- Pregnancy
- Baby & Toddler
- Parents
- Getting Pregnant
- Baby Names
- Product Reviews
-
Registry
- Community
-
More
Want a personalized experience?
Download the free app
April 2014 Moms
Longest Thread EVER! (aka Random Thoughts Thread )
This discussion has been closed.
Re: Longest Thread EVER! (aka Random Thoughts Thread )
Not that I need sympathy from anyone, I just needed to get that off my chest and you ladies are the most appropriate audience.
BFP#2 7/28/13 EDD 4/9/14 Birthday : 4/10/14 Adalyn Nanette
My DH has been great! I tell my parents and in-laws and friends how sweet and helpful he's been all the time. He gets a goofy grin on his face and rubs my belly all the time and seems geniunly excited about baby.
Well last weekend I invited all his friends over for his 30th bday. Bought a ton of pizza, bought him about $130 worth of presents ( a game rule book and some 15 year old Glenfiditch scotch) and I stayed up till 3am with everybody even though I had a headache and had worked that morning. He did have to do almost all of the cleaning because I was at work all week.
Then the next day we did dinner with his parents. We see his parents at least monthly, at times more often because they are closer than my parents. My parents visit every few months.
I havent been to my parents house in I think 2 years. They wanted to celebrate his birthday and my brothers. Well since they always make the 4 hour drive to come to us we agreed (together) that we'd go to visit them this weekend.
He complains the whole way. Can you just go by yourself? Its not too late to turn around. Didnt I say we werent going to drive on their crappy road this time of year ever again? Ugh! Then when he gets there he wants to take our dog for a walk before even saying hi. Then sleeps on the couch while the rest of us play games.
Well he seemed really tired so I drove the 4 hour trip home. I stop half way to stretch my legs, pee, and I grab a soda and small fries from Burger King. Before going in I asked "do you want to come in?" he said no and fell back asleep.
We get home at 1am and he's pissed but wont tell me why and plays video games, so I go to bed. When he came to bed I asked what was wrong, what is he mad at? Apparently me. Because I didnt get anything for him from Burger King?! Or I should have at least asked...
Now today he's still pissed off. And I was like are you seriously pissed because I didnt get you a burger and do you hear how ridiculous that is? So he's like its not just that. You're selfish and its really been getting to me lately. I ask about what? Nothing. He goes back to his movie.
So I really have no f'ing idea what I did!? I work 40 hours a week and Im 8 months pregnant. Im uncomfortable and exhausted all the time. Its all I can do to cook supper when I get home at 7pm or later after an hour commute.
WTF?!? Where did my husband go?
Then I peed on a stick...
I know I've no been very helpful lately. Especially today... Because I'm upset.
I feel like I'm going to scream hurtful things at him if I attempt to talk to him right now so I'm avoiding him until Im less upset.
This is probably proving his point as to how selfish I am.
On a good note I actually walked the dog today.
Ha! I'd rock that badge with honor :-)
I'm feeling pretty good today. Doc said everything is looking good. Hopefully just healing up a couple more days and getting back to getting ready for baby! I can't believe after all this I have to give BIRTH and day now!
Then I peed on a stick...