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Cheating partner

I’ve had suspicions that my partner was cheating with his ex. He shares a kid with her and always insisted their contact was strictly coparenting. He didn’t tell her I was pregnant, she found out because I announced it on Facebook. She drunk called him at 2 am and demanded to know if we were serious. This really raises my suspicions because if nothing was going on, why would she care? After arguing with him, I decided to call her. She told me that they’ve been having sex continuously for the past 2 years and she thought I knew. She said she didn’t care if I was pregnant because he told her he wasn’t serious about me and wasn’t planning on being with me. They had sex as recent as last weekend. My suspicions were confirmed, I wasn’t going crazy like my ex made me feel. I’m disgusted and hurt. Scared to be a single mom. But I know I have to stay strong for baby. 

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  • Have you confronted your partner about it?
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  • I texted him and he just responded “ok.” 
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  • Follow your gut. Take care of you and baby. Talk to him but don’t be a fool. What are you prepared to do? 

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  • what did you text to him? I agree with the previous people really if he was cheating he probably would have put up more of a fight about you saying you were going to call her , how did he react when he found out that you were pregnant? I also agree with the pp saying its not a red flag that he did not tell her you were pregnant, he probably wanted to avoid drama with her . Good luck with everything 
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