Yes or no

Lady Leigh

Still looking for a boys name.

Does Wyatt and Spencer go well together?


 

071115

As a first and middle name or siblings?

Lady Leigh

As siblings we already have Wyatt Micheal

urani

Sounds fine to me. You might want to try the baby names board.

https://forums.thebump.com/categories/baby-names

Lady Leigh

Yeah I didn't think before posting still waking up

071115

As siblings they sound cute together

colleen4019

Spencer is a cute name. Criminal minds?

Lady Leigh

No I don't watch criminal minds, I just like the name lol

lifewrite

Chunkymonkeylvr said:

Why do people care if siblings name sound good together? I never understood this.

Yeah, as long as they don't rhyme I don't think it matters.

kellbell1982

I'm also confused as to why it matters if the siblings names go together? They are seperate people with unique personalities so why not names? My daughter is Cameron, my stepson is Louis the fifth, and we have yet to choose a name for our unborn daughter but I don't plan on choosing based on how it sounds with my other two kids. I think both names you chose are nice regardless of whether they go together or not

kellbell1982

I'm also confused as to why it matters if the siblings names go together? They are seperate people with unique personalities so why not names? My daughter is Cameron, my stepson is Louis the fifth, and we have yet to choose a name for our unborn daughter but I don't plan on choosing based on how it sounds with my other two kids. I think both names you chose are nice regardless of whether they go together or not

Stargirlb

Go with Blake. Has that masculine refined sound you seem to be going for

rm2013

I think they sound fine, but I also don't think sibling names don't need to go together

And ignore stargirlb, she's just a troll from another board trying to stir up shit for fun. Lame.

Beamer14

I think they sound adorable together and if you like the two names, that's more important than if they sound good together!

Stargirlb

saucylittlemonkeygirl said:

Yes... and who is @Stargirlb ? Did I miss an intro?

I have an intro from two days ago or something somewhere on the first couple pages. I am 25, from Vancouver bc, and expecting my third. Due feb 3rd. My main board is January but I also post a bit on feb and March. (Though I prob won't have a March baby unless I go to 44 weeks, yikes!)

Stargirlb

saucylittlemonkeygirl said:

rm2013 said:

And ignore stargirlb, she's just a troll from another board trying to stir up shit for fun. Lame.

@rm2013  If you say so.  Her pic creeped me out more than my siggy challenge pic and that's saying something. I'm pro public breastfeeding but definitely not into pics of it. 
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Why are breastfeeding pics creepy..?

rm2013

Stargirlb

saucylittlemonkeygirl said:

@Stargirlb ....just my opinion homie. I don't like birth pics and placenta prints either. I'm also not on board with homeopaths, god and chiropractic. Any other questions?

I'm an atheist and not into homeopaths and chiro, so we have some common ground to start from.

But now tell me why, creepy? What's "creepy" of a pic of nursing a child? If he had a cookie in his mouth I'm assuming you would not find that creepy.

Beamer14

@Stargirlb‌ if your due date is feb3...why come to march15? It's pretty obvious you won't be making it to march... why not just contribute to the forum of your month only? I guess I just don't really understand bouncing back and forth to all these different boards. I'm not trying to attack you, I'm just trying to understand where you're coming from. Are you just insanely bored?

Stargirlb

Beamer14 said:

@Stargirlb‌ if your due date is feb3...why come to march15? It's pretty obvious you won't be making it to march... why not just contribute to the forum of your month only? I guess I just don't really understand bouncing back and forth to all these different boards. I'm not trying to attack you, I'm just trying to understand where you're coming from. Are you just insanely bored?

Is there a rule that we can't post on March unless there is an X percent confidence that we will birth a child in that month? On my other teams, we have some people that are not even pregnant, and some with scheduled births outside of the month and it's fine.

mangomimosa

M15: DO NOT FEED THE TROLL. 

Stargirlb

bringing back my old pic from the time some ppl on my first BMB thought my bf pics were inappropriate... 

Stargirlb

"Creepy" is pretty unusual way of saying "I'm not a picture taking kind of gal."

rm2013

Stargirlb said:

Beamer14 @Stargirlb‌ if your due date is feb3...why come to march15? It's pretty obvious you won't be making it to march... why not just contribute to the forum of your month only? I guess I just don't really understand bouncing back and forth to all these different boards. I'm not trying to attack you, I'm just trying to understand where you're coming from. Are you just insanely bored?

