@shaqn0sis Me too, high five team palps! They're definitely more frequent now than they were before pregnancy. They seemed to fire up when I was really stressed for sure. Was it the same with you?
Baby is the size of a(n)/fun fact: pomegranate (that seems so big!)
Upcoming appointments: this Friday
How are you feeling? I feel sad I'm not keeping up! I use a distraction app on my computer that blocks this website (and a bunch of others) for 95% of the day, so I can barely use it on the desktop. And then on mobile it's sooo bad it's not even worth it.
But if we're talking about my pregnancy... I'm actually feeling so good. I cleaned the whole house this weekend, which I hadn't had energy to do in months, and I could feel a huge drop in my anxiety / stress immediately (I had to sleep the entire next day basically because it wiped me out... but worth it!). It's just so relieving to feel like myself again and not like a zombie version of me.
Raves/Rants: Feeling the baby move more and more, so finally calming down. Last week I felt the baby go crazy for an entire day, and then basically no movement at all for three days straight. That shit makes me insane. More consistent movement is so much more comforting.
Questions: None
GTKY- Would you rather never play or always lose? I get so stressed out by either / or questions where both outcomes are bad. These both sound miserable!! I'm super competitive when it's something I care about, but in that case also couldn't stand not playing. I reject both options!
@lizzybean I also posted about heart palpitations, but they are usually triggered by lying down. Going to ask my OB at the next appt, but @nursejenn5 's response makes sense to me and is what my last OB said during my last pregnancy.
And @knockupthestock if eating spicy foods is wrong, then I don't want to be right I get a buffalo chicken salad like once a week for lunch lol.
@lizzybean84 frequency hasn't changed much, however pregnancy has made them feel 'deeper' if that makes sense and I've only been feeling at night when I'm laying down.
I’ve been chipping away at completing my bachelor’s degree online (on my work’s dime! 👏🏻) for the last few years and I just registered for 8 credits for the spring term that ends June 12. Can’t wait to super regret this decision when I’m 6/7/8 months pregnant 😆. But I’d rather take on a tiny bit more work now, because I’ll likely take the fall semester off, what with the whole “let’s keep the tiny baby alive” thing that will be keeping be busy.
@kristinl492 I'm planning on doing the same this spring term that starts in April because I plan to take summer into fall off. (which is why i'm trying to get alot of baby things done prior to April. It'll be a miserable few months, but oh well, power through!)
Kudos to you ladies @kristinl492@nursejenn5! That's awesome. You might regret it while you're in the thick of it, but once it's done you'll be happy you could cross those credits off your list.
@nursejenn5 my thoughts exactly! Power through now for when that break is needed in the fall. I usually try to utilize downtime at work to get classwork done so I have that time to relax at home!
@mrsdrez thanks! It’s never the kind of thing you regret in the long room. Good thing registration is coinciding with the energy levels of the second trimester or I’d never get it done 😂
Baby is the size of a(n)/fun fact: Box of dryer sheets
Upcoming appointments: Just had my anatomy scan on the 18th
How are you feeling? Tired, with random spurts of needing to clean everything.
Raves/Rants: Neither a rant or rave, more so explanation. I haven't been active on here for awhile. My husband was walking, and got hit by a truck the beginning of December. Spent just under 2 weeks in the hospital, and is extremely lucky to still be alive. Needless to say, the past 2 months have been pretty rough. However, things are finally starting to look up!
Questions: Anyone else's lo measuring ahead, with no change to the due date? My anatomy scan was at 20+4, and I was told his estimated weight was 1 lb. And that he's in the 82nd percentile! The ultra sound tech kept commenting on how big he is!
GTKY- Would you rather never play or always lose? Always play! I'm pretty optimistic, and hopeful lol. Regardless of the outcome, I'd still have fun in the process!
@mamarosebud22 im so sorry about your husband! im so glad hes okay and is still alive!!! i hope his recovery is going well and will continue to go well!
married to DH on March 15, 2018 TTC since May 2018 dx: PCOS, hypothroidism tx: timed intercourse with meds (dexa, clomid, letrozole, metformin, trigger shots)
First TTGP: 5/9/19 BFN, 6/21/19 BFN, 7/29/19 BFN, 8/1/19 started a break from tx, 11/16/19 surprised with a BFP! LO born 7/7/20 Second TTGP: started meds for first cycle of tx on 10/13/21
@mamarosebud22 wow, glad your husband is ok! What a crazy week it’s been for everyone on here lately! In regards to your anatomy scan, it would take a lot for them to change your due date based on US measurements. Every baby grows at their own rate and genetics start to play a part in how big/small baby is. Doesn’t change the due date! 1lb is about the average weight for a 20 week gestation. Sounds like baby is doing great!
tall, decaf, non-fat, Frappuccino with whipped cream and caramel drizzle.
Upcoming appointments: Friday, 2/28 Anatomy scan at MFM
How are you feeling? Decent! Last week and earlier this week lots of headaches/nausea/tired that had been gone awhile. And I just don't get headaches
Raves/Rants: I still haven't felt baby moved (second pregnancy). This time placenta is posterior (last time was anterior and I didnt feel movement until 24 weeks).
I've been struggling mentally for months and can't find a counselor. All are full in a town of 100k and two hospitals. I'm drained to keep calling. I asked one why everyone is full and she said bc of the university (40,000 students not included in population) and are area is fast growing.
Questions: None
GTKY- Would you rather never play or always lose? always lose. I'm just here to be social and eat snacks:-)
@blaf322 That is really hard! I've never heard of that. I'm glad they're on top of it. Sending good vibes!
