Introduce yourself: Hey!! I’m Jenny and almost 38. (Weird to type that lol).
Due date? 5/12 based on first day of last period, but probably 5/16 based on ovulation.
How did you find out? I started testing right around day 28 of my cycle… and slowly watched the HCG line appear!
Tell us about yourself (Other children/pets? Job? Things you like to do? Spouse/partner? I’m a professor by day and have been married over 10 years. I have one toddler and another baby in heaven ❤️
How are you feeling (Any symptoms, emotionally)? Nervous about the upcoming weeks, but excited too! I’ve been tired and unable to sleep… and having heartburn. Cheers to making it through 13 weeks and beyond!
I’m Nat and I am 31. (I am very confused by some of the acronyms used here! Trying to decode some of them!)
I am due may 13th fire or take.
I found out I was pregnant after a few days of sore boobs and just and inkling that I might be! Still can’t believe it.
This will be our second child (almost two year old) and we are feeling all the emotions but mostly excitement. I’m trying not to get too ahead of myself since it’s so early, but it’s hard not to! We haven’t told our families yet and are debating if all seems well when we visit them in a few weeks.
Symptoms include sore boobs, hot flashes at night around 11pm, getting tired early, and a bit of insomnia. YAY! Nothing so bad yet. I feel like I’m waiting for the storm to come!
Introduce yourself: Hey, I’m Abby. I’m 29 and this is baby #2 for me.
Due date? According to my LMP it would be May 5th but I think it may be earlier due to my short cycles and I think I ovulated early this cycle.
How did you find out? I told myself I wouldn’t test early but I did at 10 DPO because I was feeling some symptoms that didn’t go away. Got a clear positive at 11 DPO. Got blood work done next day and levels doubled accordingly. I’m praying this is a healthy pregnancy.
Tell us about yourself (Other children/pets? Job? Things you like to do? Spouse/partner?): I have a 20 month old son. My DH is 33 and we have been married for almost 4 years. I’m a stay at home mom, former teacher. Started a online baby boutique this year. It’s been a lot of work but nice so that I can still stay at home.
How are you feeling (Any symptoms, emotionally)? I’ve been very tired pretty much all day. Nausea started to kick in a few days ago, but it hasn’t been unbearable. Breasts have sore, some days are worse than others.
I’m currently 6weeks and have my ultrasound appointment next week. I’m excited and hoping baby is looking good and healthy!
How did you find out? Missed period. Have not confirmed yet.
Tell us about yourself (Other children/pets? Job? Things you like to do? Spouse/partner?):
I'm 28. Me and my husband have a 2 y/o son. I work part time for a non profit and full time SAHM.
How are you feeling (Any symptoms, emotionally)?
I've been very tired this past week and today but we were also out of town visiting family few almost the whole week. I took naps which I don't usually do. I've been kinda depressed feeling today and I don't know why. Maybe just scared to go from 1 to 2. We tried for this one but we really aren't wear we want to be financially. Hope to feel more excited soon!
Hi! I'm tentatively joining in after a promising second beta today.
Due date? 5/20
How did you find out? We've been trying for awhile, so I've been tracking and found out with an at-home test at 10 DPO. *TW PGAL*
I've had two MCs in the past year and have been working with an RE.
Tell us about yourself (Other children/pets? Job? Things you like to do? Spouse/partner?): I'm 36 and have been married to DH (also 36) for 10 years. We have a five year old DD who is pretty sassy and fantastic. I love to read, play board games, and cook/bake!
How are you feeling (Any symptoms, emotionally)? I'm anxious. The good beta draws are encouraging, but I know there is still a lot that can go wrong. Looking forward to my first ultrasound in a couple weeks to pass another milestone. Physically I have some cramping and an upset stomach (always an issue when I'm pregnant) and I have some insomnia.
How did you find out? Had a positive test earlier this week. Tested a little too early so had to wait until the next day to be sure I wasn’t just seeing indent/evap lines.
Tell us about yourself (Other children/pets? Job? Things you like to do? Spouse/partner?): I’m 36, I have a 3 year old, I’ve been dating or married to my husband (37) for 17 years. I like watching TV. I have many partially started craft projects around. One unusual thing about me I guess is that I have voluntary control over the stapedius muscle in my ear so I can give myself a whoosh sound anytime I want.
How are you feeling (Any symptoms, emotionally)? Absolutely no symptoms—first pregnancy I had symptoms starting at about 5 weeks and I’m not quite 4 now. I can’t even neurotically convince myself I have symptoms.
Content warning for pregnancy loss:
Very anxious because I had two CP earlier this year. My lines seem darker earlier than those two pregnancies, but they got dark both times before my beta started to fall, so it doesn’t completely ease my anxiety. I have a blood beta test I’ll get the results of tomorrow to compare with one I got on Tuesday. So, I’ll either be here for the long haul or, uhh, not!
