Mucus Plug Question... A Bit TMI

Ljessen13 · December 2013

AshleyDoll said:

Ljessen13 said:

Hey @ashleydoll. Your post on May 27th made me giggle. You are 23 with 5 kids and you claimed you were more mature than most adults you know!!! You would think with that many kids at your age you really would have matured quickly! I am pretty sure u didn't! I am 100% positive you didn't need us from August until Thanksgiving. A few days ago when you were in l&d we all cared about you and were there for you!!!!! Now that u didn't get an answer you want we are all evil...stupid...illiterate....stupid....oh wait did I mention stupid????

Yes and you know everything about me right? Just because I don't sit back and take crap from other people, it doesn't mean anything. Some of you seem fake, completely fake. You sit there and "support" people when they are in need of it and then turn around and flip sh*t because someone asks a question. All I've done is call people out on their bs. I've seen several of the women on this board run people off, I'm not going to sit here and let you all do that to me because I say something you don't like or agree with. Everyone has their own opinions on everything and there's nothing wrong with that. And yes, there was a lot of support while I was in l&d and I really do appreciate that. Even with having early babies and what not, it's scary as hell to go through all that crap. But if someone is going to be rude and disrespectful towards me then they are getting it back ten fold. If you can't take it, don't dish it.

Please read the 12 pages of crap you started. No one "flipped shit" bc you asked a question my dear. Maybe a little attitude but not the way you described it. Your novels...name calling and attacking Megan is what made people "flip shit".

forevergraceful · December 2013

This whole post has caused me to have a second bowl of ice cream, instead of my usual one bowl. I'm gonna step out and just start love titting where needed before I have a third, because OP clearly doesn't get it.

ac1259 · December 2013

aessary03 said:

@Ashleydoll, would you like to borrow my shovel? I think you'll be needing it to finish digging your hole. You've insulted a beloved member of this board. It won't be forgotten. I think it's pretty well established that you're no longer welcome here no matter how much back pedaling you do. We don't give fuck what your husband and his friend say or think. The only way you MIGHT be able to somewhat redeem yourself is to issue a genuine apology to @megngregk. Otherwise, as previously stated, you can GTFO. Don't let the door hit ya where the good Lord split ya.

*Quote box fail*
I you @aessary03...you made me LOL

rowanthefrog · December 2013

AshleyDoll · December 2013

aessary03 said:

@Ashleydoll, would you like to borrow my shovel? I think you'll be needing it to finish digging your hole. You've insulted a beloved member of this board. It won't be forgotten. I think it's pretty well established that you're no longer welcome here no matter how much back pedaling you do. We don't give fuck what your husband and his friend say or think. The only way you MIGHT be able to somewhat redeem yourself is to issue a genuine apology to @megngregk. Otherwise, as previously stated, you can GTFO. Don't let the door hit ya where the good Lord split ya.

And that right there proves everything I've been saying. You have a beloved member of the board and you all gang up and bully people. God forbid someone does it back though right? You all can sure give it out but as soon as someone gives it back you all clamber together like you're in some little high school group of popular kids and of course you need each other to back each other up. Give me a break. The only thing I'm guilty of is telling the truth and yeah I don't know anything about her or her life and so I understand that talking about feeling bad for her husband really has no business being said BUT I am not guilty of a comment that I didn't say and there's no way in hell I'd apologize for it. Like I said, I'm not here to make people happy, being welcome here isn't on my priority list.

AshleyDoll · December 2013

brideandbreve said:

Wait, she's 23 with 5 kids? Jesus. She needs Jesus and some birth control. At least to keep her triflin' ass off TB. Let us be the last BMB graced with her charming presence, bless her simple little heart.

