Question...

Tiffblue92

Ok, so I'm so far 3 days late my period was supposed to come on the 2nd. My husband and I were sexually active on the 26 of April and we did not use protection and he came in me. I'm feeling cramps/sick. It is because I might be pregnant or cause my period might eventually come? I have noticed I have felt off within the past week. I took a test right after because I thought I might of been pregnant before now. It came up negative. I have been feeling sore in my breast and back. I do not know if that comes early if you are or what. I have acid reflex really bad and I use pink pad to track what days I ovulate and so on. Someone told me you are actually really fertile 7-10 days before your period is that true? Can you ladies give me some more advice on what to expect or what might give me more of an idea as to whether I am pregnant or not. My husband and I are Trying to Conceive our first.

lizzyp9112

If you are pregnant enough for symptoms, you are pregnant enough to get a positive on a pregnancy test.  The Newbie Blog has lots of other info so you can be more informed about luteal phases, temping, when you ovulate, etc.

lizzyp9112

Well said, @FINEdoubleLINE.  Well said.

Gigi0308

This isn't going to go over well...

1. The only thing that can tell you if you are pregnant is a pregnancy test. This is because...
2. PMS symptoms and period symptoms are pretty much the same.
3. A negative pregnancy test means not pregnant at this time.
4. Read the newbie blog at the top of the page.

MrsP924

I am going to echo basically what everyone else is saying. Negative test means you are not pregnant at this time. If you are pregnant enough for symptoms then you should be pregnant enough to turn a pregnancy test positive. I would advise you to read the newbie blog at the top of this forum and start temping. Download fertility friend it is useful. Best of luck

LtColumbo

NellyBluth said:

Sometimes I feel nauseated right before I start my period, so there's that.

Same, I have ever since I went off BC and for multiple days before my period. I have nausea, cramping, backaches, sore boobs, headaches. Not knocked up.

ETA to remove cramping 100 times.

lizzyp9112

I was just about to say what @NellyBluth said.  I love tit your comments, @LtColumbo, both for their awesomeness and for side eye Chloe.  It's a powerful duo.

janda426

Hey, you guys had sex on my anniversary!

mommy2C

@FINEdoubleLINE‌ pretty much said it all and I vote that she is now responsible for reposting that info whenever any asks these types of questions.

NoeliaV

@FINEdoubleLINE

chaysefaith

Tiffblue92 said:

It is because I might be pregnant or cause my period might eventually come?

Yes. You are either pg or about to start your period.

MrsP924

@finedoubleline is the best! 

MrsP924

Well, I think you're pretty awesome @finedoubleline

Segoody

Seriously? I started Cinco a little early and needed to re-read the history to make sure I wasn't hallucinating. 

Irishcurls

I'm still with @jj32 on pink pad making me want to vom. 

lizzyp9112

I was about to love tit my way through OP's past Babies on the Brain posts then noticed no tits.  Must have been pre-tit.

It's nice to see GhostMonkey in her previous form on there, too.

The OP here needs to chill the fuck out, though.  Planning a nursery when your boyfriend doesn't want a baby is not exactly balanced behavior.

mommy2C

Oh, come on! Why can't I see post history on mobile damn it?

chaysefaith

jefa621 said:

Did anyone else read any of OPs post history?  Yowza.

This is where mobile bumping fails.

Pintobean39

jefa621 said:

Did anyone else read any of OPs post history?  Yowza.

Cliff notes please for us mobile bumpies. :-)

pinkgsxr

Pintobean39 said:

jefa621 said:

Did anyone else read any of OPs post history?  Yowza.

Cliff notes please for us mobile bumpies. :-)

+1

Segoody

It's very hard to follow. I guess she was thinking her best friend lied about having twins (again, really hard to understand the post). There was another about how she and SO decided to hold off onTTC, but then went on a rant about her fantasy baby room ideas. I can't do it justice.

brettanomyces

DarcyHermione said:

jefa621 said:

Did anyone else read any of OPs post history?  Yowza.

Holy Shit.

OP, how old are you? Also What the Actual Fuck with the "venting" story?

Sometimes this board reminds me of one of those choose your own adventure novels. Anyone remember those? 