Introduce yourself: Hi! I am a 33 year old School Psychologist married to a 34 year old finance guy. This will be our 2nd child and we couldn’t be more excited. Based on my last period, we think they are due May 13. I found out on cycle day 30 and was super depressed this past month because I thought it would be yet another month of trying and crying. I am extra excited about a May due date because my maternity leave will be longer in my school district. No symptoms yet, but had a lot of morning sickness with my first pregnancy so I am just bracing myself hahaha. We are also choosing not to tell anyone (including family) until 12 weeks to keep this process more sacred and special (no incessant calls or texts asking about dr appointments sounds great).
Hi everyone! I am Lorraine. I just got my positive test today. It was a little early to test but I could just tell something was different. Just like someone else had mentioned, I am an early tester. Expected due date is May 21st but not truly positive because I don't exactly remember when my last period started. I had covid and for the first time forgot to log it. This would be baby number two for me as long as this pregnancy continues 🤞 I am 31 and so excited to hopefully be starting this journey again but also nervous for multiple reasons. Hope we all get to connect and be there for each other.
Hi. My name is Govinda. Im 34 (35 in nov.) 2nd pregnancy - We, my DH, 35, and I have a 6 year old DS. We felt he needed a sibling, even though there now is a big age gap- I tested posive 5 days early.
I feel pretty shocked. And suprised that it worked on the first try. I had PCOS and both pregnancies are suprising even though we "tried" for them.
Due Date = May 15th
I have been having lots of lower back cramping so I am trying to keep calm and casual. Not sure how this will go.
Excited to hear from all these May mamas. Thank you for this group!
Introduce yourself: Hi I'm Berg I'm 39-- the big 4-0 happening early 2023.
Due date? May 17th based on LMP, but I assume I'll have a c scheduled for the week before since that was the plan last time.
How did you find out? Took a test on CD 25 (normal period day, but based on a late O, 3-4 days early), super duper faint, kept testing, slowly got darker as the days progressed.
Tell us about yourself (Other children/pets? Job? Things you like to do? Spouse/partner?): My husband and I have three kids, Boy, 5, Boy, 3.5, Girl, 2. We have been together 17 yrs, married for 8 of them. We also thought getting a dog last fall, who ended up being the size of a small horse, was a great idea. (rescue, german shepard/husky mix, with a hint of pony I believe). DH and I love baseball and concerts and food and travel *though that's hard to come by these days*. We spend a lot of time at home now. Having three kids in under three years doesn't allow for a lot of freedom, but we try to make the best of it for all involved.
How are you feeling (Any symptoms, emotionally)? I'm tentative, mostly. I'm feeling nauseous from time to time, my boobs are tingly, get the chills on occasion. TBH I don't remember a lot of how I felt with my first or third. With my second I just remember a lot of headaches.
Introduce yourself: Hey! I’m 35. Will be 36 by the time this baby is born.
Due date? May 12th.
How did you find out? Tested 2 days before my expected period. This is our second attempt to conceive our second child. First attempt ended with an early mc back in June.
Tell us about yourself (Other children/pets? Job? Things you like to do? Spouse/partner?
I have a 5 year old daughter and am a stay at home mom right now. Previously worked as a pediatric occupational therapist before having my daughter. My husband is an engineer and we’ve been married for 9 years. I currently volunteer as a room mom for my daughter’s kindergarten class.
How are you feeling (Any symptoms, emotionally)? I actually tested positive for Covid last week so I feel pretty crappy now. I’ve been isolating in our guest room for the past 6 days and just feel kind of depressed about it all. I’m stressed about the effects of Covid on my baby but I’m trying to stay positive. Have just been resting and took some Tylenol for a fever a few days ago. Other than some mild cramps and sore breast I haven’t had many symptoms.
Hi! My name is Anna and I am hesitantly posting as my excitement feels a little overwhelmed by anxiety at the moment. I am (gasp) 43! My husband and I have been trying for many many years and had a lot of let downs and a couple of losses. I'm trying to stay positive and optimistic because that's the only way I can imagine it working. :-)
I found out because I pee on sticks even when I don't need to. A week (feels like weeks!) ago I had peed on a stick and left it on the tray beside the toilet expecting it not to do anything. When I came back later that night I saw two lines and thought "nah, just sat too long." So I took 24 more tests which were all positive and then I went and bought four different types (3 per box)and took them all, which were also positive.
To say I'm nervous doesn't even begin to explain it. But I'm trying to stay outside of my head and just be happy. I'm glad to be here with you guys!
