You say you don't want to gain weight because people will make fun of
you. That doesn't make sense. People make fun of you now. The
internet is full of people mocking you at every turn. If you really
didn't want people to make fun of you, you'd behave more appropriately
and sensibly.
It's all about my *LOOKS* IDIOT! I don't care if people make fun of me here, because you don't know me in person, understand? It's not like we are around each other or something. We are just chatting through the internet, which to me doesn't hurt my feelings one bit unlike if you were in person saying something mean to me. I also feel that you people don't have much feelings to speak of NOT to get hurt by servers not trying their best or saying mean things to you or people saying you are fat to your face. So for me, saying things to me through the internet doesn't bother me, because you don't know me in real life, just through a screen name, not in person.
Unless you are pretending to be someone you're not on the internet, people are making fun of you, the real you, when they mock you online.
People made fun of you in real life. I guarantee that people still make fun of you in real life. If you are anything like you are online, people are making fun of you all the time, whether or not they are doing it to your face. You're very off-putting, no matter what you weigh. That's a flaw in your personality that you refuse to acknowledge and fix.
You mentioned to someone that you bet that they haven't experienced the same problems with service that you have. Why do you think that is? Do you really think that your personality doesn't have anything to do with the poor service you get?
The rest of us don't take the occasional bout of bad service in a personal way because we have the insight to know that it isn't personal. It has nothing to do with our not having feelings (newsflash about pregnant women, we have a whole lot of feelings going on lol), but it has everything to do with our having insight and self-worth.
Self-worth does not mean thinking that your value lies in weighing very little. Self-worth is knowing who you are and why you are valuable to yourself and the world you live in. It's very evident that your self-worth is severely lacking. You're going to be unhappy, shouting like a mentally ill banshee all over the internet until you get healthier. That may be the life you choose, and that is your right, but it being your right doesn't make it smart.
I just made a whole mess of pumpkin pancakes, hash-browns, crispy bacon and biscuits and gravy.. That's a carb buffet! All are welcome to come over and join in. Though you will serve yourself.
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Sooooooo, can't speak for any other past ED gals here, but trust me when I say this waste of space doesn't even come close to messing with my psyche.
Now if you'll pardon me, my life-growing fat and I are about to put on some elastic waist pants to have brunch at an establishment that does not offer RANCH RANCH RANCH ZOMFG RANCH.
I just made a whole mess of pumpkin pancakes, hash-browns, crispy bacon and biscuits and gravy.. That's a carb buffet! All are welcome to come over and join in. Though you will serve yourself.
believe it or not, adults generally don't say those kinds of hurtful things.
Then you should read my MANY MEAN and HATEFUL responses on my blogs how people call me fat even though I am not. They don't even know what I look like.
believe it or not, adults generally don't say those kinds of hurtful things.
Then you should read my MANY MEAN and HATEFUL responses on my blogs how people call me fat even though I am not. They don't even know what I look like.
believe it or not, adults generally don't say those kinds of hurtful things.
Then you should read my MANY MEAN and HATEFUL responses on my blogs how people call me fat even though I am not. They don't even know what I look like.
Uh why would I be offended by something negative that someone said to YOU? I'm pretty happy with my life. I'm married to a man who loves me dearly, we are expecting our first child, I have incredible friends and family, and I have a job that I'm passionate about. I think I'm doing just fine, thank you.
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I just made a whole mess of pumpkin pancakes, hash-browns, crispy bacon and biscuits and gravy.. That's a carb buffet! All are welcome to come over and join in. Though you will serve yourself.
I'm getting you fired.
Don't tell me.. You're not my real mom
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Guys!!! I figured it out!!! Springs is a 96 pound 4 year old!! THAT'S why people call her fat. She's huge for age 4! As for her typing ability, not bad! Those genius types always tend to be a bit socially awkward.
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believe it or not, adults generally don't say those kinds of hurtful things.
Then you should read my MANY MEAN and HATEFUL responses on my blogs how people call me fat even though I am not. They don't even know what I look like.
