Have you noticed any differences in the colds? My kids have all gotten colds back to back before and it sucks! They did have a couple of days between colds where they were better but then the next cold hit. I'd get cranky if my ped said to get use to coming in a lot because my kid was in daycare. On a positive note maybe preschool will be easier on your LO, my boys always caught 6-7 colds the first yr of preschool. Blood test sound like a good idea to me too, I hope he gets better soon and you can have break from all this yuck!
That could very well be the case. It makes sense since he's already in a weakened state from the first illness so he could easily catch more quickly and frequently until his immune system is beefed up enough to say, "NO MORE!" It seems to be across the board that the 1st year just sucks for illness.
A friend of mine (and FTM) shared this article with me and I thought it was an interesting read. Wanted to share it with you all!
"When women find themselves feeling lost somewhere between who they were before motherhood and who they think they should be now, many worry that something is terribly wrong, when in fact this discomfort is absolutely common."
I know I personally struggled a lot with with feeling like I've lost my sense of identity and am trying to figure out who I am now, this new version of myself.
I feel like the most useless person ever. I feel like Preston always decides to take steps back in his sleep during my hormonal time of the month and I can't handle it. I know it's the hormones that cause it but that doesn't make it go away. I'm already on meds which work 3 weeks out if the month but the week before my period, it's like it was before I had medication. The worst is I can't tell if Preston is teething or not because when we are not trying to get him to sleep he's fine but during sleep time he freaks out or acts uncomfortable. Like he's trying to go to sleep but either can't settle down or wakes up a lot/early. DH says just give him Motrin but I feel like I'm drugging him. It makes me feel like such a failure every month.
I feel like the most useless person ever. I feel like Preston always decides to take steps back in his sleep during my hormonal time of the month and I can't handle it. I know it's the hormones that cause it but that doesn't make it go away. I'm already on meds which work 3 weeks out if the month but the week before my period, it's like it was before I had medication. The worst is I can't tell if Preston is teething or not because when we are not trying to get him to sleep he's fine but during sleep time he freaks out or acts uncomfortable. Like he's trying to go to sleep but either can't settle down or wakes up a lot/early. DH says just give him Motrin but I feel like I'm drugging him. It makes me feel like such a failure every month.
That sucks. The second guessing is never easy to deal with. I don't know what bf you're using, but have you thought about switching to something that would give you fewer periods? I've been using the implant in my arm and have not had a period since. I understand not everyone reacts to it that way, but it might be worth considering to help resolve the monthly struggle with your shifting hormones. I know my hormones would always get out of whack before my period when I was on the pill.
DD1: June '16 DD2: March ‘19 :::: Married since 2011 :::: USN Wife ::::
I feel like the most useless person ever. I feel like Preston always decides to take steps back in his sleep during my hormonal time of the month and I can't handle it. I know it's the hormones that cause it but that doesn't make it go away. I'm already on meds which work 3 weeks out if the month but the week before my period, it's like it was before I had medication. The worst is I can't tell if Preston is teething or not because when we are not trying to get him to sleep he's fine but during sleep time he freaks out or acts uncomfortable. Like he's trying to go to sleep but either can't settle down or wakes up a lot/early. DH says just give him Motrin but I feel like I'm drugging him. It makes me feel like such a failure every month.
That sucks. The second guessing is never easy to deal with. I don't know what bf you're using, but have you thought about switching to something that would give you fewer periods? I've been using the implant in my arm and have not had a period since. I understand not everyone reacts to it that way, but it might be worth considering to help resolve the monthly struggle with your shifting hormones. I know my hormones would always get out of whack before my period when I was on the pill.
@adiaz132003 have you talked to your doctor about it? I've been super stressed with the party this month and the two parties next month so my doctor has me taking more of my anxiety meds because my anxiety can make my depression worse. So maybe you can find something that you just add to the mix for that week out of the month?
@adiaz132003 have you talked to your doctor about it? I've been super stressed with the party this month and the two parties next month so my doctor has me taking more of my anxiety meds because my anxiety can make my depression worse. So maybe you can find something that you just add to the mix for that week out of the month?
She's the worst, she's always trying to up my meds even when I feel good. I feel great 3 weeks out if the month but the other week is so up and down
The combination of my period, being sick and overtired has sent my anxiety into a tizzy this week. I really feel like I'm not functioning even at 50%. At least I have my therapist tonight.
Anyone have any good stress relieving tips? Any tips on getting out of your head when you are perseverating?
The combination of my period, being sick and overtired has sent my anxiety into a tizzy this week. I really feel like I'm not functioning even at 50%. At least I have my therapist tonight.
Anyone have any good stress relieving tips? Any tips on getting out of your head when you are perseverating?
