Pregnant after IF

Born too soon :(

Thanks for everyone who was thinking of me.  Unfortunately, I started having cramps and contractions on Tuesday, so Dh left his conference class early and took me to the ER.  They said I was in labor and sent me to L&D.  I delivered twin boys at 18w1d, one born with a HB and the other one not.  They were too little to survive.   We are very sad right now and know it will be tough, but we'll get through it.  He said he was really looking forward to being a father and that we should try again.... Not sure when as we need to heal and grieve first.

I'll check back on this board for the next few days and periodically after that, but I'll probably be moving back to IFV. I hope you all have successful pregnancies and take home babies.
TTC #1 since October 2008. Dealing with MFI.
IVF #1 w ICSI in July 2010 = BFN
IVF #2.1 in Oct 2010 converted to IUI = BFN
IVF #2.2 w ICSI in Dec 2010 = BFN
Met with new RE in new city on 1/31/11.
IVF #3 w ICSI in April 2011. HPT on 5/9 = BFP!
Beta #1 on 5/10 (10dp5dt) = 99.4. Beta #2 on 5/12 = 284. First u/s on 5/26. = Fraternal TWINS!
Twin boys born & lost on 8/16/11 at 18w1d due to PPROM & preterm labor.
IVF #4.1 in Jan 2012 converted to IUI on 1/7/12 = BFN
IVF #4.2 w ICSI in Feb 2012. Lupron on 2/10. Stims on 2/18. ER on 2/29- 7R,6F
ET scheduled for 3/5/12- nothing to transfer :(
Dh seeing new MFI uro & Dh starting meds- June 2012.
IVF #5 in Dec 2012 = BFFN.
IVF #6 planned for Spring 2013. Praying for our take home baby/ies.
**P/SAIF and P/SAL always welcome!**

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  • Oh no!! I just starting crying at my desk for you. I am so sorry, illinigal! (((HUGS)))

     
    A+S | Met 8/24/06 | Married 9/27/08
    Started TTC 12/2008 | dx PCOS 5/2009
    6 failed clomid/femara/TI cycles, 1 failed clomid/ovidrel/IUI cycle
    Successful Cycle: 5/12/11 - 1000mg Metformin + 100mg Clomid(late response) + TI = BFP

    2/13/12 - We proudly welcomed our daughter, Hadley Teresa!
    Lots of Luck to all of 3T/IF

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  • Oh my god. I can barely breathe. This cannot be happening to you. I dont even know how to express how increadibly sorry I am. I want nothing more than to be able to take your pain away. I am just so very, very, very sorry and heartbroken for you. This isn't fair.

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  • Oh no honey, I am so so sorry.  This is not the post that I wanted to see from you.  I am so so sad for you and your DH and your sweet little boys.  Please know that you are all in our T&P.
    TTK 9/06 / TTC 10/08 / Twins 12/11 / Life Blog
    5 REs + 3 surgical hysteroscopies for septum/lap + 3 failed IUIs
    IVF w/ICSI/AH & acu = BFP!, unexplained spontaneous m/c @ 8w2d (our little girl),
    FET w/acu = BFP!, B/G twins!, lost MP @19w, dx w/funneling cervix @20w,
    twins nearly lost to IC @21w, saved by rescue cerclage, 17P & 16w of bedrest
    Our twins born @36w4d via CS when A came foot first

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  • OMG, I am so so so so sorry, sweetheart.  I am heartbroken for you.
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  • Oh my God. No :( I am so incredibly sorry for your losses. Huge, huge (((HUGS))) to you and your DH. Please know that you're in my T&Ps, sweetie. I'm so, so sorry.
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  • Oh no!!!  I am so, so sorry.  You and your husband will be in my thoughts and prayers.  I am just devastated for you. :(
    TTC #1 May 2007
    M/C January 2008
    DS February 16th, 2009

    TTC #2 July 2010
    Diagnosed MFI
    IUI#1 w/ bravelle 5/12/11 -- 0% morph on day of IUI, but somehow BFP:
    Beta #1 38 at 12dpiui, Beta #2 85 at 14dpiui Beta #3 1100 at 19dpiui
    DD born December 28, 2011 at 34w6d

    Baby #3 due June 14, 2015

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  • Oh my...hun, I'm so, so sorry for your loss.

    Your family will be in my T&Ps.

     

    TTC #1 since June 2008 *SAIFW*

    TI, IUIs, IVF = c/ps and BFNs

  • Oh no!!! I'm so sorry for your loss.  I wish I had some other words, but I'm at a loss.  My heart is just broken for you.  I will be sure to say a prayer for you, your husband and your beautiful boys. 

