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October 2019 Moms
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Weekly Randoms 5/20
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Re: Weekly Randoms 5/20
Just an update on me, if you were following last week. We received an abnormal high result on the maternal serum AFP test for neural tube defects. Luckily my MFM had a cancellation so we were able to get the ultrasound done already instead of tomorrow. The ultrasound looks normal. However I was also asked to repeat the bloodwork and my bloodwork came back even worse/ higher the second time around. The doctors say it's the ultrasound that matters so we are trying to put this behind us for now, but having two abnormal test results still makes me uneasy... what are the chances of two false positives? Unexplained high AFP is associated with placenta issues like IUGR and preeclampsia down the line so I will continue to be monitored, but I was already high risk so that was happening regardless. Trying to take a deep breath and relax. It's been a scary few days.
@obsessedwithoranges I wish I had insight for you that would help ease your fears. Keeping you in my thoughts.
We are on our last real day with students, but since my AP kids have been finished for a while, they're mostly just hanging out today. I have 2 classes with finals this week, but they are all multiple choice so the grading will be pretty much instantaneous. I am so ready for summer break, and also to not have to dress to hide my growing bump. I'm not going to tell my students this year, so I've been trying to be sneaky until the end. Success so far, or at least, no one has come out to ask me about it.
@obsessedwithoranges sorry that it wasn't all great news but the ultrasound is very important so I hope you find some comfort in that.
@obsessedwithoranges I'm so sorry about your news. Also keeping my FX that everything turns out okay and glad that your doctors are monitoring you.
I really wish there was a program for pregnant working ladies to not have to work the second half of pregnancy (and still get paid)... I straight up have no motivation, get distracted very easily and just want to stay home all day and sleep.
TTC #2: October 2018, BFP 02/02/19, EDD 10/14/19
@stephanie123456 I totally agree.... working right now is the worst. I'm totally a zombie at work every day just going through the motions!
@meagan-t happy birthday! Its lovely weather here for icecream cake, hope it is for you too! Positive vibes for your FIL and successful treatments!
So we let the kids hear baby's heart beat last night. They both enjoyed it but DS was just in total awe. He said he wanted to listen forever 🥰
is your placenta anterior or posterior? That’s going to make a major difference in when feeling is felt and how much.
I had first kicks around 16-17w with all, getting more consistent once 18/20w, but all mine were/are posterior placentas. I also have just very active babies to begin with
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BFP #2 5/4/14, EDD 1/15/15, DS1 1/19/15
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@obsessedwithoranges I’ll be praying everything is a fluke and the U/S is the true look. That said if you do end up with an IUGR issue you can talk to me. We dealt with it with DS and they are already concerned about it with this one. So if you do end up there know you’re not alone. My BMB with DS was the only thing that got me through it that time.
HX
DSD: 17
DS: 4(Nov'14)
MMC:8/17
MMC: 1/18
BFP: 2/7/19 EDD:10/16/19
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@obsessedwithoranges - anyone would have the same uneasy feelings! However, it's good news on the u/s so I would take that and run with it 😊
I'm a ftm and I felt the baby move right at 17 wks for the first time. Last night (17w3d) after eating some Mickey D's 🙈 I felt the baby move. My husband said, "I want to feel!" So I replied that he would probably not be able to feel anything for a couple of weeks, but I placed his hand low on my belly anyway & applied a little pressure. The baby must've felt the walls caving in bc we both felt the baby move! I for sure ugly cried I was so excited!
Movement is def sporadic at this point. Usually only if I'm laying down and feeling for it. Plus it probably helps that I have a small frame - 5'1" & maybe 110 at this point.
I've felt a little jealous of everyone knowing the sex of their baby already & we will have to wait until june 7th, but last night certainly made up for it!
@obsessedwithoranges everyone is different too so asking for movement from others may may make you even more uneasy. ☹️ I have you in my thoughts for your tests and ultrasounds and agree with everyone else. Your Dr has you in good hands I hope! Such a scary feeling 😔
@melanier26 I feel you on the feelings. My boss made me cry at work on mother's day Sunday. I NEVER even get angry enough to cry and she did it. It doesn't help that my rage/anger skyrockets while preggo so therefore it made it 100000% worse. Even my coworkers cowo like we've never seen you explode.
Today's been a good day except I'm always so sorry on Monday after the work weekend 😭 my hips felt like someone was full force sitting on them all night. Even a pillow in between my legs doesn't help now! But I got to see my best friend since 8th grade today(she moved out of state after high school and is back visiting), we went to get food and hang out, her son and my daughter are 4 days apart and such a big difference in them!! My baby is sooooo little 😂
@obsessedwithoranges, I'm so sorry for the two scary readings. Hopefully you'll be able to get some peace of mind with extra monitoring ❤
@obsessedwithoranges Sorry you have lingering doubts but a good ultrasound result sounds like really good news, especially if your doctors don’t have concerns.