Based on my numbers I am due May 19th. I've called to set up our first appointment and I'm waiting for a call back, but the lines have been saying that my hgn is increasing, so that's a good sign! I've been called geriatric quite a few times while trying to get to the right department and reminded them that we go by AMA now. 🤣😂🤣😂💙
As far as symptoms go I've had really really bad gas/heartburn/indigestion. I started drinking water with Miralax in it and it definitely helped, but it keeps reminding me not to trust a poot. 😂🤣😂 My energy is in the negative numbers. My brain is awake but my body will not move. It feels like I've been running marathons when all I've actually been doing is making grilled cheese sandwiches. 😂🤣😂 my anxiety switches between a level 7 and a level 10, which I know is not great. I've been meditating and saying positive mantras to myself.
I would give anything to be the old mom in the school pick up line!!!!💙💜💙💜💙💜💙💙💜💙🤞🤞 we aren't telling anyone for a while mainly because last time all anyone ever told me was how old I was. I really don't need that right now. Honestly, I know my own age and it's strange how many people think it's their duty to remind me. I understand the statistics, very well and have the positive % tracker saved to my desktop for reassurance. I am more than excited to be on this journey! Baby dust and well wishes to all! Let's do this thing :-) Anna
hello! I am 31 years old, my darling fiancé is 38. We each have 2 kids from previous marriages- 2 boys, 2 girls! - ages 16, 11, 9, and 6. We've been together for 2 years and found out 3 weeks ago that we are expecting! Our due date is hazy but believed to be the first week of May 1-6, 2023. at 7 weeks, I feel like and feel like I look like I'm at least 12 weeks! Heartburn and nausea full force!!
we haven't told anyone yet, I am a high risk pregnancy due to some medical issues, and while we're excited it's definitely not a planned.
@annalove79 welcome! Just wanted to comfort you, at my sons school there’s quite a few parents who are 50/ close to 50 with happy and healthy 7 year olds! One being my best friend. You are not alone and it’s completely possible to have a healthy pregnancy at this age. I’m wishing you all of the best! (:
Introduce yourself: Hi, I'm Erin. I am 28 and this is my 3rd pregnancy. I have a DD who is 8 and has been asking for a sibling for about 6 of those 8 years, lol.
Due date: According to my LMP and various online calculators May 13, 2023
How did I find out? I missed my period, peed on a stick, and there was that perfect blue plus sign!
Tell us about yourself: my husband and I have been married for about 3 months after knowing each other and dating on and off for a decade. He will be a first time dad, and he's really excited. We have 2 cats, we are both teachers, and we love going out and trying new activities. Like I mentioned above, I have an 8yo daughter from a previous relationship.
Introduce yourself: Hi everyone! I’m Chelsea and I’m 34. Any other potential fourth time moms out there? 😅
Due date? 5/21 by LMP
How did you find out? At home test due to lack of pms. Boyyyyy was this a shock! I was in the process of switching birth controls due to some breakthrough bleeding and here we are.
side note- I have a history of infertility (see below) and I know many of you do as well so I am sharing my story but also recognize and respect those who had to work years to get their pos.
Tell us about yourself (Other children/pets? Job? Things you like to do? Spouse/partner?): I am a physician assistant. DH and I have been married 5 years now (together 11). we have a 4 year old daughter conceived naturally and two year old twins (b/g) conceived with IUI+comid+trigger.
How are you feeling (Any symptoms, emotionally)? Emotionally I’m happy but still processing. I got rid of all my baby stuff this past summer haha. I’m here for the ride though! Feeling nausea, sore boobs and fatigue already. Good luck to all and congrats!
Hello! My name is Jaie. My husband and I weren't planning on having kids, though we're not exactly the most responsible! My cycles were sometimes as short as 17 days and I didnt ovulate much. I had my thyroid medication adjusted, and I felt a strong ovulation at the end of August. Despite the withdrawal method, a sperm found that egg!! I took several tests and they were all pretty light, sometimes only turning pink after the valid timeframe.
Then, I thought AF had arrived. The cramps continued but I never started fully bleeding. I had spotting for a week, but it stopped! Only symptoms is sleepiness and large sore breasts..
The only thing is... I know we could've been more safe, but I feel like my husband is going to be VERY disappointed to find out. I can't bring myself to tell him.
@cait32 yay! That is awesome. We also are in the #3under3 club together! Chaos for all! Twins are fun but definitely a challenge.