Yes because I'm so triflin right? You know, I do sleep around all the time, my kids all have different fathers, and I've never heard of this so called birth control. No, I'm married and have been for years, 4 of my children have the same father and were very much planned. My husband and I weren't able to have our dream wedding the first time around and so if you're wondering why my ticker says we've only been married just over a year it's because that's when we were finally able to have our dream wedding. Also, I have been on TB for years and never had any issues with anyone until now. So that shows just how much you all know.

megngregk · December 2013

AshleyDoll said:

aessary03 said:

@Ashleydoll, would you like to borrow my shovel? I think you'll be needing it to finish digging your hole. You've insulted a beloved member of this board. It won't be forgotten. I think it's pretty well established that you're no longer welcome here no matter how much back pedaling you do. We don't give fuck what your husband and his friend say or think. The only way you MIGHT be able to somewhat redeem yourself is to issue a genuine apology to @megngregk. Otherwise, as previously stated, you can GTFO. Don't let the door hit ya where the good Lord split ya.

And that right there proves everything I've been saying. You have a beloved member of the board and you all gang up and bully people. God forbid someone does it back though right? You all can sure give it out but as soon as someone gives it back you all clamber together like you're in some little high school group of popular kids and of course you need each other to back each other up. Give me a break. The only thing I'm guilty of is telling the truth and yeah I don't know anything about her or her life and so I understand that talking about feeling bad for her husband really has no business being said BUT I am not guilty of a comment that I didn't say and there's no way in hell I'd apologize for it. Like I said, I'm not here to make people happy, being welcome here isn't on my priority list.

Oh trust me, Doll (can I call you Doll?), you're welcome to stick around. Now you're just entertaining. Get your husband on here, too.

And can I just say holy run-on sentence, Bat Man?

Ljessen13 · December 2013

Nah nah nah nah boo boo!

jldubb0626 · December 2013

AshleyDoll said:

aessary03 said:

@Ashleydoll, would you like to borrow my shovel? I think you'll be needing it to finish digging your hole. You've insulted a beloved member of this board. It won't be forgotten. I think it's pretty well established that you're no longer welcome here no matter how much back pedaling you do. We don't give fuck what your husband and his friend say or think. The only way you MIGHT be able to somewhat redeem yourself is to issue a genuine apology to @megngregk. Otherwise, as previously stated, you can GTFO. Don't let the door hit ya where the good Lord split ya.

And that right there proves everything I've been saying. You have a beloved member of the board and you all gang up and bully people. God forbid someone does it back though right? You all can sure give it out but as soon as someone gives it back you all clamber together like you're in some little high school group of popular kids and of course you need each other to back each other up. Give me a break. The only thing I'm guilty of is telling the truth and yeah I don't know anything about her or her life and so I understand that talking about feeling bad for her husband really has no business being said BUT I am not guilty of a comment that I didn't say and there's no way in hell I'd apologize for it. Like I said, I'm not here to make people happy, being welcome here isn't on my priority list.

1 - You aren't telling the truth. You're running your fat mouth about someone who you've never even given a chance. You attacked her personally when you felt all butthurt over the fact that we called you out on your bullshit.

2- If I told you my husband's friend was sitting here saying that you were a slut, wouldn't you be pissed at me because I felt the need to articulate my "husband's friend's" comment? Regardless of who said it, YOU didn't need to say it here. That's fucked up.

3- You keep saying you don't care if you're liked and you aren't here to make people happy, so why don't you just leave? We obviously don't mean anything to you so why waste your time?

Bottom line - you're pathetic.

angiek1 · December 2013

Just popping in to say that is @megngregk is such a bad seed would people be backing her so much? Probably not. @ashleydoll clearly not your night. I would just stop posting, clearly you are alone in your corner.

lolinshag · December 2013

AshleyDoll said:

aessary03 said:

@Ashleydoll, would you like to borrow my shovel? I think you'll be needing it to finish digging your hole. You've insulted a beloved member of this board. It won't be forgotten. I think it's pretty well established that you're no longer welcome here no matter how much back pedaling you do. We don't give fuck what your husband and his friend say or think. The only way you MIGHT be able to somewhat redeem yourself is to issue a genuine apology to @megngregk. Otherwise, as previously stated, you can GTFO. Don't let the door hit ya where the good Lord split ya.