Is there a rule that we can't post on March unless there is an X percent confidence that we will birth a child in that month? On my other teams, we have some people that are not even pregnant, and some with scheduled births outside of the month and it's fine.

Hmm.... Well, there is a rule against trolling, which you have been warned about by several mods and continue to do.

Let's see how this all got started on J15:

ExcitedMama2 said:

Brought to you by m15: Potty shot! I've never understood how someone can refer to genital pics as a 'potty shot' And still think it's ok to post it on the internet... https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12453128/potty-shot-u-s-pic#latest

And the award for 'that escalated quickly!' goes to: https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12452237/14w2d-and-we-are-having#latest

But also don't post sex announcements in M15 as a separate thread or holyshitballs you'll get flamed. Rules are rules!

britb618 said:

Holy moly! They take their rules seriously over at m15!

Stargirlb said:

I wanna go announce my baby too!

LaBellaVida said:

Welp, off to watch that shit show! I'm so excited!

Eta: in reference to Stargirlb March intro.

mandikins27 said:

Damn im making popcorn just in time!

ladyamanuet said:

I commented on Star's March intro and called their rules stupid. So, I'm sure I just started some shit. But I want her all to our board. I don't want to share ;-)

After that point you posted in several threads on M15 (this thread just being one of many) in an attempt to be inflammatory, and are continuing to do so.

And, here's where your J15 mod got involved:

LadyXaverian said:

When our board started, there were lots of posts about having rules so far as where and when you could post certain things like ultrasounds and "it's a…"  It died down after a little push back, but it's not unusual.

Not to be a buzzkill, but starting threads or participating on other boards just for funsies to get a rise out of them may be interpreted as trolling by the mod of that board. If it is, you could get warned or temporarily banned.

So, yeah.

@mandjs Per your request.

Does that clear everything up? If not maybe @LadyXaverian‌ , @chaysefaith‌ , and @mandjs can help you out.

Stargirlb

I'm not trolling. All my posts on march have been sincere and no different than my contributions on my other boards. I was flamed and accused of Trolling when I first joined j15 too. 

The mods do not have a problem with me, because I am a real member and not violating TOU. Thanks for your concern.

Stargirlb

If other members of J15 were entertained by the prospect of me joining here, it's probably because they recall the dramz that went down in my early days on J15 before ppl got to know me. They were also entertained at me joining feb and asked me to notify them if I posted there. I am not *trying* to stir up shit, apparently I just have a lot of unpopular opinions or something. :P

Joon+

lifewrite said:

Chunkymonkeylvr said:

Why do people care if siblings name sound good together? I never understood this.

Yeah, as long as they don't rhyme I don't think it matters.

And back to the topic at hand... I think Wyatt and Spencer sound great together.

To the rhyming - this reminds me of an ex-boyfriend's family. His mom was the only girl and had four brothers. I kid you not, their names were Randy, Sandy, Andy, Darryll and Charryll. Randy named his kids Brandy and Brady and my ex's name was Jamie Jay, his sister's Jennifer Jennelle... It doesn't get more matchy-matchy than that (I hope).

Whitfry

I really like Spencer. Not over-used and it's a real name. Plus I'm a criminal minds fan, so I will always love the names Spencer and Reid, lol. Sounds good with Wyatt, too. There's not a huge disconnect in style.

ruemorgan

I think all that matters is if YOU like the names. Personally, ive never thought to myself "those are weird sibling names. Unless you try to name your kid something like Apple or Blue...then you'd be the first.

brown101

Spencer is on our list!!

kmvisioli

I like them together!

JenLa21

I think they sound good together, and I really like the name Spencer

ngolimento

The ignore button is a beautiful thing, my friends. I very rarely run across someone who has so little value-add to a community that I ignore them (only two in 3 years, actually), but when I run across someone that just wastes space as a profession, I use it.

ngolimento

MandJS said:

Stargirlb said:

saucylittlemonkeygirl said:

rm2013 said:

And ignore stargirlb, she's just a troll from another board trying to stir up shit for fun. Lame.