HOLY CHRIST ON A CRACKER. You JUST said that you don't care about the opinions of people on the internet that can't see you, yet you're making a point to direct us to the comments on your blog from people on the internet that can't see you because you're clearly upset by it. You're a fucking hypocrite. People make fun of you not because of your weight, but because you're an asshole, and they know which buttons to push.
For the love of all that is cake, please make yourself scarce, Fatty McFatterson. You're a disgusting excuse for a human being and no one likes you.
believe it or not, adults generally don't say those kinds of hurtful things.
Then you should read my MANY MEAN and HATEFUL responses on my blogs how people call me fat even though I am not. They don't even know what I look like.
HOLY CHRIST ON A CRACKER. You JUST said that you don't care about the opinions of people on the internet that can't see you, yet you're making a point to direct us to the comments on your blog from people on the internet that can't see you because you're clearly upset by it. You're a fucking hypocrite. People make fun of you not because of your weight, but because you're an asshole, and they know which buttons to push.
For the love of all that is cake, please make yourself scarce, Fatty McFatterson. You're a disgusting excuse for a human being and no one likes you.
Made me think of this
I just fell in love with you for this. I'm SUCH a LOTR geek.
You're a fucking hypocrite. People make fun of you not because of your weight, but because you're an asshole
No I am not a hypocrite. Where did I *EVER* say something hypocritical, huh? Also, I am not an asshole, THEY ARE for being MEAN without even ever writing to me before they go off on me. I am a VERY NICE person. YOU ARE A MEAN ASSHOLE!
I can't even read all of this. When I get to any second sentence of her monologues, I become too mentally exhausted to go on. I don't understand how some of you find this entertaining... I want to bang my head against a wall. UGH! Surely this person is in some kind of violation. Pleeeease ban her. [-O< She has no business being here on a board for pregnant women! %-(
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In all seriousness, I made ranch burgers with Brie, bacon & avocado for lunch. Sorrynotsorry.
Hear that, @springs1 , I cooked it just like I wanted it (rare yo). I can even tip myself!
Also, what you describe doing to yourself (weight wise) is really really unhealthy. I'm talking you need therapy unhealthy. In addition to other issues you appear to have...
You are putting crazy amounts of stress on your heart, kidneys etc. you might be skinny but you are damaging yourself over the opinion of people who probably don't spend half as much time thinking on you as you think they do.
Really though, @springs1 , you need the services of a mental health professional ASAP.
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Not trying to do your job or anything, but this is really becoming too much. Isn't this cause for banning??
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@jellysparkles :-$ I know... But I'm sure we're all willing to be more forgiving of our own than some random nutjob who has nothing better to do than seek out people discussing restaurant service.
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Not trying to do your job or anything, but this is really becoming too much. Isn't this cause for banning??
Strictly speaking, this IS going both ways.
Yeah there has been A LOT of baiting on our part. It's been a big ol' hoot, but perhaps we should just stop feeding* the troll?
@jellysparkles :-$ I know... But I'm sure we're all willing to be more forgiving of our own than some random nutjob who has nothing better to do than seek out people discussing restaurant service.
Just ignore her...?
I had been, but seeing that this topic was still going on and knowing WHY without even clicking to see what was being said is what annoyed me. Things seem to have simmered down though. And a lot of people were baiting it like @AcaAwkward said. I'll just go on about my merry little way again I guess. :-h
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I guarantee that people still make fun of you in real life.
Then they are just JEALOUS then.
It's possible that you might actually believe this nonsense. It's the sort of thing parents tell their mocked children, whether it's true or not. There are many reasons why someone might make fun of someone else. Jealousy is one reason, though certainly not the most common, and definitely not the reason in your case.
In your case, people are making fun of you because your behavior is so incredibly far outside the reasonable norm. When someone behaves the way you behave and makes the comments you make, people have a hard time understanding it, and it appears humorous. It does not mean that people find you worthy of jealousy. It simply means that people find you worthy of mockery.
Seriously, what harm would it do you to get some therapy for your strange obsessions and hypersensitivities? It might actually make you happier and less hostile, which could make for a much better life.
