lurker, siggy warning:@bumpadmin @BumpTara @BumpCaitlin Please hear what we are saying. I can tell you that I would not have stayed on this board if it weren't for @adirat and @antoto. If you are looking for one-off clicks, then keep going the way you are going. But if you are looking for long term, returning users who start in TTGP and move on to other boards, then you are seriously shooting yourselves in the foot by jailing long time, supportive and contributing members. Not to mention all the hurtful, awful things that poster yesterday said. I think it would also be beneficial if you could come on here and truly explain your process (instead of just a canned response) since If these two aren't able to come back, you are seriously risking losing some of your most regular users. I'm sure your advertisers would be less than thrilled. it seems like the "process" is inconsistent at best.
I only discovered these boards about a week ago and I have already seen posts from @adirat that have been so knowledgeable and helpful to me as I am beginning this journey. Banning her and @antoto takes away some great resources of this community. Look at all the support from other members! Clearly, they are highly valued around here and I would agree with other posters that say you're at risk for losing members because of this ban. Again, as a new member, I would rather talk to other women about their experiences on a message board than read endless TTC articles.
I saw the thread yesterday. It was obvious that OP was only here to inflame others. It should have been shut down as soon as the c word was tossed out. But it wasn't. It continued so these bans are just completely unjustified.
Has anyone ever actually seen admin post on a thread other than the typical copy and paste responses? I've only been messaged.
Where the rules posted regarding warnings/bannings etc?
I just am trying to understand where the rules are posted so that we can all ensure as a community that they are enforced fairly across the board. There seems to be quite a bit of confusion as to why these posters have been punished and why others weren't, and a discrepancy as to how the "punishment" is being doled out. How are we supposed to have order when it does not appear there is any sort of organization to how this board is run? What is the process here? posed to have order when it does not appear there is any sort of organization to how this board is run? What is the process here?
All of this. Yesterday was really one for the record books.It's pretty clear here where corporate stands in terms of creating a space for regs who need and give support unflinching vs. keeping a bunch of asshole randos in the pipeline. It's disgusting. They get to come here and outright MOCK in various and sundry ways people who may be struggling to concieve, and when we stand up for the integrity of our supposed safe haven, we're the ones who are punished.What an absolute joke.
@BumpAdmin @BumpCaitlin @BumpCarley @BumpJackie @BumpMay @BumpTara Signing petition. OP yesterday was beyond cruel to these valuable members @adirat and @antoto