@peachinolive I am sorry you are worried about telling your significant other. That has to feel like such a heavy weight. I was worried to tell DH as well because our pregnancy was also unplanned and we already struggle with feeling overwhelmed as parents but was quite surprised and relieved at his excitement and happiness. Either way I hope he is supportive. Good luck
@peachinolive Our procreation paths may be lined with different feelings at this point, but I see your nervousness and apprehension and I feel for you! Regardless if this is tried for for years, or just popped on you, this is a very emotional and scary time! We are still early in this process and there is a lot out there that may make you feel better. As the carrier of the new alien, I know that you feel very responsible, but it definitely takes two people to end up in the situation and you should probably let him know. If there is any question that the situation will end in violence you should not let him know without being very sure of the direction you intend to go and without another person there for your moral support ( I know that that is likely not the case, but I had to throw it out there.) Hopefully your partner is good and reasonable and will understand that this is what happens when you do the reproductive dance. Big hugs! Regardless of how this ends up for you, you WILL be ok! I'm frustrated with how long it's taking for me to get into a doctor's office (I'm old and feel like that should mean I get more pictures, but apparently, that only happens over 45 in my area 🤷♀️- looking for a new dr!), but, I really suggest that you go early to give you the most time possible to acclimate to the situation and find the right information and answers for you. 💜 Big, big hugs of love and understanding to you! 💜 in the end it will be okay, and if it's not okay, it's not the end yet! 💙
@swmama27 - @momsie thanks for the encouraging words! They really do help and I really do need them! We do have this (as much as we can, and, likely with a bit of insanity, but we do!!) 💜💙💜💙
My name is Nichole, I am 37. Very excited and anxious at the same time.
Due date is May 22nd.
Live in Hawaii, hence the Aloha intro :). I miscarried in June at 10 weeks, had one period and prego again. Way quicker then expected but I will take my blessing.
Feeling ok at the moment, just tired. Taking one day at a time and being kind to myself.
I look forward to reading everyone’s post and interacting through this journey together!
@annalove79 @maelove Thank you for you kind replies. I am grateful that he is a caring partner. I have an early ultrasound scheduled for the 27th, so I will tell him.... soon. We work opposite schedules so it just never feels like the right time. I'm just sad that I know he doesn't want to keep it. Even if he doesn't say it, I know he'll be hoping I terminate.
@peachinolive the choice is very much yours! And tbh I almost had decided to have an abortion in 2015, I was 21 and very much not planning to be a mama, and for some reason I didn’t go through with it (: And it’s the best choice I ever made. Sometimes things happen how they do for a reason. My son changed my entire life for the best. So listen to your gut and your heart and do what feels right to you, if he’s the right guy he will be there for you either way. It’s a big choice! Take time to reflect and see how you feel.
I think I already know what I want. We did terminate a pregnancy when we were both in college. It was the right choice then. I know it's my choice... it's just no fun to tell someone when they don't want it.
@peachinolive definitely not fun! But he was half of this baby happening. And if he can’t support your choice then that says something about how your futures look. But also maybe he will be happy and shocked, you never really realize the weight of the situation until baby is here. I asked myself “can I be a single mom?” When I got pregnant with my ex and the answer was yes! (I was only a single mom for a year and a half) and honestly it was a really special time for bonding. Not saying you’re going to be a single mom but it’s good to think about best and worst case scenario. Just be honest about your feelings when you tell him, you deserve to be loved and supported!
Tell us about yourself (Other children/pets? Job? Things you like to do? Spouse/partner?): I have a 5 year old girl. I work for Verizon. And I have a bf of 3 years.
How are you feeling (Any symptoms, emotionally)? Tired. Lower back pain. Breast pain (on and off) just worried and want the miscarriage period to end already.
I’m Felicity. I’m 34 years old. We were trying to conceive for about 8 months. This is my first ever positive pregnancy test, and I’m letting myself feel excited while also trying to remain cautiously optimistic.
My due date based on conception is 5/16.
I found out when I was a couple of days late for my period and my cycle tracking app suggested I take a pregnancy test. Because we had been trying to conceive for many months and I kept getting negative tests, this was the first month where I decided I didn’t want to let myself down, so I decided not to test or stress about it. So when I did get a positive test, I was in disbelief at first… then got REALLY excited.
I’ve been with my husband for 10 years, married for 5. We have 2 small dogs. I oversee a chapter of a mental health nonprofit, and my husband is a medical doctor. We’re both really excited by the news.
I’m feeling pretty good so far- symptoms are mild, but I’m still bracing to see if morning sickness symptoms will kick in over the next few weeks. More than anything, I’m just really tired!
Really grateful to have this platform to meet other people on a similar timeline. Sending each of you positive thoughts and support, no matter what your journey is looking like right now.
Introduce yourself: I'm Cassie, 33 years old. This is my first pregnancy and I'm cautiously excited and oh so nervous!
Due date? Late May 2023. Various calculators are saying sometime between May 18-26.
How did you find out? Home pregnancy tests. I took 5, all positive and I still don't believe it 😂
Tell us about yourself (Other children/pets? Job? Things you like to do? Spouse/partner?): I'm a data analyst and work from home. I live with my husband and 2 dogs. We love traveling, hanging with friends and working on our house (okay, don't love that AS much). We found out I'm pregnant a couple days ago, the morning after we got back from a trip to Hawaii so that was a crazy end!
