August 2018 Moms

Weekly Randoms 3/5

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  • I walk almost every day so I felt really good yesterday power walking a 5k I do with my husband and his family every year.  About an hour after we left the race my back stiffened up and now I can barely move.  Awesome.  
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    2016 - dx with super low ovarian reserve; failed cycle with clomid, failed IUI, 
    2017 - egg retrieval #1 - 3 eggs, 0 embryos appropriate for transfer; ER #2 2 eggs, 0 embryos on day 3; ER #3 1 egg 0 embryos
    moved to donor egg in summer 2017; 35 eggs retrieved; 19 fertilized; 9 total embryos
    Fresh transfer Dec 2017= BFP!  baby boy born 8/22/18

    May 2019 - surprise natural pregnancy ended in MC
    Nov 2019 FET; MC at 9 weeks
    May 2020 FET; BFN
    July 2020 FET; CP treated with methotrexate
    Oct 2020 BFP! 

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    @jsnakehole baaahahaha yes a DH Daycare :lol:

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  • I'm at work though I would prefer to be in bed binge watching shows with this nasty head cold.  Maybe a 1/2 day? We're touring another daycare tonight though because the one DS goes to eliminates it's school age program this summer which means we need to basically start all over again.

    Tomorrow we are registering DS for Kindergarten - like WTF it's March?!?  Also, how is he old enough to go to Kindergarten this year. My baby!
  • Despite the beautiful sunny and warm weather over the weekend, and much sunbathing and book reading, I was a raging bitch all weekend. The slightest thing sets me off, and even I KNOW it's ridiculous, but I can't help myself either. My husband declared that all of my usual buttons have turned into one giant button. Pregnancy hormones are no joke. Sigh.

    Today I hope having the house to myself will help me get some much needed chores done and help ground my mood, somewhat. Although it's not looking promising. Upon walking into the kitchen for my breakfast and coffee, I was accosted by my talkative cat, Salem, screeching at me in the highest pitch she can muster for her morning treats which hasn't started the day off to a good start. Heaven forbid I take a shower before she gets her treats. She had to wait 10 whole minutes. The booklet I was reading last night said the baby's ears are starting to work this week (Week 15) and I had to apologize to my belly for the things that loudly came out of my mouth. 

    And I'm on Day 5 of hiding from my best friend. So, yay.
  • @neeraja_k  could your anger also be anxiety? Mine manifests like that sometimes - like quick to anger about little things.  Usually for me it's clutter hahaha

    I can relate to the cat - we have two 13 year old cats and the female, if you don't give her her can food by 5:30 PM she freaks the F out.  Then she eats it and I swear she might be getting cat dementia because she'll start meowing for it again recently.
  • @neeraja_k yes, the second trimester hormones! Mine got so bad last pregnancy, I seriously couldn't tell if I was upset about something normal or if I was being completely delusional. I had a really hard time handling them. I would have to ask one of my girlfriends or DH if I was being absurd or not. They got a lot better by third tri. It might be a bumpy few weeks but we're here for you!
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  • @scottishlass1213 It could be, I guess? Mostly I was just super frustrated with my husband, my best friend, my shitty family, and everything else in life overwhelming me and having no one to talk to about any of it. If I can't have an outlet of some sort it builds and builds until little insignificant things start causing me to have outbursts of anger. 

    This is more of a bitch fest, but whatever. I asked him for help looking at carseats, because there's so much selection and different options that I was getting overwhelmed trying to do it by myself. But he told me to do it by myself, so I did. I spent several hours on Friday night and Saturday morning researching things. I picked out what I thought was the best option for us, and reported in what I found. Only to be told it's ridiculous expensive (it was $160), there has to be something cheaper (there is, but they're all discontinued and not available locally), you didn't look hard enough, let's not bother with the 25% BRU coupon and look elsewhere (Eff you), blah blah blah.

    I just looked at him, didn't say a word, and walked out the door, because I couldn't say anything that I wouldn't regret later. Two hours later he came to tell me he came to the same conclusion, only never apologized for being a dick about it. 