    Our Journey to Brenden

    IVF #1: 4/11(Follistim/Menopur/Ganirelix) 10 retrieved/8 mature and all 8 fertilized / 2 embies transferred ... nothing to freeze Beta 5/10 = BFN

    IVF Take 2 Long Lupron July 2011

    ER 7/3/11 (our 6th anniversary) - 8 retrieved/7 mature/fert ....ET 7/6/11 - 2 beautiful grade A 8 cell embryos

    Beta 7/18/11 - 149!!! Beta 7/21/11 - 311 Beta 7/28/11 - 2,000 8/5/11 - Empty Sac 8/8/11 - There's a yolk sac and maybe a heartbeat 8/12/11 - Fetal pole, yolk sac, heartbeat 8/18/11 - Baby looks GREAT!
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  • I am so sorry to hear of your losses.  You and your DH will be in my thoughts and prayers.  I'm so so sorry.
  • I am so very sorry. It is just not fair. Please know we are all thinking of you.
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  • I am so sorry for the loss of your two beautiful boys. You and your DH are in my thoughts.
    TTC #1 12.2009 BFP #1 7.2.2011 Baby Girl 3.17.2012
    Cycle 11 - Clomid 100mg + Follistim + hCg trigger + IUI= BFP!
    Beta/P4 #1(13dpo): 94.5/47, Beta/P4 #2 (17dpo): 625/19.5, Beta/P4 #3 (19dpo): 1285/18.2
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  • I am SOOO sorry!!! ((Hugs))
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  • Oh illinigal, I'm so sorry. I can't imagine what you and your DH are going through right now. Please take care of each other. It just isn't fair.

    ((BIG HUGS))

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  • I am so, so very sorry for your loss. ((HUGS))
    Dx: High FSH, stage IV endo, homozygous C677T MTHFR and PAI-1
    Early loss 10/08
    Lap 1/09
    IVF #1 "natural IVF" - 1 egg retrieved, missed m/c
    Tried several mini-stim cycles with no response
    Switched clinics - dx'd as carrier for Fragile X
    IVF #2 MDL protocol Jan/Feb converted to IUI, BFN
    IVF #2 take 2: Antagonist, one embie, BFN
    IVF #3: Antagonist, no fertilization
    One last ditch effort at OE IVF (antagonist with Clomid) cancelled
    DE cycle #1 Jan/Feb 2011, BFP, ectopic
    DE cycle #2 June/July 2011 - BFP
    10/28/11 Baby girl lost at 17 weeks due to pre-term labor. We love and miss you.
    DE cycle #3 June/July 2012 - BFP, twins, both heartbeats stopped, D&C
    2 frosties but don't know what's next
    FET Dec 2012: BFP! Praying this one sticks for the long haul!
  • oh no sweetie. I am just so sad for you and your DH.  please take care of yourself and time to heal.  will keep you and your boys in my T+Ps.

    ~Lauren~
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    After 2+ years, 3 losses, 3 surgeries, 2 IVFs and 1 FET our little girl is here.
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  • Sorry is not a big enough word... I am hurting for you and your DH. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
    DX: Severe MFI 
    IVF # 1 ~ Antagonist ~ ER 1/27/11~ ET 1/30/11 ~ + HPT 7dp3dt 
    DD born med-free on 10/24/11 
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  • Oh my God. I can't believe this is happening to you. I'm so so sorry you're going through this. I wish there was something I could say.. anything.. but I know there isn't. Please tell us if there is anything we can do. It's so wrong. I'm so sorry.

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  • I am so, so sorry to hear of your loss.  I was worrid about you when you mentioned the mucus the other day.  The same thing happaned to me.  I was traveling for work and lost my boys when I wasn't at home too.  I am so, so sorry.  I'll see you on IFVets but feel free to PM me if you want to chat privately.  I know exactly how you're feeling.  :(( HUGE HUGS))

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    IVF#1=BFP!! Twins!!
    Bradley and Billy born and lost on 2/2/11 at 19w2d due to pPROM/PTL. I miss you, little angels.
    IVF#2=BFN
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  • My heart just breaks for you.  I will be thinking of you, your DH, and your precious angel babies. 
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  • I am so very sorry.  Thinking of you!!!!

    BIG HUGS

    TTC #1 Since 11/08 - Dx: MFI & PCOS
    7 IUIs = All BFNs
    2011: March IVF #1.2 = e/p @ 6w: May IVF #2 = BFN: July sFET #1 = BFN

    2012: Jan We're Certified FC/A Parents
    May IVF #3 = c/p
    June-Nov Foster Mommy to M (Toddler)
    July FET #2 = BFN
    Aug FET #3 = BFN
    Sept-Nov Foster Mommy to Baby Bella (Newborn)
    Nov HSG/Sono = Clear!
    Dec FET #4 = BFN

    2013: Feb FET #5 = m/c @ 6.5w
    May-July Foster Mom to H (8 yr old girl)
    June/July/Aug IVF #4 = Freeze All
    July = Unofficially Adopting T (10 yr old boy)
    Sept FET #6 = TBD
    **PAIF/SAIF Welcome**
  • Oh my God no!!! I'm just heartbroken for you. Sending thoughts and healing prayers your way.
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  • I'm so sorry!  There are no words... huge prayers to you and your family.
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  • Oh my...words cannot express how truly sorry I am and sad to hear your news. Know that we are always here for you, whenever you may need us. My hearts breaks for you.
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  • Oh no!!! My heart break for you and your DH.. I am so sorry...:(