And that right there proves everything I've been saying. You have a beloved member of the board and you all gang up and bully people. God forbid someone does it back though right? You all can sure give it out but as soon as someone gives it back you all clamber together like you're in some little high school group of popular kids and of course you need each other to back each other up. Give me a break. The only thing I'm guilty of is telling the truth and yeah I don't know anything about her or her life and so I understand that talking about feeling bad for her husband really has no business being said BUT I am not guilty of a comment that I didn't say and there's no way in hell I'd apologize for it. Like I said, I'm not here to make people happy, being welcome here isn't on my priority list.

What i think you are not getting is that when YOU post something YOU are saying it. Whether or not you said it in real life has no basis in the arguement. We would have never known that the military wife comment was made, if YOU had not posted it. Therefore, you are the one who owes Meg an apology.

Think about it this way: if the president said to the Queen of England that he was sorry for her husband, an international incident would be started. Even if he later said "but i didnt originally say it, my wife's friend did". Either way he would owe an apology to the Queen.

daltosostarby · December 2013

AshleyDoll said:

And that right there proves everything I've been saying. You have a beloved member of the board and you all gang up and bully people. God forbid someone does it back though right? You all can sure give it out but as soon as someone gives it back you all clamber together like you're in some little high school group of popular kids and of course you need each other to back each other up. Give me a break. The only thing I'm guilty of is telling the truth and yeah I don't know anything about her or her life and so I understand that talking about feeling bad for her husband really has no business being said BUT I am not guilty of a comment that I didn't say and there's no way in hell I'd apologize for it. Like I said, I'm not here to make people happy, being welcome here isn't on my priority list.

I'm sorry @AshleyDoll, but nothing you said was truth. All you've done is say rude and uncalled for remarks. You are guilty of needing to apologize to @megngregk and others, but you are oblivious to how decent people interact. No one was rude to you until you flipped out. Deal with it.

Ljessen13 · December 2013

AshleyDoll said:

brideandbreve said:

Wait, she's 23 with 5 kids? Jesus. She needs Jesus and some birth control. At least to keep her triflin' ass off TB. Let us be the last BMB graced with her charming presence, bless her simple little heart.

Yes because I'm so triflin right? You know, I do sleep around all the time, my kids all have different fathers, and I've never heard of this so called birth control. No, I'm married and have been for years, 4 of my children have the same father and were very much planned. My husband and I weren't able to have our dream wedding the first time around and so if you're wondering why my ticker says we've only been married just over a year it's because that's when we were finally able to have our dream wedding. Also, I have been on TB for years and never had any issues with anyone until now. So that shows just how much you all know.

My tax dollars at work!!!

PreDempsey · December 2013

My dog (that beautiful creature in my signature) just said something really mean that I don't agree with but he told me to type it to you any way: he feels sorry for your husband and kids because you're embarrassing yourself on the internet.

I didn't say it so I won't apologize and if you pressure me I'll tell you I don't agree with him. Jesus, I'll have to cut his kibble down in the morning for being such an ass.

AshleyDoll · December 2013

Ljessen13 said:

AshleyDoll said:

brideandbreve said:

Wait, she's 23 with 5 kids? Jesus. She needs Jesus and some birth control. At least to keep her triflin' ass off TB. Let us be the last BMB graced with her charming presence, bless her simple little heart.

Yes because I'm so triflin right? You know, I do sleep around all the time, my kids all have different fathers, and I've never heard of this so called birth control. No, I'm married and have been for years, 4 of my children have the same father and were very much planned. My husband and I weren't able to have our dream wedding the first time around and so if you're wondering why my ticker says we've only been married just over a year it's because that's when we were finally able to have our dream wedding. Also, I have been on TB for years and never had any issues with anyone until now. So that shows just how much you all know.

