December 2020 Moms
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*TW* Spotting/Bleeding/Threatened Loss Support

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Re: *TW* Spotting/Bleeding/Threatened Loss Support

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    I had a viability u/s this morning. Results weren't great, but OB is still hopeful. I was measuring a few days behind and the heartbeat rate was low. I am supposed to schedule another u/s for 2 weeks from now but it will be hard to wait that long. DH is trying to be supportive, but everything I read says low heartbeat rate is not a good sign.
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    @cheers28 hoping everything works out for you!
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    hham10hham10 member
    @cheers28 I’m sorry to hear it didn’t go well. What was the HR? My cousin had twins and one measures a week behind with a very weak hr at first and she’s now a vibrant healthy 5.5 year old. 
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    mee1537mee1537 member
    @shantx my heart is breaking for you. Sending so much love your way ❤️
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    jchpgjchpg member
    @shantx I am so sorry for your loss. Be strong yet kind to yourself. 
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    @shantx I'm so sorry. My heart hurts for you! 
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    @shantx I’m so so sorry to hear that. Sending you love and healing right now.
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    @shantx I’m so so sorry 🥺
    Me: 36 | DH: 35 | Married: 9.17.16
    Diminished ovarian reserve
    BFP: 4/14/2020 EDD: 12/20/2020
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    @shantx. Sending you so much love!  I am so sorry for you!  
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    @shantx I’m so sorry. Take care of yourself!
    TTC History:
    Me: 36 H: 40 Married 2015. Together since 2010.
    TTC: Sept 2016-Oct 2017
    BFP Oct 2017. DD born July 2018.
    TTC: March 2020. BFP March 2020
    Due date was Nov 2020
    DS born Sept 2020. DS passed away Nov 2020 due to prematurity and birth trauma.
    TTC: March 2021
    IUI #1 Nov 2021, BFN
    IUI #2 Dec 2021 BFP.  MC Jan 2022
    IUI #3 Aug 2022 BFN
    IUI #4 Sept 2022 BFN
    AMH test came back at .081. Was going to move on to IVF with DE, but have decided not to. Will be leaving it up to the universe now.



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    @shantx my heart is breaking for you hearing this. I’m so sorry for your loss. Sending you lots of hugs and love ❤️ Take care of yourself. 
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    @shantx so sorry for your loss! Please take care of yourself!
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    @shantx I’m so sorry. 
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    @shantx I’m so sorry. Be kind to yourself. 
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    @shantx my love to you in this difficult time  <3
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    @shantx I am so sorry for your loss, take care of yourself!
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    @hham10 - I was measuring 6w1d with a heart rate of 76. I wasn't temping but based on OPKs, CM, typical post-O symptoms, and timing of my positive - I should have been somewhere in the 7w - 7w2d range. 
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    hham10hham10 member
    @shantx I’m so sorry for your loss. 
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    jbal918jbal918 member
    @shantx I’m so sorry 
    DS born 2016
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    @shantx i'm so so sorry for your loss...
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    @shantx I’m so sorry. Big hugs to you. 
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    mee1537mee1537 member
    @shantx I'm in the same boat, found out this morning that my levels have dropped by half. I hope to be back on here soon with another birth month. Big hugs to you ❤️
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    @mee1537 I’m so sorry to hear that. Thinking of you 💕
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    @mee1537 so sorry to hear!
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    jchpgjchpg member
    @mee1537 I’m so sorry for your loss- take good care of yourself! 
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    @mee1537 I'm so sorry for your loss and to hear your going through that. Sending you hugs ❤❤ 
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    @mee1537 I’m so sorry to hear :(
    TTC History:
    Me: 36 H: 40 Married 2015. Together since 2010.
    TTC: Sept 2016-Oct 2017
    BFP Oct 2017. DD born July 2018.
    TTC: March 2020. BFP March 2020
    Due date was Nov 2020
    DS born Sept 2020. DS passed away Nov 2020 due to prematurity and birth trauma.
    TTC: March 2021
    IUI #1 Nov 2021, BFN
    IUI #2 Dec 2021 BFP.  MC Jan 2022
    IUI #3 Aug 2022 BFN
    IUI #4 Sept 2022 BFN
    AMH test came back at .081. Was going to move on to IVF with DE, but have decided not to. Will be leaving it up to the universe now.



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    jbal918jbal918 member
    @mee1537 I’m so sorry
    DS born 2016
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    @mee1537. Sending love your way.  I am so sorry!
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    @mee1537 I'm so sorry.
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    @mee1537 I’m so sorry!
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    I am so sorry @shantx and @mee1537
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    I am so sorry for your losses @shantx and @mee1537
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    @mee1537 i'm so sorry. so so hard. sending love. 
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    starzzz27starzzz27 member
    edited May 2020

    I posted in here that I've been spotting, but tonight around 11:30 I passed a huge clot with minimal bleeding and no pain.  I went to the ER and after an US, they said that I have subchorionic  hemorrhage and baby is fine. This is so nerve wracking. What am I gonna do during those 7 months that I have left on pelvic rest and bedrest? The anxiety and the stress are eating me alive.  I pray and pray for my baby to stay healthy. 

    Sorry guys I can only rant in here.  I have no friends and nobody else except my husband but he's so afraid of a 3rd miscarriage that I can't tell him how I feel exactly.  Sorry for the graphic.
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    jbal918jbal918 member
    edited May 2020
    @starzzz27 I'm glad everything is ok! Please make sure you add a TW - Trigger Warning - when posting something like that. People may click it without realizing what it is. Thanks!

    ETA - Please, please don’t take that the wrong way! 
    DS born 2016
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