Happy Monday! Today in our Product Spotlight Series we have CARSEATS to discuss! This is an item practically everyone will need before the baby is born, so let's get the research rolling!
Do you have specific carseat you love? Tips on scoring deals while remaining within safety guidelines? Travel systems you do or do not recommend? Opinions on different carseats for different stages vs. adjustable ones that can last until your child is 27? FTM questions about fitting these monstrosities into your cars? Please share!
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Re: Product Spotlight 11/17: Car Seats
For me, living in a city (and on the 4th floor with no elevator at the time), the most important factors was lightweight and easy to install in different cars. Nuna pipa was it for me as you can install with only a seatbelt and it only weighs 8lbs. Plus since it uses merino wool, it also doesn't use chemicals. Absolutely loved it so much. DS HATED the bassinet of the stroller so we used our car seat on our stroller instead and it was perfect.
We just got a nuna tres for DS as he needs a bigger carseat and I love this one too. Again, need similar things to above so this was one of the hardest to find - one that can use seatbelt install vs. needing a base for bigger sizes. I was thrilled when I found this one. It lasts from birth until he no longer needs a seat.
Married: 8/10/13
BFP- 12/18/15, D&E- 4/8/16 @ 21w5d- confirmed Thanatophoric Dysplasia
BFP- 11/7/17, M/C- 11/18/17 @ 4w6d
BFP- 8/25/18 ~ EDD- 5/9/19 ~ DD born 5/2/20 *Lillian Hazel*
BFP- 10/9/20 ~ EDD- 6/21/21
2017 - egg retrieval #1 - 3 eggs, 0 embryos appropriate for transfer; ER #2 2 eggs, 0 embryos on day 3; ER #3 1 egg 0 embryos
moved to donor egg in summer 2017; 35 eggs retrieved; 19 fertilized; 9 total embryos
Fresh transfer Dec 2017= BFP! baby boy born 8/22/18
May 2019 - surprise natural pregnancy ended in MC
Nov 2019 FET; MC at 9 weeks
May 2020 FET; BFN
July 2020 FET; CP treated with methotrexate
Oct 2020 BFP!
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Married: 10.2018
DS #1: 06.2014
Hyperemesis Gravidarum (HG), Emergency C-Section
MC: 03.2017- 5 Weeks
Rainbow DS #2: 07.2018
HG, 19w Fetal Surgery, 24w PPROM, 33w Placental Abruption, Partial Uterine Rupture, Emergency C-Section
NICU, Chronic Kidney Disease
TTC #3: Medically Cleared 12.5.2019, had a bunch of problems and wonky cycles
BFP 10.13.2020 EDD: 6.26.2021
October 2020 TTGP Signature Challenge: Pets in Costumes
Me: 37, MH: 38; Married August 2017
TTC #1 October 2017: BFP on 12/1/2017, DD born 7/24/2018 @ 37+1 after induction due to preeclampsia
TTC #2 January 2020: AMA, dx with DOR in May 2020
IVF July 2020: 16 eggs retrieved, 14 mature, 12 fertilized, 3 blasts, 2 PGT-A normal
FET 10/7/20: BFP on 10/12/20!!! (EDD 6/25/21); First beta 10/16/20 (9dpt): 148; Second beta 10/19/20 (12dpt): 621; Third beta 10/26/20 (19dpt): 4732; Fourth (and final!) beta 11/2/20 (26 dpt): 22,000+
Me: 36 DH: 41
Married 5/28/12
7/2014 BFP #1 - MC 7/28/14
TTC Since 10/2015
10/2016 RE appt
10/2016 Dx Elevated prolactin
11/2016 HSG results - all normal
1/2017 SA results - all normal
4/2017 Dx Elevated TSH 2.6
5/2017 Dx Chronic Endometritis
5/2017 IUI #1
6/2017 BFP #2: Beta#1 220, Beta#2 550, U/S 6/26 with heartbeat, Born Feb 2018
TFAS Since 10/2019
10/2019 BFP #3: Beta#1 25 (16DPO) - MC 10/2019
11/2019 RE appt - TSH & Prolactin normal
12/2019 ABX & IUI #1, Negative HPT
1/2020 IUI #2, Negative HPT
2/2020 IUI #3 Negative HPT
3/2020 Cyst developed, Two week BC IUI #4 Cancelled due to Covid
6/2020 Benched for 3 months
8/2020 IUI #5 back to back IUI, Negative HPT
9/2020 IUI #6 BFP #4 12DPO, Beta #1 78 13DPO, Beta #2 178 15DPO, elevated TSH, Beta #3 2458 21DPO, U/S 10/14 w heartbeat!
I have the chicco Myfit for my 4 year old and it's the best, I'm a big fan of their seats
I always reference Car Seats for Littles when shopping for a new seat. They have great reviews and photos. I found out about it from a STM in my N14 BMB.