How are you feeling (Any symptoms, emotionally)? Sore breasts, heightened sense of smell and the need to pee all the time. Not looking forward to morning sickness!
@nimo1124 Where in Hawaii do you live? My husband and I were on the big island late February-early March this year. Hands down the best place I've ever traveled! Spoiler pic is from Pu'uhonua O Honaunau
Hey friends! I'm Jana. I just turned 38 and this will be baby #1! We had been trying for years! I suffer from mittelshmerz and having PCOS didn't help matters either. Born/raised in socal and recently moved to the Atlanta area. Veryyyyy far from family so I'm glad to have some people to share with! I had a MMC in June so this will be our rainbow baby!
Our due date is super special. My husband is Sicilian and in his culture, you typically name the first boy after his father. So we have always known that boy #1 will be named after his father who passed away a few years ago. He was a VERY special person and he and I were very close. The baby's due date is his father's birthday. Yes this made his mom cry. May 6th.
The baby was prayed for for years. I was tracking everything I could. I knew to check one day one of missed AF, 11DPO and there it was, a faint line. My sweet dog was watching with me so when I ran to my husband's office to show him, the pup was in tow. Needless to say, we are all excited.
Aurelius, our shepsky, seems to know something is up and is a bit more cuddly- he's always been protective of me and my husband. My husband and I met when I was 12! We were best friends first, then started dating when I was 16. That was 22 years ago. We have been married for 8. He is my world and can't wait to share him!
Because of the miscarriage I am terrified that our first scan (this weds) will be bad news again but the symptoms ARE different than last time. I know that means nothing but in my mind its relief all the same. I am 7 weeks and the nausea is really ramping up- especially at night. My breasts are also asking to be ripped off my body. No cravings/aversion yet- looking forward to those lol. I also believe I am part vulcan so all these new emotions are CRAZY for me! I cried at the end of Dredd a few days ago (where my nerd friends at?)
I'm so glad to have this community! Nice to meet you all!
Introduce yourself: Hello! I’m Rita. New to TB— discovered it yesterday!
I am 31 and my husband is 33. We have been together 5 years, we’re engaged after 2, and finally got married this July (didn’t want to plan a wedding during the pandemic)
Due date? According to my LMP: May 18/2023 (day before my hubby’s birthday!)
How did you find out? Took a HPT 5 days before my AF and honestly expected a BFN. Was about to throw away the test when I saw a vvvfl
Tell us about yourself (Other children/pets? Job? Things you like to do? Spouse/partner?): No other children! We have two beautiful fur babies - border collie x Australian shepherd boy (Oakley) and border collie x canaan rescue girl (Akela) I’m an RN at a federal correctional institution. We love to hike, paddle board, travel, play board games, and just be happy =) DH is an equipment operator at a lumber mill, was a family farmer for 15 years prior
How are you feeling (Any symptoms, emotionally)? The only thing I’m feeling is massive sore boobs (that don’t fit in any of my scrub tops anymore.. only 5 weeks pregnant), extreme bloat, frequent urination, up 5lbs and anxious thoughts related to possible pregnancy complications along the way. No nausea yet!
Re: Introduce Yourself Here! Welcome to May 2023!
Due date? 5/12 based on first day of last period, but probably 5/16 based on ovulation.
How did you find out? I started testing right around day 28 of my cycle… and slowly watched the HCG line appear!
Tell us about yourself (Other children/pets? Job? Things you like to do? Spouse/partner?
I’m a professor by day and have been married over 10 years. I have one toddler and another baby in heaven ❤️
How are you feeling (Any symptoms, emotionally)? Nervous about the upcoming weeks, but excited too! I’ve been tired and unable to sleep… and having heartburn. Cheers to making it through 13 weeks and beyond!
I’m Nat and I am 31. (I am very confused by some of the acronyms used here! Trying to decode some of them!)
I am due may 13th fire or take.
I found out I was pregnant after a few days of sore boobs and just and inkling that I might be! Still can’t believe it.
This will be our second child (almost two year old) and we are feeling all the emotions but mostly excitement. I’m trying not to get too ahead of myself since it’s so early, but it’s hard not to! We haven’t told our families yet and are debating if all seems well when we visit them in a few weeks.
Symptoms include sore boobs, hot flashes at night around 11pm, getting tired early, and a bit of insomnia. YAY! Nothing so bad yet. I feel like I’m waiting for the storm to come!
Due date? According to my LMP it would be May 5th but I think it may be earlier due to my short cycles and I think I ovulated early this cycle.