@busymom247 I’m sorry you’re struggling to find a counselor. That’s really hard. Your post reminded me that I wanted to ask folks if a Mental Health Check -In thread would be helpful. The Trying to Get Pregnant board had one and I found it helpful. Just a safe place to talk about mental health concerns, whether currently under treatment or not.
@mamarosebud22 First, very sorry to hear about your husband. And second, yes I've been measuring a week ahead but they aren't changing due date for now. The Advanced Fetal specialist said they'd assess the date closer to time.
@mamarosebud22 omg how scary! I hope he's doing better now.
@rachelredhead I was just thinking earlier this week how our board hasn't had a mental health check-in. I think they're always a good idea! I can try to start one if I have a minute this morning.
@mamarosebud22 They aren't likely to change due date at this point. As others have said, all babies grow at their own rate, even in utero - and the older they are, the more varied the growth is. Did they do an early ultrasound? Those are the most accurate for dating.
Also, weight estimates don't seem to be super accurate. They do measure the bones and stuff pretty well, so he is probably on the tall/big side right now, but that doesn't mean your due date is off. Also, the way percentiles work is that some babies will always be at the high end, some will be at the low end. They all have to be somewhere in the lineup!
2/13 Blighted ovum, D&C -- 6/13 MC -- 8/14 DD born -- 3/17 MC -- 9/18 DD2 born Expecting again -- EDD 7/27/20
Re: J20 Weekly Check In 2/17/20
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: FO in 2 weeks!
Baby is the size of a(n)/fun fact: pomegranate (that seems so big!)
Upcoming appointments: this Friday
How are you feeling? I feel sad I'm not keeping up! I use a distraction app on my computer that blocks this website (and a bunch of others) for 95% of the day, so I can barely use it on the desktop. And then on mobile it's sooo bad it's not even worth it.
But if we're talking about my pregnancy... I'm actually feeling so good. I cleaned the whole house this weekend, which I hadn't had energy to do in months, and I could feel a huge drop in my anxiety / stress immediately (I had to sleep the entire next day basically because it wiped me out... but worth it!). It's just so relieving to feel like myself again and not like a zombie version of me.
Raves/Rants: Feeling the baby move more and more, so finally calming down. Last week I felt the baby go crazy for an entire day, and then basically no movement at all for three days straight. That shit makes me insane. More consistent movement is so much more comforting.
Questions: None
GTKY- Would you rather never play or always lose? I get so stressed out by either / or questions where both outcomes are bad. These both sound miserable!! I'm super competitive when it's something I care about, but in that case also couldn't stand not playing. I reject both options!
And @knockupthestock if eating spicy foods is wrong, then I don't want to be right
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: Blue!!
Baby is the size of a(n)/fun fact:
Box of dryer sheets
Upcoming appointments: Just had my anatomy scan on the 18th
How are you feeling? Tired, with random spurts of needing to clean everything.
Raves/Rants: Neither a rant or rave, more so explanation. I haven't been active on here for awhile. My husband was walking, and got hit by a truck the beginning of December. Spent just under 2 weeks in the hospital, and is extremely lucky to still be alive. Needless to say, the past 2 months have been pretty rough. However, things are finally starting to look up!
Questions: Anyone else's lo measuring ahead, with no change to the due date? My anatomy scan was at 20+4, and I was told his estimated weight was 1 lb. And that he's in the 82nd percentile! The ultra sound tech kept commenting on how big he is!
GTKY- Would you rather never play or always lose? Always play! I'm pretty optimistic, and hopeful lol. Regardless of the outcome, I'd still have fun in the process!
dx: PCOS, hypothroidism
Second TTGP: started meds for first cycle of tx on 10/13/21
In regards to your anatomy scan, it would take a lot for them to change your due date based on US measurements. Every baby grows at their own rate and genetics start to play a part in how big/small baby is. Doesn’t change the due date! 1lb is about the average weight for a 20 week gestation. Sounds like baby is doing great!
Team Finding Out/Pink/Blue/Green: Green
Baby is the size of a(n)/fun fact:
tall, decaf, non-fat, Frappuccino with whipped cream and caramel drizzle.
Upcoming appointments: Friday, 2/28 Anatomy scan at MFM
How are you feeling? Decent! Last week and earlier this week lots of headaches/nausea/tired that had been gone awhile. And I just don't get headaches
Raves/Rants: I still haven't felt baby moved (second pregnancy). This time placenta is posterior (last time was anterior and I didnt feel movement until 24 weeks).
I've been struggling mentally for months and can't find a counselor. All are full in a town of 100k and two hospitals. I'm drained to keep calling. I asked one why everyone is full and she said bc of the university (40,000 students not included in population) and are area is fast growing.
Questions: None
GTKY- Would you rather never play or always lose? always lose. I'm just here to be social and eat snacks:-)
@blaf322
That is really hard! I've never heard of that. I'm glad they're on top of it. Sending good vibes!
@rachelredhead I was just thinking earlier this week how our board hasn't had a mental health check-in. I think they're always a good idea! I can try to start one if I have a minute this morning.
Also, weight estimates don't seem to be super accurate. They do measure the bones and stuff pretty well, so he is probably on the tall/big side right now, but that doesn't mean your due date is off. Also, the way percentiles work is that some babies will always be at the high end, some will be at the low end. They all have to be somewhere in the lineup!
Expecting again -- EDD 7/27/20