@rm2013  If you say so.  Her pic creeped me out more than my siggy challenge pic and that's saying something. I'm pro public breastfeeding but definitely not into pics of it. 

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Why are breastfeeding pics creepy..?

Chunkymonkeylvr said:

@saucylittlemonkeygirl said:

rm2013 said:

And ignore stargirlb, she's just a troll from another board trying to stir up shit for fun. Lame.

@rm2013  If you say so.  Her pic creeped me out more than my siggy challenge pic and that's saying something. I'm pro public breastfeeding but definitely not into pics of it. 

Not feeding the troll, but being forced to agree. Pictures of a child breastfeeding are never creepy. It's beautiful to provide for your child and nourish them no matter the vessel.


I have absolutely ZERO issue with publicly posted breastfeeding photos, and agree, there is NOTHING wrong with them, at all. While I may not post breastfeeding photos all that often myself, I have zero issue with someone else doing it. Go on with your bad self.

Stargirlb said:

I'm not trolling. All my posts on march have been sincere and no different than my contributions on my other boards. I was flamed and accused of Trolling when I first joined j15 too. 

The mods do not have a problem with me, because I am a real member and not violating TOU. Thanks for your concern.

As far as this thread is concerned, yup. No trolling happening, and while I also don't TOTALLY understand why stargirlb wants to post in March, there is nothing preventing her from doing so. 

M15 - if you don't want to interact with her, then don't, but... she's not doing anything wrong, so just... let it go. 

*****quote******

With all due respect, that's bullshit.

Just because she's someone else's pet troll doesn't mean we have to let her piddle on our rugs too.

ngolimento

MauiBliss said:

@MandJS, so the reports were deemed to be incorrect from the users? Was this another vote on the mod board? I am genuinely curious since it was pretty obvious to most of the users and we're not that stupid as a group. I am content to ignore her but this seems a little weird of you, frankly. 

Yeah, me too. This hush hush "everyone shut up" stuff is not the same modding I've seen happening on other boards. No warnings were given on either side. With is up with that? We need out mods to have our backs.

ETA: Being told how to post by a mod is annoying as fuck, too.

ngolimento

MandJS said:

Peledreamsofrain said:

MauiBliss said:

@MandJS, so the reports were deemed to be incorrect from the users? Was this another vote on the mod board? I am genuinely curious since it was pretty obvious to most of the users and we're not that stupid as a group. I am content to ignore her but this seems a little weird of you, frankly. 

Yeah, me too. This hush hush "everyone shut up" stuff is not the same modding I've seen happening on other boards. No warnings were given on either side. With is up with that? We need out mods to have our backs.

ETA: Being told how to post by a mod is annoying as fuck, too.

I can't speak for ANY other thread - the Jewish holidays got in the way of me being too involved. However, in THIS thread - there are no TOU violations happening by stargirlb, and there is no secret password to be allowed to post here. That's all I'm saying. I am not talking about anywhere else, necessarily - I'm still trying to catch up! But in this thread? Yeah. I would just as soon everyone be like Elsa and let it go.

****quote****

We aren't talking about this thread.

ngolimento

MandJS said:

Peledreamsofrain said:

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We aren't talking about this thread.

Fair enough, but I'm not fully caught up. And honestly? I don't see a whole lot of reports from OUR board on the reporting forum, so I'm not 100% sure where/what you're referring to... Is there something new from the original trolling post last week? 

I know LadyX and ICAW are handling any J15 reports on their end on their own. So far as I'm aware, there is no discussion on the greater mod forum, but again. The 4 of us mods (@chaysefaith and I, @Icarriedawatermelon and @LadyXavarian) are keeping in touch as necessary. Plus also, ICAW and I are long time friends from N12, so again. Communication is being kept open. 

****quote****

But is this being handled in official capacity, or as a buddy chat? Usually wheb clear trolling happens, public notice happens on BOTH affected boards. At the very least we get a "you have a PM". In this case, no messages, no reprimands, no reminders in the threads involved about the TOU.

Then being told later by an involved mod to just shut up and deal with it? Doesn't smell right. We need to see our mods backing up our boards. We need to see that you all care about us more than playing nice with old buddies.