     
    Dx: PCOS, Anovulatory, Amenorrhea 2006
    TTC: Sept 2008
    IVF#1 Cancelled due to breast biopsy.05/01/20

    IVF#1.2- 9/2010 - Cancelled Oversurpressed

    IVF#2 Microdose Lupron 10/2010 Beta 11/09=BFN
    IVF#3 2/2011 - 2 blasts(2/25) Beta 03/11 =BFN
    IVF#4 Lupron 01/02 =2 blasts, beta's 1-4 198,234,398,3100!!BFP
    FET 3/2014 2 blasts BETA 3/20=BFP TWINS EDD 11/27 TEAM PINK!!!                   
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  • Sending you so much love and support.  I'm so very very sorry.  My last pregnancy ended in a loss at 17 weeks - give yourself plenty of time to grieve and to heal. I think the Pregnancy loss board has a late loss check in that I found really helpful.

    (((hugs))) 

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  • I am so, so sorry for your loss.  I am just heartbroken for you.  (((hugs)))

    Diagnosed PCOS 2/07, TTC #1 since 8/09
    11/10 - Clomid Round 1 = BFN
    12/10 - Clomid Round 2 = BFN
    1/11 - Voluntary Break = BFN (duh)
    2/11 - Clomid Round 3 = BFN
    3/11 - Femara + IUI = BFP * Beta#1=56 * Beta#2=266
    *Cautiously expecting baby girls on November 28, 2011*
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  • Illinigal, sweetheart, I am so very very sorry for you two losses.  It is so unfair that they were taken from you far too soon. You, YH, and your sweet little boys wil be in my T&Ps.  I am so very sorry.

    IVF #1: 4-11-11= Transferred 1 beautiful blastocyst I named "Nugget"
    5 Snowbabies! Beta#1 4/21= BFP! 226; Beta#2 4/25= 944
    DS born 12/14/11

    Baby #2 FET Nov/Dec 2013

    12/13 Beta#1=BFP 349; 12/16 Beta#2=1,089. First ultrasound 12/26. DS#2 born 8/8/14
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  • My heart is breaking for you and your husband. I'm so very sorry for your loss ((HUGS)).
    TTC 12/2009
    Me: 32 - Stage II Endo / DH: 36 - Low count and morphology (1%)
    IUIs 1-3 BFN, lap Dec. 2010, IUIs 4-6 BFN
    IVF w/ICSI #1 - ER 2/8: 24R 19M 9F ET 2/13 2-5 day blasts (no frosties) = BFP - b/g twins!
    E & C Born 10/19/2012
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  • I had been hoping that no news was good news.  I'm heartbroken and crushed to see this update from you.  I'm so very sorry for the loss of your two sweet boys.  I will keep you, your husband, and families in my thoughts and prayers.  *big huge hugs*
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  • I am so incredibly sorry. Many prayers for your family through this difficult time. (hugs)
  • I am so sorry, I wish I knew what to say, but sometimes there are just no words. :( You and your husband are in my thoughts and prayers.
  • I'm so sorry, Honey. (((hugs))) wishing you and your DH peace and comfort in this troubling time.
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  • I am so, so sorry...and that doesn't even describe how hurt and sad (and mad!) I feel for you and your husband.  I am thinking and praying for you both, and for your angels. 

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  • Oh no oh no oh no !!! I just can't beleive what I've read I am so very sorry for your loss and my heart absolutely breaks for you I wish I could hug you in person sweetie. You have my most sincerest condolonces for you and DH from the bottom of my heart. May your boys rest in peace, the sweet little angels

    Oh man I am so very sorry Crying

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  • I am so sorry to hear about this. My heart breaks for you.
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  • This is not the update I was hoping from you.

    I can't find words to express how sorry I'm for your loss. The loss of your boys.

    You  and your husband will be in my prayers. May your love for each other carry you through this hard times. 

    Lots of hugs.


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  • I am so heart broken for you.  I'm so sorry.

    ((HUGS)) and prayers coming your way.

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    Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow. ~Mary Anne Radmacher (thank you beadinglady)

    It's been a long journey. TTC since 9/06. multiple IUI's and IVF's and 4 m/c's. IVF#3 = BFP, twins, induced at 34w6d due to baby b passing away (no explanation). Delivered on 35w1d, Baby A - baby girl, and Baby B - baby boy, our little angel.
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  • Oh sweetie I'm so sorry.  I wish I could give big hugs to you and your DH.  I'll say a prayer for you guys and your sweet boys.

    I'm so so sorry.

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  • I am so incredibly sorry   ((hugs))
  • I have no words other than to say I am so sorry for your loss and my prayers and deepest sympathies are with you and your family.
    After TTC with IR PCOS:
    April 2011: Metformin 1500mg + Clomid 100mg + Ovidrel + Prometrium = BFP!
    Beta #1 at 14DPO: 197 Beta #2 at 18DPO: 1296
    At 40w6d, our Team Green surprise came by unplanned C-section and changed our lives forever!

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