The thread of all threads!

mamainVA2013

I have read all the words. Not even sure if any of you know or remember who I am!

Lizzybizzy80

Anyways, point proven, I suck at GIFs.

CindyRelluh

But he looks hot doing it, I'm sure.

JANCANDANCE

Oh and about what is going on...I'm just sick of people.

KellenHi21

@jancanlapdance, Liam forever!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (Tho Chris is a close second) But everything else, I agree with.

TheTamedShrew

CindyRelluh said:

Funny that I started this and could care less about it anymore, since one bish tries to run shit.

JANCANDANCE

I don't think anyone is driving by...I've got truck loads of shit to sling if anyone wants to catch some! ;;)

CindyRelluh

El oh el. Funny how some suddenly grew a spine.

JANCANDANCE

I just LOL'd at myself. Shocker I know!

CindyRelluh

@jancanlapdance I always lol at you. Turn up!

JANCANDANCE

@CindyRelluh I'm a dying right now.

KellenHi21

Drive by?!? Seriously?!? Come on.

CindyRelluh

It's like, turn down for what? KWIM?

CindyRelluh

@catalinapink We are swingers. In a biker club.

JANCANDANCE

I don't think I was vague at all. I try not to rock the rainbows and (((hugs))) you have going on here. Of course it is @WasNotWas she seems to be everyone's little pet so I just try and keep my thoughts to myself. I'm not vague at all. I think I made it very clear who I was talking about. I just don't like the fakeness. Not my style but to each their own. And I think that pretty much covers that. Anymore questions?

CindyRelluh

Well there you have it, white knights.

JANCANDANCE

JANCANDANCE

CL8badB said:

Edited to retype what i erased bc it showed up twice then disappeared (when i tried to edit the bump burp).
I basically asked @jancandance to please list who she hates and why.
Jan, you racked up the love its a few months back when i wouldnt name Meg by bragging about how youre not afraid to name names and by calling me a coward.
ETA again... This is like the 5th time that youre posting something vague. Can you just call out the people that you hate?

Oh I don't hate anyone. I just don't like fake and plastic. Just a preference thing kWIM

CindyRelluh

WasNotWas

How am I fake again? On that thread I talked a lot of shit and said what I needed to. Everyone was complaining how bored they were and, like many others have done, I posted a link to semi-dramz on another board.

I'm super confused as to what (where) the beef is @jancandance, @cindyrelluh, and @kellenhi21. When did this start?

CindyRelluh

There's really no beef. You ever just meet someone you don't like? It's like that, but the internet version.

JANCANDANCE

No beef really...just a matter of preference is all. Just not really my style. Like if we went to a buffet and they had brownies and cake, I love cake! Brownies aren't bad but I prefer cake. It just seems like you only have the popular opinion. Doesn't seem genuine to me. Maybe that is just you though. I just find it a little fake that you never rock the boat or disagree from the "norm" (whatever that means)
So I guess from my viewpoint that is what I am saying. And I feel weird that you weren't really around during preggo days. Just weird is all. But I know the board loves you and I will be flamed to the hills (IDGAF) I just feel that way.

KellenHi21

@wasnotwas no beef, I'm honestly not around much anymore so it doesn't really matter. The only 2 cents I have is that it seems like you don't truly speak your mind in all situations. You seem to want to people please... instead, just be real, that's all.

WasNotWas

Haha. That's fine. If everyone likes you, you're not doing it right.

But @jancandance "Who the fuck cares what someone else does" is what you said, but my lack of polarizing opinions about what others do is fake? Please to explain.

I'm off to think of a good UO for Thursday, apparently

CindyRelluh

I fucking LOVE cake. Seriously.

I forgot it's cool to love ur h8rs now.

JANCANDANCE

WasNotWas said:

Haha. That's fine. If everyone likes you, you're not doing it right.

But @jancandance "Who the fuck cares what someone else does" is what you said, but my lack of polarizing opinions about what others do is fake? Please to explain.

I'm off to think of a good UO for Thursday, apparently

Pot kettle yep! I just find it hard to believe is all...doesn't seem genuine. Like you are doing it to fit in or whatever. Maybe I'm wrong, but that is just how I see it. It is a preference thing. And it clearly isn't my thing.

JANCANDANCE

WasNotWas said:

Haha. That's fine. If everyone likes you, you're not doing it right.

But @jancandance "Who the fuck cares what someone else does" is what you said, but my lack of polarizing opinions about what others do is fake? Please to explain.

I'm off to think of a good UO for Thursday, apparently

Pot kettle yep! I just find it hard to believe is all...doesn't seem genuine. Like you are doing it to fit in or whatever. Maybe I'm wrong, that is just how I see it. It is a preference thing. And it clearly isn't my thing.

