TTC After a Loss

**June TWW**

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Re: **June TWW**

  • Sorry @natsfan2442. I've gotten 2 false positives in a month before and your right it is so cruel. Lots of T&Ps for you. <3
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

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  • Temping/charting question - I'm sure that inoculated yesterday due to physical symptoms and changes in cm. But this morning my temp is still right at my usually CL. I have been having a slow rise pattern since my loss. Here's the weird thing...I hit the snooze about two times and then took my temp again and it went from 97.9 to 98.5. I'd it were a few points it would be different but that's a significant jump. Any ideas?
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  • :'(@natsfan2442 I'm sorry you had to go through that 
    Me: 32 DH: 36
    Married 5/08
    BFP #1: 1/27/13 DS #1 born 10/16/13
    BFP #2: 1/20/16, ectopic discovered 1/23/16
    Surgery 1/23/16 to remove ruptured tube
    TTCAL 3/16
    BFP #3: 3/24/17 EDD 12/5/17
    DS #2 born 12/11/17



  • @natsfan2442 I am very sorry you had to go through that. My thoughts are with you.
    Married: June 2011
    TTC #1: September 2015-January 2016
    BFP #1: 1/25/16 - MMC Diagnosed 3/22/16
    TTCAL: June 2016
    BFP #2: 8/26/16 - EDD 5/9/17
    Jackson born 5/6/17 at 8:36 PM - 9lbs 5oz & 21in
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  • RiverSong15RiverSong15 member
    edited June 2016
    I'm sorry @natsfan2442.

    @Moofish2364, that has happened to me in the past. I'd use your first temp. Even though you were in bed, once you wake up, your BBT can change as your heartrate increases, etc., Charting can change from person to person - some women can get up, walk around, go to bathroom, and not see a difference, and others can't even turn over in bed without it affecting BBT. The important thing to remember is that charting is not about one number or day, but the overall pattern you see in your chart at the end of the month. Forest, not trees...
  • @MooFish2364 I agree with @riversong15. I can't even sit up slightly to grab my thermometer without my BBT going up, I know because I have tried both ways numerous times. Unfortunately sometimes a temp will be trashed because I wake up at 3:30 and fall back asleep and then wake up at 6. Like riversong15 said forest not trees, but I do agree temping can be frustrating!
    Married: June 2011
    TTC #1: September 2015-January 2016
    BFP #1: 1/25/16 - MMC Diagnosed 3/22/16
    TTCAL: June 2016
    BFP #2: 8/26/16 - EDD 5/9/17
    Jackson born 5/6/17 at 8:36 PM - 9lbs 5oz & 21in
      Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • @natsfan2442 I am so sorry. T&P with you and hopefully your Dr can help
  • edited June 2016
    @natsfan2442 Sorry, it all sucks!!

    @dpjennifer I'm dying here dpchickens!! FX, I've been up since 5 am and checking.

    @MooFish2364 I can go to the bathroom and not have it effect my temps, but I still always use the first one.
    Renee, 34 + Devon, 29 married 08/13 <3
    TTC  09/15
    *TW Loss mentioned*
    BFP 12/15/15 EDD: 08/26/16
    MMC discovered 1/25/16 at 9 +3
    TTCAL 3/2016
    Acupuncture 11/16
    Dx December 2016: unexplained 
    January 2017: 50 mg Clomid + TI =
    BFP #2 01/30/17  Please be a sticky baby!
    EDD: 10/15/17  Measuring ahead! 10/12/17 
    Ambrose born on his due date!

  • @natsfan2442 I'm really sorry :( I hope you have a good talk with your dr.
    TW*** Child and loss mentioned
    Married 10/12
    DS 11/14
    Ectopic 2/16
    PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
    IUI x 3- BFN
    Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
    IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
    FET- 6/17- BFP!
    Due Feb 15, 2017
  • Thank you all. ❤ I am guessing it was a chemical pregnancy. Hopefully my doctor can give some more insight tomorrow. 

    FX for you, @dpjennifer!!
    Me: 31 DH: 32
    Married April 2014
    TTC since December 2015
    1st BFP: February 8, 2016; MMC at 7 weeks, 3 days; Discovered at 10 weeks; D&C March 25
    2nd BFP: June 20, 2016; CP June 22, 2016
    3rd BFP: August 13, 2016!!  Fingers crossed!!

  • roper2617roper2617 member
    edited June 2016
    Congrats!!!! @iceandsnowflakes29

    I'm officially back to TWW and DH is NOT helping in the symptom spotting department. Yesterday was O and he says "so, do you feel pregnant yet"....uh, no. No, I do not. Lol. 

