Getting conflicting info. A Np told me to get accurate results from HCG I should take second one exactly 48 hours after. Nurse speaking to me said I can do it tomorrow am (would be 43 hours). She said if we do it then, we could have the results back tomorrow afternoon.
Really want to get this right because our next chance of testing won’t be until Monday because of the holiday.
@elliespen I was always told 24-48 hours, so I would bet that 43 hours would be fine. With that said, if I got conflicting info, I would probably go with the advice given by the higher up, so the NP. Are you able to go in at the 48 hour mark?
@elliespen mine were 45 hours apart. I think it’s just important for them to know exactly. Like @coffeeshay I was always told 24-48 hours. But maybe call back just for clarity? Can you call they lab, or ask the lab? They do these tests everyday and would know as well.
thinking of you today @elliespen, I hope you get good news today 💜
Me: 35 H: 35 Married: 4/5/13 "You know that place between sleep and awake, that place where you can still remember dreaming? That's where I will always love you. That's where I'll be waiting." ~Peter Pan
*TW*
BFP #1: 11/12/12 EDD 7/25/13 Baby boy: 7/27/13 BFP #2: 10/29/17 MMC dx @ 9 weeks BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18 BFP #4: 3/2/18 MC 3/9/18 RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28 BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19 Rainbow baby girl born 7/23/19 BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022
So sorry you didn’t get good news today @elliespen sending you peace and healing vibes 💜
Me: 35 H: 35 Married: 4/5/13 "You know that place between sleep and awake, that place where you can still remember dreaming? That's where I will always love you. That's where I'll be waiting." ~Peter Pan
*TW*
BFP #1: 11/12/12 EDD 7/25/13 Baby boy: 7/27/13 BFP #2: 10/29/17 MMC dx @ 9 weeks BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18 BFP #4: 3/2/18 MC 3/9/18 RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28 BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19 Rainbow baby girl born 7/23/19 BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022
Me: 36 H: 40 Married 2015. Together since 2010. TTC: Sept 2016-Oct 2017 BFP Oct 2017. DD born July 2018. TTC: March 2020. BFP March 2020 Due date was Nov 2020 DS born Sept 2020. DS passed away Nov 2020 due to prematurity and birth trauma. TTC: March 2021 IUI #1 Nov 2021, BFN IUI #2 Dec 2021 BFP. MC Jan 2022 IUI #3 Aug 2022 BFN IUI #4 Sept 2022 BFN AMH test came back at .081. Was going to move on to IVF with DE, but have decided not to. Will be leaving it up to the universe now.
So I had some light spotting on Thursday (after DTD) that went away within a few hours. Today I got more spotting after following the advice of the nurse so no sex, heavy lifting and was on pelvic rest all weekend. Called the nurse line again and waiting for a call back about an ultrasound appointment. My mental health is complete trash at this point.
Hi everyone! I asked this in my weekly check- in post, but also thought it made sense to check here. I’m 8w5d today. I’ve had some brown discharge off and on for the last couple weeks (starting week 7) and after doing some hard core cleaning yesterday it was worse than it had been and had the coffee ground look to it. The info my doc gave me at my first appt said not to worry about spotting, but I can’t help but be concerned. I guess my question is at what point should I worry?
Oh @darkrose88 I am so sorry you’re going through this right now. I hope they get back to you quickly and can hopefully get you in for a look. I’ll be thinking of you and sending all the prayers and positive vibes! ❤️
@darkrose88 I’m sorry. Really hoping that it is just typical first trimester spotting and you can get some reassurance from the doc really soon. These early days are so hard. Thinking of you.
@curlymils It never hurts to call and check. Hope all is well and you also can get some reassurance.
I’ve had 2 instances now of bleeding and cramping. This is a mind F after a loss. I have seen baby and strong heartbeat so I’m hopeful it’s nothing. Got an appointment for tomorrow morning just to check.
@paytonpedro@maggiemadeit I was able to schedule an appointment for this afternoon. Just keeping my FX everything is fine and it is just 1st trimester spotting.
@and_peggy I'm sending you a virtual hug because I completely get what you're going through. I hope your appointment goes well tomorrow.
Thinking of you both @darkrose88 and @and_peggy. I hope your scans go perfectly and you can relax a little bit. PGAL is so hard.
Me: 35 H: 35 Married: 4/5/13 "You know that place between sleep and awake, that place where you can still remember dreaming? That's where I will always love you. That's where I'll be waiting." ~Peter Pan
*TW*
BFP #1: 11/12/12 EDD 7/25/13 Baby boy: 7/27/13 BFP #2: 10/29/17 MMC dx @ 9 weeks BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18 BFP #4: 3/2/18 MC 3/9/18 RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28 BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19 Rainbow baby girl born 7/23/19 BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022
Good news ladies - the ultrasound showed baby developing on time, very active, strong heartbeat, etc.. I still don't have an explanation for the on again off again bleeding, but I'm feeling so much better mentally now that I know baby is fine.
@curlymils as others have suggested, it never hurts to talk to your doc but in regard to worrying...there's nothing really that can be done and anxiety is a normal part of early pregnancy. Brown discharge is relatively normal, but you should schedule an appointment to verify pregnancy with a scan. Nothing else will alleviate the anxiety.