How did you find out? I told myself I wouldn’t test early but I did at 10 DPO because I was feeling some symptoms that didn’t go away. Got a clear positive at 11 DPO. Got blood work done next day and levels doubled accordingly. I’m praying this is a healthy pregnancy.
Tell us about yourself (Other children/pets? Job? Things you like to do? Spouse/partner?): I have a 20 month old son. My DH is 33 and we have been married for almost 4 years. I’m a stay at home mom, former teacher. Started a online baby boutique this year. It’s been a lot of work but nice so that I can still stay at home.
How are you feeling (Any symptoms, emotionally)? I’ve been very tired pretty much all day. Nausea started to kick in a few days ago, but it hasn’t been unbearable. Breasts have sore, some days are worse than others.
I’m currently 6weeks and have my ultrasound appointment next week. I’m excited and hoping baby is looking good and healthy!
I've been very tired this past week and today but we were also out of town visiting family few almost the whole week. I took naps which I don't usually do. I've been kinda depressed feeling today and I don't know why. Maybe just scared to go from 1 to 2. We tried for this one but we really aren't wear we want to be financially. Hope to feel more excited soon!
Due date? 5/20/22
How did you find out? Had a positive test earlier this week. Tested a little too early so had to wait until the next day to be sure I wasn’t just seeing indent/evap lines.
Tell us about yourself (Other children/pets? Job? Things you like to do? Spouse/partner?): I’m 36, I have a 3 year old, I’ve been dating or married to my husband (37) for 17 years. I like watching TV. I have many partially started craft projects around. One unusual thing about me I guess is that I have voluntary control over the stapedius muscle in my ear so I can give myself a whoosh sound anytime I want.
How are you feeling (Any symptoms, emotionally)? Absolutely no symptoms—first pregnancy I had symptoms starting at about 5 weeks and I’m not quite 4 now. I can’t even neurotically convince myself I have symptoms.
Content warning for pregnancy loss:
This would be baby number two for me as long as this pregnancy continues 🤞
I am 31 and so excited to hopefully be starting this journey again but also nervous for multiple reasons. Hope we all get to connect and be there for each other.
2nd pregnancy - We, my DH, 35, and I have a 6 year old DS. We felt he needed a sibling, even though there now is a big age gap-
I tested posive 5 days early.
I feel pretty shocked. And suprised that it worked on the first try. I had PCOS and both pregnancies are suprising even though we "tried" for them.
Due Date = May 15th
I have been having lots of lower back cramping so I am trying to keep calm and casual. Not sure how this will go.
Excited to hear from all these May mamas. Thank you for this group!
Introduce yourself: Hi I'm Berg I'm 39-- the big 4-0 happening early 2023.
Due date? May 17th based on LMP, but I assume I'll have a c scheduled for the week before since that was the plan last time.
How did you find out? Took a test on CD 25 (normal period day, but based on a late O, 3-4 days early), super duper faint, kept testing, slowly got darker as the days progressed.
Tell us about yourself (Other children/pets? Job? Things you like to do? Spouse/partner?): My husband and I have three kids, Boy, 5, Boy, 3.5, Girl, 2. We have been together 17 yrs, married for 8 of them. We also thought getting a dog last fall, who ended up being the size of a small horse, was a great idea. (rescue, german shepard/husky mix, with a hint of pony I believe). DH and I love baseball and concerts and food and travel *though that's hard to come by these days*. We spend a lot of time at home now. Having three kids in under three years doesn't allow for a lot of freedom, but we try to make the best of it for all involved.
How are you feeling (Any symptoms, emotionally)? I'm tentative, mostly. I'm feeling nauseous from time to time, my boobs are tingly, get the chills on occasion. TBH I don't remember a lot of how I felt with my first or third. With my second I just remember a lot of headaches.
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Introduce yourself: Hey! I’m 35. Will be 36 by the time this baby is born.
Due date? May 12th.
How did you find out? Tested 2 days before my expected period. This is our second attempt to conceive our second child. First attempt ended with an early mc back in June.
Tell us about yourself (Other children/pets? Job? Things you like to do? Spouse/partner?
I have a 5 year old daughter and am a stay at home mom right now. Previously worked as a pediatric occupational therapist before having my daughter. My husband is an engineer and we’ve been married for 9 years. I currently volunteer as a room mom for my daughter’s kindergarten class.
How are you feeling (Any symptoms, emotionally)? I actually tested positive for Covid last week so I feel pretty crappy now. I’ve been isolating in our guest room for the past 6 days and just feel kind of depressed about it all. I’m stressed about the effects of Covid on my baby but I’m trying to stay positive. Have just been resting and took some Tylenol for a fever a few days ago. Other than some mild cramps and sore breast I haven’t had many symptoms.