I’ve been feeling sporadic movement at ~17 weeks - definitely not every day. At my 15 week appointment my doctor said I would probably start feeling movement over the next 4 weeks, but it would be very irregular. As a STM I recognized the movement for what it was earlier this time than last time. The baby seems to move more when I’m feeling particularly angry so either he likes the adrenaline or he’s trying to make me feel better
I had a cool experience last night. I was laying on my back poking my belly and there was a hard lump off to one side. I was like “oh! Hi baby! You’re really in there!”
@obsessedwithoranges I'll be sending positive vibes your way, for sure. I can't imagine how you're feeling, but try to stay positive and focus on the little life inside of you. Regarding feeling movements, I'm 17w1d and I'm fairly positive I haven't felt anything yet. If I have, I haven't noticed. I've been told that's normal and that it may still be a few weeks, and I can't wait. It'll be a nice reassurance to have.
@obsessedwithoranges So sorry that you didn’t get the clear results you wanted. I can’t imagine how stressed you are right now. Just know we are all here for support!
@steminist I am amazed that you’ve managed to not tell your students anything.
@stephanie123456 I need that same program! I am just so lacking in motivation, it’s insane.
@prpl11butterfly So sweet about DS’s reaction to the heartbeat! Love it.
@melanier26 So sorry you are having a rough one today. I had one of those last week, where I just couldn’t get my mood to a positive place, so can definitely empathize. Hang in there!
We had a good weekend here - my parents came to visit (they live about seven hours away) and it was really nice to catch up. Plus they helped us plant a ton of flowers in our yard that look gorgeous! I’m exhausted but it was totally worth it.
Today has been a huge day. We had a couple daycare tours, a doctor's appointment, and my anatomy scan! It was overwhelming with so much information and so many emotions crammed into one day. I am so happy I got to see my baby girl again. She was very active during the scan and moved a ton for us. It's starting to feel so real and I cannot wait to meet her and bring her home ❤❤❤
spoiler alert, they no longer give out instruction books 😒
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BFP #2 5/4/14, EDD 1/15/15, DS1 1/19/15
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TTC #2: October 2018, BFP 02/02/19, EDD 10/14/19
@obsessedwithoranges I am a FTM and 20 weeks and still haven’t felt any moment... not even a flutter! My OB said it’s still normal (but I worry too. I am higher risk for IUGR because of a single artery umbilical cord). I remember that my doc asked if I wanted that blood test done. She said that it gives info about potential neural tube defects but that the anatomy scan will confirm it and is more accurate. I asked her - if I’m already getting the anatomy scan why would I have a blood test done that is less accurate? Then she said there really is no reason. I personally think it’s because I’m 35 and insurance will cover it. I am sorry you’ve had some uncertain news, and I hope it’s comforting to know that I was told the Ultrasound always trumps that test.
@obsessedwithoranges I’ve been thinking about you! I’m sorry for the inconsistent news. That has to be really hard but I have always heard the ultrasound is the most telling with those things in particular. Sending you hugs!
I've been feeling inconsistent movement as a TTM, and it definitely less and later than I felt my first two which makes me nervous and also makes me wonder if my placenta just happens to be anterior instead of posterior this time.
We were at my IL’s all weekend basking in the warm weather and spending so much time outside. They live on beautiful property full of wildlife and it was so nice to disconnect and spend quality time!
I have my AS on Friday and I’m dying to see this baby boy! My mom asked who I think he will look like most...I was like 🤔 🤷🏻♀️. She’s ridiculous. Regardless of who he looks like she will tell me he looks like her right after he’s born.
I tell everyone the nicest thing you can tell a new mom the first time you meet her baby is that the baby looks like her. No one ever says they do and it’s so annoying.
Me 39 - DH 41
Married 8/26/07
TTGP #1 Jan '15 -
BFP 9/11/15 - DS born 5/31/16
TTGP #2 July '17 -
CP July '17
Blighted Ovum MC Dec '17
CP June '18
BFP 1/30/19 - EDD 10/13/19
@obsessedwithoranges I'm so sorry for the stressful results. It's frustrating that if the ultrasound is what ultimately matters that they still even run these tests. Hoping that the levels are truly nothing to be concerned about.
Me 39 - DH 41
Married 8/26/07
TTGP #1 Jan '15 -
BFP 9/11/15 - DS born 5/31/16
TTGP #2 July '17 -
CP July '17
Blighted Ovum MC Dec '17
CP June '18
BFP 1/30/19 - EDD 10/13/19