Mucus Plug Question... A Bit TMI

PreDempsey

@litzo27 it's a shit show.

salsamommy

@AshleyDoll the point is YOU DIDN'T HAVE TO POST THAT COMMENT!

You clearly don't comprehend and only read what you want!

Winnieella

AshleyDoll said:

ANDYLEAH said:

@AshleyDoll YOU posted the comment, not your husband's friend . Man up for your asshat comment and stop blaming others!

I didn't make the comment... I just stated what my husband said and I agree with and then I also stated what was said. I'm not blaming others for what I say, but something that was told to me that I repeated,  why would I lie about that? That doesn't make sense..... If I can sit here and tell people that they are being stupid, if I can sit here and say I know I'm a b*tch... I never once said I didn't post the comment. But that's all I did, post the comment. Not once did I say I was the one who MADE the comment.

But you didn't have to type it up here. And by typing it, you support it. Which is a low blow. 

Siblynika

litzo27 said:

Are we still talking about mucus plugs?? Or is this a free for all about stupidity?? I'm all kinds of confused.

From what I've gathered, mucus plugs are so last season- now, it's all about the name calling and who is being the most rude.

Hint: there is a very clear winner on the scale of bitchiness.

jldubb0626

AshleyDoll said:

I said I agree with the poor husband, seriously who wants a wife who sits there on the internet antagonizing others just because she can... I'm not the one who said anything about her being a military wife, my husband's friend did, not me. That's why I said that completely spaced out from the first part of the comment. I never once said I agreed with that, I was just stating what was said. I just feel bad for her husband in general, whether he was military or not has nothing to do with it. She did however ask me to elaborate and I did. If you don't want to know the answer, don't ask. Simple as that.

This is you...

daltosostarby

I almost never post on these shit shows, but OP, you are seriously out of line. There is honesty, and there is being rude, and you crossed over to rude and beyond.

There are FAQs for people who don't post/keep up, there is the search function, and there is google. Oh, and if you really want to know a good answer, ask your doctor. That's what they're there for.

Winnieella

daltoso said:

I almost never post on these shit shows, but OP, you are seriously out of line. There is honesty, and there is being rude, and you crossed over to rude and beyond. There are FAQs for people who don't post/keep up, there is the search function, and there is google. Oh, and if you really want to know a good answer, ask your doctor. That's what they're there for.

@daltoso- she made it clear she doesn't give a F about our board and what rules we follow. She also made it clear that she doesn't need to google that shit.  

litzo27

@PreDempsey - oooo, is there a GIF of a "shit show"? Preferably one with @MegnGregk rising from the vortex and smiting down the demons of stupidity??

daltosostarby

Winnieella said:

daltoso said:

I almost never post on these shit shows, but OP, you are seriously out of line. There is honesty, and there is being rude, and you crossed over to rude and beyond.

There are FAQs for people who don't post/keep up, there is the search function, and there is google. Oh, and if you really want to know a good answer, ask your doctor. That's what they're there for.

@daltoso- she made it clear she doesn't give a F about our board and what rules we follow. She also made it clear that she doesn't need to google that shit.  

@winnieella - you're right, I just don't understand how people can be that dense and disrespectful to others. It really just blows my mind. I have a hard time realizing that there are people that selfish out there, that they will just say and do anything they want regardless of others.

AshleyDoll

Trust me if I thought anything about her husband and her I would say it. I'm not afraid to tell anyone what is on my mind no matter who you are... Whether you're on the internet or sitting right in front of me. I don't think that her husband being in the military, or her for that matter, has anything to do with anything. If I did, I would own up to it in a heartbeat. I just feel bad for her husband in general. This WHOLE thing could have been avoided had she just answer the question or leave it be instead of stir sh*t up. I mean seriously, I know you can post whatever you want and this is the internet but to sit there and try to make someone feel like crap for posting a question about a topic that has been talked about before, that's pretty screwed up of a person in general. Just like how I've seen some people on this board make others feel like crap and actually hurt people's feelings because they want to be b*tch. I've seen many of you sit there and gang up on women who ask questions. It makes me sick. And just like you can post whatever you want, I can too. I'm sorry that when someone is going to try and do that to me, I'm not going to sit back and take it, I'm not going to run off crying and delete my account or whatever. It's sad that so many people are so unwilling to help, like I said though, I'm not going to sit back and take it when it's done to me.

