Longest Thread EVER! (aka Random Thoughts Thread )

fireflygirl12

Sooooo...can we talk about anal?

fireflygirl12

Because I really don't get it. I feel like I always hear girls saying that they do it b/c their SO wants them to. So does it not feel good for a girl? Does it not totally gross a guy out and he actually prefers it over vaginal? I know my DH would never even consider going there (which is fine by me!) I need to hear from a girl with one of these SO's.

mrscrcalli

fireflygirl12 said:

Sooooo...can we talk about anal?

You start 8->

mrscrcalli

fireflygirl12 said:

Because I really don't get it. I feel like I always hear girls saying that they do it b/c their SO wants them to. So does it not feel good for a girl? Does it not totally gross a guy out and he actually prefers it over vaginal? I know my DH would never even consider going there (which is fine by me!) I need to hear from a girl with one of these SO's.

Anal is like a trip to Vegas you don't go there often and when you do you're usually too drunk to remember.

katieharpiceland

fireflygirl12 said:

Sooooo...can we talk about anal?

I don't get the appeal for either side.

fireflygirl12

mrscrcalli said:

Because I really don't get it. I feel like I always hear girls saying that they do it b/c their SO wants them to. So does it not feel good for a girl? Does it not totally gross a guy out and he actually prefers it over vaginal? I know my DH would never even consider going there (which is fine by me!) I need to hear from a girl with one of these SO's.

Anal is like a trip to Vegas you don't go there often and when you do you're usually too drunk to remember.

His idea or yours? Mutually satisfying?

katieharpiceland

Actually, I do know women who have said they absolutely love it.

mrscrcalli

I think it's just more curiosity than red hot desire for anal..

fireflygirl12

I get nervous enough about farting during oral. I can't even imagine what kind of anxiety anal would bring.

mrscrcalli

fireflygirl12 said:

I get nervous enough about farting during oral.

Dead!


>:D<

Emily041285

mrscrcalli said:

fireflygirl12 said:

Because I really don't get it. I feel like I always hear girls saying that they do it b/c their SO wants them to. So does it not feel good for a girl? Does it not totally gross a guy out and he actually prefers it over vaginal? I know my DH would never even consider going there (which is fine by me!) I need to hear from a girl with one of these SO's.

Anal is like a trip to Vegas you don't go there often and when you do you're usually too drunk to remember.

I'll agree in the beginning I was too drunk to remember. But I sure sobered up in a nanosecond and that was the end of it!

irisheyez7

This child is unusually active today. Seriously. I feel like she is going to bust through my uterus! Her movements feel so much stronger and more intense today. I am getting some serious "Spaceballs" images in my head tonight! So weird...

Bluebird2318

fireflygirl12 said:

Because I really don't get it. I feel like I always hear girls saying that they do it b/c their SO wants them to. So does it not feel good for a girl? Does it not totally gross a guy out and he actually prefers it over vaginal? I know my DH would never even consider going there (which is fine by me!) I need to hear from a girl with one of these SO's.

DH enjoys it, but he doesn't pressure me about it. It doesn't feel good in any way that results in an orgasm for me, but it doesn't really feel bad either. I am pretty neutral on the whole thing, but it is almost always my idea rather than his. It is just something different and I don't mind how it feels.

Aaaaand I think I just ran out of my A14 TMI allowance for the rest of the month.

irisheyez7

Bluebird2318 said:

 Aaaaand I think I just ran out of my A14 TMI allowance for the rest of the month.

And it is only the 2nd!
)

Bluebird2318

irisheyez7 said:

Bluebird2318 said:

 Aaaaand I think I just ran out of my A14 TMI allowance for the rest of the month.

And it is only the 2nd!
)
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At least my allowance will reset in time for the whole mucus plug discussion!

Kidding, kidding.

J&NL

KimC85 said:

Sisimama10 said:

LoriMc12 said:

Here's my random thought/question.  I need a good facial moisturizer that is not too expensive. My skin is so dry, especially my forehead.  Ideas?

I really like Clinique dramatically different moisturizer for the face. Doesn't clog pores, but super moisturizing.

I second this.  I've also found that the Ponds moisterizer works well for me (the one with the blue lid).  I have super sensitive skin, but it's really dry, so I have to use something really basic but packed full of moisture.

I used Clinique for years and then I switched to coconut oil. I bought one tub a year ago and I haven't even gone through half of it yet and it works perfect.

J&NL

Pregsomnia can suck a fat one. I randomly woke up at 2:30 wide awake and have no real desire to go back to sleep. Plus, my stomach is growling.

On the anal subject, DH and I have tried it a couple of times. It was his idea, I was curious and we were both drunk. With that being said, I did enjoy it but I can't say I desire it. It has been well over a year since our last adventure.

Medic99

My H is the only man who has boldly gone where no man has gone before. I don't really care for it to be honest. It was an experimental thing. Not my cup of tea.

katieharpiceland

Haha, I love that I fell back asleep after the oreos to anal conversation.

Medic99

Am I the only mama here that has not started on a nursery? I am so lost I don't even have a theme or colors decided yet.

irisheyez7

Medic99 said:

Am I the only mama here that has not started on a nursery? I am so lost I don't even have a theme or colors decided yet.

I haven't started anything yet either. It's daunting the amount I need to get done in 3 months! 

katieharpiceland

Medic99 said:

Am I the only mama here that has not started on a nursery? I am so lost I don't even have a theme or colors decided yet.

