Meeeee!!!!! I'm not really excited about it, but if I don't laugh I'm going to cry. DH just called me at work to say he wants to put the house up for sale, he doesn't know why he married me, he can't stand me, and we should get a divorce. Good times.
I may DD this later but I had to get it off of my chest to prevent myself from bawling at my desk.
Re: Guess who's getting divorced?
Wow, did you marry a Manchild Douche or what?
What kind of MAN does that? Not manly enough to look you in the eye while he says these things?
I am SO SORRY that this is happening to you. What a douche.
wow. I'm really sorry to hear that. Has this been brewing for a long time or is it just out of the blue?
That was kinda douchey for him to spring this on you at work...
He called you at work??? Good God!!
I don't really know what to say, but that I'm so sorry you are going through this.
What!? I am so sorry! He just called you to tell you this? Was it totally out of the blue?
Again, I am so sorry. I wish I could give you a huge hug
I'm so sorry. I hope that whatever resolution comes from this will only lead to the betterment (is that a word?) of your family's life.
e-hug to you!
What?
I must have missed previous posts, because I didn't even know that you were having problems.
I am so sorry.
Oh no, so sorry to hear! let it out
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I guess you don't need to apologize for posting his pic last week, huh?
Jeez Audrey, I'm really sorry. Hang in there.
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He called you at work to tell you this?? Klassy.
I'm so sorry. Is there any way you can take the rest of the day off?
Did you have a fight? Where is this coming from?
I'm so sorry!
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I am so sorry.
That is total BS to call you at work to tell you that.
I'm sorry and congratulations....I'm sorry you are dealing with this but it also sounds like he's the kind of man you need to be rid of.
I'm sorry. Take care of yourself. If your company has an EAP, use it. Gather up your support because divorce sucks. You WILL get through this and you WILL be better off on the other side. The journey sucks though, so hold on and you WILL be happy again. ((hug))
DMoney will be a kickass big sister
What? What?!! What?!!!!!!!!
I'm so surprised!!! I literally have tears coming to eyes, I'm so upset for you! I can't believe he would have the audacity. . .no, not the right word at all. . .actually quite the opposite!! I can't believe he was such a coward as to call you to tell you this!
I'm so so so sorry!!!
There have been major problems over the years, I posted a long while ago about his drug and alcohol use. We've (well I've) been trying to get past it because he hasn't given it up. He got arrested, got off pretty scott free, and is still using. He's the "friend" from my post this morning about the phone number. There's money coming into the house that I don't believe is coming from work.
I've been working so hard to try to help him thru his addictions but he's not willing to give it up. He'd rather lose everything, which means I lose everything. We had a 3 month good period after he got arrested but it's back to the same old drama. He came home high/drunk last night and I got upset and of course today all of our marital problems are my fault. Same old same old. He doesn't like me as a person or our marriage but won't own to being the problem that's created all of this.
oh that is harsh. And seriously how klassy is he to call you at work to say this?
How long have you been married for?
Oh, Jessica, I'm so sorry!! That is awful that he called you at work of all places and then told you all that. But at least you will be free and you and Nicholas will be in a better place where you won't have to worry about everything you've been dealing with lately.
If you need anything or there is anything I can do to help let me know.
-Cari