June 2021 Moms

*TW* Spotting/Bleeding/Threatened Loss Support

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Re: *TW* Spotting/Bleeding/Threatened Loss Support

  • @inthewoods23 @MelissaMay82 @mrs_massie sending pozzy vibes to all of you!  I know this is so stressful, but try to stay positive until you get definitive answers. Hang in there ladies! ❤️
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  • Ugh I almost made it through the whole day without spotting. Just had some pink when I wiped. I was feeling hopeful pretty much all day until now
    Me: 38, DH: 37
    Married: 8/10/13
    BFP- 12/18/15, D&E- 4/8/16 @ 21w5d- confirmed Thanatophoric Dysplasia
    BFP- 11/7/17, M/C- 11/18/17 @ 4w6d
    BFP- 8/25/18 ~ EDD- 5/9/19 ~ DD born 5/2/20 *Lillian Hazel*
    BFP- 10/9/20 ~ EDD- 6/21/21

  • I’m so sorry the spotting is back @MelissaMay82. Sending positive vibes your way. And hoping that since it’s only when you wipe that all is good. But mostly hoping that it stops altogether and you can get some peace of mind soon. ❤️
  • Thoughts please. I had bright red spotting after using the bathroom and it's continued off and on since I've been home.
  • All the positive, hopeful, sticky vibes to the spotting mamas.   <3 
  • @firsttimer2020 FX your spotting stops!
    Me: 38, DH: 37
    Married: 8/10/13
    BFP- 12/18/15, D&E- 4/8/16 @ 21w5d- confirmed Thanatophoric Dysplasia
    BFP- 11/7/17, M/C- 11/18/17 @ 4w6d
    BFP- 8/25/18 ~ EDD- 5/9/19 ~ DD born 5/2/20 *Lillian Hazel*
    BFP- 10/9/20 ~ EDD- 6/21/21

  • @mrs_massie I'm glad your u/s went well. Last pregnancy I had an SCH, maybe that is what the other sac is? FX for a great u/s next week!
    Me: 38, DH: 37
    Married: 8/10/13
    BFP- 12/18/15, D&E- 4/8/16 @ 21w5d- confirmed Thanatophoric Dysplasia
    BFP- 11/7/17, M/C- 11/18/17 @ 4w6d
    BFP- 8/25/18 ~ EDD- 5/9/19 ~ DD born 5/2/20 *Lillian Hazel*
    BFP- 10/9/20 ~ EDD- 6/21/21

  • @MelissaMay82 it’s possible and the dr. mentioned it, but it wasn’t near the other sac and when she measured it, it measured about the same gestation as my pregnancy would be. 
  • @inthewoods23 and @MelissaMay82 How are you both doing today?
  • @mrs_massie I'm glad you are able to get into the doctor for an U/S. I hope that next week they can give you some more answers!
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    Me: 36, DH: 38, Together since: 2006, Married: 9/2011 
    **TW Living Child**

    BFP 9/19/20 - EDD - 6/1/21

    BFP 2/2014 - DS - 10/2014


  • @mrs_massie thanks asking. Still having random spotting on and off, it’s mostly very light pink with occasional brown. I have an u/s scheduled for Monday 11/2. 
    Me: 38, DH: 37
    Married: 8/10/13
    BFP- 12/18/15, D&E- 4/8/16 @ 21w5d- confirmed Thanatophoric Dysplasia
    BFP- 11/7/17, M/C- 11/18/17 @ 4w6d
    BFP- 8/25/18 ~ EDD- 5/9/19 ~ DD born 5/2/20 *Lillian Hazel*
    BFP- 10/9/20 ~ EDD- 6/21/21

  • @mrs_massie are you still having any spotting?
    Me: 38, DH: 37
    Married: 8/10/13
    BFP- 12/18/15, D&E- 4/8/16 @ 21w5d- confirmed Thanatophoric Dysplasia
    BFP- 11/7/17, M/C- 11/18/17 @ 4w6d
    BFP- 8/25/18 ~ EDD- 5/9/19 ~ DD born 5/2/20 *Lillian Hazel*
    BFP- 10/9/20 ~ EDD- 6/21/21

  • Still having brown spotting and cramps. I think I go to the bathroom every 15 minutes to check because I keep feeling like theres more than spotting. @MelissaMay82 I'm anxious for Monday too and really worried there won't be a heartbeat either.
  • @inthewoods23 grow baby grow! And hope the 4 days pass quickly for you somehow! 

    @MelissaMay82 Sending vibes for sticky baby. 

