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Oct 2018 FET

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  • @ndz2018 WOOHOO for finally moving forward!! Hopefully they're able to get things started and get AF here asap. I am also doing a saline sono once Af arrives so hopefully we can be on the same schedules :)
  • @ndz2018 In honor of Tuesdays, I hope that witch shows up tomorrow.

    Bloody vibes coming at ya


    People think we become mothers when we give birth but the truth is we become mothers the moment we start calling our babies to us in our thoughts, dreams and prayers. Some paths are short and some are so long that you can easily forget where you were headed.

    How I feel all of the time.
    My 7 Year Journey ***Tw in spoiler***
    IVF
    IVF #1 - September 2018; Follistim, Menopur, Cetrotide & Lupron/HCG combo trigger; PGS; ICSI
    Back on Levothyroxine
    FET #1 - October 2018; cancelled, all PGS aneuploid
    FET #1 - November 30th, transferred anyway
    Wondfo BFP 5dp5dt, CB Digi 6dpt, 
    1st Beta on 7dpt 93
    2nd Beta on 10dpt 510!

    TTC #1 since 2011. Tried for 5 years before we knew there was a one year rule.
    Diag w/MS 2016; w/PCOS & IF 2017
    New RE 2018; PCOS diagnosis taken away, IF due to ovary adhesions, but prev. RE insists PCOS IF

    IUI
    IUI #1 July 2017 w/100mg Clo+trigger; BFN; benched w/big cysts
    IUI #2 October 2017 w/50mg Clo+trigger; BFN; benched w/big cysts
    IUI #3 February 2018 w/5mg Femara+trigger; low P
    BFP February; mc March; Subclinical hypothyroid started Levothyroxine 
    IUI #4 March 2018 w/7.5mg Femara+trigger; BFN
    Medicated cycle & TI April 2018 w/7.5mg Femara+trigger; BFN
    Tried several cycles on our own; all BFN
     
  • @ndz2018 throwing all of my bloodiest vibes at ya!!
  •  :D  :D:D  OMG @suzycupcake  and @purplg8r  AHHAHHAAH Thank you so much ladies!! 
  • @ndz2018 Wishing you a crazy AF and all it's glory!! Like I told you last night...I've never been so invested in someone's uterus  :D
    TTC #1 since April 2015
    June 2016 - CP
    2017 - Medicated Cycles & IUI's
    IVF w/ PGS  - January 2018
    FET #1 - April 2018 - BFN
    ERA Cycle May / June 2018
    ERA Biopsy June 2018 ~ Results: receptive (no change)
    FET #2 - July 2018 - BFP <3 Beta #1 - 137 Beta #2 - 410
    U/S #1 7wk1d - HB 144 U/S #2 9w1d HB 166
    Anatomy Scan 1st 11/2/18 2nd AS 11/19
    EDD March 28, 2019
    Baby Girl born 3/26/19  <3



  • you all made me laugh so hard! I love it!!!!! I'm sending you mine too! @ndz2018 and keep us posted!
  • @ndz2018 I hate it when AF doesn’t show up, it shows up on time all year but then when you try to start a cycle it takes forever. Good luck on your sonogram. Hopefully everything is ok. 

    I just got my calendar and tentative transfer is 10/22. Can’t wait. 
  • mkr_0128mkr_0128 member
    edited September 2018
    Hopefully that gets you going @ndz2018! Sorry AF is being irrational and stubborn for you!

    So exciting @knottiee829c :) 

    I have received my calendar as well, I'm scheduled for transfer sometime between 10/30-11/2 if all else goes as planned :) 
  • @wishing-and-hoping -
    I wish I could say I have done unmedicated, but I've never been given the option!  Less medication and hormones sounds like the way to go, especially if it gets you to transfer sooner! Good luck and keep us updated, I want to hear all about it.
    @ndz2018 - have you tried wearing white pants, or going swimming?? I am sending many menstrual vibes! 

    AFM, I just had an ultrasound then started Lupron yesterday, and it didn't sting like I remembered! Feels more real now that I'm using needles... :smile:

  • sjtsm1919sjtsm1919 member
    edited September 2018
    @ndz2018 sending lots of period wishes your way! who knows and it arrives before your start provera, but if not, you have a plan and more clarity about your dates, no extra stress needed here :-) 

    @wishing-and-hoping All 3 FET were medicated for me, I don't know if my clinic offers unmedicated, because when I had no need to have a specific date for my transfer, they still put me on BCP first.  This time I wanted to have it on a Saturday, so one more reason to do the medicated version.  I think I would prefer to have it earlier, than knowing the exact day, also I feel that I am bombarding my body with so much medication :(
  • @ndz2018 yay for starting provera to move things along! Did the ultrasound show anything significant? I bet it's all the stress from your dumb clinic 
    @wishing-and-hoping I've only done cycles with estrogen tablets but letrozole is just a gentle fertility drug (I used it for an IUI). You probably won't have any monitoring in between trigger and transfer, but I'm just guessing here. Also guessing that the other monitoring will be the same, they just care about that lining getting nice and plump. 

    Congrats to the ladies who have gotten their calender or started their cycle!  I hope my hcg test Thursday comes back neg so I can start looking forward to AF soon.. 
  • @ndz2018 time to get this period party started!

    @knottiee829c @mkr_0128 so exciting that you got your tentative date!

    @wishing-and-hoping I’m not doing it that way but it sounds great since you get to move up your transfer!

    @hereforthebabies I’m glad the Lupron is better than you remembered!