Not me either :-) its ok!! It will get done! Eta, spelling

Medic99

I am glad to hear I am not the only one! I am dragging my feet on the nursery because it is so overwhelming to me right now. Edited:spelling

katieharpiceland

Medic99 said:

I am glad to hear I am not the only one! I am dragging my feet on the nursery because it is so overwhelming to me right now. Edited:spelling

I hear ya! Our room is loaded with DH's stuff and we really need to buy a new wardrobe for our bedroom if its going to work. Plus, we're still on vacation (I don't start work until the evening of the 7th). Part of me kept thinking when we booked these tickets to go home earlier in order to start getting stuff ready, but, it was twice as expensive. I'm thankful for the forced break :-D

katieharpiceland

Anyone have a favorite tinted lip balm? I've been using one by Fresh, which i love, but, I hardly ever buy the same thing twice. I like to be able to slather it on constantly!

eireyes

I really enjoy Burt's Bees tinted balm. It doesn't dry out funny, and it's actually pretty good for my poor lips in the winter!

snmetz7

Wow I miss so much when I actually sleep.

Oreos are a staple in our pantry, the good American crack kind.

I love chocolate of all kinds.

I've only done anal a few times and only cuz hubs wants it. Not really my cup of tea but def not painful if you do it right.

Now I'm pin to get dressed and go to work for the first time in over a week.

rockstarlaw

katieharpiceland said:

Anyone have a favorite tinted lip balm? I've been using one by Fresh, which i love, but, I hardly ever buy the same thing twice. I like to be able to slather it on constantly!

The Burt's Bee's tinted lip balms that come in the little round cardboard tubes (just packaging - they are in regular plastic tubes inside the cardboard ones) are amazing! ETA: I see @Eireyes beat me to the Burt's punch - but the stuff is really great!

Sisimama10

Bluebird2318 said:

fireflygirl12 said:

Because I really don't get it. I feel like I always hear girls saying that they do it b/c their SO wants them to. So does it not feel good for a girl? Does it not totally gross a guy out and he actually prefers it over vaginal? I know my DH would never even consider going there (which is fine by me!) I need to hear from a girl with one of these SO's.

DH enjoys it, but he doesn't pressure me about it. It doesn't feel good in any way that results in an orgasm for me, but it doesn't really feel bad either. I am pretty neutral on the whole thing, but it is almost always my idea rather than his. It is just something different and I don't mind how it feels.

Aaaaand I think I just ran out of my A14 TMI allowance for the rest of the month.

This.

Lindsay808

KendraColeslaw said:

I think I need to start a poll and find out what the ratio is here of women trying anal. I'm a back door virgin. I feel so sheltered here. X_X

I'm half a back door virgin and I don't think we're missing out! I felt like I was getting ripped in half and wanted to poop. No desire to ever try again. However, one of my best friends swears by it but "only when you're drunk."

eireyes

@ColleenSwerb are we married to the same man?  That totally looks like something my DH would do!

On the plus side, loosing my cool at him for that more than a few times has started to make a difference

fireflygirl12

Lindsay808 said:

KendraColeslaw said:

I think I need to start a poll and find out what the ratio is here of women trying anal. I'm a back door virgin. I feel so sheltered here. X_X

I'm half a back door virgin and I don't think we're missing out! I felt like I was getting ripped in half and wanted to poop. No desire to ever try again. However, one of my best friends swears by it but "only when you're drunk."

I don't think you can be half. It's kind of an all or nothing sort of thing.

mrscrcalli

ColleenSwerb said:

This is my husbands interpretation of "I'll take care of the mess in the kitchen."

0_o

The "stack" drives me crazy!!!

Mamamonzo

mrscrcalli said:

fireflygirl12 said:

Because I really don't get it. I feel like I always hear girls saying that they do it b/c their SO wants them to. So does it not feel good for a girl? Does it not totally gross a guy out and he actually prefers it over vaginal? I know my DH would never even consider going there (which is fine by me!) I need to hear from a girl with one of these SO's.

Anal is like a trip to Vegas you don't go there often and when you do you're usually too drunk to remember.

Lol couldn't describe it any better if I tried lol!! I told DH what you said, now he wants to go to Vegas...I can't drink... Sorry Charlie!

snmetz7

@biggerinreallife are we done discussing December's book or did I miss some discussion questions?

rockstarlaw

I'm super sad I missed out on the secret Santa exchange. Always a day late and a dollar short!

Mamamonzo

@colleenswerb I think we have the same husband. I could post the exact same picture right now!

Stace0616

Totally experimented with it in college, but it was never my thing. DH is grossed out by anything anus-related thankfully, so we don't go there. Literally.

The man still excuses himself to the bathroom to fart, so I doubt anal will ever be in the cards for us!

Lindsay808

fireflygirl12 said:

I think I need to start a poll and find out what the ratio is here of women trying anal. I'm a back door virgin. I feel so sheltered here. X_X

I'm half a back door virgin and I don't think we're missing out! I felt like I was getting ripped in half and wanted to poop. No desire to ever try again. However, one of my best friends swears by it but "only when you're drunk."

I don't think you can be half. It's kind of an all or nothing sort of thing.

If it's not fully in. I would consider that halfsies.

snmetz7

I had no idea that halls were on the no no list... i'm a bad mother