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April 2014 Moms
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Re: Safe to join yet?
I'm not even going to touch the other bit of crap you spewed.
When someone posts "I'm spotting - am I miscarrying?" the answer, no matter if its coming from a PGAL gal or not, is always "probably not, but it could be a sign so if you're concerned or it continues, call your doctor." We could hire a parrot to give that response...because that's the truth.
Losses happen. Early term, late term, childhood...really shitty circumstances exist. If you don't want to hear about them and you're not willing to give support to those who experience them, I suggest you cancel your Internet and TV services and build a bomb shelter.
I hope that is the kissy face lol, I'm mobile so I can't really see the whole thing.
Edit autocorrect.
A hearty cheers to you, in honor of mutual feelings of admiration!
Your a very mean person. Does it REALY matter to point that out...
((((((((Dee300))))))
I cannot believe people are agreeing. I really honestly cannot believe it.
I truly wish that miscarriages did not happen and that everything was cartwheels and lollipops. I would do anything to not experience the loss. Educating yourself on what could happen in pregnancy and child rearing is the best thing you can do for yourself and your baby. Current education usually comes from past events. If everyone hid their miscarriage then even medical staff wouldn't know what it is and I wouldn't be able to listen and talk to women that know how I'm feeling.
10 year old boy - April 13th 2003
MMC Feb 20th - May 20th finished naturally
BFP on July 25th 2013 LMP June 28th 2013
I wish I was on here when I had my loss at 24 weeks...I repeat 24 weeks! I just stayed in bed all day with no one to completely understand what I was going through. So I'm glad I'm here this time around I had a perfectly normal pregnancy the whole way through so there is ALWAYS a chance to lose your baby. Maybe you should check out some of our stories ...then again just go find another group to waste your ignorance on!
October 30, 2011
@tiffy81:
How do we start a board that focuses on the pregnancy that we have now and not losses? I'm not trying to offend anyone but I would love a board where the focus is the future and not past losses and goodbyes.
@tiffy81:
Isn't there a PGAL? The women who haven't experienced losses probably don't go on those boards to ask FTM type questions. So why should this birth month club be flooded with so many scary posts that worry FTM moms? And why is it insensitive for FTMs to want a board of their web where they don't have to see posts titled bleeding, goodbye or maybe next time? And I don't read any more of goodbye posts. Because I want to be excited about my babies not worried out of mind because every other hour someone is posting about their loss or something. Yes it's sad but there are boards for those topics and this shouldn't have to be one of them. The OP made valid points and shouldn't be crucified because she wants to read positive encouraging posts!
If anyone would like to read the rest of that post and the other hurtful things that she and the rest of the twat waffles were saying here you go:
https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12043244/likelihood-of-miscarriage/p1
And to all of the white knights "loving" these ridiculous posts. I hope you never need support because I can promise most of the PgAL community that you just horribly offended will not be there for you as you are not there for us.
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Another Edit: Also @tiffy81 How dare you attack someone on their spelling as they tell us they are just leaving the hospital from a loss. You are sick and disgusting person.
And let the next 6 pages begin....ha!
My nephew was born at 24w...he made it 4 weeks, then we lost him. My cousin had a baby born full term 4 months ago, and yesterday the baby passed away. LOSS is apart of life, babies, children, family members, and friends. I'm sick of seeing posts on this. It's sickening that people think others shouldn't reach out for support.
I like to think that this is a nice site to have support especially for ppl who have yet to talk to there familes or friends. Im super paranoid about losss but I know it happens and always for a reason and I I can say one thing to a stranger and it help them I would. And I would like to think the same for everyone one here. I think about those that have lost there babies all the time and hope they find peace.
BFP #1 May 20, 2013 MC June 27, 2013 BFP #2 August 2, 2013 Baby Boy born 4/25/14 (3 weeks overdue!)
April 14 August Siggy Challenge- "This time last year.."
This, like the OP's statement, is completely ridiculous. I am an over thinker & worrier typically, but more than that I am a human being who has empathy & compassion for others going through a hard time. @dmosquera4 The OP basically said no one should post for support or to let their new friends on here know what is going on with them if they experience a loss. That's being incredibly selfish, not "looking for reassurance." Also, @tiffy81, I have been on this board since early on, and I cannot think of one time where people told people they must be miscarrying and "scared" them. Based on previous posts, I believe you are thinking what you want with absolutely no basis.
10 year old boy - April 13th 2003
MMC Feb 20th - May 20th finished naturally
BFP on July 25th 2013 LMP June 28th 2013