I'm in a good shower debate in one of my FB groups.
5th kid, girl, hasn't had a girl in 10 years, didn't share how old #4 is.
Wants to throw her own shower because MIL only offered to throw her a Sip and See and she wants the presents, specifically the necessities, that a shower would bring her.
0_o
I'm no pearl clutcher, but yikes. Also, "only" a Sip and See?
March 2017 September Siggy Challenge: Favorite Fall Things
I'm in a good shower debate in one of my FB groups.
5th kid, girl, hasn't had a girl in 10 years, didn't share how old #4 is.
Wants to throw her own shower because MIL only offered to throw her a Sip and See and she wants the presents, specifically the necessities, that a shower would bring her.
0_o
yeah Im no expert, but nah! take the sip and see and be grateful!
Angel baby June 2013, DD born 22 April 2014, BFP 10 Sept 2015 - Due 22 May 2016
@jellysparkles: that's a sucky situation. It's awful to have to make the decision "When is it appropriate to call someone?" I've had a few of those moments in my life.
I hope this isn't offensive on that subject, but the hate against mexicans and burglaries and that totally reminded me of this
Isn't that when her husband was trying to get in? Lol
Yup! Love her
Why do my boobs look so good? Then I peed on a stick...
So I'm about to get in bed and I suddenly remember that last night when DH came to bed he turned on his headlamp ( )to read. I woke up (super foggy) and was nearly in tears and panic mode because I couldn't roll over. DH had to help me and calm me down. Bah!!! I'm Hoping to avoid a repeat tonight.
A mutual friend of a bunch of old friends has gone over the deep end. He was shot during a home invasion/burglary a year ago and now he has these conspiracy theories about people (Catholics, gays and Mexicans mostly?) poisoning his water supply and targeting him for abduction in order to do bizarre mind control technology testing. I blocked him from my FB feed and knocked him into a lower security level on my friends list months ago and unfriended him over the weekend when he started making hate speech comments on random posts I made. Friends are now telling me that he's been making death threats on his page for some time now about random people - I had no idea he'd gotten this bad. Apparently he's also been PMing one of our friends asking if she's still lactating because he says government operatives put mind control agents in cow's milk and he needs a 'clean supply'.
Ugh. Now we're all talking about how to go about informing the authorities without spooking him.
This is nuts.
Sounds like a whole lotta meth! 8-X
This. I have an old friend who did the same thing (went off the deep end, conspiracy theories, thought he was God.. Like for real) and I know for a fact he does drugs.
A mutual friend of a bunch of old friends has gone over the deep end. He was shot during a home invasion/burglary a year ago and now he has these conspiracy theories about people (Catholics, gays and Mexicans mostly?) poisoning his water supply and targeting him for abduction in order to do bizarre mind control technology testing. I blocked him from my FB feed and knocked him into a lower security level on my friends list months ago and unfriended him over the weekend when he started making hate speech comments on random posts I made. Friends are now telling me that he's been making death threats on his page for some time now about random people - I had no idea he'd gotten this bad. Apparently he's also been PMing one of our friends asking if she's still lactating because he says government operatives put mind control agents in cow's milk and he needs a 'clean supply'.
Ugh. Now we're all talking about how to go about informing the authorities without spooking him.
This is nuts.
Sounds like a whole lotta meth! 8-X
This. I have an old friend who did the same thing (went off the deep end, conspiracy theories, thought he was God.. Like for real) and I know for a fact he does drugs.
My roommate did this in December. She told her boyfriend "I am god" told the emts "I'm in labor, I'm having a baby today" (bitch trying to steal my thunder) and when the cop told her he would have to handcuff her if she wouldn't leave peacefully "you can't touch me, I'm the president of the United States"
There were a lot of other things, mix of mental breakdown and uppers as far as I know. Was building up for weeks.
Why do my boobs look so good? Then I peed on a stick...
DS1 has had an up and down fever for the past few days so I finally took us both to the Doctor today. He has a double ear infection and I have bronchitis. Awesome. The worst part is that since I can't take him to daycare, I've been watching him all day and then working crazy hours at night instead of extra sleeping. I hope he gets better soon
DS1 has had an up and down fever for the past few days so I finally took us both to the Doctor today. He has a double ear infection and I have bronchitis. Awesome. The worst part is that since I can't take him to daycare, I've been watching him all day and then working crazy hours at night instead of extra sleeping. I hope he gets better soon
/end rant
Awe. Hope you both feel better soon. Double ear infections are no joke for LO's.
