Safe to join yet?

Mandyw75

ncchnat said:

Mandyw75 said:

Does this happen on the other monthly boards?

Yes, unfortunately, though the posts I've seen from this board have been some of the nastier ones.

There was a girl on my BMB whose post was titled "Way fewer MC posts" as we all hit second trimester, congratulating us for being safe.

The kicker?

There were two goodbye posts on the first page right under hers. She didn't take too kindly to having that pointed out, nor me pointing out that she should read my siggy (among others).

Edit: Typo

Ugh. Sounds very ugly. Who even thinks that? There is no magic spell in the 2nd trimester that protects everyone. Ignorant.

Marusika

You say you`d have no emotional energy to share the M/C news online?

I disagree. Well, not about what you would feel but about what other people feel.

Actually after my stillbirth I was full of energy, I was in shock and didn`t know what to do with my life. I needed to talk a lot about what happened, about my baby girl. That healed me. I needed my brain to understand that my baby was real and now she`s gone...and I could do that only by talking about it...the shock was so big that I felt like it was a nightmare and I actually waited to wake up. That sounds sad, but yes, a couple of weeks I felt very numb, like someone stole my life.

I even joined a baby loss forum and shared my story and feelings, those girls were very supportive.Now, after 4 months and a half I feel much better. With this new pregnancy came hope.

Medic99

Hopefully the douche bag OP jumped on the crazy train she rode in on and left. So much of what you have said OP is digesting and vile. I really cannot believe you pointed out grammar mistakes on a wonderful lady who had just had surgery. You are seriously vile. Go take your MUD and nastiness somewhere else. It is not wanted nor appreciated here.