  • @scottishlass1213 ugh that's BS. I think men sometimes need to be told to apologize. It's like they don't realize they've been hurtful. 

    @mrsbubbles-2 We are SO stuck on names this time. I have no solid ideas. It's weird. With DS, it was pretty easy. 

    @jsnakehole do you ever dream in another language when you have to use it a lot? That happens to me usually before/during/after a trip to Mexico. Lol. I wake up EXHAUSTED from translating my own dreams. 


    I was off the board pretty much since Thursday because I worked out of the office Friday and had a busy weekend. Like some of you, my 2nd tri hormones are terrible. I am in an awful mood today for no real reason. 

    Also, I think I have anterior placenta again and the movements I was feeling pretty regularly are non-existent now. I've used the doppler so I know all is well (can hear baby kicking it and moving) but it makes me sad to not feel anything. 

    I have a major major major meeting tomorrow for a big project I finished in January and I don't want to go. Over it!!! Just want to quit now instead of later lol. 
  • @neeraja_k Ugh, sometimes husbands are so dumb. I'm sorry you've been feeling so frustrated, I totally get it. I'm impressed you just walked away when he said that to you though. I would have turned that into a huge fight, which wouldn't have been productive either. I know you're under a lot of stress with family, friend, and a potential move so feel free to let it out here.

    I had been feeling so good the last week or so, and then yesterday was terrible. Headache and nausea all day. Although I did manage to get a manicure and make homemade rolls for dinner.
  • juliebird6juliebird6 member
    edited March 2018
    @lalala2004 Italian last name over here too and DH seriously wants to name this baby Giuseppe if it's a boy.  I just can't get on board.  DH's whole family is Italian but *we* aren't that Italian.  We're like mutt American status.  Just seems wrong to me.  Are you planning to call him Giovanni or use a nickname?
  • @lalala2004 Italian last name over here too and DH seriously wants to name this baby Giuseppe if it's a boy.  I just can't get on board.  DH's whole family is Italian but *we* aren't that Italian.  We're like mutt American status.  Just seems wrong to me.  Are you planning to call him Giovanni or use a nickname?
    We plan to call him Giovanni, but I'm sure nicknames will emerge because DS1 will unlikely be able to say that! So he'll probably be Gio. I feel like both Dante and Giovanni are definitely Italian names, but I'd say they're a little more mainstream than Giuseppe! I've had students named Giovanni that weren't Italian at all.
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  • neeraja_k I probably would have flipped out. Good job walking away. I told DH to look into travel systems and I am still waiting on that. He is really into safety to the point of insanity so I figure he would go over anything I picked anyway. 

    @melbel0824 Hope you fell better today. I wasn't feeling real hot yesterday either. I was just super tired and nauseous. So far today I fell better. 

    @lalala2004 I like Giovanni Enzo! 

    I am getting the NIPT blood drawn again today. I really hope they are able to get results out of it this time because I am freaking out a little bit still and it would just ease my mind. 

  • I bought myself a bag of Cadbury mini eggs yesterday at target. It will be gone before the end of the day, I am pretty sure. yummmmmm!

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  • @lalala2004 I love that name! If we were having a boy I was pushing hard for Lorenzo/Enzo for the first name to go with our Italian last name.
  • edited March 2018
    Solidarity with everyone stuggling with raging hormones/emotions. I did have an emotionally draining weekend, but crying at my desk this morning after I walked into a literal and figurative shitstorm was probably a little over the top. 
  • +1 for raging hormones. I've been angry, then crazy happy and sentimental to the point of tears. Also I have those feelings about my son not napping,  frustrated about it, but sentimental he's growing out of his naps and kind of happy bc we can go get groceries since he isn't napping. 