To experience your head exploding, read OP's post history. To keep building suspense, continue on to the next page of this thread.

mommy2C

jefa621 said:

Apparently she's DD'd lots of her threads.  This is whats left.

https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/9050744/this-has-been-on-my-mind#latest

https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/9051958/as-y-all-have-noticed#latest

https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/9052069/hmmmmmm#latest

https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/9065992/really-need-to-vent#latest

https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/9072502/anyone#latest

Ohhhh thanks Jefa. I was going to read my book but not anymore. Woot!

Segoody

If those are the gems that weren't deleted...just imagine...

[Deleted User]

The user and all related content has been deleted.

spiltmilkz

jefa621 said:

Apparently she's DD'd lots of her threads.  This is whats left.

https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/9050744/this-has-been-on-my-mind#latest

https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/9051958/as-y-all-have-noticed#latest

https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/9052069/hmmmmmm#latest

https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/9065992/really-need-to-vent#latest

https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/9072502/anyone#latest

How I feel after reading these...

traversity773

This is going to be deleted, isn't it? lol

edited whole post. yeah words.

mommy2C

I read it all. Now I regret not reading my book.

vjdk07

CrazyCornball said:

Tiff. ue92 said:

 My husband and I were sexually active on the 26 of April and we did not use protection and he came in me. 

I don't know why (maybe because I'm 13), but this sentence is really making me giggle.

That entire sentence made my head hurt. Also, and maybe I'm misunderstanding, but did she take a hpt right after they "were sexually active?" I'm amazed at how many people show up around here thinking they can test the next day and it will tell them anything.

AmandaLeeBest

vjdk07 said:

Tiff. ue92 said:

 My husband and I were sexually active on the 26 of April and we did not use protection and he came in me. 

I don't know why (maybe because I'm 13), but this sentence is really making me giggle.

That entire sentence made my head hurt. Also, and maybe I'm misunderstanding, but did she take a hpt right after they "were sexually active?" I'm amazed at how many people show up around here thinking they can test the next day and it will tell them anything.

LOL. My husband thought it works like that. I had to explain to him how it all works.

Longwell2013

I took the test afterwards because, I thought I could have already been pregnant. Yes I know all of you seen my past post and shit. And think I'm crazy and so on. All I wanted was helped advice and not be bashed. I have not been on this site since October due to all of the negativity. I have since then grown up and taken responsibility.

Tiffblue92

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AmandaLeeBest

I was like wth is going on? Good catch @Brewgirl1980‌

AmandaLeeBest

Longwell said:

I took the test afterwards because, I thought I could have already been pregnant. Yes I know all of you seen my past post and shit. And think I'm crazy and so on. All I wanted was helped advice and not be bashed. I have not been on this site since October due to all of the negativity. I have since then grown up and taken responsibility.

Tiffblue92 said:

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What did the "." Post say before the edit? I missed it.

sthrncharmer

From what I'm seeing I'm not sure 6 mos is an adequate time to grow up! Try a couple of years.

hullabalou

MrsRexManing said:

I really hope GM comes in here soon.

Because of the OP's word choice, I read this as "I really hope GM comes in her soon.

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Tiffblue92

I have one and my husband does also Ididnt realize I was posting on his is why I was trying to delete it.

lizzyp9112

Longwell said:

I took the test afterwards because, I thought I could have already been pregnant. Yes I know all of you seen my past post and shit. And think I'm crazy and so on. All I wanted was helped advice and not be bashed. I have not been on this site since October due to all of the negativity. I have since then grown up and taken responsibility.

Tiffblue92 said:

I have one and my husband does also Ididnt realize I was posting on his is why I was trying to delete it.

Guess we gotta start QFFP-ing everything either SN posts, eh?

hullabalou

MrsRexManing said:

mrskbuck said:

MrsRexManing said:

I really hope GM comes in here soon.

Because of the OP's word choice, I read this as "I really hope GM comes in her soon.

Ha. I almost spit out my coffee! I think we've already found out that GM does not, in fact, have a pole. 

----end quote

I think if she did she would have better taste.

LtColumbo

Worth going back to the old posts for this gem alone: 

"Its really getting to me becaue she says they still havent barried them well by now there bodies would be in the staged of decomposition and they should have been barried a week at latest after they past"