Community› The Bump Month Clubs› August 2022 Moms
August 2022 Moms
New Discussion

***TW*** Spotting/Bleeding/Threatened Loss Support Thread

1…34689…11

Re: ***TW*** Spotting/Bleeding/Threatened Loss Support Thread

  • malloryfrommnmalloryfrommn member
    @mrs-kay929 I'm so sorry! Sending you such a big hug. ❤
    Report Reply
  • Loading the player...
  • itsme215itsme215 member
    @mrs-kay929 I’m so so sorry 💕 
    Report Reply
  • anniemarie887anniemarie887 member
    @mrs-kay929 I’m so sorry. Go check out the TTGP board, the ladies there are wonderful, and many have been down this road. 
    Report Reply
  • buffythevampireslayerbuffythevampireslayer member
    @mrs-kay929 I am so sorry and will be thinking of you.
    Report Reply
  • buffythevampireslayerbuffythevampireslayer member
    @lindsaybelle though I don’t have experience with this myself, I just want to offer support. It sounds like you are in good hands but I can imagine it is very scary. Sending lots of good vibes your way.
    Report Reply
  • lmaplejclmaplejc member
    @mrs-kay929 I’m so very sorry.
    Report Reply
  • leahrnmomleahrnmom member
    @mrs-kay929 I am so sorry
    Report Reply
  • starkettestarkette member
    @mrs-kay929 I'm so sorry, my thoughts are with you. <3

    @lindsaybelle I had a subchorionic hemorrhage with my second pregnancy. It definitely made me freak out, too, but it healed without issue and my daughter is 3 years old now. I had a smaller one and bled for two weeks, bright red period-like blood. I know someone who had a large one a bled a lot and it never had an impact on the baby. It's weird and scary to go through but can have positive results. Just take it easy.
    Report Reply
  • lindsaybellelindsaybelle member
    @starkette thank you for this, that is super helpful and what I need to hear! It is reassuring to know it can be ok. I appreciate your response. 

    @buffythevampireslayer thank you so much for your kind words! 
    Report Reply
  • coco2787coco2787 member
    I’m so sorry for your loss @bearmomma1 I’m heartbroken for you. Loss is so unfair. Sending love and healing your way 💙
    Me: 35  H: 35
    Married: 4/5/13

    "You know that place between sleep and awake, 
    that place where you can still remember dreaming?
    That's where I will always love you.  
    That's where I'll be waiting."
    ~Peter Pan 

    *TW*
    BFP #1: 11/12/12  EDD 7/25/13 Baby boy: 7/27/13
    BFP #2: 10/29/17   MMC dx @ 9 weeks
    BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18
    BFP #4: 3/2/18  MC 3/9/18
    RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal
    BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl  :'(
    Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28
    BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19  <3  Rainbow baby girl born 7/23/19 
    BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022 
    Report Reply
  • wigglyicecreamwigglyicecream member
    @bearmomma1 I’m so sorry for your loss. Please take care of yourself. We know how hard this is 
    Report Reply
  • itsme215itsme215 member
    I’m so sorry @bearmomma1, lots of love to you 💕 
    Report Reply
  • amberrmariee20amberrmariee20 member
    jessieleesbg said:
    After light brown spotting since 5 weeks, I had some brighter pink to red and a tiny clot the other night. I saw my ob yesterday and we found a tiny subchorionic hematoma. It scared the heck out of me because they said I could spot after the ultrasound but I wiped a few hours after and it was fire engine red fresh blood and that was after a regular u/s. They said if it continued, to go to the office this morning but thankfully it never happened again. It turned brown and went away by bedtime. These next 30 weeks can't go fast enough so I can hold this baby. I've had 5 losses and its been a mind*uck with all the various and random spotting. 