My sisters are traveling here (506 hours away) on Friday to give me a shower on Saturday morning. Now they are forecasting blizzard conditions here on Thursday and still windy on Friday. I am crossing fingers hard that the storm doesn't linger and they can get here safely on Friday. I swear that I can predict winter storms based on whether I am going out of town or having OOT visitors coming here. It's almost clockwork.
MC #1 January 2013 DS born 4/06/14 MC #2 August 2015 CP November 2015 MC#3 January 2016 BFP 5/11/16 EDD 1/19/17
I was at the playground with DS and a little girl, maybe 4, wanted to play ice cream shop. So DS and I "ordered" and after we got our ice cream DS says "thank you". I ask if she's going to say "you're welcome". She didn't know what it was; it was foreign words to her. We ordered several times and she got really good at thank you/you're welcome. My hormones wanted to take her home. And take another little girl who's mom never looked up from her phone. Must love all the babies!
Does anyone get their breath taken away when they get BH? It's so weird. Sometimes I know I'm having one just because I'll find it hard to breathe and touch my abdomen and it's rock hard.
Don't have too much fun today ladies - I'll be out at one of our plants/project locations and won't be bumping much at all today. I don't want to have to play massive catch-up tonight!
Ughhh DS woke up at 6am drenched in pee. I hate diapers! He normally wakes up about 7:30-8, so this will be a long morning. He's always worn huggies but he started getting a rash from them so we tried pampers but still a rash. We then bought some Luvs and cloth diapers. He wears the cloth during the day now with no rash and we are doing Luvs at night but he is peeing through them like he has no diaper on!! The worst part, I was actually sleeping pretty good.
Does anyone get their breath taken away when they get BH? It's so weird. Sometimes I know I'm having one just because I'll find it hard to breathe and touch my abdomen and it's rock hard.
Every single time.
~Missed MC at 8 weeks. D&C at 12 weeks on 4/17/13~
I need to stop watching teen mom. It makes me rage.
Watching now!
Janelle is gross and the commercials for the original cast catch up is almost as bad.
Janelle makes me so angry. Every boyfriend she gets she immediately brings them into Jace's life. And now her boyfriend is telling her she would be a good mom and should have Jace more. She would be a horrible mother that's why she doesn't have custody idiot!
Wait a second. The joke of a 'leave' Americans get for 12 weeks is UNPAID? Just reading through the mat leave thread...I thought you at least got paid...
WTF AMERICA. Is there really not one politician who has ever addressed this? How is this not a MAJOR campaign strategy? They'd have all the women's votes in a heartbeat!
So true! Some get paid using up personal/holiday/vacation pay or having short term disability. Otherwise yep FMLA is unpaid unless you have some super progressive company that has decided to make it paid. I have not heard of anyone working for a company like that IRL life though.
I'm going to be half paid for 12 weeks. But that's because of a combination of things. My company uses short term disability for the entire time so that's where the paycheck comes from. And the dr said he wouldn't release me back to work for 12 weeks. But he's been really good about not only my physical health but my mental health. I about broke down in tears in his office one day overwhelmed with being a new parent. I honestly think he feels bad for me so he's willing to sign off for longer.
If that perfect storm hadn't have happened I'd only be able to take 6 weeks.
@aronie82 I know I am totally lucky. I didn't have a regular ob before this and somewhat stumbled on this guy accidentally. He really has been great, includes DH at every appt, calming us down when panic and answering every question no matter how silly. And I'm lucky my job is so kind too. Std is something they've always done. They've even covered breast pumps 100% before it was mandatory. I totally lucked out.
I'll add that I wouldn't be able to do the whole 12 weeks if it wasn't for the fact that we've been able to save a ton. That was a huge factor in our decision. Plus I'm not the bread winner in our family so a lot of our income will still be coming in.
Wait a second. The joke of a 'leave' Americans get for 12 weeks is UNPAID? Just reading through the mat leave thread...I thought you at least got paid...
WTF AMERICA. Is there really not one politician who has ever addressed this? How is this not a MAJOR campaign strategy? They'd have all the women's votes in a heartbeat!
This makes me so angry! I don't understand why there isn't more of an uproar about this.
I am somewhat "lucky" because I will get 6 weeks partially paid by short term disability. DH and I trying to figure out what we're going to do about the other 6 weeks that I won't be getting paid. He was laid off and unemployment is running out in a few weeks, so we're hoping he'll find something before baby gets here....
Yeah, maternity leave in this country sucks, plain and simple. I get so jealous when I hear of your leave in Canada @dani+california! I don't see it changing here. I'm lucky in that I work in a school so at least I only need to take a few weeks (depending on when baby comes) unpaid until I get to my summer break.