Kismc

Ya I usually stay out of these posts, but OP...I just can't believe how low your comment was. I can't imagine saying that about anyone and being able to justify it. I am appalled.

@MegnGregk- I applaude you for backing out of this post.

ac1259

AshleyDoll said:

Trust me if I thought anything about her husband and her I would say it. I'm not afraid to tell anyone what is on my mind no matter who you are... Whether you're on the internet or sitting right in front of me. I don't think that her husband being in the military, or her for that matter, has anything to do with anything. If I did, I would own up to it in a heartbeat. I just feel bad for her husband in general. This WHOLE thing could have been avoided had she just answer the question or leave it be instead of stir sh*t up. I mean seriously, I know you can post whatever you want and this is the internet but to sit there and try to make someone feel like crap for posting a question about a topic that has been talked about before, that's pretty screwed up of a person in general. Just like how I've seen some people on this board make others feel like crap and actually hurt people's feelings because they want to be b*tch. I've seen many of you sit there and gang up on women who ask questions. It makes me sick. And just like you can post whatever you want, I can too. I'm sorry that when someone is going to try and do that to me, I'm not going to sit back and take it, I'm not going to run off crying and delete my account or whatever. It's sad that so many people are so unwilling to help, like I said though, I'm not going to sit back and take it when it's done to me.

I'm sorry but I believe you were the one calling the FTM's stupid and telling them not to answer questions...and then backpedaling and saying "oh but I didn't say that.." And then going WAY out of line and saying you feel bad for someone's husband..just stop..that hole you're digging yourself into is already over your head...just stop. 

Winnieella

AshleyDoll said: Trust me if I thought anything about her husband and her I would say it. I'm not afraid to tell anyone what is on my mind no matter who you are... Whether you're on the internet or sitting right in front of me. I don't think that her husband being in the military, or her for that matter, has anything to do with anything. If I did, I would own up to it in a heartbeat. I just feel bad for her husband in general. This WHOLE thing could have been avoided had she just answer the question or leave it be instead of stir sh*t up. I mean seriously, I know you can post whatever you want and this is the internet but to sit there and try to make someone feel like crap for posting a question about a topic that has been talked about before, that's pretty screwed up of a person in general. Just like how I've seen some people on this board make others feel like crap and actually hurt people's feelings because they want to be b*tch. I've seen many of you sit there and gang up on women who ask questions. It makes me sick. And just like you can post whatever you want, I can too. I'm sorry that when someone is going to try and do that to me, I'm not going to sit back and take it, I'm not going to run off crying and delete my account or whatever. It's sad that so many people are so unwilling to help, like I said though, I'm not going to sit back and take it when it's done to me.


Okay, but you could have search here (I did and got a threads about mucus plugs, and threads about how this is a sour topic for this board) and you could have searched google (again, I searched and found the answer) or you could have called your Doctor. Instead you say point blank that you don't give a d*mn and make a post that you  knew would cause issues. When Megngrek answered your post, with a nicer response that what you  would have gotten from someone else, you decided to get all butthurt and attack her calling her stupid, and immature. You also implied that ALL  FTMS are stupid. Therefore, making you  look immature.  Plus, someone who is on the 5th baby, should be mature enough to know  how to gracefully respond to different posts, instead of acting like a baby them-self.  And for the record, If I had received a response like what meg said, I wouldn't have felt like crap. But what you are doing is making her feel like crap. So again, "Pot Meet Kettle"

AshleyDoll

Kismc said:

Ya I usually stay out of these posts, but OP...I just can't believe how low your comment was. I can't imagine saying that about anyone and being able to justify it. I am appalled. @MegnGregk- I applaude you for backing out of this post.

Oh my fucking god. I'm appalled by the people who clearly can't read a fucking thing to save their life. I didn't say anything about anyone that I haven't owned up to and I didn't ever justify the comment that was made either. I didn't have to post it, you're right, but just because I did doesn't mean I support it... It means that maybe she should watch about what she says to people because I'm not the only one who thinks something negative... Which is why I also said what my husband said. He didn't say anything about agreeing to what his friend said either. What his friend said was a comment he made after my husband said "Man I feel bad for her husband, if she does this to you and others, how is she to him" To which I agreed and then my husband's friend added in the comment he made. I didn't mention what was said because I agreed with that particular comment, I mentioned it because I'm not the only one who thinks it's ridiculous to sit there and stir stuff up.