I went for my first scan at 6+4, and only a small empty sac was seen. She said we might just be too early, and going back on Friday for a follow up. I’m devastated.
TTC History:
Me: 36 H: 40 Married 2015. Together since 2010. TTC: Sept 2016-Oct 2017 BFP Oct 2017. DD born July 2018. TTC: March 2020. BFP March 2020 Due date was Nov 2020 DS born Sept 2020. DS passed away Nov 2020 due to prematurity and birth trauma. TTC: March 2021 IUI #1 Nov 2021, BFN IUI #2 Dec 2021 BFP. MC Jan 2022 IUI #3 Aug 2022 BFN IUI #4 Sept 2022 BFN AMH test came back at .081. Was going to move on to IVF with DE, but have decided not to. Will be leaving it up to the universe now.
@and_peggy thanks! I had pretty much convinced myself something was wrong and it was nice to be proved wrong. Keeping my FX that it'll be the same for you!
@bearmomma1 oh no! I'm so sorry to hear this. I'm sending you all the positive vibes that it is too early and Friday's appointment goes well.
Oh @bearmomma1 I’ve been wondering how your appointment went today. I’m sorry you didn’t have a reassuring scan. Hoping so hard that you get better news at your follow up 💙
Me: 35 H: 35 Married: 4/5/13 "You know that place between sleep and awake, that place where you can still remember dreaming? That's where I will always love you. That's where I'll be waiting." ~Peter Pan
*TW*
BFP #1: 11/12/12 EDD 7/25/13 Baby boy: 7/27/13 BFP #2: 10/29/17 MMC dx @ 9 weeks BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18 BFP #4: 3/2/18 MC 3/9/18 RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28 BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19 Rainbow baby girl born 7/23/19 BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022
Re: ***TW*** Spotting/Bleeding/Threatened Loss Support Thread
Really want to get this right because our next chance of testing won’t be until Monday because of the holiday.
@victorianorris I’m so very sorry to hear this.
thinking of you today @elliespen, I hope you get good news today 💜
Married: 4/5/13
"You know that place between sleep and awake,
that place where you can still remember dreaming?
That's where I will always love you.
That's where I'll be waiting."
~Peter Pan
*TW*
BFP #2: 10/29/17 MMC dx @ 9 weeks
BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18
BFP #4: 3/2/18 MC 3/9/18
RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal
BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl
Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28
BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19
BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022
Married: 4/5/13
"You know that place between sleep and awake,
that place where you can still remember dreaming?
That's where I will always love you.
That's where I'll be waiting."
~Peter Pan
*TW*
BFP #2: 10/29/17 MMC dx @ 9 weeks
BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18
BFP #4: 3/2/18 MC 3/9/18
RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal
BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl
Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28
BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19
BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022
TTC: Sept 2016-Oct 2017
BFP Oct 2017. DD born July 2018.
TTC: March 2020. BFP March 2020
Due date was Nov 2020
DS born Sept 2020. DS passed away Nov 2020 due to prematurity and birth trauma.
TTC: March 2021
IUI #1 Nov 2021, BFN
IUI #2 Dec 2021 BFP. MC Jan 2022
IUI #3 Aug 2022 BFN
IUI #4 Sept 2022 BFN
AMH test came back at .081. Was going to move on to IVF with DE, but have decided not to. Will be leaving it up to the universe now.
5.5.16 | 8.14.17 | 1.30.19
@and_peggy I'm sending you a virtual hug because I completely get what you're going through. I hope your appointment goes well tomorrow.
5.5.16 | 8.14.17 | 1.30.19
Married: 4/5/13
"You know that place between sleep and awake,
that place where you can still remember dreaming?
That's where I will always love you.
That's where I'll be waiting."
~Peter Pan
*TW*
BFP #2: 10/29/17 MMC dx @ 9 weeks
BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18
BFP #4: 3/2/18 MC 3/9/18
RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal
BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl
Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28
BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19
BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022
5.5.16 | 8.14.17 | 1.30.19
@darkrose88 YAY for a good scan!
TTC: Sept 2016-Oct 2017
BFP Oct 2017. DD born July 2018.
TTC: March 2020. BFP March 2020
Due date was Nov 2020
DS born Sept 2020. DS passed away Nov 2020 due to prematurity and birth trauma.
TTC: March 2021
IUI #1 Nov 2021, BFN
IUI #2 Dec 2021 BFP. MC Jan 2022
IUI #3 Aug 2022 BFN
IUI #4 Sept 2022 BFN
AMH test came back at .081. Was going to move on to IVF with DE, but have decided not to. Will be leaving it up to the universe now.
@bearmomma1 oh no! I'm so sorry to hear this. I'm sending you all the positive vibes that it is too early and Friday's appointment goes well.
Married: 4/5/13
"You know that place between sleep and awake,
that place where you can still remember dreaming?
That's where I will always love you.
That's where I'll be waiting."
~Peter Pan
*TW*
BFP #2: 10/29/17 MMC dx @ 9 weeks
BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18
BFP #4: 3/2/18 MC 3/9/18
RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal
BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl
Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28
BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19
BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022