For that matter, I barely see half our mods. Can we add more so that we don't just have two people trying to keep up with an active board?

chaysefaith

Peledreamsofrain said:

Peledreamsofrain said:

****quote**** We aren't talking about this thread.

Fair enough, but I'm not fully caught up. And honestly? I don't see a whole lot of reports from OUR board on the reporting forum, so I'm not 100% sure where/what you're referring to... Is there something new from the original trolling post last week? 

I know LadyX and ICAW are handling any J15 reports on their end on their own. So far as I'm aware, there is no discussion on the greater mod forum, but again. The 4 of us mods (@chaysefaith and I, @Icarriedawatermelon and @LadyXavarian) are keeping in touch as necessary. Plus also, ICAW and I are long time friends from N12, so again. Communication is being kept open. 

****quote**** But is this being handled in official capacity, or as a buddy chat? Usually wheb clear trolling happens, public notice happens on BOTH affected boards. At the very least we get a "you have a PM". In this case, no messages, no reprimands, no reminders in the threads involved about the TOU. Then being told later by an involved mod to just shut up and deal with it? Doesn't smell right. We need to see our mods backing up our boards. We need to see that you all care about us more than playing nice with old buddies. For that matter, I barely see half our mods. Can we add more so that we don't just have two people trying to keep up with an active board?

Hey, pele, sorry about that.  I did comment on her original thread that she was trolling, though I did not make that an "official" warning.

ngolimento

chaysefaith said:

Peledreamsofrain said:

MandJS said:

Peledreamsofrain said:

****quote****

We aren't talking about this thread.

Fair enough, but I'm not fully caught up. And honestly? I don't see a whole lot of reports from OUR board on the reporting forum, so I'm not 100% sure where/what you're referring to... Is there something new from the original trolling post last week? 

I know LadyX and ICAW are handling any J15 reports on their end on their own. So far as I'm aware, there is no discussion on the greater mod forum, but again. The 4 of us mods (@chaysefaith and I, @Icarriedawatermelon and @LadyXavarian) are keeping in touch as necessary. Plus also, ICAW and I are long time friends from N12, so again. Communication is being kept open. 

****quote****

But is this being handled in official capacity, or as a buddy chat? Usually wheb clear trolling happens, public notice happens on BOTH affected boards. At the very least we get a "you have a PM". In this case, no messages, no reprimands, no reminders in the threads involved about the TOU.

Then being told later by an involved mod to just shut up and deal with it? Doesn't smell right. We need to see our mods backing up our boards. We need to see that you all care about us more than playing nice with old buddies.

For that matter, I barely see half our mods. Can we add more so that we don't just have two people trying to keep up with an active board?

Hey, pele, sorry about that.  I did comment on her original thread that she was trolling, though I did not make that an "official" warning.

***quote***

No worries, I saw that. But MandJ says she's the one who handled it, so my questions are more directed her procedure.

Stargirlb

I'm not trolling guys, that's the simplest and most obvious explanation. I get that people are annoyed, but read through my post history and you won't see anything that violates TOU. It seems ppl here are still upset about j15's trolling Tuesday thread and me joining here. But nothing I have contributed has been problematic. I think there is more paranoia than anything, what with being accused now of creating an AE, just because you don't like that poster either.

chaysefaith

Stargirlb said:

I'm not trolling guys, that's the simplest and most obvious explanation. I get that people are annoyed, but read through my post history and you won't see anything that violates TOU. It seems ppl here are still upset about j15's trolling Tuesday thread and me joining here. But nothing I have contributed has been problematic. I think there is more paranoia than anything, what with being accused now of creating an AE, just because you don't like that poster either.

For the record, @Stargirlb, I don't give a rats ass if you post here as long as you're being legit.  The issue myself, and the others on this board have, is that we CAN see your post history and it was painfully obvious to everyone here that you posted on J15 that you were going to come over here and intro and break our "rules" (which I've already addressed with you) to see what would happen and then your fan club squeed and came running over to watch.  That IS trolling.

I have not seen you trolling since then, and with the exception of yesterdays poll and your board continuing to talk shit about M15 and pretend like we're a bunch of village idiots who can't read, I've stayed away.  I don't know why you want to post here, it's weird, but whatever.  Don't troll though and I AM watching for trolling.