Ljessen13

@ashleydoll. Why are all of ur answer novels?? All I read is he said...i said...my husband said...his friend said....then I said what my husband said.....,what the heck does it matter? It doesn't matter who said it.....you posted it...therefore you take ownership and responsibility for it! For someone who has said 12 millions I'll say what I want and I am not scared.....you are too busy arguing about the "one thing" you apparently didn't even say. My head hurts. I am going to bed! Love you @megngregk.

Winnieella

OP- if you didn't support it, you wouldn't have written it. Stop back pedaling and accept that you wrote a hurtful, low comment.  Then you need to grow up, and apologize.

rowanthefrog

salsamommy

@AshleyDoll we are appalled by you!

AshleyDoll

AshleyDoll said: Trust me if I thought anything about her husband and her I would say it. I'm not afraid to tell anyone what is on my mind no matter who you are... Whether you're on the internet or sitting right in front of me. I don't think that her husband being in the military, or her for that matter, has anything to do with anything. If I did, I would own up to it in a heartbeat. I just feel bad for her husband in general. This WHOLE thing could have been avoided had she just answer the question or leave it be instead of stir sh*t up. I mean seriously, I know you can post whatever you want and this is the internet but to sit there and try to make someone feel like crap for posting a question about a topic that has been talked about before, that's pretty screwed up of a person in general. Just like how I've seen some people on this board make others feel like crap and actually hurt people's feelings because they want to be b*tch. I've seen many of you sit there and gang up on women who ask questions. It makes me sick. And just like you can post whatever you want, I can too. I'm sorry that when someone is going to try and do that to me, I'm not going to sit back and take it, I'm not going to run off crying and delete my account or whatever. It's sad that so many people are so unwilling to help, like I said though, I'm not going to sit back and take it when it's done to me.

Okay, but you could have search here (I did and got a threads about mucus plugs, and threads about how this is a sour topic for this board) and you could have searched google (again, I searched and found the answer) or you could have called your Doctor. Instead you say point blank that you don't give a d*mn and make a post that you  knew would cause issues. When Megngrek answered your post, with a nicer response that what you  would have gotten from someone else, you decided to get all butthurt and attack her calling her stupid, and immature. You also implied that ALL  FTMS are stupid. Therefore, making you  look immature.  Plus, someone who is on the 5th baby, should be mature enough to know  how to gracefully respond to different posts, instead of acting like a baby them-self.  And for the record, If I had received a response like what meg said, I wouldn't have felt like crap. But what you are doing is making her feel like crap. So again, "Pot Meet Kettle"










Like I said before, I searched here and google. All I found was stuff about losing your mucus plug and people asking if it means they are dilated or going to have a baby soon, I didn't find anything answering the question I had which was not anything to do with the posts I found about it. And no, I really didn't think it would cause issues to ask a question I wanted an answer to. I have NEVER asked a question to cause issues, why the hell would I start now? And I don't give a damn if I hurt someone's feelings, I don't even give a damn if I'm bluntly honest with someone here in the real world and it hurts them, the truth isn't always pretty and sometimes it hurts. And I didn't start saying anything about anyone being stupid and immature right off the bat, it was after many comments. I'm not butthurt about anything, like I've said a million fucking times, I don't care what anyone (no matter who you are) thinks of me or has to say about me, that's the thing, you are entitled to you own opinions just like I am mine. I don't sit here and put up with anyone's sh*t in the real world, why would I with someone online? I'm not going to sit here and get run off the board like I've seen happen to many others and it's really quite pointless for anyone to try because it's not going to happen.

And just an FYI, the guy who made the comment in the first place is in the military himself, most of my family is in the military, most of my husband's family is in the military and we have tons of military friends... It's not like anything was said against the military, a comment was made about how a military wife should act better and should know better than to try to bully other pregnant women asking for help. And yes she does have quite the history at making pregnant women cry and running them off the board. But never once did I even say I agreed with that comment... Like I said, military or not, a person shouldn't be doing that at all in general. Military wife has nothing to do with that fact.