I found out because I pee on sticks even when I don't need to. A week (feels like weeks!) ago I had peed on a stick and left it on the tray beside the toilet expecting it not to do anything. When I came back later that night I saw two lines and thought "nah, just sat too long." So I took 24 more tests which were all positive and then I went and bought four different types (3 per box)and took them all, which were also positive.
To say I'm nervous doesn't even begin to explain it. But I'm trying to stay outside of my head and just be happy. I'm glad to be here with you guys!
Based on my numbers I am due May 19th. I've called to set up our first appointment and I'm waiting for a call back, but the lines have been saying that my hgn is increasing, so that's a good sign! I've been called geriatric quite a few times while trying to get to the right department and reminded them that we go by AMA now. 🤣😂🤣😂💙
As far as symptoms go I've had really really bad gas/heartburn/indigestion. I started drinking water with Miralax in it and it definitely helped, but it keeps reminding me not to trust a poot. 😂🤣😂 My energy is in the negative numbers. My brain is awake but my body will not move. It feels like I've been running marathons when all I've actually been doing is making grilled cheese sandwiches. 😂🤣😂 my anxiety switches between a level 7 and a level 10, which I know is not great. I've been meditating and saying positive mantras to myself.
I would give anything to be the old mom in the school pick up line!!!!💙💜💙💜💙💜💙💙💜💙🤞🤞 we aren't telling anyone for a while mainly because last time all anyone ever told me was how old I was. I really don't need that right now. Honestly, I know my own age and it's strange how many people think it's their duty to remind me. I understand the statistics, very well and have the positive % tracker saved to my desktop for reassurance.
I am more than excited to be on this journey!
Baby dust and well wishes to all! Let's do this thing :-)
Anna
we haven't told anyone yet, I am a high risk pregnancy due to some medical issues, and while we're excited it's definitely not a planned.
Due date is May 21
Found out through a home prep test a couple weeks after I ovulated.
I've been married for almost a year and we have two dogs that I love more than anything. I never imagined having a human baby! But so so excited.
I know it's early but I'm excited, still in shock, and nervous.
Due date: According to my LMP and various online calculators May 13, 2023
How did I find out? I missed my period, peed on a stick, and there was that perfect blue plus sign!
Tell us about yourself: my husband and I have been married for about 3 months after knowing each other and dating on and off for a decade. He will be a first time dad, and he's really excited. We have 2 cats, we are both teachers, and we love going out and trying new activities. Like I mentioned above, I have an 8yo daughter from a previous relationship.
How am I feeling? Sore, tired, but also excited.
Due date? 5/21 by LMP
How did you find out? At home test due to lack of pms. Boyyyyy was this a shock! I was in the process of switching birth controls due to some breakthrough bleeding and here we are.
side note- I have a history of infertility (see below) and I know many of you do as well so I am sharing my story but also recognize and respect those who had to work years to get their pos.
Tell us about yourself (Other children/pets? Job? Things you like to do? Spouse/partner?):
I am a physician assistant. DH and I have been married 5 years now (together 11). we have a 4 year old daughter conceived naturally and two year old twins (b/g) conceived with IUI+comid+trigger.
How are you feeling (Any symptoms, emotionally)? Emotionally I’m happy but still processing. I got rid of all my baby stuff this past summer haha. I’m here for the ride though! Feeling nausea, sore boobs and fatigue already. Good luck to all and congrats!
Then, I thought AF had arrived. The cramps continued but I never started fully bleeding. I had spotting for a week, but it stopped! Only symptoms is sleepiness and large sore breasts..
The only thing is... I know we could've been more safe, but I feel like my husband is going to be VERY disappointed to find out. I can't bring myself to tell him.
@peachinolive I am sorry you are worried about telling your significant other. That has to feel like such a heavy weight. I was worried to tell DH as well because our pregnancy was also unplanned and we already struggle with feeling overwhelmed as parents but was quite surprised and relieved at his excitement and happiness. Either way I hope he is supportive. Good luck
💜 Big, big hugs of love and understanding to you! 💜 in the end it will be okay, and if it's not okay, it's not the end yet! 💙
My name is Nichole, I am 37. Very excited and anxious at the same time.
Due date is May 22nd.
Live in Hawaii, hence the Aloha intro :). I miscarried in June at 10 weeks, had one period and prego again. Way quicker then expected but I will take my blessing.
Feeling ok at the moment, just tired. Taking one day at a time and being kind to myself.
I look forward to reading everyone’s post and interacting through this journey together!
