perennial confession from me: It's getting hard for me to deal with H's poor body image. Again. If he wants to go low carb I'm down (I won't, but I will be supportive). If he needs a metronome to help him run, then that's cool. But he needs to do a little research about what low carb is and what he needs to do. If he's going to Atkins it, it's pretty strict. And he needs to go to the gym and just do it.
Me-31, H-27
**Loss 1-Cycle 7(June 2013) at 5w6d-CP**Loss 2-Cycle 11(October 2013) at 5w4d-CP**
**Loss 3-Cycle 14 (January-February 2014)-M/C dx 2/10, EP dx 2/24, MTX 2/25**
Beta Hell--hCG finally down to 0 - 6/20/14
SA normal. Genetic testing normal. Hormonal testing normal.
HSG 6/30/14 - found blocked left tube and 2 'bubbles' on uterine wall.
Hysteroscopy/Lap--8/4/14 - Tubes unblocked. Polyps removed from uterine wall. Septum removed.
9/30/14--Off the bench! Unmedicated TI through December 2014
BFP 12/14/14!!! Beta #1, 12/16: 990 Beta #2, 12/18: Over 2000! Beta #3, 12/22: over 8000!
U/S #1, 12/23: gestational sac, possible heartbeat
U/S #2, 12/30: HEARTBEAT! 128bpm, measuring right on at 7w EDD: 8/19/2015
U/S #3, 1/9: BPM in the 180s, IT'S HAPPENING!!!
ETA: My FFFC is that I just wasted a ridiculous amount of time reading the Parenting UO from yesterday. I had never heard of Culvers before and there is one right next to the hotel I am staying at so I will stuff my face with burgers and froze treats tonight for dinner.
DH: 45
BFP #1 3/19/14 EDD 11/29/14 MMC D&C 4/24/14
BFP #2 12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo
Saw heartbeat 12/29. Please be a rainbow.
All welcome
I think I need to start doing this. I fucking loathe clothes shopping.
https://www.target.com/p/xhilaration-juniors-perfect-long-lined-lace-bralette-assorted-colors-patterns/-/A-15060385#prodSlot=large_1_8
There are some from hanky panky that I'd really like. It's basically slightly prettier than a sports bra and has a bit less support, which is fine for sleeping purposes.
Me-31, H-27
**Loss 1-Cycle 7(June 2013) at 5w6d-CP**Loss 2-Cycle 11(October 2013) at 5w4d-CP**
**Loss 3-Cycle 14 (January-February 2014)-M/C dx 2/10, EP dx 2/24, MTX 2/25**
Beta Hell--hCG finally down to 0 - 6/20/14
SA normal. Genetic testing normal. Hormonal testing normal.
HSG 6/30/14 - found blocked left tube and 2 'bubbles' on uterine wall.
Hysteroscopy/Lap--8/4/14 - Tubes unblocked. Polyps removed from uterine wall. Septum removed.
9/30/14--Off the bench! Unmedicated TI through December 2014
BFP 12/14/14!!! Beta #1, 12/16: 990 Beta #2, 12/18: Over 2000! Beta #3, 12/22: over 8000!
U/S #1, 12/23: gestational sac, possible heartbeat
U/S #2, 12/30: HEARTBEAT! 128bpm, measuring right on at 7w EDD: 8/19/2015
U/S #3, 1/9: BPM in the 180s, IT'S HAPPENING!!!
It's mainly irritating because H, and I love him, but he wants a magic bullet. I used to occasionally worry about him with things like 'get rich quick' schemes. He keeps searching for the 'one thing' he can do that's going to magically make it easier for him to get to a better weight (he's not bad off now, but he wants to be fitter) and stay there and have muscle definition. Like, 'oh, if I just don't eat any carbs at all or only x grams of carbs a day for 2 weeks I'll lose 35 lbs.' No. It doesn't work like that. I've had to quit saying 'it doesn't work like that' because he just gets pissy with me, so I just think it really loudly. I'm overweight because I like food a lot and I like exercise a whole lot less. So I try to eat better and move more. But it's a process. And the thing about magic bullets is if you eat a bunch of kale a day for 2 weeks you'll feel different, but it's not sustainable.
**Note, he can be like this about a lot of things that take time not just weight, he wants to go from zero to 60 (or not knowing how to put a nail in straight to refinishing a table set) in 2 seconds, and he sometimes gets frustrated when I try to slow things down (or not spend a crapton of money on hobbies).
I love zucchini 'pasta', btw. I found a recipe that used it last summer and it's one of my favorites.
Me-31, H-27
**Loss 1-Cycle 7(June 2013) at 5w6d-CP**Loss 2-Cycle 11(October 2013) at 5w4d-CP**
**Loss 3-Cycle 14 (January-February 2014)-M/C dx 2/10, EP dx 2/24, MTX 2/25**
Beta Hell--hCG finally down to 0 - 6/20/14
SA normal. Genetic testing normal. Hormonal testing normal.
HSG 6/30/14 - found blocked left tube and 2 'bubbles' on uterine wall.
Hysteroscopy/Lap--8/4/14 - Tubes unblocked. Polyps removed from uterine wall. Septum removed.
9/30/14--Off the bench! Unmedicated TI through December 2014
BFP 12/14/14!!! Beta #1, 12/16: 990 Beta #2, 12/18: Over 2000! Beta #3, 12/22: over 8000!
U/S #1, 12/23: gestational sac, possible heartbeat
U/S #2, 12/30: HEARTBEAT! 128bpm, measuring right on at 7w EDD: 8/19/2015
U/S #3, 1/9: BPM in the 180s, IT'S HAPPENING!!!
Weddings? I'm holding out until at least 10pm before I finally hit the bar. I'm seriously messed up.
This makes me sad for you.
Me three! Er, four.
Also, I sometimes put my son to bed early just to get some extra downtime. He's happy to play in his bed by himself, and some evenings I need that extra half hour to de-stress.