Ok so I tried to leave a comment in a TTCAL forum under pregnancy, not child loss. Although that is the situation I find myself after three losses I do have a living child. I was asked to edit my post.
where exactly is it ok to try and connect to people who may be going through a similar situation but I’m also allowed to talk about my DD who brings me joy?
I want to offend anyone, it seems safer not to post because I don’t quite understand all the TWs and rules
@temimore the issue in TTCAL is that most of the ladies there do not have a LC. It is a safe place for those who've experienced loss to not have children thrown at them (because that's not possible IRL). Please know that your comment didn't offend me. BUT many of those ladies would have been hurt and as of late, they are my support system and I'm protecting them where I can.
You would fit in great in the TFAS (trying for a sibling) thread! But there we ask that you TW mentions of loss. Again, because maybe one of us is in denial about our own loss and seeing another post about it may bring forward some feelings that are unwelcome at the time. It can be tricky but lurking and taking cues from the more seasoned ladies will help you along.
I hope I'm not a newbie anymore (although maybe I still am, since I've only been active a few months?) But it felt like this question goes here: anyone know how to search the boards for previous threads if you are on mobile, or is it actually impossible and just another way the app is awful?
Edited because mobile = autocorrect getting words wrong
@spacepiraterunner If you scroll down to where she told you to go & click the ‘go’ without typing anything into the search bar, it will take you to a more extensive search page.
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where exactly is it ok to try and connect to people who may be going through a similar situation but I’m also allowed to talk about my DD who brings me joy?
I want to offend anyone, it seems safer not to post because I don’t quite understand all the TWs and rules
You would fit in great in the TFAS (trying for a sibling) thread! But there we ask that you TW mentions of loss. Again, because maybe one of us is in denial about our own loss and seeing another post about it may bring forward some feelings that are unwelcome at the time. It can be tricky but lurking and taking cues from the more seasoned ladies will help you along.
Edited because mobile = autocorrect getting words wrong
https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12742152/newbie-thread-week-of-4-1
Married Sept. 2013
DS1: Nov 11, 2016
MMC: 11/16/18 (9w6d)
CP: 2/3/19 (5w3d)
BFP! 8/24/19
DS2: May 10, 2020
Newbie here. Posted this morning and I was told to introduce myself on this forum.
Anyways! I’m 25. Husbands 28. We will be married 2 years this fall.
Hoping to come off the pill this year. Any suggestions? I currently take: microgestin Fe
Sorry for any confusion in the redirection you received today. You’ll get used to navigating your way around soon enough. Looking forward to interacting with you!
My husband and I just started TTC in May. I’m 36 and he’s 38, so age has been stressing me out!
looking for some support, advice and guidance from others. Hope to make some new friends
Married: June 2011
TTC since Feb 2016
BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16
BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP
BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18
QFP without link. Stop spamming the board please. Not interested in your magic book.
Married: 10.2018
DS #1: 06.2014
Hyperemesis Gravidarum (HG), Emergency C-Section
MC: 03.2017- 5 Weeks
Rainbow DS #2: 07.2018
HG, 19w Fetal Surgery, 24w PPROM, 33w Placental Abruption, Partial Uterine Rupture, Emergency C-Section
NICU, Chronic Kidney Disease
TTC #3: Medically Cleared 12.5.2019, had a bunch of problems and wonky cycles
BFP 10.13.2020 EDD: 6.26.2021
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