Basically I think that we should call the news stations and tell them we only want happy news from now on. No more sad scary things happening in the world, right? Oh wait, that's life. You can't live in a happy little bubble and expect no sad news ever.
Reality isn't always rainbows and butterflies... And although I don't wish an MC upon anyone, it happens. It's absolutely terrible but I'm glad there are brave enough women to share their stories. And I think it reminds us all not to take anything for granted.
LOL. Seriously, where do these freaks come from? Why do they stalk baby boards? This one can spell, so it can't be wysbaby. Unless her English degree finally infiltrated the rock that is her brain.
Wysbaby always had trouble with punctuation, but her spelling and grammar (though not run-on sentences) only became abysmal at night and got worse as the night progressed. Which is why I always suspected she was a drunk, non-pregnant AW. As an English teacher who looks for style and syntax to make sure kids are writing their own papers...I gotta say the OP and Wysbaby are pretty close.
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I'm also wondering how one "hears" of a crazy board? I didn't even know this board existed until today, and my conversations outside "Internet land" don't consist of discussing message boards or anything I do on the Internet for that matter. If you are looking for unbiased answers to questions about your pregnancy, pick up a copy of what to expect. If you need a place to chronicle your pregnancy without worry of judgement, buy yourself a journal. But please don't take things personal, or look at them as a bad omen. You seem to be placing a lot of importance based off of whats posted on essentially an anonymous Internet message board. Concentrate on growing a baby, taking care of yourself and spend some time away from the big scary Internet.
You're a complete insensitive and immature fool. Have you had a miscarriage? How do you know if you'd have the 'emotional courage?' Everyone deals with things in their own way and this is a support group where people should feel comfortable coming here and sharing without criticism. Sadly miscarriage is a real part of pregnancy and yes I have had a miscarriage in the past.
im leaving i work graveyard at a hospital i dont have time for this, a girl here is on the bump so i thought i wouold check it out but i guess im not welcome to share my thoughts and fears. im sorry i offended.
I need a red pen to correct so much of this.
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MC is a very real aspect of life, and to be able to come to a place like the bump to release the emotions that come with it is a sense of closure for those experiencing the situation. If those who have had MC's had the choice not to, don't you think April 2014 would be MC free? It happens, and to many this is a safe place to come, so don't expect us to quit posting our condolensenses to those in need. We love and respect the opinions and thoughts of others, as we are all going about this in different t ways, but most of all we love and respect each other. We ask that you do the same.
Basically I think that we should call the news stations and tell them we only want happy news from now on. No more sad scary things happening in the world, right? Oh wait, that's life. You can't live in a happy little bubble and expect no sad news ever.
Absolutely agree. You said it @Sisimama10. We do not live in a perfect world, there will be pain and grief. We are here to respect others and help relieve the pain that comes with the negativity.
OP if you truly did not mean to offend anyone on this board then that should have been the next post you posted (after the original) or an edit to the original post...you can not blame people for their reactions. What a horrible way to come into a group and expect to be accepted. Seriously what did you think would happen?
Ok... So I am leaving the Er from surgery you most proberley don't care to hear about because you choose to live with rainbows and Loillie pops. Fine...that being said theses ladies gave me support and hope for the future pregancys. Also comfort weather we where going though the same thing or had gone though the same thing. So all I have to say too you, is that I pray with my whole heart you don't ever have to go though any of this ever. I am over joyed for all the pregancys that are going well. I feel sorry for you...
Why is everybody being so mean? You are going to tell me that with your first you weren't freaking out about everything you read..... Come on ladies as I know you all are LADiES I think she is just looking for reassurance just like you guys did when you first joined, so be nice to one another. Geezzzzzz
After all we all have different opinions for everything and can't agree on everything one says
Why is everybody being so mean? You are going to tell me that with your first you weren't freaking out about everything you read..... Come on ladies as I know you all are LADiES I think she is just looking for reassurance just like you guys did when you first joined, so be nice to one another. Geezzzzzz
After all we all have different opinions for everything and can't agree on everything one says
umm, pretty sure if you want support you need to give some support, not bash loss moms for posting their loss on here when they've been chatting and supportive to all us for the last 9 weeks.
~Missed MC at 8 weeks. D&C at 12 weeks on 4/17/13~
Why is everybody being so mean? You are going to tell me that with your first you weren't freaking out about everything you read..... Come on ladies as I know you all are LADiES I think she is just looking for reassurance just like you guys did when you first joined, so be nice to one another. Geezzzzzz
After all we all have different opinions for everything and can't agree on everything one says
Some of you are being ridiculous. No one is saying don't talk about your losses. I've never said that. I don't think anyone has ever said don't talk about it. What I've said all along is that I think it's wrong when newly pregnant women are asking questions early on and most of the answers are telling her that she's miscarrying. That's what I think is wrong. Yes miscarrying happens and it's real life but it's not going to happen to everyone so why try to scare women that are asking simple questions about symptoms.
@Tiffy81 "What I've said all along is that I think it's wrong when newly pregnant women are asking questions early on and most of the answers are telling her that she's miscarrying."
Please, indulge us, where are "most of the answers" here telling newly pregnant women that the answers to their questions= miscarriage? I'd like to see actual posts, please. Feel free to list them and I'll rush right over and read all of them before I judge that your last post was ignorant and dramatic.
Re: Safe to join yet?
You said _____ about me, I feel sorry for your kids. What a great example you are to them.
That would be a great drinking game...dammit.
Made Up Drama
And wysbaby is a perpetual creator of it
I second Wysbaby.
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Baby Girl Born: April 2014
If you ask me what I came to do in this world, I, an artist, I will answer you:
You said _____ about me, I feel sorry for your kids. What a great example you are to them.
Don't forget "hormones!"
Correcting grammar and spelling is also up there when a troll runs out of clichés
Edit autocorrect.
MC is a very real aspect of life, and to be able to come to a place like the bump to release the emotions that come with it is a sense of closure for those experiencing the situation. If those who have had MC's had the choice not to, don't you think April 2014 would be MC free? It happens, and to many this is a safe place to come, so don't expect us to quit posting our condolensenses to those in need. We love and respect the opinions and thoughts of others, as we are all going about this in different t ways, but most of all we love and respect each other. We ask that you do the same.
You said _____ about me, I feel sorry for your kids. What a great example you are to them.
Don't forget "hormones!"
"I don't need this"
"I'm not going to debate you, but..."
"Who do you think you are?"
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After a much needed sanity break... we are praying for our rainbows
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After all we all have different opinions for everything and can't agree on everything one says
And @Dee300 it's spelled pregnancies........