My tax dollars at work!!!

What are YOUR tax dollars doing for me? We pay for insurance just like most people do, we have medical bills that we pay just like most people do, we have co-pays we pay, we have a 401K that we are invested in, my husband works for his money, he works to put food on the table... So what is it exactly that you are implying? Your tax dollars don't have anything and never have had anything to do with me.

bellamatson · December 2013

I am not going to bother reading this bullshit... But, when I saw something posted about a deployed military husband, I got really angry. As a fellow military wife, I know that is never something to bring up.
The man is off serving our country so you can raise your 5 kids. He is missing out on his own child to do that btw.

megngregk · December 2013

bellamatson said:

I am not going to bother reading this bullshit... But, when I saw something posted about a deployed military husband, I got really angry. As a fellow military wife, I know that is never something to bring up. The man is off serving our country so you can raise your 5 kids. He is missing out on his own child to do that btw.

@bellamatson,

aessary03 · December 2013

AshleyDoll said:

aessary03 said:

@Ashleydoll, would you like to borrow my shovel? I think you'll be needing it to finish digging your hole. You've insulted a beloved member of this board. It won't be forgotten. I think it's pretty well established that you're no longer welcome here no matter how much back pedaling you do. We don't give fuck what your husband and his friend say or think. The only way you MIGHT be able to somewhat redeem yourself is to issue a genuine apology to @megngregk. Otherwise, as previously stated, you can GTFO. Don't let the door hit ya where the good Lord split ya.

And that right there proves everything I've been saying. You have a beloved member of the board and you all gang up and bully people. God forbid someone does it back though right? You all can sure give it out but as soon as someone gives it back you all clamber together like you're in some little high school group of popular kids and of course you need each other to back each other up. Give me a break. The only thing I'm guilty of is telling the truth and yeah I don't know anything about her or her life and so I understand that talking about feeling bad for her husband really has no business being said BUT I am not guilty of a comment that I didn't say and there's no way in hell I'd apologize for it. Like I said, I'm not here to make people happy, being welcome here isn't on my priority list.

I love how you say something fucked up and uncalled for to one of our members and when we all stick up for her and call you out for it, we're being bullies. lol, pretty typical. I think you need to look up the definition of bully. I don't think it means what you think it means. Whether you said the comment or not, you still typed it. You could have just agreed with your husband and his friend in the privacy of your home and not typed it out. Therefore, that warrants an apology for you being an insensitive douche canoe. Do you get it now?

AshleyDoll · December 2013

PreDempsey said:

My dog (that beautiful creature in my signature) just said something really mean that I don't agree with but he told me to type it to you any way: he feels sorry for your husband and kids because you're embarrassing yourself on the internet.

I didn't say it so I won't apologize and if you pressure me I'll tell you I don't agree with him. Jesus, I'll have to cut his kibble down in the morning for being such an ass.

Seriously, everyone (including your dog, what a sweetheart by the way) is entitled to their own opinions. Yes, I admit, I probably shouldn't have put anything anyone else was saying. Royal fuck up on my part. But now that I think of it, my feeling sorry for her husband doesn't even make sense because this is the internet. Trust me, I understand fully the point that is being made. Still doesn't erase the fact that everything that was said on the first page alone was pretty messed up considering I was just asking a question. As you can see from MY very first post, I've been having issues all night getting things out "right". Which is why I asked in one of my posts if anything I was saying was even making sense at all. Doesn't make it right for people to be rude about it. And I know I have no right to sit here and judge anyone and I know where I'm in the wrong. But I've admitted that several times.

Ljessen13 · December 2013

Hahahahaha @ashleydoll. What part did u not read earlier when I said I was with someone in the military. Since ''99 sweetie. I am much older than u. Your insurance used to be free baby girl! Eta. You have been married for years u should know that.....