    @hillbillywife Hope your beta comes back good tomorrow! 
  • @ramzlau I think they will. There are more options to distract myself when I can choose anything. Hard to do when my only distraction is work - which isn't always exciting. My mornings tend to fly by so hopefully Monday morning goes quickly. My US isn't until 2:45!
    *TW* History:
    Me: 34 DH: 36 | Together since 2007 | Married July 2016

    TTC #1 since 7.2017
    Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies

    IUI #1-3 all BFN
    IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
    FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
    RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
    FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
    2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
    Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
    TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20

    Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
    Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
    Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
    Bloodwork | 10.21.21 high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
    BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22 B) | biopsy provided same effect as endometrial scratch; added supplemental progesterone and estrogen, prednisone, levothyroxine, and MTX Support to maintain pregnancy
    DS born 7.19.22 after induction


    TTC #2 begins 6.2023
    Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
    Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
    Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
    Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
    Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
    Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
    Repeat labs in 8 weeks
    Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
    TTC put on pause indefinitely
  • @inthewoods23 I guess it’s different for everyone and what type of iud you have. I have a mirena and it’s been found to at least lighten your periods. The last time I had one it went away completely and my period is kinda heavy so that’s why I got it. I bled off and on (mostly on) for like 3 months and since then they’ve gotten lighter and lighter. They were almost gone for a couple months with just spotting basically and then I had a full on period last month and again this month and thought it was weird (wasn’t sure if that was normal or not) so I emailed my doctor and the rest is history. 
  • @mrs_massie I go to the bathroom to check a lot too. It is so hard to tell because TMI it just feels extra moist down there all the time. I think that my spotting has decreased over the past few days. Fx for a great u/s on Monday! 
    Me: 38, DH: 37
    Married: 8/10/13
    BFP- 12/18/15, D&E- 4/8/16 @ 21w5d- confirmed Thanatophoric Dysplasia
    BFP- 11/7/17, M/C- 11/18/17 @ 4w6d
    BFP- 8/25/18 ~ EDD- 5/9/19 ~ DD born 5/2/20 *Lillian Hazel*
    BFP- 10/9/20 ~ EDD- 6/21/21

  • **lurking**

    @inthewoods23 If I remember correctly, you had posted that your timing was terrible based on when you THOUGHT you ovulated the cycle you got your BFP. Like +2 or +3 I think you said...so it really seems like you might have ovulated later and might really be what you're measuring. Fx for you!!
  • @babyfeverbeliever yes, FF said O was on CD16 or maybe 15 but that was before I even had a +OPK which didn't make sense. Looking back, I had the temp jump the day after FF's predicted O date, but then my temps stayed consistent for another 2-3 days and then jumped up again after my OPKs went back to negative so O was definitely at least 2 days later than what FF said which would have made our timing -1 or 0. So yeah, while based on LMP I look to be a week behind, based on conception I'm likely only 3-4 days behind. And I know being a week behind in the early days really doesn't mean anything.
    *TW* History:
    Me: 34 DH: 36 | Together since 2007 | Married July 2016

    TTC #1 since 7.2017
    Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies

    IUI #1-3 all BFN
    IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
    FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
    RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
    FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
    2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
    Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
    TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20

    Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
    Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
    Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
    Bloodwork | 10.21.21 high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
    BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22 B) | biopsy provided same effect as endometrial scratch; added supplemental progesterone and estrogen, prednisone, levothyroxine, and MTX Support to maintain pregnancy
    DS born 7.19.22 after induction


    TTC #2 begins 6.2023
    Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
    Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
    Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
    Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
    Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
    Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
    Repeat labs in 8 weeks
    Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
    TTC put on pause indefinitely
  • @firsttimer2020 I’m glad it stopped! 
  • @firsttimer2020 so glad your spotting stopped!
    Me: 38, DH: 37
    Married: 8/10/13
    BFP- 12/18/15, D&E- 4/8/16 @ 21w5d- confirmed Thanatophoric Dysplasia
    BFP- 11/7/17, M/C- 11/18/17 @ 4w6d
    BFP- 8/25/18 ~ EDD- 5/9/19 ~ DD born 5/2/20 *Lillian Hazel*
    BFP- 10/9/20 ~ EDD- 6/21/21

  • *lurking*
    @inthewoods23 thinking about you and praying for positive news come Monday. 