PreDempsey

Sounds pretty butt hurt to me. Please OP, do not dedicate your next novel to me because you sound ridiculous.

peanutmuse

AshleyDoll said:

Oh my fucking god. I'm appalled by the people who clearly can't read a fucking thing to save their life. I didn't say anything about anyone that I haven't owned up to and I didn't ever justify the comment that was made either. I didn't have to post it, you're right, but just because I did doesn't mean I support it... It means that maybe she should watch about what she says to people because I'm not the only one who thinks something negative... Which is why I also said what my husband said. He didn't say anything about agreeing to what his friend said either. What his friend said was a comment he made after my husband said "Man I feel bad for her husband, if she does this to you and others, how is she to him" To which I agreed and then my husband's friend added in the comment he made. I didn't mention what was said because I agreed with that particular comment, I mentioned it because I'm not the only one who thinks it's ridiculous to sit there and stir stuff up.

Oh hunny, all of this dribble makes it sound like you think anyone here cares what your husband thinks. (Or what his friend thinks.) Just to be absolutely clear, we don't.

Seriously, what kind of person runs crying to her husband when people on the internet give her a little flaming?

AshleyDoll

@BMReid It's not just her, there are several people on the board who have ganged up on people (newer members mostly) and completely run them off the board. Open up her profile and look in her discussions.

peanutmuse

KaitiMac said:

AshleyDoll said:

And just an FYI, the guy who made the comment in the first place is in the military himself, most of my family is in the military, most of my husband's family is in the military and we have tons of military friends... It's not like anything was said against the military, a comment was made about how a military wife should act better and should know better than to try to bully other pregnant women asking for help. And yes she does have quite the history at making pregnant women cry and running them off the board. But never once did I even say I agreed with that comment... Like I said, military or not, a person shouldn't be doing that at all in general. Military wife has nothing to do with that fact.

Name one. 

Now if it was me she was talking about, she might have a leg to stand on...

Siblynika

This is my ghetto/mobile way of posting pics (DH get OFF of the computer so I can gif!)

And who has @megngregk ran off? More importantly, can she teach us her ways?

AshleyDoll

@peanutmuse I didn't run crying to my husband. He's been sitting right here next to me and asked who I was talking to since I've been typing more than usual and so I told him and read him each post per his request on what was being said. If I was all upset about it, I wouldn't still be replying to anyone, I would have deleted the whole damn post.

Winnieella

AshleyDoll said:

Snip 

Like I said before, I searched here and google. All I found was stuff about losing your mucus plug and people asking if it means they are dilated or going to have a baby soon, I didn't find anything answering the question I had which was not anything to do with the posts I found about it. And no, I really didn't think it would cause issues to ask a question I wanted an answer to. I have NEVER asked a question to cause issues, why the hell would I start now? And I don't give a damn if I hurt someone's feelings, I don't even give a damn if I'm bluntly honest with someone here in the real world and it hurts them, the truth isn't always pretty and sometimes it hurts. And I didn't start saying anything about anyone being stupid and immature right off the bat, it was after many comments. I'm not butthurt about anything, like I've said a million fucking times, I don't care what anyone (no matter who you are) thinks of me or has to say about me, that's the thing, you are entitled to you own opinions just like I am mine. I don't sit here and put up with anyone's sh*t in the real world, why would I with someone online? I'm not going to sit here and get run off the board like I've seen happen to many others and it's really quite pointless for anyone to try because it's not going to happen.

And just an FYI, the guy who made the comment in the first place is in the military himself, most of my family is in the military, most of my husband's family is in the military and we have tons of military friends... It's not like anything was said against the military, a comment was made about how a military wife should act better and should know better than to try to bully other pregnant women asking for help. And yes she does have quite the history at making pregnant women cry and running them off the board. But never once did I even say I agreed with that comment... Like I said, military or not, a person shouldn't be doing that at all in general. Military wife has nothing to do with that fact.

1. You write novels. 

2. Who has Megngregk made cry?

3.YOU WROTE IT, THEREFORE YOU DO SUPPORT IT. YOU ALSO BROUGHT BEING A MILITARY WIFE INTO THIS CONVERSATION. THEREFORE, STOP BACK PEDALING, READ WHAT PEOPLE WRITE AND FURTHERMORE DON'T SAY SOMEONE "SHOULD" ACT BETTER BECAUSE OF WHAT THEIR HUSBAND DOES.  That is sending the women's lib movement back a few years. 