AshleyDoll · December 2013

Oh and I'm only just starting to really be "active" on TB as of lately because I've been put on bedrest to where as before, I wasn't on bedrest and by the time I was able to even get on a computer or the laptop I was too tired... So yes, I wasn't even really "here" for a few months. I was more of a quick lurker than anything. I also wasn't aware that @megngregk 's husband was deployed, I've only known her husband was in the military by her siggy pictures. And so yes, I do apologize for that.

peanutmuse · December 2013

AshleyDoll said:

And that right there proves everything I've been saying. You have a beloved member of the board and you all gang up and bully people. God forbid someone does it back though right? You all can sure give it out but as soon as someone gives it back you all clamber together like you're in some little high school group of popular kids and of course you need each other to back each other up.

....or maybe, just maybe, you did something not so nice and refuse to acknowledge it appropriately.

We have our own little internal squabbles and people will take one side or the other. It happens all of the time. But if EVERYONE is saying that what you did was messed up, well... maybe it's time to consider the obvious. Just a thought. Apply the duck test to this situation, and see what you come up with, doll.

aessary03 · December 2013

AshleyDoll said:

Oh and I'm only just starting to really be "active" on TB as of lately because I've been put on bedrest to where as before, I wasn't on bedrest and by the time I was able to even get on a computer or the laptop I was too tired... So yes, I wasn't even really "here" for a few months. I was more of a quick lurker than anything. I also wasn't aware that @megngregk 's husband was deployed, I've only known her husband was in the military by her siggy pictures. And so yes, I do apologize for that.

That's a shitty apology and doesn't touch you typing what your husband and friend supposedly said. You're going to have to do a lot better than that.

salsamommy · December 2013

@AshleyDoll

AshleyDoll said:

If you can't take it, don't dish it.

You should take your own advice!

Ljessen13 · December 2013

Oh @ashleydoll Did you know Megan's husband probably won't be here for the birth??? Missed pretty much her entire pregnancy and she has been on her own? Ps @megngregk that happened with my son! It is horrible to do it alone! I wish stuff like this existed almost 11 years ago so i had a support system. !!! Xoxoxoxoxox Megan!

csandroo · December 2013

When I was teaching Kindergarten this is what we would call a "learning moment" .... AKA- you fucked up and in the moment you have the chance to get defensive and act out even more OR you can learn from the experience and admit when you did wrong. Sounds silly when I am explaining it to an adult and not a child but for real ... I've learned new things about myself through posting on the board and had to face different issues I've had that have come up through different topics ... It's done me good, you should try it.

I get that you wish people would've explained to you in a nicer way that the mucus plug topic is a sore spot but that's no reason to go on a Tasmanian devil whirlwind of crazy. You did admit that you shouldn't have posted your husband and his friends thoughts ... But people on here disagree alllll the time and it doesn't turn into this huge mess because they do it respectfully - with a good sense of humor - and own up to it when they're wrong.

Ljessen13 · December 2013

Hahahaha I have made my fair share of dumb comments on this board. In the beginning. I learned the j14 groups quickly. I love the regs on here! They have been my rock!

AshleyDoll · December 2013

peanutmuse said:

AshleyDoll said:

And that right there proves everything I've been saying. You have a beloved member of the board and you all gang up and bully people. God forbid someone does it back though right? You all can sure give it out but as soon as someone gives it back you all clamber together like you're in some little high school group of popular kids and of course you need each other to back each other up.

....or maybe, just maybe, you did something not so nice and refuse to acknowledge it appropriately.

We have our own little internal squabbles and people will take one side or the other. It happens all of the time. But if EVERYONE is saying that what you did was messed up, well... maybe it's time to consider the obvious. Just a thought. Apply the duck test to this situation, and see what you come up with, doll.