    So sorry @natsfans84
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    Me: 26 DH: 28  
    TTC #1 since 06/2014
    BFP #1 09/23/15. MMC discovered 11/24/2015
    BFP #2 08/24/16 EDD 05/08/17


  • Thanks for the feedback on the temping, ladies. I wanted to tag you but mobile won't let me. I can usually move around a bit and also take it a few hours difference and not have much of a change. This was the biggest difference I've ever noticed. It will be interesting to see what happens tomorrow. 
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  • I'm so sorry @natsfan2442 I just had a CP and it is horrible. Hugs to you.

    about temping @MooFish2364 I believe one must not get up and temp while still in bed. Getting up might affect your temp making it not reliable.
    Married 06.21.14 / TTC since 11.15 /
    BFP 01.03.2016 / MMC 6w5d D&C 02.2016 // BFP 05.06.16 / natural MC 05.12.16
    Benched 06.2016-08.2016 / TTC again 09.2016! On a diet. Cranky.
    BFP 10.02.2016 / NT scan at 12w looked normal / Anatomy scan at 20w everything ok
    Team blue! / EDD June 11th 2017
    DAVID ROGER was born on May 23rd at 37 weeks.

    Architect, Peruvian living in Chile. I love art, opera and good chocolate.
    Started PhD studies in Architecture on 2017.
    Fur mom of a rescued miniature poodle called Luke Skywalker.


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    I am so sorry @natsfans84, I had a chemical in September and it was hard. Sending you hugs!
  • Also another girl in my book club announced she's KU yesterday. I am 8dpo and it has taken everything in my power to not POAS!! 
  • @dpjennifer I am crying happy tears for you! Could not be happier for you than I am!!!! Congratulations. <3
    Renee, 34 + Devon, 29 married 08/13 <3
    TTC  09/15
    *TW Loss mentioned*
    BFP 12/15/15 EDD: 08/26/16
    MMC discovered 1/25/16 at 9 +3
    TTCAL 3/2016
    Acupuncture 11/16
    Dx December 2016: unexplained 
    January 2017: 50 mg Clomid + TI =
    BFP #2 01/30/17  Please be a sticky baby!
    EDD: 10/15/17  Measuring ahead! 10/12/17 
    Ambrose born on his due date!

  • JDMRSJDMRS member
    ***Coming out of lurking****
    Congratulations! H&H 9 months!
  • Congrats @dpjennifer!!!!
    “Be present in all things and thankful for all things.”  ~Maya Angelou

    ~~~~ TW ~~~~~~

    Me: 40    DH: 39
    Married 12.19.13
    BFP #1 1/14, MC 2/14 (6wks)
    BFP #2 1/15, MMC/D&C 3/15 (12wks)
    BFP #3 6/15, MC 8/15 (9wks)
    BFP #4 4/16, MC 4/16 (5wks)
    BFP #5 7/16, MMC 8/16 (10 wks)
    BFP #6 3/4 , EDD 11/9/17
  • *lurking* 

    @Spartanrd4 wishing you luck

    To everyone else-  I might be back. I'm pretty sure this is a CP. 

    At 12 dpo my lines are borderline negative and fatigue is diminishing and cramps are picking up. I get a beta today but, I'm not feeling optimistic. 

    I'm just hanging out in limbo until I can come back, basically. 
  • @iceandsnowflakes29 Aw, I'm sorry!  ::creepy internet hugs::  

    MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
    MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
    MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
    RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
    MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
    RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
    MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)

    RE #3: More testing 2023. 
    Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
    Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
    Lupron Depo March 2024.  Benched 3 months.

    FET #1: June 3, 2024 (failed)

    Lupron Depo June 2024. Benched 3 months again before next FET.

    FET #2: September 2024 (failed)

    FET #3: December 2024 (failed)

    #BitterHagPartyOf1

  • @dpjennifer So excited for you! Congratulations! 
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    Me: 26 DH: 28  
    TTC #1 since 06/2014
    BFP #1 09/23/15. MMC discovered 11/24/2015
    BFP #2 08/24/16 EDD 05/08/17


  • @iceandsnowflakes29  I'm so sorry to hear this. Hugs
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    Me: 26 DH: 28  
    TTC #1 since 06/2014
    BFP #1 09/23/15. MMC discovered 11/24/2015
    BFP #2 08/24/16 EDD 05/08/17


  • Oh no @iceandsnowflakes29 I'm really hoping your beta brings good news <3

    Congratulations @dpjennifer!