Lastly, what does you  having family and military friends have to with it?

(Bold and in caps for emphasis)

Deblondie1

Deblondie1 was here

Winnieella

Deblondie1 said:

Deblondie1 was here

@Deblondie1- I love the pumpkin pic in your siggy. 

Ljessen13

Hey @ashleydoll. Your post on May 27th made me giggle. You are 23 with 5 kids and you claimed you were more mature than most adults you know!!! You would think with that many kids at your age you really would have matured quickly! I am pretty sure u didn't! I am 100% positive you didn't need us from August until Thanksgiving. A few days ago when you were in l&d we all cared about you and were there for you!!!!! Now that u didn't get an answer you want we are all evil...stupid...illiterate....stupid....oh wait did I mention stupid???? ETA you should have asked about ur mucus plug while you were in the hospital.

Deblondie1

Winnieella said:

Deblondie1 said:

Deblondie1 was here

@Deblondie1- I love the pumpkin pic in your siggy. 

Aww thanks @Winnieella! DD is a total ham and loved that little pumpkin lol

megngregk

AshleyDoll said:

Like I said before, I searched here and google. All I found was stuff about losing your mucus plug and people asking if it means they are dilated or going to have a baby soon, I didn't find anything answering the question I had which was not anything to do with the posts I found about it. And no, I really didn't think it would cause issues to ask a question I wanted an answer to. I have NEVER asked a question to cause issues, why the hell would I start now? And I don't give a damn if I hurt someone's feelings, I don't even give a damn if I'm bluntly honest with someone here in the real world and it hurts them, the truth isn't always pretty and sometimes it hurts. And I didn't start saying anything about anyone being stupid and immature right off the bat, it was after many comments. I'm not butthurt about anything, like I've said a million fucking times, I don't care what anyone (no matter who you are) thinks of me or has to say about me, that's the thing, you are entitled to you own opinions just like I am mine. I don't sit here and put up with anyone's sh*t in the real world, why would I with someone online? I'm not going to sit here and get run off the board like I've seen happen to many others and it's really quite pointless for anyone to try because it's not going to happen.

And just an FYI, the guy who made the comment in the first place is in the military himself, most of my family is in the military, most of my husband's family is in the military and we have tons of military friends... It's not like anything was said against the military, a comment was made about how a military wife should act better and should know better than to try to bully other pregnant women asking for help. And yes she does have quite the history at making pregnant women cry and running them off the board. But never once did I even say I agreed with that comment... Like I said, military or not, a person shouldn't be doing that at all in general. Military wife has nothing to do with that fact.

Ok, I had to come back once this was pointed out to me. Please, use your mad searching skills to retrieve my post history and point out even once where I made somebody cry and ran them off. If you "knew" anything about me, you'd have a pretty good handle on the fact that I'm actually a very supportive, caring person. But alas, you like to pull shit out of your ass.

@AshleyDoll, all you do is talk yourself in circles thinking that your long-winded rants are somehow making you look like an intelligent being who can justify making very arrogant, far-reaching comments.

And FTR, I adore my husband. I've never been so proud to stand next to somebody in my life. Your "husband's" comment about how I must treat him has absolutely no basis because you know nothing about me or my relationship, as you've proven by saying something completely false (i.e., me running people off the board). Nor have you apparently paid any attention to the numerous posts/comments about how much I miss my husband, the things I do for him, etc., etc.

Winnieella

Ljessen13 said:

Hey @ashleydoll. Your post on May 27th made me giggle. You are 23 with 5 kids and you claimed you were more mature than most adults you know!!! You would think with that many kids at your age you really would have matured quickly! I am pretty sure u didn't! I am 100% positive you didn't need us from August until Thanksgiving. A few days ago when you were in l&d we all cared about you and were there for you!!!!! Now that u didn't get an answer you want we are all evil...stupid...illiterate....stupid....oh wait did I mention stupid????

OP:

peanutmuse

AshleyDoll said:

@peanutmuse I didn't run crying to my husband. He's been sitting right here next to me and asked who I was talking to since I've been typing more than usual and so I told him and read him each post per his request on what was being said. If I was all upset about it, I wouldn't still be replying to anyone, I would have deleted the whole damn post.

