@lemieuxk sending positive thoughts and prayers! As previously stated, you got it girl! You have been doing amazing, and it's almost time to cross the finish line. Very exciting and you will be great. @Jab3 Im so thankful you and your family got temporary shelter. I agree that what you are describing is unacceptable and I am praying things improve even more for you! Hang in there mama! You're a strong woman!!! You and your family will come through this!
@cantalopes24, I think a blanket for his bed would be great, but don't bring something too special in case it gets lost. Assuming you go full term, he likely wouldn't be in an incubator- just a heated bed. Most times the nurses make fun signs with their name for you. Otherwise depending on how long he is there and when allowed to wear clothes you can bring those along later. If they have private rooms bring stuff along that will make you comfortable. Blanket, slippers, nursing pillow, etc.
@scottipino yeah he should be in a bed. I'll be 37+4 so they're not anticipating him needing much. He does have a private room which is nice. We will hopefully be able to bring the older kids so I wanted to keep some Legos or something quiet in there for them to do if they're hanging out.
@Jab3 Just wanted to say glad to see you back, and hopefully some of your contacts can help you get things sorted out soon, especially with the non-functioning bathroom!
@lemieuxk thinking of you! It must be at least a little exciting to have the date scheduled!!
@Jab3 I'm glad you have gotten some temporary shelter, I hope they get their act together and leave you more comfortable soon!
My random info... today we drove by a pond and I was completely blown away by the fact that I saw 7 or 8 "swans" swimming, so I said all excited "look at all those swans!!!" My husband was like "uh, aren't those Canadian geese??"... Oh my, I sure hope this baby is taking all my good brain cells, and this isn't what we have to look forward to lol
I'm sitting here at work continuing to make my lists as things pop in my head because otherwise I'll forget. I'm so freaking uncomfortable right now! My back and my belly are aching and every time I get up it feels like my belly is heavier, plus BH
@Jab3 can I just say you are an incredibly strong mama to have held up through all this. I can't imagine how much stress you must be under, but I'm glad your family has somewhere to temporarily call home and I hope it is in suitable condition very soon. Hang in there!
@cantalopes24 - I have one blanket, 5 sleepers/onesies and 3 hats packed in my NICU bag. For DS, the nurses decorated his area with a name tag. He started wearing clothes after a few days. We didn't have a private room and only had one drawer to store stuff in. I'll probably leave the clothes in his drawer and pack the blanket in my tote to move back and forth between my room and his to use as a drape during kangaroo care time.
So...H and I are going on a day care tour tomorrow lol. He had arranged the tour the Monday before my water broke, and we figured it wouldn't hurt to go. Luckily, my mom offered to watch DD and she lives super close to H's work (on-site day care). It should be an interesting conversation with the director considering H told her I was pregnant when he arranged everything lol.
Random question, not sure where to ask this, so here we go. A friend of mine gave me her old infant car seat with an extra base. I was going to use it, then got one with my stroller. So, I now have an extra car seat. Does anyone know of a good place to bring this? Would goodwill use it? It's never been in a wreck, but I am not sure how I could prove that (if they even ask). I would like someone to use it that would need it. Maybe even the hospitals would take donations?
@leslie1331 are there any mom Facebook groups for your area? We got rid of ours because we didn't like it with my daughter. I posted it on a local mom group and found quite a few women in need of a free car seat.
Thanks guys! I'll check out Facebook or maybe see if there is a local women's shelter that could use it. Didn't even think about using Facebook for not selling
I had my first "and its just one baby youre having" moment yesterday from a random person which given that im nearly 36 weeks with a rather large baby ive probably done well to get as far as this without similar comments.
I had my SO try to do a perineal massage on me last night because I figure wtf not? That ish was uncomfortable and he could only use one finger and I still reacted like a virgin touched for the very first time. Some convo highlights: Me: Ok hold on! Ouch! Him: It's not even in yet. Me: Wait that's too much pressure! Him: I barely moved my finger. His face the whole time My face the whole time
Oh my gosh @foxrosy my doula told me to start PM over a month ago and I'm still putting it off. The barrier seems to be bringing olive oil into the bathroom. Good for you for at least attempting.
I had my SO try to do a perineal massage on me last night because I figure wtf not? That ish was uncomfortable and he could only use one finger and I still reacted like a virgin touched for the very first time. Some convo highlights: Me: Ok hold on! Ouch! Him: It's not even in yet. Me: Wait that's too much pressure! Him: I barely moved my finger. His face the whole time My face the whole time
Omg this sounds like a terrible, brilliant idea. Gonna bring this up to H; maybe he can help with the shaving while he's at it...
I can't figure out how to change the stupid default avatar it gave me a couple of weeks ago. Anyone know how? I use either desktop or the website on my phone in Safari.
@foxrosy this made me actually laugh out loud! We were told to do it at our pre natal classes but both me & my husband are somewhat apprehensive about it & have put it off so far. Will you attempt it again?
I can't figure out how to change the stupid default avatar it gave me a couple of weeks ago. Anyone know how? I use either desktop or the website on my phone in Safari.
On mobile if you click the "more" button on the bottom right, then my account, you can click on the circular default image and it should take you straight to your camera and you can choose from your library from there
I'm glad someone else has tried the perineal massage! My doula recommended my husband read the book The Birth Partner, and it was one of the first things he told me the book recommended doing. I think he thought it would be sexier than it turned out to be - poor guy
I can't figure out how to change the stupid default avatar it gave me a couple of weeks ago. Anyone know how? I use either desktop or the website on my phone in Safari.