E Malama pono
Thank you for you kind replies. I am grateful that he is a caring partner. I have an early ultrasound scheduled for the 27th, so I will tell him.... soon. We work opposite schedules so it just never feels like the right time. I'm just sad that I know he doesn't want to keep it. Even if he doesn't say it, I know he'll be hoping I terminate.
me and my partner had a miscarriage last year at 12 weeks ….
hopefully this is the one 🤞🏽🤞🏽☺️
Due date? 5/15/2023
How did you find out? Pregnancy test
Tell us about yourself (Other children/pets? Job? Things you like to do? Spouse/partner?): I have a 5 year old girl. I work for Verizon. And I have a bf of 3 years.
How are you feeling (Any symptoms, emotionally)? Tired. Lower back pain. Breast pain (on and off) just worried and want the miscarriage period to end already.
I’m Felicity. I’m 34 years old. We were trying to conceive for about 8 months. This is my first ever positive pregnancy test, and I’m letting myself feel excited while also trying to remain cautiously optimistic.
My due date based on conception is 5/16.
I found out when I was a couple of days late for my period and my cycle tracking app suggested I take a pregnancy test. Because we had been trying to conceive for many months and I kept getting negative tests, this was the first month where I decided I didn’t want to let myself down, so I decided not to test or stress about it. So when I did get a positive test, I was in disbelief at first… then got REALLY excited.
I’ve been with my husband for 10 years, married for 5. We have 2 small dogs. I oversee a chapter of a mental health nonprofit, and my husband is a medical doctor. We’re both really excited by the news.
I’m feeling pretty good so far- symptoms are mild, but I’m still bracing to see if morning sickness symptoms will kick in over the next few weeks. More than anything, I’m just really tired!
Really grateful to have this platform to meet other people on a similar timeline. Sending each of you positive thoughts and support, no matter what your journey is looking like right now.
Introduce yourself: I'm Cassie, 33 years old. This is my first pregnancy and I'm cautiously excited and oh so nervous!
Due date? Late May 2023. Various calculators are saying sometime between May 18-26.
How did you find out? Home pregnancy tests. I took 5, all positive and I still don't believe it 😂
Tell us about yourself (Other children/pets? Job? Things you like to do? Spouse/partner?): I'm a data analyst and work from home. I live with my husband and 2 dogs. We love traveling, hanging with friends and working on our house (okay, don't love that AS much). We found out I'm pregnant a couple days ago, the morning after we got back from a trip to Hawaii so that was a crazy end!
How are you feeling (Any symptoms, emotionally)? Sore breasts, heightened sense of smell and the need to pee all the time. Not looking forward to morning sickness!
Really excited this community exists!
Our due date is super special. My husband is Sicilian and in his culture, you typically name the first boy after his father. So we have always known that boy #1 will be named after his father who passed away a few years ago. He was a VERY special person and he and I were very close. The baby's due date is his father's birthday. Yes this made his mom cry. May 6th.
The baby was prayed for for years. I was tracking everything I could. I knew to check one day one of missed AF, 11DPO and there it was, a faint line. My sweet dog was watching with me so when I ran to my husband's office to show him, the pup was in tow. Needless to say, we are all excited.
Aurelius, our shepsky, seems to know something is up and is a bit more cuddly- he's always been protective of me and my husband. My husband and I met when I was 12! We were best friends first, then started dating when I was 16. That was 22 years ago. We have been married for 8. He is my world and can't wait to share him!
Because of the miscarriage I am terrified that our first scan (this weds) will be bad news again but the symptoms ARE different than last time. I know that means nothing but in my mind its relief all the same. I am 7 weeks and the nausea is really ramping up- especially at night. My breasts are also asking to be ripped off my body. No cravings/aversion yet- looking forward to those lol. I also believe I am part vulcan so all these new emotions are CRAZY for me! I cried at the end of Dredd a few days ago (where my nerd friends at?)
I'm so glad to have this community! Nice to meet you all!
Hello! I’m Rita. New to TB— discovered it yesterday!
I am 31 and my husband is 33. We have been together 5 years, we’re engaged after 2, and finally got married this July (didn’t want to plan a wedding during the pandemic)
Due date? According to my LMP: May 18/2023 (day before my hubby’s birthday!)
How did you find out? Took a HPT 5 days before my AF and honestly expected a BFN. Was about to throw away the test when I saw a vvvfl
Tell us about yourself (Other children/pets? Job? Things you like to do? Spouse/partner?): No other children! We have two beautiful fur babies - border collie x Australian shepherd boy (Oakley) and border collie x canaan rescue girl (Akela)
I’m an RN at a federal correctional institution. We love to hike, paddle board, travel, play board games, and just be happy =) DH is an equipment operator at a lumber mill, was a family farmer for 15 years prior
How are you feeling (Any symptoms, emotionally)?
The only thing I’m feeling is massive sore boobs (that don’t fit in any of my scrub tops anymore.. only 5 weeks pregnant), extreme bloat, frequent urination, up 5lbs and anxious thoughts related to possible pregnancy complications along the way. No nausea yet!