    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

  • jade24422jade24422 member
    edited June 2016
    So sorry @iceandsnowflakes29 . good luck with the test today.

    Congratulations @dpjennifer!!! 
    Me: 31 DH: 32
    Married April 2014
    TTC since December 2015
    1st BFP: February 8, 2016; MMC at 7 weeks, 3 days; Discovered at 10 weeks; D&C March 25
    2nd BFP: June 20, 2016; CP June 22, 2016
    3rd BFP: August 13, 2016!!  Fingers crossed!!

  • Ugh @iceandsnowflakes29!! FX on your beta!!
  • @iceandsnowflakes29 Hoping for a good sign with your beta
  • @iceandsnowflakes29 Oh, FX everything is all right.
    Renee, 34 + Devon, 29 married 08/13 <3
    TTC  09/15
    *TW Loss mentioned*
    BFP 12/15/15 EDD: 08/26/16
    MMC discovered 1/25/16 at 9 +3
    TTCAL 3/2016
    Acupuncture 11/16
    Dx December 2016: unexplained 
    January 2017: 50 mg Clomid + TI =
    BFP #2 01/30/17  Please be a sticky baby!
    EDD: 10/15/17  Measuring ahead! 10/12/17 
    Ambrose born on his due date!

  • @dpjennifer congrats!! H&H 9 months!

    @iceandsnowflakes29 I hope your betas bring some good news, FX for you!
    Married: June 2011
    TTC #1: September 2015-January 2016
    BFP #1: 1/25/16 - MMC Diagnosed 3/22/16
    TTCAL: June 2016
    BFP #2: 8/26/16 - EDD 5/9/17
    Jackson born 5/6/17 at 8:36 PM - 9lbs 5oz & 21in
      Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • congrats @dpjennifer H&H 9 months!

    @iceandsnowflakes29 oh im so sorry, FX that is not the case. hugs.
    TW*** Child and loss mentioned
    Married 10/12
    DS 11/14
    Ectopic 2/16
    PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
    IUI x 3- BFN
    Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
    IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
    FET- 6/17- BFP!
    Due Feb 15, 2017
  • @dubcompanion fx you're 4 dpo, one less day to wait to test  ;)
    TW*** Child and loss mentioned
    Married 10/12
    DS 11/14
    Ectopic 2/16
    PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
    IUI x 3- BFN
    Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
    IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
    FET- 6/17- BFP!
    Due Feb 15, 2017
  • @dubcompanion yay for O! Hope the TWW crazies stay away. I should also note I am a dirty lurker from WTO and haven't been starting my posts with that this whole time. Woops!
    Married: June 2011
    TTC #1: September 2015-January 2016
    BFP #1: 1/25/16 - MMC Diagnosed 3/22/16
    TTCAL: June 2016
    BFP #2: 8/26/16 - EDD 5/9/17
    Jackson born 5/6/17 at 8:36 PM - 9lbs 5oz & 21in
      Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • **lurking from benched***

    @dpjennifer congratulations!!

    @iceandsnowflakes29 FX for you, so sorry you're in limbo like that. 
    Me: 39 DH: 39
    CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
  • congrats @dpjennifer!! So excited!!!

    im sorry you feel like this @iceandsnowflakes29 FX things will gp
    back to normal
    Married 06.21.14 / TTC since 11.15 /
    BFP 01.03.2016 / MMC 6w5d D&C 02.2016 // BFP 05.06.16 / natural MC 05.12.16
    Benched 06.2016-08.2016 / TTC again 09.2016! On a diet. Cranky.
    BFP 10.02.2016 / NT scan at 12w looked normal / Anatomy scan at 20w everything ok
    Team blue! / EDD June 11th 2017
    DAVID ROGER was born on May 23rd at 37 weeks.

    Architect, Peruvian living in Chile. I love art, opera and good chocolate.
    Started PhD studies in Architecture on 2017.
    Fur mom of a rescued miniature poodle called Luke Skywalker.


    Lilypie First Birthday tickers
  • *lurking from benched* (tbh I rarely write this; is it a big deal here?)

    @iceandsnowflakes29 nooooo! Oh sweetie, sending you all the love and light and hoping for good news <3

    @dpjennifer congrats! I almost forgot to come back and check!!
  • I don't think it's necessary to announce lurking. These threads are meant really to just organize conversations a little more and are a fluid kind of thing. 

    @dpjennifer Congratulations! So happy for you!

    @iceandsnowflakes29 Thinking of you and hoping for a good beta. 
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