Yeah, you know, that doesn't really make it better.

But I see you didn't address the part about us not caring what your husband thinks or says. Methinks you know that I'm right about that, and you are regretting taking that particular route. It was a very childish move, wouldn't you say?

rowanthefrog

gina0485

AshleyDoll said:

I said I agree with the poor husband, seriously who wants a wife who sits there on the internet antagonizing others just because she can... I'm not the one who said anything about her being a military wife, my husband's friend did, not me. That's why I said that completely spaced out from the first part of the comment. I never once said I agreed with that, I was just stating what was said. I just feel bad for her husband in general, whether he was military or not has nothing to do with it. She did however ask me to elaborate and I did. If you don't want to know the answer, don't ask. Simple as that.

Seriously? Back off from my girl @megngregk . I don't care if you want to post about your mucous plug but you are way out of line here. You have NO IDEA what some of the women on this board go through and frankly your criticisms are cruel, because they're personal. Her eye rolling over you annoying her with a redundant post is absolutely not the same as you attacking her personal life. You, lady, are no friend of mine and I will not welcome or entertain future discourse with you.

PreDempsey

<<insert chapter book here>>

Prologue: My 5th Mucus Plug 
 

Chapter One: You Don't Know Me

Chapter Two: You All Can't Read

Chapter Three: ANNNNNNNNNNNND

Chapter Four: I Will Try To Control The Internet & What People Say

Chapter Five: I Don't Care What You Think

Chapter Six: I Didn't Say It, Someone Else did

Chapter Seven: Megan Is A Bully

..Those might be out of order but you get the jist.

AshleyDoll

Ljessen13 said:

Hey @ashleydoll. Your post on May 27th made me giggle. You are 23 with 5 kids and you claimed you were more mature than most adults you know!!! You would think with that many kids at your age you really would have matured quickly! I am pretty sure u didn't! I am 100% positive you didn't need us from August until Thanksgiving. A few days ago when you were in l&d we all cared about you and were there for you!!!!! Now that u didn't get an answer you want we are all evil...stupid...illiterate....stupid....oh wait did I mention stupid????

Yes and you know everything about me right? Just because I don't sit back and take crap from other people, it doesn't mean anything. Some of you seem fake, completely fake. You sit there and "support" people when they are in need of it and then turn around and flip sh*t because someone asks a question. All I've done is call people out on their bs. I've seen several of the women on this board run people off, I'm not going to sit here and let you all do that to me because I say something you don't like or agree with. Everyone has their own opinions on everything and there's nothing wrong with that. And yes, there was a lot of support while I was in l&d and I really do appreciate that. Even with having early babies and what not, it's scary as hell to go through all that crap. But if  someone is going to be rude and disrespectful towards me then they are getting it back ten fold. If you can't take it, don't dish it.

aessary03

@Ashleydoll, would you like to borrow my shovel?  I think you'll be needing it to finish digging your hole.  You've insulted a beloved member of this board.  It won't be forgotten.  I think it's pretty well established that you're no longer welcome here no matter how much back pedaling you do.  We don't give fuck what your husband and his friend say or think.  The only way you MIGHT be able to somewhat redeem yourself is to issue a genuine apology to @megngregk.  Otherwise, as previously stated, you can GTFO.  Don't let the door hit ya where the good Lord split ya.

brideandbreve

Wait, she's 23 with 5 kids?

Jesus. She needs Jesus and some birth control. At least to keep her triflin' ass off TB.

Let us be the last BMB graced with her charming presence, bless her simple little heart.

megngregk

PreDempsey said:

<<insert chapter book here>>

Prologue: My 5th Mucus Plug 
 

Chapter One: You Don't Know Me

Chapter Two: You All Can't Read

Chapter Three: ANNNNNNNNNNNND

Chapter Four: I Will Try To Control The Internet & What People Say

Chapter Five: I Don't Care What You Think

Chapter Six: I Didn't Say It, Someone Else did

Chapter Seven: Megan Is A Bully

..Those might be out of order but you get the jist.

Dying. I PPH you.

ETA:

Chapter Eight: You're All Fake Bishes