MC #1 January 2013 DS born 4/06/14 MC #2 August 2015 CP November 2015 MC#3 January 2016 BFP 5/11/16 EDD 1/19/17
Just sent the family group email about not announcing the birth on FB (as the parents I feel like we should get to do that, along with announcing his name). I also asked that no one post pictures, that we would choose an appropriate picture and post it.
Comments I got: "We've been waiting so long we're just as excited as you. We want to share our news to our friends." - trust me no one has waited longer than me, or is more excited than me. Plus are your friends really that interested in your great nephew? It's my baby, back off.
"But I love cute naked baby pictures" - yea you and child molester perverts, my sons penis will NOT be on the internet for everyone to see. When you are comfortable posting your vagina on FB then maybe I will consider posting his penis... Oh what's that you say, never gonna happen? Yea that's what I thought.
Why can't people just say, you got it no problem and be done with it? It's always an argument!
my husband sometimes jokes about moving to Canada. I'm all for it! I tell him we need to do it soon so that I can get a job and be there long enough to qualify for your awesome maternity leave!
ETA for baby #2 that is I know we've already missed the boat with this one
June Siggy Challenge My little Princess BFP#2 7/28/13 EDD 4/9/14 Birthday : 4/10/14 Adalyn Nanette
Wait a second. The joke of a 'leave' Americans get for 12 weeks is UNPAID? Just reading through the mat leave thread...I thought you at least got paid...
WTF AMERICA. Is there really not one politician who has ever addressed this? How is this not a MAJOR campaign strategy? They'd have all the women's votes in a heartbeat!
And that's only if you work for a big company with 50 or more employees. You work for a small business? Your not guarenteed shit.
Yep, if I had stayed at my last job, I could've taken 30 days of unpaid personal leave (including weekends even though they were closed), but if I took even one more day than that, the system would have automatically booted me out - basically firing me. They would've hired me back of course, but the whole rehiring process would've been a pain.
February Siggy Challenge: Favorite TV couple ~ Jim & Pam
My sisters are traveling here (506 hours away) on Friday to give me a shower on Saturday morning. Now they are forecasting blizzard conditions here on Thursday and still windy on Friday. I am crossing fingers hard that the storm doesn't linger and they can get here safely on Friday. I swear that I can predict winter storms based on whether I am going out of town or having OOT visitors coming here. It's almost clockwork.
506 hours!? I hope you mean miles. :-O Either way, I hope your sisters get there safely and on time.
February Siggy Challenge: Favorite TV couple ~ Jim & Pam
Just sent the family group email about not announcing the birth on FB (as the parents I feel like we should get to do that, along with announcing his name). I also asked that no one post pictures, that we would choose an appropriate picture and post it.
Comments I got:
"We've been waiting so long we're just as excited as you. We want to share our news to our friends."
- trust me no one has waited longer than me, or is more excited than me. Plus are your friends really that interested in your great nephew? It's my baby, back off.
"But I love cute naked baby pictures"
- yea you and child molester perverts, my sons penis will NOT be on the internet for everyone to see. When you are comfortable posting your vagina on FB then maybe I will consider posting his penis... Oh what's that you say, never gonna happen? Yea that's what I thought.
Why can't people just say, you got it no problem and be done with it? It's always an argument!
Frustrating for sure! This is why we don't tell anyone outside of my parents about the birth until right before we post the stats and pictures on FB.
~Missed MC at 8 weeks. D&C at 12 weeks on 4/17/13~
I took today off to have a home day without the kids to relax and rest. We got a flat tire, and DH headed to work with a coworker and had to leave the kids. Now I'm bribing them with smarties and tv so I can just lay around.
Also, anyone else totally lost their appetite? I can't eat anything without feeling nauseous and even the thought of desserts and cake makes me queasy. Saaaad preggo. I basically ate a piece of pb toast all day yesterday.
Wife to A; Mama to C (2009), N (2011), H (2014) & baby F due 09/16/16
@thomas930 I mentioned only our parents would know when we were going to the hospital! I figured that would cause an uproar. Interestingly enough, no one cared about that. They just want to AW themselves and my baby without having done any of the actual work in getting him here!
Just sent the family group email about not announcing the birth on FB (as the parents I feel like we should get to do that, along with announcing his name). I also asked that no one post pictures, that we would choose an appropriate picture and post it.
Comments I got: "We've been waiting so long we're just as excited as you. We want to share our news to our friends." - trust me no one has waited longer than me, or is more excited than me. Plus are your friends really that interested in your great nephew? It's my baby, back off.