It's not that I did something that I refuse to acknowledge it's that I am young still and don't realize every mistake I make all the time... Like I've said, I know I'm not the smartest and I can be pretty stupid sometimes. And trust me, I've been looking at EVERY post, reading this entire thing over and over for the last hour now trying to understand. I've never claimed to know everything, I know I screw up, that's something I deal with in the real world even. I honestly didn't post this thread thinking that it was going to be an issue, my goal is not to come on here and create issues and annoy people. The truth is is that I don't always use my head, I am young and yes that word again, stupid. I do still have a lot to learn. I don't always realize my mistakes right away. But my age has no way impacted the way I raise my children and the kind of wife I am and the fact that I am more grown up than a lot of "grown ups" that I know. There's always a ton more for me to learn and a lot of mistakes will be made in the process. It's all a part of learning.

aessary03 · December 2013

AshleyDoll said:

peanutmuse said:

AshleyDoll said:

And that right there proves everything I've been saying. You have a beloved member of the board and you all gang up and bully people. God forbid someone does it back though right? You all can sure give it out but as soon as someone gives it back you all clamber together like you're in some little high school group of popular kids and of course you need each other to back each other up.

....or maybe, just maybe, you did something not so nice and refuse to acknowledge it appropriately.

We have our own little internal squabbles and people will take one side or the other. It happens all of the time. But if EVERYONE is saying that what you did was messed up, well... maybe it's time to consider the obvious. Just a thought. Apply the duck test to this situation, and see what you come up with, doll.

It's not that I did something that I refuse to acknowledge it's that I am young still and don't realize every mistake I make all the time... Like I've said, I know I'm not the smartest and I can be pretty stupid sometimes. And trust me, I've been looking at EVERY post, reading this entire thing over and over for the last hour now trying to understand. I've never claimed to know everything, I know I screw up, that's something I deal with in the real world even. I honestly didn't post this thread thinking that it was going to be an issue, my goal is not to come on here and create issues and annoy people. The truth is is that I don't always use my head, I am young and yes that word again, stupid. I do still have a lot to learn. I don't always realize my mistakes right away. But my age has no way impacted the way I raise my children and the kind of wife I am and the fact that I am more grown up than a lot of "grown ups" that I know. There's always a ton more for me to learn and a lot of mistakes will be made in the process. It's all a part of learning.

I still don't see an apology to @megngregk. And all I get from this is blah blah blah I'm young. Who cares if you're young? That does not excuse you from what you have said on this thread.

AshleyDoll · December 2013

aessary03 said:

AshleyDoll said:

Oh and I'm only just starting to really be "active" on TB as of lately because I've been put on bedrest to where as before, I wasn't on bedrest and by the time I was able to even get on a computer or the laptop I was too tired... So yes, I wasn't even really "here" for a few months. I was more of a quick lurker than anything. I also wasn't aware that @megngregk 's husband was deployed, I've only known her husband was in the military by her siggy pictures. And so yes, I do apologize for that.

That's a shitty apology and doesn't touch you typing what your husband and friend supposedly said. You're going to have to do a lot better than that.

Ok for one, I'm not going to apologize to her personally on here because she probably won't even read it. For two, that's why it's "a shitty apology". For three, had I given an actual real apology, I would just get b*tched at because it would probably be a novel, or two or three. As you see from my very first post, I've been all over the place and not really making sense all night, that's why everything I type seems to be a novel. I haven't been able to get anything out all night, the starting post reflects that.

megngregk · December 2013

AshleyDoll said:

peanutmuse said:

AshleyDoll said:

And that right there proves everything I've been saying. You have a beloved member of the board and you all gang up and bully people. God forbid someone does it back though right? You all can sure give it out but as soon as someone gives it back you all clamber together like you're in some little high school group of popular kids and of course you need each other to back each other up.

....or maybe, just maybe, you did something not so nice and refuse to acknowledge it appropriately.

We have our own little internal squabbles and people will take one side or the other. It happens all of the time. But if EVERYONE is saying that what you did was messed up, well... maybe it's time to consider the obvious. Just a thought. Apply the duck test to this situation, and see what you come up with, doll.

