UO Thursday 2/4

Charla1224

@dshannah for what it's worth... I get you. Well sort of. I don't always agree but I get you most of the time. 
I understand that your original comment to this thread was a light hearted jab at the lack of drama comments @yogahh and I made. Not an intention to bring up old things. Your "thread police" and "twaffle" post were never about me so I'm not defensive when I read your every post/ thread.... I can't say the same thing for those who you were talking about. 
Lets be honest and call it what it is... They don't like you. And even though you've apologized (in this thread) for comments you've made they aren't going to like you... And have every right not to. And that's the part I don't get. Why are you trying to explain and make nice with people you'll never win with? I just don't see how it's worth it. 

missnc77

This thread makes me feel like I'm back in junior high. What is it about online forums that bring out people's pettiness? It's even more crazy that we're all pregnant and bringing little people into this world in less than 4 months, and here we are calling people twatwaffles, wishing there were more drama, bringing back the past, telling people they aren't liked, ganging up on each other etc. etc. Y'all. For real? Words on a screen. Rise above it.

doozer1345

I'm more of a visual person. Has anyone ever really thought what exactly a twatwaffle is??

yogahh

doozer1345 said:

I'm more of a visual person. Has anyone ever really thought what exactly a twatwaffle is??

I always thought a TW looked something like this

sarawifenow

yogahh said:

doozer1345 said:

I'm more of a visual person. Has anyone ever really thought what exactly a twatwaffle is??

I always thought a TW looked something like this

Well, shit...I look exactly like this in the mornings...

Jenly17

missnc77 said:

This thread makes me feel like I'm back in junior high. What is it about online forums that bring out people's pettiness? It's even more crazy that we're all pregnant and bringing little people into this world in less than 4 months, and here we are calling people twatwaffles, wishing there were more drama, bringing back the past, telling people they aren't liked, ganging up on each other etc. etc. Y'all. For real? Words on a screen. Rise above it.

I wish I could lovetit this a few more times. 

dshannah

Charla1224 said:

@dshannah for what it's worth... I get you. Well sort of. I don't always agree but I get you most of the time. 
I understand that your original comment to this thread was a light hearted jab at the lack of drama comments @yogahh and I made. Not an intention to bring up old things. Your "thread police" and "twaffle" post were never about me so I'm not defensive when I read your every post/ thread.... I can't say the same thing for those who you were talking about. 
Lets be honest and call it what it is... They don't like you. And even though you've apologized (in this thread) for comments you've made they aren't going to like you... And have every right not to. And that's the part I don't get. Why are you trying to explain and make nice with people you'll never win with? I just don't see how it's worth it. 

Thanks for the post and the (totes correct) translation of my position--I was actually surprised folks were still miffed enough by all this to get defensive again.

The reason I keep posting on the board is that, for the most part, I get along with almost everyone in this board except for on this one issue. I've had some great convos on here with some of the very people who are most defensive on this, and gotten support from them and given support to them.

The reason I was tempted to bring this up again was your post and @yogahh's, but also because in the past week I had seen some really rude behavior that made me mad. I'd shaken that off, but then I saw your post and I thought, well, if they miss the drama... It was like fate!

I did consider, @yogahh, posting a "Ramzi me!", but this seemed like more fun and didn't require me to mess around with images:)

Also, I'd really (really really really!) like the people who respond rudely to clueless bumpers to stop doing that. It's beneath all of us and does not accurately reflect the community as a whole.

I know it's like the pot calling the kettle twatwaffle, (only that once! Omg I only said a mean thing on this board *ONCE*!!!!! In one thread only!!!) but If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all. Scroll on by, and don't go out of your way to make new or quieter people feel dumb.

I just don't see why anyone would object to that.

yogahh

@dshannah, do you ever just give it a rest. Again, a thread has been quiet for 24 hours, and you need to come back to open it up... again. The reason why us "thread police" got miffed is because you said the BGS reached out to you to apologize on our behalf. As @doozer1345and others mentioned, that wasn't an apology . That was a form letter apologizing that you were upset, because obvious, you reached out to them after posting 3-THREE (not one as you are claiming) temper tantrum posts calling out members of the board on the same day. Imagine how those of us with warning for the stupidest things feel, when you claim the BGs reached out to you to apologize after you called us assholes?!?! And that you were not warned!!!! It is like you want to rub that tidbit in our faces.

@BumpAdmin is there anyway to close this thread before WW3 breaks out again? Also, how do you block people on here because I would prefer not to see @dshannah posts again (or how she just keeps tagging me in them) as it is hindering my enjoyment of the site. I am here to form relationships. Not to be scolded every few weeks,

lalala2004

At my last OB appointment, a
couple was showing their 2 year old their u/s pictures. They said "What is it?" and he said "A turtle!"

That was hilarious, and if anyone thinks that kid was being rude, you have no sense of humor

JessicaB0627

@dshannah You purposely brought that up knowing you would get a reaction.

Again, you cannot dictate how others respond to a post. Whether it is yours or anyone else's. 

I was going to write a lot more but I'm just going to leave it at that before I get a warning. 

So this is the FOURTH thread, or is it fifth now, that you have chosen to lecture us. Like @yogahh said, that's not creating a very welcoming community

doozer1345

I know it's like the pot calling the kettle twatwaffle, (only that once! Omg I only said a mean thing on this board *ONCE*!!!!! In one thread only!!!) but If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all. Scroll on by, and don't go out of your way to make new or quieter people feel dumb.

This just gets more and more hilarious at the intelligence.

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