"But I love cute naked baby pictures" - yea you and child molester perverts, my sons penis will NOT be on the internet for everyone to see. When you are comfortable posting your vagina on FB then maybe I will consider posting his penis... Oh what's that you say, never gonna happen? Yea that's what I thought.
Why can't people just say, you got it no problem and be done with it? It's always an argument!
Ugh, how frustrating! I don't see how they won't be able to comply if grandparents are the only ones coming to the hospital though. I would just send a quick text with the stats and sneak peek picture whenever you're ready, then immediately post something on FB to beat them to the punch.
I'm hoping I won't go through this problem with my side of the family. My husband's side already went through this last year when my BIL and his wife had their son, so they know the routine. But I can see having some stubbornness and defiance from my side of the family on this. :-w
February Siggy Challenge: Favorite TV couple ~ Jim & Pam
@mrscrcalli I'm still laughing at what the Mother Goose.
It's my polite way of expressing "mother fu*k"!
Ps. Is it just me or does everyone pee on their hand when doing the sample at the Dr.? Now that I can't bend its hard to reach/see :-S
Every time and all over the side of the cup. It's always a big to-do to pee in a freaking cup now.
Just about every morning for my ketone testing. *facedesk* At this rate I need to pee in a damn mixing bowl or something, lol.
With my luck, I'd be the one where the pee would hit the bowl and go swooshing up and over the side, like when you turn the kitchen faucet on super high into an empty bowl.
Re: Longest Thread EVER! (aka Random Thoughts Thread )
Then I peed on a stick...
BFP #1 May 20, 2013 MC June 27, 2013 BFP #2 August 2, 2013 Baby Boy born 4/25/14 (3 weeks overdue!)
April 14 August Siggy Challenge- "This time last year.."
There were a lot of other things, mix of mental breakdown and uppers as far as I know. Was building up for weeks.
Then I peed on a stick...
DS born 4/06/14
MC #2 August 2015
CP November 2015
MC#3 January 2016
BFP 5/11/16 EDD 1/19/17
The jabs. Oh the jabs...
BFP #1 May 20, 2013 MC June 27, 2013 BFP #2 August 2, 2013 Baby Boy born 4/25/14 (3 weeks overdue!)
April 14 August Siggy Challenge- "This time last year.."
If that perfect storm hadn't have happened I'd only be able to take 6 weeks.
I'll add that I wouldn't be able to do the whole 12 weeks if it wasn't for the fact that we've been able to save a ton. That was a huge factor in our decision. Plus I'm not the bread winner in our family so a lot of our income will still be coming in.
I am somewhat "lucky" because I will get 6 weeks partially paid by short term disability. DH and I trying to figure out what we're going to do about the other 6 weeks that I won't be getting paid. He was laid off and unemployment is running out in a few weeks, so we're hoping he'll find something before baby gets here....
DS born 4/06/14
MC #2 August 2015
CP November 2015
MC#3 January 2016
BFP 5/11/16 EDD 1/19/17
Comments I got:
"We've been waiting so long we're just as excited as you. We want to share our news to our friends."
- trust me no one has waited longer than me, or is more excited than me. Plus are your friends really that interested in your great nephew? It's my baby, back off.
"But I love cute naked baby pictures"
- yea you and child molester perverts, my sons penis will NOT be on the internet for everyone to see. When you are comfortable posting your vagina on FB then maybe I will consider posting his penis... Oh what's that you say, never gonna happen? Yea that's what I thought.
Why can't people just say, you got it no problem and be done with it? It's always an argument!
ETA for baby #2 that is I know we've already missed the boat with this one
BFP#2 7/28/13 EDD 4/9/14 Birthday : 4/10/14 Adalyn Nanette
Also, anyone else totally lost their appetite? I can't eat anything without feeling nauseous and even the thought of desserts and cake makes me queasy. Saaaad preggo. I basically ate a piece of pb toast all day yesterday.
I, being a K cup pre-pregnancy (meaning I have problems finding bras that fit me normally) have had success on the following sites:
Big Girl Bras - https://www.biggerbras.com
Lady Grace - https://www.ladygrace.com
You may have better luck than me on other sites/shops too, since you're in a more reasonable cup size than I am. Oh, to be a G again. *sigh* I wish!
I'm hoping I won't go through this problem with my side of the family. My husband's side already went through this last year when my BIL and his wife had their son, so they know the routine. But I can see having some stubbornness and defiance from my side of the family on this. :-w
Just about every morning for my ketone testing. *facedesk* At this rate I need to pee in a damn mixing bowl or something, lol.
With my luck, I'd be the one where the pee would hit the bowl and go swooshing up and over the side, like when you turn the kitchen faucet on super high into an empty bowl.