    I have a sub hematoma. I bled on and off for about 3.5 weeks, still sometimes I have brown spotting. But everything looked good ultrasound wise. We have another ultrasound Jan 11 to see if the hematoma got smaller or healed :smile:
    Report Reply
  • malloryfrommnmalloryfrommn member
    @bearmomma1 I am so sorry.  Sending you all the hugs and love. 
    Report Reply
  • amberrmariee20amberrmariee20 member
    @bearmomma1 sending love and hugs your way 
    Report Reply
  • paytonpedropaytonpedro member
    @bearmomma1 oh love, I am so, so sorry to read this update! Please be sure to take care of yourself and give yourself grace in this healing. I look forward to an update from you! I’m sending you all the love and hugs, and positive vibes for the future. ❤️
    Report Reply
  • maggiemadeitmaggiemadeit member
    @bearmomma1 I am so so sorry for your loss. What an absolute heartbreak. Wishing you healing and peace at this difficult time. 
    Report Reply
  • darkrose88darkrose88 member
    @mrs-kay929 I'm so so sorry. Thinking of you and sending you all the hugs. 
    Report Reply
  • wisewitch222wisewitch222 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss, @bearmomma1
    Report Reply
  • anniemarie887anniemarie887 member
    @bearmomma1 I’m so sorry. 
    Report Reply
  • darkrose88darkrose88 member
    @bearmomma1 I'm so sad to hear this update. Th3onking of you in this difficult time. 
    Report Reply
  • amberrmariee20amberrmariee20 member
    Bleeding pretty heavy again, this time with a pretty big clot. I’m trying my hardest not to freak out because Dec 16th I was told I have a subchorionic hematoma. But anyone else with a sub hematoma have clots and everything turn out ok ?
    Report Reply
  • maggiemadeitmaggiemadeit member
    @amberrmariee20 I don’t have any experience, just want to offer some support. I’m really sorry that you are dealing with this. It sound super scary, even if you have a reason for the bleeding. I hope you can get in with the your doc tomorrow and get some reassurance. 
    Report Reply
  • paytonpedropaytonpedro member
    @amberrmariee20 so glad to hear baby is doing good in there!! 
    Report Reply
  • maggiemadeitmaggiemadeit member
    @amberrmariee20 That’s great news!
    Report Reply
  • zzz2022zzz2022 member
    @mrs-kay929 & @bearmomma1 - I’m so sorry
    Report Reply
  • smp0618smp0618 member
    I woke up yesterday morning with blood in my underwear. I am 10 weeks. I was spotting when I wiped all morning and then it turned to bright red blood when I wiped. But surprisingly, nothing in the toilet. I had a miscarriage at 12 weeks recently, my d&c was October 1st. I was totally freaked out that I was having another miscarriage. I went in for an ultrasound and baby is fine, but they did notice a bleed and they told me to drink lots of water while I wait for the results from the doctor. I’m still spotting today, but very very light. I am so nervous to hear the reason for the bleed, and I can’t even relax knowing that the baby is okay because what if something is really wrong?
    Report Reply
  • darkrose88darkrose88 member
    @knottie I'm sorry you're going through this. I would be equally as stressed waiting for a call back from the doctor. Hopefully you get that call back soon and everything is fine.    
    Report Reply
  • paytonpedropaytonpedro member
    @knottie I’m so sorry you’re going through this and I can imagine how scary it is for you, especially having already experienced a loss. It definitely takes some of the innocence out of the experience of being pregnant. I have a sch that hasn’t started bleeding yet, but I know I’ll be equally scared as you. My doctor did tell me that they’re very, very normal. I think as long as they have a cause (the bleed) and baby looks well, I would let my breath out for a couple minutes. It’s so much easier said than done, but try not to stress in the meantime. Sending you positive vibes and hugs. 
    Report Reply
  • anniemarie887anniemarie887 member
    @knottie i'm sorry and i hope you get some answers soon
    Report Reply
  • maggiemadeitmaggiemadeit member
    @knottie I'm sorry, that's so scary. It's great that the baby is looking good in there. I hope you hear back from them soon, and everything turns out OK. 
    Report Reply
  • wunderkaiwunderkai member
    Hi everyone,
    Looks like I'll be saying goodbye to you all 😞 I went in for my follow up ultrasound today and all there was just an empty gestational sack. We are devastated, but I tried not to get my hopes up too high after the last ultrasound when I measured behind schedule.  My body still hasn't naturally miscarried after 9 weeks so I'm scheduled for a D&C on Monday. I wish I had a different outcome for my first pregnancy experience, but it is what it is.  I wish you all the best in your pregnancy journey. 
    Report Reply
  • starkettestarkette member
    @wunderkai oh, I'm so very sorry <3 my heart is with you. 
    Report Reply
  • wisewitch222wisewitch222 member
    I'm so sorry, @wunderkai
    Report Reply
  • lmaplejclmaplejc member
    @wunderkai I’m so very sorry to see this.  Keeping you in my prayers.
    Report Reply
  • coco2787coco2787 member
    I’m so sorry you didn’t get good news today @wunderkai I hope everything goes smoothly on Monday and you’re able to start the healing process 💜 
    Me: 35  H: 35
    Married: 4/5/13

    "You know that place between sleep and awake, 
    that place where you can still remember dreaming?
    That's where I will always love you.  
    That's where I'll be waiting."
    ~Peter Pan 

    *TW*
    BFP #1: 11/12/12  EDD 7/25/13 Baby boy: 7/27/13
    BFP #2: 10/29/17   MMC dx @ 9 weeks
    BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18
    BFP #4: 3/2/18  MC 3/9/18
    RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal
    BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl  :'(
    Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28
    BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19  <3  Rainbow baby girl born 7/23/19 
    BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022 
    Report Reply
  • mangoandguavamangoandguava member
    @wunderkai I’m so sorry. 

    Report Reply
  • wigglyicecreamwigglyicecream member
    @wunderkai I’m so sorry this is your first experience being pregnant. Sending you healing thoughts
    Report Reply
Sign In or Register to comment.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards
"
"