JANCANDANCE

CatalinaPink said:

I don't think there will be flames, I think we're past that (BTDT). I think we're past the honeymoon phase and we can all be a bit more honest now.

So can we just name names from here on out, no more beating around the bush.

I guess what made this so odd was why come around to just talk shit and not even be clear about it from the beginning. This could have been over in about 5 posts, instead of 2 pages. But at least it got the board moving on a Sunday night.

How was I vague? I clearly said "in regards to the parenting thread" I just try and keep the board all fluff and shit like you all like. Which is why I mostly lurk now. That isn't real life. It is fake and phony. This board has turned into something I can't even recognize. So many sad stories and (((hugs))) it is ridiculous. I just was "respecting" the tone of the board. But it was very clear who I was referring to in my post. But Big Bad Jan is going to bed. I will catch up in the am. ]]]no hugs[[[

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WasNotWas

Lol @ rally her troops. I'm pretty sure this is one of the first times I've XPd to something on Parenting and I hardly needed support on that thread.

tttwalters

I think there are a lot of us on this board that have never posted anything that "goes against the grain". I can only speak for myself, but my reasoining is, my life is just not that exciting, and I am not the exciting. I am an average parent, with an average child that makes average choices. I have learned a lot from the women on this board. I did not post while pregnant, I only found this board in the last tri and felt I had nothing to contribute. Now, I have some experience and sometimes even a little advice. I enjoy hearing what other women have to say and are going through. I also enjoy having somewhere to go to say, I had a bad night, day, etc... IRL, I have only a few friends with children, DH isn't as good as reassuring me and my mom tells me to suck it up. So too some, I can look just as fake as others but I am not, I just am boring old me.

Cricket81

I hate the stereotype that says that when a bunch of women get together, they get all bitchy and horrible towards each other. I feel like it starts with cliques growing up and is just made worse by all the crap tv shows that glorify women treating each other this way.
@JANCANDANCE I think you are an incredibly strong woman and mom with two amazing girls, but I don't think strong has to equal bitchy.
Why can't women be kind and support each other without being considered fake? I feel like this is a horrible box to put ourselves in. Maybe I'm a little crunchy (or full of rainbows and hugs) but I feel like women should be proud to build each other up and "go against the grain" of being mean to each other.

Eta: Happy 10,000 post, y'all.

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tiffletons518

100 new posts when I wake up? Sheesh.

@nursemommy13 I put in the water, add 2 scoops. Shake. Then add the other 2 scoops.

As far as everything else goes... it's just like IRL where there are people who will always go along with what is popular because they're afraid of stirring the pot or not being liked. I generally don't say much that would qualify as "against the grain" unless it really pisses me off. I don't know whether it's the people pleaser side of me or the totally lazy side of me not feeling like fighting about something. It's nice that we have a group that is here for each other when things start sucking. But, it also doesn't hurt my feelings any when somebody gets called out on their bs.

@tttwalters I feel you on the boring. I wake up, I cook, clean, and attempt to keep all the children in one piece. I sometimes catch up on fun tv shows. And, I run. There isn't really much "exciting" to be said about me either. I'm ok with it though. It enables me to go to bed at 9 :P

tttwalters

CL8badB said:

tiffletons518 said:

100 new posts when I wake up? Sheesh.

@tttwalters I feel you on the boring. I wake up, I cook, clean, and attempt to keep all the children in one piece. I sometimes catch up on fun tv shows. And, I run. There isn't really much "exciting" to be said about me either. I'm ok with it though. It enables me to go to bed at 9 :P

I read that as "tttwalters, I feel you are boring".... I was like what? Really? Lol
:P

Haha, she toats thinks I am boring, we are basically the same person, except I am not as crazy and only have one child, so far...

tiffletons518

CL8badB said:

100 new posts when I wake up? Sheesh.

@tttwalters I feel you on the boring. I wake up, I cook, clean, and attempt to keep all the children in one piece. I sometimes catch up on fun tv shows. And, I run. There isn't really much "exciting" to be said about me either. I'm ok with it though. It enables me to go to bed at 9 :P

I read that as "tttwalters, I feel you are boring".... I was like what? Really? Lol :P

Haha. Nah. tttwalters is my homegirl. I would only call her boring if it involved us being boring hanging out together. But, she lives in stupid Canada. Sorry, I'm in the bitter barn at the lack of mommy friends today. :P

tttwalters

@tiflletons518 it's actually you who lives in the stupid states. (Going to get a fire extinguisher for the flames).

tiffletons518

@tttwalters When is your birthday? Am I older than you? Because if I am, I'll say I was here first. Lol.

tttwalters

tiffletons518 said:

@tttwalters When is your birthday? Am I older than you? Because if I am, I'll say I was here first. Lol.

May 18 1986, if anyone wants my social security number and address, just ask