  • Man ladies, I think we all needed another day off today!  HUGS all around.
  • Sorry to all for the husbands/families not being great. I have been really teary again lately and cry at everything but DH told me on Saturday that I was being weirdly nice to the extent that it scared him, I guess I must have been really moody for a while there  :D
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    Me: 37, MH: 38; Married August 2017

    TTC #1 October 2017: BFP on 12/1/2017, DD born 7/24/2018 @ 37+1 after induction due to preeclampsia

    TTC #2 January 2020: AMA, dx with DOR in May 2020

    IVF July 2020: 16 eggs retrieved, 14 mature, 12 fertilized, 3 blasts, 2 PGT-A normal

    FET 10/7/20: BFP on 10/12/20!!! (EDD 6/25/21); First beta 10/16/20 (9dpt): 148; Second beta 10/19/20 (12dpt): 621; Third beta 10/26/20 (19dpt): 4732; Fourth (and final!) beta 11/2/20 (26 dpt): 22,000+

  • @doctormom33 Pretty sure you're literal shitstorm would have made me cry. And probably vomit right now.
  • @melbel0824 and cry I did. Luckily, I was able to use the excuse of a dentist appointment this afternoon to sneak home for a shower. I do have a dentist appt, just not for another 2 hrs.  :p 
  • I’m over here with the crazy pregnancy hormones too! I have been short with everyone at work today and everything has made me irrationally mad. A coworker told me she was avoiding me because she could tell I was in a bad mood 
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  • 4:45 and I'm just now able to check in here today. It started off horrible with my boss getting attitude with me this morning about something so ridiculous I can't even stand it. She is horrible at communicating and half the time she just makes me shake my dang head.
    I hit 15 week this week and a +1 to hormones. I've just been cranky lately and I'm not even sure why! I don't have a ton of time to tag everyone, but it sounds like a lot of us are in the same boat and have a major case of the Mondays.
    I think we all need a group hug.
    Me: 34 DH: 37
    DS: 5.28.15
    DS#2: EDD 8.31.18

  • The Amazon Kids Fire Tablet 32G is on sale today for $89. Just an FYI in case anyone is considering one. I kind of feel a little guilty getting my kid a tablet but he's learned a ton on my phone games so I think it will be okay. 
  • @doctormom - So glad you were able to go home and spend some time cleaning up! I'm so sorry! BTW - every time I see your siggy I think that's actually your H that picked it out and I'm like, we could totally be friends because that's hilarious!

    Sorry to everyone having a rough day. I agree - we all need another day off!

    We've had some company higher-ups come in a few times over the last 2 weeks. I'm avoiding them the best I can because I only have 2 pairs of maternity work pants and I don't feel like doing extra laundry at the moment. So me and my jeans are staying hidden at my desk for as long as possible!
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  • @mrsbubbles-2
    That card makes me think of a Gilmore Girls episode when Rory buys "Happy New Year" cards and replaces "year" with "baby" lol.

    @elsieisamoocow
    I really like the colors, but I'm afraid to get anything not neutral because then I feel I'll have to try and coordinate the carrier to my outfit, and that's way more effort than I'm willing to exert. It would also be harder to share baby duty with DH. I always wonder about that when I see pretty patterned wraps and carriers.


    Me:32
    DH:45
    DSD: 20
    DSS: 18
    Team green baby due: Aug 6th, 2018

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  • edited March 2018
    @derbysquirrel This *is* neutral for me :lol: My ring sling and other favorite Tulas are rainbow (because DS was a rainbow baby), so this one will match more things, mainly because I live in solid colored yoga pants or jeans. 

    ETA: DH has his own Tula (it has dapper foxes on it, that he claimed after I bought it), which I actually prefer because then he doesn't mess with my straps the way I like them!
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    BFP 12.23.13, EDD 9.2.14 - baby girl, born too soon at 22w6d due to a placental abruption on 5.5.14
    BFP 8.4.14, EDD 4.15.15 - rainbow son, born at 30w4d due to a placental abruption on 2.8.15, healthy 3 y/o now!
    BFP 2.28.17, EDD 11.8.17 - baby girl, miscarried at 11 weeks on 4.21.17
    BFP 11.28.17, EDD 8.8.18, delivering in July - another rainbow baby boy!

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