On mobile if you click the "more" button on the bottom right, then my account, you can click on the circular default image and it should take you straight to your camera and you can choose from your library from there
Is that the app or the website? I refuse to believe that downloading the app is the only way to do this, but when I get to "my account" through any other method there's nothing to click on.
So my ute is measuring full term for one baby these days. I'm 33 weeks. Yay.
Left bed yesterday to go sit in a chair at a memorial. My SIL snapped an unflattering photo of me and posted online. I'm huge + wearing a huge-er shirt and I just look ginormous. I'd like to punch her.
Last night I watched two episodes of that old TLC show I Didn't Know I Was Pregnant. One lady was pregnant with twins and had them on the toilet and LET ONE FALL IN.
Then my Dad called at 4am on his way to take my mom to the hospital. She was ok but I lost my shit and haven't found it yet.
I just unwrapped a Babybel cheese and threw the cheese in the trash instead of the wrapper and wax. The trash can is empty (clean bag), can I still eat it?
I just unwrapped a Babybel cheese and threw the cheese in the trash instead of the wrapper and wax. The trash can is empty (clean bag), can I still eat it?
I'd give it a rinse, and maybe a pass if you use scented bags.
@lemieuxk you'll do great!!! Sending all my positive vibes, I know the anticipation must be building, but we'll all be here cheering for you!
I can't remember who mentioned the motorized milk frother in this group.. it was months upon months ago, but I bought one as a stocking stuffer for my H, and damn it makes my coffee AMAZING. Thank you whoever you were that brought it up...
My H just texted me that he bought a PS4. There was apparently an epic sale and he did it all with a Christmas gift giftcard and his "fun budget" money, so why am I crying right now? We share most nerdy interests but I just don't get the video game thing.
@Janefelicity I may attempt again. Doing it by myself sounded possible until @poetryandoceans brought me back to reality. I'm fairly certain my bump won't allow me access as well.
DH just texted me and his dad snowblowed our driveway. We had a good 6in of wet awful snow from the storm last night that we were planning on taking care of tonight when we got home. I mean don't get me wrong it's very nice of his dad but his dad has back issues and shouldn't be snowblowing. That is a big part of the reason why he and MIL moved to a place where snow removal and lawn maintenance is done for them. Poor DH, I'm pretty sure he's feeling really guilty right now even though he never asked/mentioned snowblowing to his dad, his dad just did it on his own. Poor me b/c I'm going to have to deal with a moping, guilty feeling DH all night. Also I feel like I should bake FIL a pie or something but I also don't want to encourage him to do this again b/c I'd much rather he didn't hurt his back.
Me: 33 | DH: 34 Married: October, 19, 2015 EDD 2/22/17 DS1 born on 3/2/17 EDD 3/8/20 DS2 born on 3/10/20 EDD 11/24/23 (Formerly Marriedhamstermom Feb ‘17)
Re: Weekly Randoms (12/26)
@Jab3 Im so thankful you and your family got temporary shelter. I agree that what you are describing is unacceptable and I am praying things improve even more for you! Hang in there mama! You're a strong woman!!! You and your family will come through this!
@Jab3 I'm glad you have gotten some temporary shelter, I hope they get their act together and leave you more comfortable soon!
My random info... today we drove by a pond and I was completely blown away by the fact that I saw 7 or 8 "swans" swimming, so I said all excited "look at all those swans!!!" My husband was like "uh, aren't those Canadian geese??"... Oh my, I sure hope this baby is taking all my good brain cells, and this isn't what we have to look forward to lol
Married: 9/2013
Love my LEO!!
TTC #1: 9/2015
BFP: 2/1/16 MC 2/8/16 @ 5wks
BFP: 5/22/16 RAINBOW BABY
EDD: 1/30/2017 *IT'S A GIRL!!!!*
Kirsten Grace 1/20/17
i got two for xmas and this one is above and beyond amazing. I love it!
AZMED Maternity Belt, Breathable Abdominal Binder, Back Support, One Size, Beige https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0113WE0QS/ref=cm_sw_r_sms_c_api_uhCzybBRCB94F
@Jab3, I hope that things look up soon. They need to fix your toilet that's ridiculous.
Ben and Maggie - 4/10/09
Mia - 6/16/11
Surprise! due 2/23/17
Some convo highlights:
Me: Ok hold on! Ouch!
Him: It's not even in yet.
Me: Wait that's too much pressure!
Him: I barely moved my finger.
His face the whole time
My face the whole time
Left bed yesterday to go sit in a chair at a memorial. My SIL snapped an unflattering photo of me and posted online. I'm huge + wearing a huge-er shirt and I just look ginormous. I'd like to punch her.
Last night I watched two episodes of that old TLC show I Didn't Know I Was Pregnant. One lady was pregnant with twins and had them on the toilet and LET ONE FALL IN.
Then my Dad called at 4am on his way to take my mom to the hospital. She was ok but I lost my shit and haven't found it yet.
I'm so sorry for everything @HeatSparks. Creepy internet hugs.
I can't remember who mentioned the motorized milk frother in this group.. it was months upon months ago, but I bought one as a stocking stuffer for my H, and damn it makes my coffee AMAZING. Thank you whoever you were that brought it up...
Married: October, 19, 2015
EDD 2/22/17
EDD 3/8/20
EDD 11/24/23
(Formerly Marriedhamstermom Feb ‘17)