It's not that I did something that I refuse to acknowledge it's that I am young still and don't realize every mistake I make all the time... Like I've said, I know I'm not the smartest and I can be pretty stupid sometimes. And trust me, I've been looking at EVERY post, reading this entire thing over and over for the last hour now trying to understand. I've never claimed to know everything, I know I screw up, that's something I deal with in the real world even. I honestly didn't post this thread thinking that it was going to be an issue, my goal is not to come on here and create issues and annoy people. The truth is is that I don't always use my head, I am young and yes that word again, stupid. I do still have a lot to learn. I don't always realize my mistakes right away. But my age has no way impacted the way I raise my children and the kind of wife I am and the fact that I am more grown up than a lot of "grown ups" that I know. There's always a ton more for me to learn and a lot of mistakes will be made in the process. It's all a part of learning.

Well, at least you have some of this right. However, I am barely older than you. Don't use age as an excuse.

That said, part of being grown up is knowing not to make statements such as "Your poor husband" or implying that I am an embarrassment to him and the military (yeah, yeah, you didn't say it -- that horse has been beaten to death) when they have absolutely no backing. Your husband and his friend obviously have a few things to learn themselves. And quite frankly, you are very lucky that I was reserved after you attacked my relationship. Notice, being an adult, I did not do the same in return?

Annnnyways, I'm officially exhausted, and I'm going to bed.

AshleyDoll · December 2013

aessary03 said:

AshleyDoll said:

peanutmuse said:

AshleyDoll said:

And that right there proves everything I've been saying. You have a beloved member of the board and you all gang up and bully people. God forbid someone does it back though right? You all can sure give it out but as soon as someone gives it back you all clamber together like you're in some little high school group of popular kids and of course you need each other to back each other up.

....or maybe, just maybe, you did something not so nice and refuse to acknowledge it appropriately.

We have our own little internal squabbles and people will take one side or the other. It happens all of the time. But if EVERYONE is saying that what you did was messed up, well... maybe it's time to consider the obvious. Just a thought. Apply the duck test to this situation, and see what you come up with, doll.

It's not that I did something that I refuse to acknowledge it's that I am young still and don't realize every mistake I make all the time... Like I've said, I know I'm not the smartest and I can be pretty stupid sometimes. And trust me, I've been looking at EVERY post, reading this entire thing over and over for the last hour now trying to understand. I've never claimed to know everything, I know I screw up, that's something I deal with in the real world even. I honestly didn't post this thread thinking that it was going to be an issue, my goal is not to come on here and create issues and annoy people. The truth is is that I don't always use my head, I am young and yes that word again, stupid. I do still have a lot to learn. I don't always realize my mistakes right away. But my age has no way impacted the way I raise my children and the kind of wife I am and the fact that I am more grown up than a lot of "grown ups" that I know. There's always a ton more for me to learn and a lot of mistakes will be made in the process. It's all a part of learning.

I still don't see an apology to @megngregk. And all I get from this is blah blah blah I'm young. Who cares if you're young? That does not excuse you from what you have said on this thread.

Never once did I say it excuses anything... I said I'm young and stupid and make mistakes. Never once did I say that excuses anything. I'm not going to apologize to her on the board because I don't even know that she's even READING the board anymore and if I'm going to apologize I want her to be able to see it... Not apologize and it's pointless because the person I'm apologizing to hasn't been reading the thread.

megngregk · December 2013

FRT, I don't need an apology. Honestly, I have no idea who you are and know that what you say has no baring on me. I think my IFF's (internet friends forever) are more upset FOR me than I actually was. You know what you said was shitty and stupid, so we're moving on.

Goodnight to all, and to all a good night.

