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July 2013 Moms
FFFC!!
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Re: FFFC!!
BFP: 12/01/2012 EDD: 07/26/2013 Birthday: 07/25/2013 ♥
BFP: 12/01/2012 EDD: 07/26/2013 Birthday: 07/25/2013 ♥
Last night LO was screaming at bedtime as usual - I handed off LO and told DH to take her upstairs and get her to go to sleep - she screamed for a half an hour and then passed out. When DH came downstairs he looked like he had had a really rough time. This secretly (or not so secretly) made me super happy. Guess what DH she does that - EVERY SINGLE TIME I try to get her to sleep - she screams and sometimes she screams in between naps just for fun. Even though LO woke up like 10 min later and I had to get her to go back to sleep I still think I'm going to send DH to deal with the screaming baby every night - it was nice to have a little break
ETA and by "break" I mean I did the dishes so that I couldn't hear her scream over the sound of running water
By gross stuff on FB I mean he says he wishes he had AIDS so he can bite his mechanic and he was goin to rape their Yelp page. All because his car took longer to fix and he had to wait an extra hour. Or that men cheat bc their women aren't doing their job. Gross.
I don't love guns, but if you own one and have a gun safe or appropriate place to store them that you've done your best to child proof we are all good!
He's in town and I know he'll want to meet DD. Last time DH and I got drunk together I told him I don't want BIL to be alone around DD nor will I leave her with his parents when he's home visiting them. I think it hurt his feelings but he understood. If he didn't understand I'd refuse to take DD to his folks house.
Probably not flame able but I had to get this off my chest. I couldn't sleep thinking about it!
Ok, another FFFC. I am worried for my second child because every single second child in DHs family is a fugly freak. His one cousin is a model. His brother? Fugly! Really nice person but fugly.
Everyone always gives us the what the heck look when we tell them his name, oh well
Also, his first name is John so on applications and what not it won't look so strange
Hey lady! I sent you a PM with siggy update deets. Can you hook a sister up with a new siggy when you have a chance? I'm mostly on mobile so can't see anything with sights anyways!
BFP: 12/01/2012 EDD: 07/26/2013 Birthday: 07/25/2013 ♥
Whoa! That's crazy!! No this isn't flame able because there's no way I'd be leaving my kids with him.
And MIL sees nothing wrong with that creepy shit. She's in total denial that he's a degenerate.
Also, I would never leave DD with him. I don't even want him around DD. Like if he's home and we are out ther visiting one of us needs to be in the same room with DD at all times. Maybe that's over zealous but he creeps me the eff out.
TTC since 6/2003. m/c 9/14/03 8 weeks, 5 chemical pregnancies, mmc 6/04 12 weeks, Michael born sleeping 5/25/05 at 22weeks always our angel, fought ovarian cancer and won, m/c 4/06 5.2 weeks and 7/07 6.6 weeks,Our Miracle baby girl born 4/8/10,mc 12/18/11 at 5.3 weeks, BFP 10/26/12 dating u/s on 11/8/12 showing a strong heartbeat!EDD July 4,2013. RCS on 6/27. Baby boy in NICU for 8 long and scary days before he was able to come home. We are now a happy family of 4
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Also...I'm kinda jealous of people who win the j13 awards. I mentioned this, but I was yearbook advisor for 10 years, 3 at high school, and they're just a popularity contest.
ALSO...UO day just makes me dislike people so it's better to just not read it.
Ok, I'm done for now. Gotta be cool and check-in and workout.
TTC since 6/2003. m/c 9/14/03 8 weeks, 5 chemical pregnancies, mmc 6/04 12 weeks, Michael born sleeping 5/25/05 at 22weeks always our angel, fought ovarian cancer and won, m/c 4/06 5.2 weeks and 7/07 6.6 weeks,Our Miracle baby girl born 4/8/10,mc 12/18/11 at 5.3 weeks, BFP 10/26/12 dating u/s on 11/8/12 showing a strong heartbeat!EDD July 4,2013. RCS on 6/27. Baby boy in NICU for 8 long and scary days before he was able to come home. We are now a happy family of 4
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My FFFC: when SO said he does not want my brother to be a part of our life I felt relieved. It is so stressful to keep up with him and watch out for him. He is 33 and I am 24, I've been helping him pay bills and paret his kids and keeping him on the straight for way too long. My bigger confession; he embarrasses me. I think that is the first time I admitted that.
to react slower because I process things so slow. (I couldn't recite the eye chart back to the nurse because I didn't know how to say the letters!) I was once a super intelligent corporate manager who had to quit her job because she couldn't comprehend basic number functionality. I don't usually tell people this...because it's not something I like to talk about. But I get really upset when I do something backwards or forget something seconds later after it was discussed...and someone will playful call me stupid or dumb or make a comment like "are you kidding?!?"
My boss who didn't know my story once said "people underestimate your intelligence until they get to know you"...total slap in the face.
I don't know how this is an FFFC, but I've been down about it lately and wanted to get it off my chest.
I've been re-gifting so many of LO's stuff that we received when she was born. Very grateful for visitors bringing gifts, but holy cow, it was just too much crap that added up! I'm talking baskets upon baskets of bath and shower stuff, clothes galore, hooded towels, blankets, etc. Sooo glad I know so many pregnant women at the moment. I've even re-gifted to women I barely know from church and coworkers' daughters. I'm currently the nicest and most thoughtful person these women know. Score...?
Hugs back to you! It's rough man.
L: 7/12/13
C: 5/11/15
E: 3/7/17
Due 11/10/18
I haven't been able to read through these yet, server back up so I have to get work done but wanted to get mine off my chest before I forget. My family keeps asking when we are baptizing DD. I keep telling them i'm looking for a church that i'm comfortable with. In reality it's because I'm still struggling with my faith. I wish I could be that person who feels it was God who gave me the strength to get through what we've been through but I can't. I'm still pissed. After multiple tests, IUI's, IVFs, we finally got a heartbeat after our second IVF. The next week no more heartbeat. I can't put into words my devastation. We got pregnant on our next try during an FET cycle, I remember praying and crying please let this one be healthy do not take it away from us again. And sure enough lost that one one too. I'm happy and thank God for our miracle DD now but I am still having a hard time finding the reason for all this while I watch others get pg so easily and see others such as my friend's sister who drank and smoked through all 3 of her pregnancies.
There are also other things that I don't agree with concerning the Catholic church. One being they don't agree with infertility treatments. I feel the church feels my dd shouldn't be here and I can't seem to get over this. I know I need to figure this out soon, and stop putting this decision on baptizing off.