I'm sorry you are having a bad week. That was me a few weeks ago. When I need a little me time I usually grab a beer and a book and head to the tub for a little soak time.
The combination of my period, being sick and overtired has sent my anxiety into a tizzy this week. I really feel like I'm not functioning even at 50%. At least I have my therapist tonight.
Anyone have any good stress relieving tips? Any tips on getting out of your head when you are perseverating?
Ugh same here. I see my therapist twice a month but we still haven't found something to help calm me down.
The combination of my period, being sick and overtired has sent my anxiety into a tizzy this week. I really feel like I'm not functioning even at 50%. At least I have my therapist tonight.
Anyone have any good stress relieving tips? Any tips on getting out of your head when you are perseverating?
Ugh same here. I see my therapist twice a month but we still haven't found something to help calm me down.
One of my main reasons for getting back to the gym (other than the obvious) is that it helps me with my anxiety and stress. Working out has always been a go-to stress-reliever for me. It takes my mind off of what's causing the stress/anxiety and I end up feeling pretty good about myself ("I'm healthier today than I was yesterday!"). I've started seeing a therapist once a week as well, just to shake some things out. Part of it too is just trying to take better care of myself. I wouldn't necessarily say I'm putting myself first but I'm trying to be more conscientious about how I'm feeling, what's causing my stress and anxiety, and being more open to telling someone (like my husband) that I need help (one of my big issues is just not asking for help). I also still color in my adult coloring book that my parents got me for Christmas. I usually do it at the very end of the day, just before going to sleep. It's a great way for me to just zone out and focus on the picture, colors, etc. and ease into sleep.
The combination of my period, being sick and overtired has sent my anxiety into a tizzy this week. I really feel like I'm not functioning even at 50%. At least I have my therapist tonight.
Anyone have any good stress relieving tips? Any tips on getting out of your head when you are perseverating?
Ugh same here. I see my therapist twice a month but we still haven't found something to help calm me down.
One of my main reasons for getting back to the gym (other than the obvious) is that it helps me with my anxiety and stress. Working out has always been a go-to stress-reliever for me. It takes my mind off of what's causing the stress/anxiety and I end up feeling pretty good about myself ("I'm healthier today than I was yesterday!"). I've started seeing a therapist once a week as well, just to shake some things out. Part of it too is just trying to take better care of myself. I wouldn't necessarily say I'm putting myself first but I'm trying to be more conscientious about how I'm feeling, what's causing my stress and anxiety, and being more open to telling someone (like my husband) that I need help (one of my big issues is just not asking for help). I also still color in my adult coloring book that my parents got me for Christmas. I usually do it at the very end of the day, just before going to sleep. It's a great way for me to just zone out and focus on the picture, colors, etc. and ease into sleep.
I just started a new workout program and I do feel awesome after in done but in still in the "sjit this hurts phase" lol. I also have those coloring books. I should try and do it before bed too cause I seem to have a hard time turning off, it takes me 30-60 min to fall asleep at night.
I still have a hard time with my anxiety when I'm sleep deprived. All this week the girls have been sick. My toddler will wake up every hour at night, and Nadia has been getting up at 4am. Last night I was rocking Nadia trying to get her to calm down and sleep, and just thinking of ways to get out of here. Ugh. I can hardly look at the kids today without feeling overwhelmed by a mixture of guilt, anxiety, and anger. On top of that I have crazy anxiety over this house dh wants to buy, and nothing has been working out this week. I don't know what I'll do if this doesn't improve soon
I still have a hard time with my anxiety when I'm sleep deprived. All this week the girls have been sick. My toddler will wake up every hour at night, and Nadia has been getting up at 4am. Last night I was rocking Nadia trying to get her to calm down and sleep, and just thinking of ways to get out of here. Ugh. I can hardly look at the kids today without feeling overwhelmed by a mixture of guilt, anxiety, and anger. On top of that I have crazy anxiety over this house dh wants to buy, and nothing has been working out this week. I don't know what I'll do if this doesn't improve soon
I still have a hard time with my anxiety when I'm sleep deprived. All this week the girls have been sick. My toddler will wake up every hour at night, and Nadia has been getting up at 4am. Last night I was rocking Nadia trying to get her to calm down and sleep, and just thinking of ways to get out of here. Ugh. I can hardly look at the kids today without feeling overwhelmed by a mixture of guilt, anxiety, and anger. On top of that I have crazy anxiety over this house dh wants to buy, and nothing has been working out this week. I don't know what I'll do if this doesn't improve soon
I'm sorry! I get like that too with my kids. Can you tell your husband that you need a day to yourself? I do that sometimes if I'm super wound up. It really helps me calm down and get back to myself.