    TTC History
    TTC#2
    Me: 41; MH: 40 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    Mar 2024 | consult to get established with a new reproductive immunologist (Alan Beer Center)
    Apr/May 2024 | required testing & waiting for a protocol
    May 2024 | protocol given / decided to go back to my old reproductive immunologist, Dr. Jubiz
    Jun / Jul 2024 | more testing, incl. SIS, ultrasound, and endometrial biopsy
    Jul 2024 | Dx chronic endometritis; 14 days of 100mg of doxy given
    Sep 2024 | Repeat endometrial biopsy; still + for chronic endometritis. 2 more antibiotics + an antiviral
    Oct 2024 | Hysteroscopy turned polypectomy; endometriosis consult w/ specialist who confirmed high likelihood of endo based on symptoms and ultrasound; lots of blood tests ordered
    Mar 2025 | Endo excision surgery. Stage 3 endo found! Recoveing
    Apr 2025 | Planning transfer w/ RE & green light protocol w/ RI; target transfer July or August 2025
    May 2025 | Surprise BFP! EDD 1/11/2026


    TTC #1
    Me: 36, MH: 34 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
    2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
    07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
    07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
    07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
    08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
    09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
    10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
    11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
    01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
    02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing 
    03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
    04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
    04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
    05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
    05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH. 
    06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
    07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
    08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
    09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
    11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
    12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
    01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
    02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
    03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
    05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering... 
    06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
    07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023


  • @inthewoods23 I'm thinking about you and hoping for great news Monday. 
  • I’m having a hard time right now.  

    I’m 7 weeks 2 days pregnant and woke up this morning to find a moderate amount of blood when I went to the bathroom (none in my underwear but a good amount of discharge and bright red blood when I wiped).  I’ve had no spotting in this pregnancy or my last, so this really scares me.  I just checked again and it’s still there, about as much as when you’re just starting your period.  I just have a feeling it’s going to get heavier and this isn’t just normal spotting.

    I’m really sad.  We tried for two years to get pregnant and my first prenatal appointment was set for this coming Wednesday.  I was really looking forward to hearing the heartbeat. 
  • @btate01 I’m so sorry that your bleeding. I know it can be scary. I’ve been there. I’m sending positive vibes to you and praying that everything is ok at your appt on Weds ❤️ I hope your bleeding stops soon. It could just be nothing. FX. 
  • @btate01 I’m sorry you are bleeding. I hope that it stops soon. Sending positive vibes your way. Last pregnancy I had a lot of bright red bleeding from an undiagnosed SCH. Any type of bleeding/spotting is definitely scary to see. 
    Me: 38, DH: 37
    Married: 8/10/13
    BFP- 12/18/15, D&E- 4/8/16 @ 21w5d- confirmed Thanatophoric Dysplasia
    BFP- 11/7/17, M/C- 11/18/17 @ 4w6d
    BFP- 8/25/18 ~ EDD- 5/9/19 ~ DD born 5/2/20 *Lillian Hazel*
    BFP- 10/9/20 ~ EDD- 6/21/21

  • @btate01 sending you positive vibes! I know seeing any amount of bleeding is scary. Is there a weekend line you can call with your OB to speak to the provider on call? 
  • _orchid__orchid_ member
    edited October 2020
    @btate01 thinking of you! There are a ton of reasons that can cause bleeding in pregnancy, so try to stay as calm as you can. Drink water today, take it easy, and put a call in to your Dr or answering service to let them know. FWIW I've had two successful pregnancies that had a lot of unexplained red bleeding between weeks 5-10. It's always scary to see! Sending good vibes your way!!
  • @btate01 so sorry you’re going through this, hope your doctor will be able to help decipher what the bleeding is from soon. Sending positive thoughts 
  • @btate01 I’m so sorry 
    Me: 38, DH: 37
    Married: 8/10/13
    BFP- 12/18/15, D&E- 4/8/16 @ 21w5d- confirmed Thanatophoric Dysplasia
    BFP- 11/7/17, M/C- 11/18/17 @ 4w6d
    BFP- 8/25/18 ~ EDD- 5/9/19 ~ DD born 5/2/20 *Lillian Hazel*
    BFP- 10/9/20 ~ EDD- 6/21/21

  • @btate01 im so sorry you’re going through this. I hope that it’s not as bad as you think it is!
  • @btate01 I’m sorry you’re bleeding.  I hope it tapers off quickly and you get some answers when the drs office opens.  You’ll be in my thoughts.

  • @btate01 I'm so sorry you're experiencing this. It's so hard during the first few weeks. I hope you were able to talk to your Dr yesterday. I'll be thinking of you. 
  • DH and I dtd today because it’d been a while but I didn’t want to do anything too vigorous because I’m still kinda bleeding. It makes me so nervous. I’m glad I go into the doctors first thing in the am. I’ve been taking at least one test every day and they’re all still positive but it’s just so scary to see. Especially now that H and I are excited. 
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