December 2020 Moms

*TW* Spotting/Bleeding/Threatened Loss Support

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Re: *TW* Spotting/Bleeding/Threatened Loss Support

  • @shelmcclel Glad everything is ok!
    DS born 2016
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  • hham10hham10 member
    @shelmcclelbim so glad your baby looked ok. Prayers that the bed rest helps everything to heal appropriately and you won’t have anything to worry about. 
  • akorosakoros member
    @shelmcclel So happy that the baby is ok! Hope you heal well and quickly
  • Huge splash of bright red blood a few minutes ago. 
    I had some bleeding issues a few weeks ago and it turned out to be a c section adhesion letting go so I am pretty sure it’s just that- we know I have a few in there but still scary. 
    😬



  • I had my appointment with the high risk/ MFM today. I knew as soon as I saw the screen something wasn’t right. No heartbeat. No growth since my last appointment at like 11w5d. 

    Waiting on my doctor to call me back to discuss next steps. My husband is on a business trip in South Dakota so I had to break the news over the phone. Also, ironically, the pregnancy announcements have started arriving in our family’s mailboxes today so I have already gotten one congratulations text. 
  • @BmcD2016 I'm so sorry to hear that :( Sending you lots of love and hugs during this difficult time ❤ 

    @the_road_to_oz oh no! I'm sorry your having bleeding again. That's scary. Hope it will all be ok 
  • @BmcD2016 Oh No I'm so sorry! :(
    TTC History:
    Me: 36 H: 40 Married 2015. Together since 2010.
    TTC: Sept 2016-Oct 2017
    BFP Oct 2017. DD born July 2018.
    TTC: March 2020. BFP March 2020
    Due date was Nov 2020
    DS born Sept 2020. DS passed away Nov 2020 due to prematurity and birth trauma.
    TTC: March 2021
    IUI #1 Nov 2021, BFN
    IUI #2 Dec 2021 BFP.  MC Jan 2022
    IUI #3 Aug 2022 BFN
    IUI #4 Sept 2022 BFN
    AMH test came back at .081. Was going to move on to IVF with DE, but have decided not to. Will be leaving it up to the universe now.



  • @BmcD2016 I'm so so sorry  <3
  • @BmcD2016 I’m so so so sorry. I hope your husband can come home to be with you soon. I’ll be sending you all of my love and good thoughts ❤️❤️

    @the_road_to_oz Are you going in to have it checked again? please update us when you can
  • karmbakarmba member
    @BmcD2016 I'm so sorry  <3
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

    Me: 34 DH: 36
    Married 10/15/11
    M/C October 2014
    BFP #2 4/3/16  EDD 12/8/16  DS 11/19/16


  • @BmcD2016 I am so sorry, that's horrible. Please take care of yourself. I hope your husband gets home to you quickly. 

    @shelmcclel Yes, I already have an appointment for a heart beat US check next week. 
    It seems to have been a one of which is the same way it happened last time, - A big gush of bright red blood which stopped quickly then nothing - and I can hear baby on the Doppler, so I'm okay. I just spoke with my doctor and she said if it happens again they'll get me in tomorrow, but I did have three remaining adhesions, so it would make sense it's the same again. 
    Just trying to keep calm. 



  • @Bmc2016 I am so sorry for your loss. I'm praying for you and your family. 
    Me: 30 DH: 31
    Married: May 2008
    DD Born: March 2018
    DS Born: April 2019
    Due with #3 December 2020!
  • jchpgjchpg member
    @BmcD2016 I am so very sorry for your loss. I was in a very similar
    situation earlier this year, I know how hard this is. Be kind to yourself. 
  • @BmcD2016 I am so sorry. Sending you thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. ❤️
  • @BmcD2016 - I’m so sorry ❤️ 
  • @BmcD2016 I am so sorry ❤️ 
  • @BmcD2016 I'm so so sorry. Hope your husband gets home soon. How far along were you?
  • @BmcD2016 I’m so so sorry to hear this. Thinking of you ❤️
  • @alsozono- I was 14w2d, baby measured around right at 12 weeks. 

    Thank you all for your kind words. I’ve missed you all and I hope for the best for all of you ❤️
  • @BmcD2016 I’m so sorry 
    DS born 2016
  • @BmcD2016 I’m so very sorry to hear this news. Take care of yourself during this time. It’s a very hard place to be. 
  • akorosakoros member
    I'm out, too. Went in for my 16-week checkup today and there wasn't a heartbeat. They said that it probably happened last week, based on size. Tomorrow I'll work on setting up an appointment for a D&E, and then after that will likely need testing from a MFM since this is my second loss. 

    Best of luck to you all, I hope you all have healthy, happy, holiday babies.
  • @akoros I am so sorry to hear that news. Please take care of yourself right now and I will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. ❤️
  • karmbakarmba member
    @akoros I am so sorry for your loss.   <3
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

    Me: 34 DH: 36
    Married 10/15/11
    M/C October 2014
    BFP #2 4/3/16  EDD 12/8/16  DS 11/19/16


  • jchpgjchpg member
    Oh, @akoros I am so sorry for your loss. Please be kind to yourself and take good care. I know this is not easy. I’m sending you positive thoughts and support. 
  • @akoros Oh no I'm so sorry for your loss :(<3 Take care of yourself 
    TTC History:
    Me: 36 H: 40 Married 2015. Together since 2010.
    TTC: Sept 2016-Oct 2017
    BFP Oct 2017. DD born July 2018.
    TTC: March 2020. BFP March 2020
    Due date was Nov 2020
    DS born Sept 2020. DS passed away Nov 2020 due to prematurity and birth trauma.
    TTC: March 2021
    IUI #1 Nov 2021, BFN
    IUI #2 Dec 2021 BFP.  MC Jan 2022
    IUI #3 Aug 2022 BFN
    IUI #4 Sept 2022 BFN
    AMH test came back at .081. Was going to move on to IVF with DE, but have decided not to. Will be leaving it up to the universe now.



  • @akoros I’m so so sorry to hear this. Please take care of yourself. Sending you support and love ❤️
  • @akoros I am so sorry for your loss. Sending you love and strength ❤️
  • @akoros so sorry! Take care of yourself. Praying for you!
  • @akoros I am so sorry to hear that!  Sending love and strength your way.  Many prayers for you.  
  • @akoros I'm so very sorry for your loss - wishing you peace and healing  <3
  • @akoros My thoughts are with you — sending you strength.
  • @akoros I am so sorry. sending your family love and strength 
  • @akoros I’m so so sorry - I can’t imagine how you’re feeling. I will be thinking of you, and I hope that you’ll find some answers from testing 🙏🏻
  • @akoros - I’m so sorry 💔 Sending prayers you’re way 
  • @akoros I'm so sorry  <3
  • @akoros I’m so sorry
    DS born 2016
  • akoros i'm so so sorry for your loss. sending strength. pls take care of yourself. 
  • @shantx Wishing you all the best! Hoping for good news and happy times ahead ❤️
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