I still have a hard time with my anxiety when I'm sleep deprived. All this week the girls have been sick. My toddler will wake up every hour at night, and Nadia has been getting up at 4am. Last night I was rocking Nadia trying to get her to calm down and sleep, and just thinking of ways to get out of here. Ugh. I can hardly look at the kids today without feeling overwhelmed by a mixture of guilt, anxiety, and anger. On top of that I have crazy anxiety over this house dh wants to buy, and nothing has been working out this week. I don't know what I'll do if this doesn't improve soon
I still have a hard time with my anxiety when I'm sleep deprived. All this week the girls have been sick. My toddler will wake up every hour at night, and Nadia has been getting up at 4am. Last night I was rocking Nadia trying to get her to calm down and sleep, and just thinking of ways to get out of here. Ugh. I can hardly look at the kids today without feeling overwhelmed by a mixture of guilt, anxiety, and anger. On top of that I have crazy anxiety over this house dh wants to buy, and nothing has been working out this week. I don't know what I'll do if this doesn't improve soon
I'm sorry! I get like that too with my kids. Can you tell your husband that you need a day to yourself? I do that sometimes if I'm super wound up. It really helps me calm down and get back to myself.
Unfortunately there is just so much going on right now that there is literally no time left for a break. I'm up by 5am, and not to bed till 11, and none of that time is spent in recreation or by myself (unless you count taking the kids to the park or getting a shower, ) im hoping next week provides a little relief
This afternoon an article popped up about a toddler dying after being left in the daycare van for hours in the sun. Next thing I know, I'm having a full blown panic attack. Suddenly I couldn't remember if I dropped Damien off at daycare or if he was still in the car...despite, rationally, knowing that YES, I did. I distinctly remember the drop-off because my damn dress kept trying to blow up a la Marilyn Monroe during the walk and Damien was babbling up a storm and squealing with delight because he loves the wind. It took me a long time to shake the panic, it was not pleasant. I even went outside to look in my car, just so I could say, "See, he's not there, he's at daycare and doing just fine." I can't wait to pick him up, just gonna give him a bunch of cuddles.
This afternoon an article popped up about a toddler dying after being left in the daycare van for hours in the sun. Next thing I know, I'm having a full blown panic attack. Suddenly I couldn't remember if I dropped Damien off at daycare or if he was still in the car...despite, rationally, knowing that YES, I did. I distinctly remember the drop-off because my damn dress kept trying to blow up a la Marilyn Monroe during the walk and Damien was babbling up a storm and squealing with delight because he loves the wind. It took me a long time to shake the panic, it was not pleasant. I even went outside to look in my car, just so I could say, "See, he's not there, he's at daycare and doing just fine." I can't wait to pick him up, just gonna give him a bunch of cuddles.
Those stories are so terrible! I always try to remember to check the rear view mirror every time I get in or out of the car to make sure I have put in or taken out everyone.
Lately I've been paranoid about hot cars and dry drowning. Anytime Jackie sputters in the tub it crosses my mind, even though I know it takes a lot more than rinsing her hair to cause it. And I also check the rear view mirror when I'm on my way to work. They say you should put your work bag near the baby so you HAVE to open their door and look right in the car seat before leaving the car for work. Might help you feel remember better that you did in fact drop him off.
DD1: June '16 DD2: March ‘19 :::: Married since 2011 :::: USN Wife ::::
Panic is the worst feeling ever! I hate that. I sometimes talk out loud before getting out of the car, looking in the rear view mirror and say "you do NOT have Savannah in the car this morning!"
I keep all my bags in the backseat and spend the drive talking to Damien so chances of me forgetting him are definitely slim. My brain just went into overdrive at the idea of him being in there. Don't even want to think about it!
Re: Postpartum Depression
"When women find themselves feeling lost somewhere between who they were before motherhood and who they think they should be now, many worry that something is terribly wrong, when in fact this discomfort is absolutely common."
https://www.nytimes.com/2017/05/08/well/family/the-birth-of-a-mother.html
I know I personally struggled a lot with with feeling like I've lost my sense of identity and am trying to figure out who I am now, this new version of myself.
I'm not on any birth control.
She's the worst, she's always trying to up my meds even when I feel good. I feel great 3 weeks out if the month but the other week is so up and down
Anyone have any good stress relieving tips? Any tips on getting out of your head when you are perseverating?
Baby #2 Due 3/7/20
I just started a new workout program and I do feel awesome after in done but in still in the "sjit this hurts phase" lol. I also have those coloring books. I should try and do it before bed too cause I seem to have a hard time turning off, it takes me 30-60 min to fall asleep at night.
im hoping next week provides a little relief
Baby #2 Due 3/7/20