I know I'm late to this thread, but I have an FFFC. Lately I feel really guilty about some of my activity on TB. The J13 superlatives were just supposed to be fun, and they made people feel excluded. My UO about bread winning men really hurt some people, and I feel sorry for that. Also, I'm the one who brought up abortion in the NHIE thread and I think that led to the UO debacle yesterday.
I feel like I've been (inadvertently) thoughtless lately and I'm so sorry for hurting anyone. I'm definitely considering cutting back my activity.
Noooooo. @valstulas don't leave us! I'm just a Debbie downer in general. I've never liked superlatives so please don't take my moaning the wrong way. I love you! :-*
So I've made this "scientific" hypothesis that the reason UO and ffffc got so ugly is because everyone is suffering the 3-4 mo sleep regression and/or colicky baby. That must be it. Yup.
So I've made this "scientific" hypothesis that the reason UO and ffffc got so ugly is because everyone is suffering the 3-4 mo sleep regression and/or colicky baby. That must be it. Yup.
So I've made this "scientific" hypothesis that the reason UO and ffffc got so ugly is because everyone is suffering the 3-4 mo sleep regression and/or colicky baby. That must be it. Yup.
Me: 35 H: 35 Married: 4/5/13 "You know that place between sleep and awake, that place where you can still remember dreaming? That's where I will always love you. That's where I'll be waiting." ~Peter Pan
*TW*
BFP #1: 11/12/12 EDD 7/25/13 Baby boy: 7/27/13 BFP #2: 10/29/17 MMC dx @ 9 weeks BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18 BFP #4: 3/2/18 MC 3/9/18 RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28 BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19 Rainbow baby girl born 7/23/19 BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022
So I've made this "scientific" hypothesis that the reason UO and ffffc got so ugly is because everyone is suffering the 3-4 mo sleep regression and/or colicky baby. That must be it. Yup.
Or we are just a board of assholes...
While pregnant it was our 'hormones,' PP it's because of 'sleep deprivation..'
Can we just accept that women don't always have to be nice? That we're allowed to have thoughts and feelings that aren't always sunshine and rainbows? That we're allowed to be angry and be mean and lash out without just being crazy, that it must be that time of the month? ("It must be that time of the month" is code for "your anger is crazy and irrational and invalid and I get to ignore it instead of addressing it")
I haven't hit the 4 no regression yet and I don't have a colicky baby. I just get pissed off sometimes. Not because I'm cranky. Because certain things piss me off. I own it.
Me, too. And I'm making another stab that people don't get when I'm sarcastic. I clearly need to be better at it or wear a big, fucking hat that says "I'M BEING SARCASTIC". FFS...
Re: FFFC!!
Noooooo. @valstulas don't leave us! I'm just a Debbie downer in general. I've never liked superlatives so please don't take my moaning the wrong way. I love you! :-*
When did this happen? Hahah :-O B-)
Married: 4/5/13
"You know that place between sleep and awake,
that place where you can still remember dreaming?
That's where I will always love you.
That's where I'll be waiting."
~Peter Pan
*TW*
BFP #2: 10/29/17 MMC dx @ 9 weeks
BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18
BFP #4: 3/2/18 MC 3/9/18
RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal
BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl
Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28
BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19
BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022
Me, too. And I'm making another stab that people don't get when I'm sarcastic. I clearly need to be better at it or wear a big, fucking hat that says "I'M BEING SARCASTIC". FFS...