**TW Living Child**
BFP 2/2014 - DS - 10/2014
Me: 36 DH: 41
Married 5/28/12
7/2014 BFP #1 - MC 7/28/14
TTC Since 10/2015
10/2016 RE appt
10/2016 Dx Elevated prolactin
11/2016 HSG results - all normal
1/2017 SA results - all normal
4/2017 Dx Elevated TSH 2.6
5/2017 Dx Chronic Endometritis
5/2017 IUI #1
6/2017 BFP #2: Beta#1 220, Beta#2 550, U/S 6/26 with heartbeat, Born Feb 2018
TFAS Since 10/2019
10/2019 BFP #3: Beta#1 25 (16DPO) - MC 10/2019
11/2019 RE appt - TSH & Prolactin normal
12/2019 ABX & IUI #1, Negative HPT
1/2020 IUI #2, Negative HPT
2/2020 IUI #3 Negative HPT
3/2020 Cyst developed, Two week BC IUI #4 Cancelled due to Covid
6/2020 Benched for 3 months
8/2020 IUI #5 back to back IUI, Negative HPT
9/2020 IUI #6 BFP #4 12DPO, Beta #1 78 13DPO, Beta #2 178 15DPO, elevated TSH, Beta #3 2458 21DPO, U/S 10/14 w heartbeat!
Me: 36 DH: 41
Married 5/28/12
7/2014 BFP #1 - MC 7/28/14
TTC Since 10/2015
10/2016 RE appt
10/2016 Dx Elevated prolactin
11/2016 HSG results - all normal
1/2017 SA results - all normal
4/2017 Dx Elevated TSH 2.6
5/2017 Dx Chronic Endometritis
5/2017 IUI #1
6/2017 BFP #2: Beta#1 220, Beta#2 550, U/S 6/26 with heartbeat, Born Feb 2018
TFAS Since 10/2019
10/2019 BFP #3: Beta#1 25 (16DPO) - MC 10/2019
11/2019 RE appt - TSH & Prolactin normal
12/2019 ABX & IUI #1, Negative HPT
1/2020 IUI #2, Negative HPT
2/2020 IUI #3 Negative HPT
3/2020 Cyst developed, Two week BC IUI #4 Cancelled due to Covid
6/2020 Benched for 3 months
8/2020 IUI #5 back to back IUI, Negative HPT
9/2020 IUI #6 BFP #4 12DPO, Beta #1 78 13DPO, Beta #2 178 15DPO, elevated TSH, Beta #3 2458 21DPO, U/S 10/14 w heartbeat!
Married: 8/10/13
BFP- 12/18/15, D&E- 4/8/16 @ 21w5d- confirmed Thanatophoric Dysplasia
BFP- 11/7/17, M/C- 11/18/17 @ 4w6d
BFP- 8/25/18 ~ EDD- 5/9/19 ~ DD born 5/2/20 *Lillian Hazel*
BFP- 10/9/20 ~ EDD- 6/21/21
I can't decide between infant vs. convertible. My first thought was to go straight for a convertible. I like that they last longer and we don't drive very much anyway (currently once a week for the grocery store, which baby wouldn't necessarily join for, so we're more talking trips and doctors' visits). But...will I regret that? Normally we take cabs somewhat often as well, which makes me think that we should look for something more travel-friendly, which seems to be the infant seats? But then again 1) we probably won't be taking cabs much until late this year regardless because of COVID, and 2) if we're toting a baby one of us will need to stay sober anyway, so we might as well drive if we're going somewhere non-walkable. I can see where an infant seat might still be useful then, but, with COVID, if we're not really going to be going anywhere (i.e. friends' houses, restaurants, etc) until the kid is closer to 6 months anyway, then maybe an infant seat really isn't necessary? Or should we maybe just plan on a convertible and get an infant seat if we really wind up needing it (seeing as we'd have to go for a convertible one anyway), or am I misunderstanding the transition after an infant seat?
Help! My husband burnt out this conversation after about 3 minutes.
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Me: 36 DH: 41
Married 5/28/12
7/2014 BFP #1 - MC 7/28/14
TTC Since 10/2015
10/2016 RE appt
10/2016 Dx Elevated prolactin
11/2016 HSG results - all normal
1/2017 SA results - all normal
4/2017 Dx Elevated TSH 2.6
5/2017 Dx Chronic Endometritis
5/2017 IUI #1
6/2017 BFP #2: Beta#1 220, Beta#2 550, U/S 6/26 with heartbeat, Born Feb 2018
TFAS Since 10/2019
10/2019 BFP #3: Beta#1 25 (16DPO) - MC 10/2019
11/2019 RE appt - TSH & Prolactin normal
12/2019 ABX & IUI #1, Negative HPT
1/2020 IUI #2, Negative HPT
2/2020 IUI #3 Negative HPT
3/2020 Cyst developed, Two week BC IUI #4 Cancelled due to Covid
6/2020 Benched for 3 months
8/2020 IUI #5 back to back IUI, Negative HPT
9/2020 IUI #6 BFP #4 12DPO, Beta #1 78 13DPO, Beta #2 178 15DPO, elevated TSH, Beta #3 2458 21DPO, U/S 10/14 w heartbeat!
@mindyb2019 I know, so overwhelming! I'm ok looking at different brands, it's when you have to make decisions like infant v. convertible at the outset that I start to get overwhelmed.
Thanks, everyone! This was super helpful. I saw a lot of your comments last night and started looking at infant seats, targeting the Chicco KeyFit and Graco Snugride. Also looked at Safety 1st, so your note is really useful @disgruntled_pelican
**TW Living Child**
BFP 2/2014 - DS - 10/2014
One quick question: I read that you're not supposed to leave them in the carseat for too long, does that also apply to when using it on a stroller or is it really just talking about setting it on the floor? Mainly debating whether I should aim for a stroller that's compatible with the carseat, or if I shouldn't bother since I'll need a bassinet-type attachment anyway.