Winnieella · December 2013

Um chica, we are the same age...so don't use that as an excuse.

csandroo · December 2013

I think the reason you feel like you aren't "able to get anything out all night" is because you are still trying to defend/explain away the wrong things you did/said. I hate being misunderstood and am notoriously long winded so I can relate .. But I've been learning sometimes it's better just to simply admit wrongdoing - with no excuse (even if I had a good one!) and move forward. It's the difference between pride and humility - being secure in yourself vs. insecure.

AshleyDoll · December 2013

Um chica, we are the same age...so don't use that as an excuse.

So you're saying you know everything then? You never make mistakes? Got it! Congrats to you!

AshleyDoll · December 2013

I think the reason you feel like you aren't "able to get anything out all night" is because you are still trying to defend/explain away the wrong things you did/said. I hate being misunderstood and am notoriously long winded so I can relate .. But I've been learning sometimes it's better just to simply admit wrongdoing - with no excuse (even if I had a good one!) and move forward. It's the difference between pride and humility - being secure in yourself vs. insecure.

If that were the case then why wasn't I able to get anything out from my very first post? I wasn't defending anything or explaining away any wrongs I did then. Even my second post I was asking if what I was saying even made sense. It's not like I started not being able to get anything out after everything started, it was that way from the get go.

Winnieella · December 2013

AshleyDoll said:

Winnieella said:
Um chica, we are the same age...so don't use that as an excuse.

So you're saying you know everything then? You never make mistakes? Got it! Congrats to you!

I make mistakes, but I admit them and don't use my age as an excuse as to why I made them.

aessary03 · December 2013

I'm bowing out of this one .... she obviously doesn't get it and clearly won't get it anytime soon. There's no sense trying to talk sense into a brick wall.

AshleyDoll · December 2013

JmeMichelle said:

@AshleyDoll 1. I don't care who you are, you don't say things about military members. Mostly because you have NO fucking idea what it's like to live this life. And no, your friend being military doesn't excuse anything. So shut your fucking mouth and don't bother back pedaling on that one. 2. Your reasons for not apologizing are weak at best. If you were as mature as you're pretending to be you'd bite the bullet and say you're sorry, regardless of whether or not @megngregk is reading. Grow up. I know she said she doesn't need your apology and I totally understand why (because you don't matter to the people on this board, in case it isn't clear), but you should still feel like crap. 3. You spent the entire first half of this thread burning bridges and refusing to back down, even though you CLEARLY crossed a line (which is obvious from the response you got). A normal person would've stopped and realized that, but you kept on trucking. You've offended a lot of people. Are you seriously hoping this will go away and you can continue being ridiculous on this board? SO MUCH NOPE. 4. If you knew the culture of this board before you posted, you'd know how this post would've been received.. So you had your gloves on and came ready to fight. You brought this on yourself. We are not misreading you, you just acted like an ass. Seriously, you need to go have a time out. With so many kids and SOOO much experience already, you should be very familiar with that term. Come back when you want to act like a normal person.

Actually I do know what it's like to "live that life". The father of my oldest daughter who is also my ex husband who I was married to for two years, he was in the military before we were even together. So I know very much how it is.

Secondly, yes, it does make a lot of difference to actually apologize to a person and have them see it. This is the only time I have been ridiculous on any board on TB in years, so in order to continue something, shouldn't I have done it for awhile now, not just one fucking night? I didn't cross any line for the first half of the damn thread. I didn't "burn" any "bridges" by asking a question and having to revise it several times because I didn't even make sense to myself.

Thirdly, have you not read every post I've posted? If so then you should know that I haven't even been on this board much in months because I've been so busy with life, I had no idea that a mucus plug was such a touchy subject... Even searching the board I haven't seen where it's mentioned that it's a touchy subject. And you say to come back when I'm ready to act like a normal person???? I've not said anything offending or anything in my last posts for the past 45ish minutes. Please make sure you read everything before you go off on things that have already been mentioned. I don't know how much more clear I can be without being rude or offending you or a complete bitch about it. There's only so many nice ways to put something that you've said over and over and over. I'm sorry you aren't reading it.

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