After reading this thread and doing very little google research, I'm kind of freaked out by how @Springs1 is on so many forums and has multiple blogs complaining about the same thing.
I also imagine her being the bitch lady from the movie "Waiting" that all the cooks put dandruff, snot and rub their balls in her food because she's such a bitch to them. Yum!
Also, does she have some kind of bat signal that tells her when random forums talk about servers and their experiences? Like, how did she even know this subject came up on this random forum for pregnant women??
Re: Do you complain?
People made fun of you in real life. I guarantee that people still make fun of you in real life. If you are anything like you are online, people are making fun of you all the time, whether or not they are doing it to your face. You're very off-putting, no matter what you weigh. That's a flaw in your personality that you refuse to acknowledge and fix.
You mentioned to someone that you bet that they haven't experienced the same problems with service that you have. Why do you think that is? Do you really think that your personality doesn't have anything to do with the poor service you get?
The rest of us don't take the occasional bout of bad service in a personal way because we have the insight to know that it isn't personal. It has nothing to do with our not having feelings (newsflash about pregnant women, we have a whole lot of feelings going on lol), but it has everything to do with our having insight and self-worth.
Self-worth does not mean thinking that your value lies in weighing very little. Self-worth is knowing who you are and why you are valuable to yourself and the world you live in. It's very evident that your self-worth is severely lacking. You're going to be unhappy, shouting like a mentally ill banshee all over the internet until you get healthier. That may be the life you choose, and that is your right, but it being your right doesn't make it smart.
Now if you'll pardon me, my life-growing fat and I are about to put on some elastic waist pants to have brunch at an establishment that does not offer RANCH RANCH RANCH ZOMFG RANCH.
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Uh why would I be offended by something negative that someone said to YOU? I'm pretty happy with my life. I'm married to a man who loves me dearly, we are expecting our first child, I have incredible friends and family, and I have a job that I'm passionate about. I think I'm doing just fine, thank you.
BFP #1 May 20, 2013 MC June 27, 2013 BFP #2 August 2, 2013 Baby Boy born 4/25/14 (3 weeks overdue!)
April 14 August Siggy Challenge- "This time last year.."
BFP #1 May 20, 2013 MC June 27, 2013 BFP #2 August 2, 2013 Baby Boy born 4/25/14 (3 weeks overdue!)
April 14 August Siggy Challenge- "This time last year.."
BFP #1 May 20, 2013 MC June 27, 2013 BFP #2 August 2, 2013 Baby Boy born 4/25/14 (3 weeks overdue!)
April 14 August Siggy Challenge- "This time last year.."
BFP #1 May 20, 2013 MC June 27, 2013 BFP #2 August 2, 2013 Baby Boy born 4/25/14 (3 weeks overdue!)
April 14 August Siggy Challenge- "This time last year.."
In all seriousness, I made ranch burgers with Brie, bacon & avocado for lunch. Sorrynotsorry.
Hear that, @springs1 , I cooked it just like I wanted it (rare yo). I can even tip myself!
Also, what you describe doing to yourself (weight wise) is really really unhealthy. I'm talking you need therapy unhealthy. In addition to other issues you appear to have...
You are putting crazy amounts of stress on your heart, kidneys etc. you might be skinny but you are damaging yourself over the opinion of people who probably don't spend half as much time thinking on you as you think they do.
Really though, @springs1 , you need the services of a mental health professional ASAP.
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Just sayin'.
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Yeah there has been A LOT of baiting on our part. It's been a big ol' hoot, but perhaps we should just stop feeding* the troll?
(Cue the Alanis...isn't it ironic...)
In your case, people are making fun of you because your behavior is so incredibly far outside the reasonable norm. When someone behaves the way you behave and makes the comments you make, people have a hard time understanding it, and it appears humorous. It does not mean that people find you worthy of jealousy. It simply means that people find you worthy of mockery.
Seriously, what harm would it do you to get some therapy for your strange obsessions and hypersensitivities? It might actually make you happier and less hostile, which could make for a much better life.