    @leilee101 FX for good news on Thursday!
  • Congrats your calendar @knottiee829c you actually going to have yours 2 days before mine! Congrats to you too @mkr_0128 always exciting to get a calendar!
    @wishing-and-hoping welcome! I never done unmedicated FET, this one going to be my 1st one actually but I have a question regarding unmedicated with trigger, does it mean you have a possibility to have twins? If they let you ovulate and you BD, and transfer a embryo? Or are you not supposed to BD?
    @hereforthebabies always exciting to start with the protocol, GL to you!
    @Bababatty welcome and GL for this cycle, praying that it will be the one! 
  • northbeach3northbeach3 member
    edited September 2018
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    yay @Bababatty! Glad your getting to start your cycle again and that you were able to “take control” via the medicated cycle. 

    Just curious, did your RPL panel / work up reveal anything? We’re the transfers with CP from PGS tested? Will you be doing anything additional, treatment wise, for this FET?

    sorry for the 100 questions. :) wishing you luck!!!

    ETA: glad to hear your also moving forward with Provera @ndz2018. What a long road but you’re getting that much closer to getting started every day!
    me: 37 dh: 42; TTC since Jan 2016
    dx: PCOS, low progesterone; 2 MMC
    Sept FET 2018 Spreadsheet
    3 failed IUIs (clomid + ovidrel), unresponsive to femara
    Jan 2 2018 - 1st IVF cycle - 9 retrieved, 7 mature/fertilized, 1 5d transfer + 5 untested snowbabies
    Jan 19 2018 - Fresh Transfer #1 one 5dt; BFP 1/25/2018; EDD 10/7/2018; MMC at 8w3d; D&C 3/6/2018
    May 16 2018 - FET #1 one 5dt; BFP with 4 betas (6.5, 24.3, 165.5, 2250) - EDD 2/1/2019; MMC at 6w; D&C 6/20/18
    Sept 17 2018 - FET #2 one 5dt; BFP 38.9 7dpt, 167 9dpt - EDD 6/5/2019  
    (3 untested embryos remain)


  • Hi all. 
    First off I am sorry for every single person out there going through infertility. 
    I am new to this form so I will introduce myself. Kinda. 

    I am 26 years old. Have pcos. Started ttc at 22 years old. Went to a specialist and started iui 
    Second try was successfully (who knew how blessed we are) this was with 13 injections of menopur. 

    So fast forward to now. We have tried iui again 2 times. But my resistance to hormones is worse. (I need 24-30 injection to start making a folical)
    My last cycle ending in a chemical pregnancy (hate the term because it feels like a loss to us)

    So now we are going to try IVF as the doctor has said iui is not for us. Thankfully we can afford 1 try (financially) 
    So I am here asking anyone who has had the same/similar and if they have any tips.

    I am not sure why I need so many hormones now.
    I am so scared I spend all this money to have no good egg or only 1 egg. 

    Any advice will be appreciated. AF is due on the 8th of October so we hoping to start then (if the corpus luteum cyst is finally gone) 
    I do apologize if I offended anyone xx
  • Thanks @babydust2507! FX for a successful cycle for you, too!

    Thanks @northbeach3! Frustratingly, my work-up has revealed nothing. I asked my RE if there were any more tests (in general, not just for RPL) we could do, and he said, not really at this point.  :D (Other than ERA, which is not done in NYS; he’d send me out of state for it if we have to do another IVF round.) None of the CPs were from PGS-tested embryos. We thawed and tested the remaining embryos from our current clinic this summer, so this will be the first FET with one we know is definitely PGS normal. The biggest difference this cycle is that I’ve added in acupuncture and I stopped drinking alcohol entirely in August (for no reason other than maybe it will help?). We are a source of befuddlement for our RE, lol.
  • northbeach3northbeach3 member
    edited September 2018
    Thanks for sharing @Bababatty . Sorry I’m on mobile so forgive me if this is in your signature.  How many total embryos did you have from your ER cycle? And then how many did you still have on ice that you sent out to test? And how many tested normal?

    i had 6 untested and am down to 3. After my first two MC I wanted to send the rest out for testing but my RE counseled against it due to thaw/refreeze loss. I’m hoping my recent transfer landed on a “normal” embryo but there’s just no telling. I’m trying to get a sense on probabilities — of my six, how many may have rated normal vs abnormal?  My re just wants to keep transferring until we find the lucky one but that’s so easily for him to say. :/

    excited youll be transfwring a PGS tested one. Hopefully that’s all that’s needed at this point. 
    me: 37 dh: 42; TTC since Jan 2016
    dx: PCOS, low progesterone; 2 MMC
    Sept FET 2018 Spreadsheet
    3 failed IUIs (clomid + ovidrel), unresponsive to femara
    Jan 2 2018 - 1st IVF cycle - 9 retrieved, 7 mature/fertilized, 1 5d transfer + 5 untested snowbabies
    Jan 19 2018 - Fresh Transfer #1 one 5dt; BFP 1/25/2018; EDD 10/7/2018; MMC at 8w3d; D&C 3/6/2018
    May 16 2018 - FET #1 one 5dt; BFP with 4 betas (6.5, 24.3, 165.5, 2250) - EDD 2/1/2019; MMC at 6w; D&C 6/20/18
    Sept 17 2018 - FET #2 one 5dt; BFP 38.9 7dpt, 167 9dpt - EDD 6/5/2019  
    (3 untested embryos remain)


  • @ndz2018 lurking to send you super bloody vibes!!!  :D:D:D
  • @wishing-and-hoping hi! I am currently on the Sept FET board ( was lurking over here) i did the same protocol as you. **TW I had repeated CP/miscarriages over the past two years so my doctor suggested we do the natural/medicated cycle in hopes that the issue was my body doesnt like the estrogen replacement. 
    Heres how my clinic did it: letrazole days 4-7. U/S and BW 4 days after last pill (my 2 follicles were 11&10 mm) so came back 4days after that (follicles were 19&18.5) they had me come back the next morning (follicles were 19.85 and 19.2) was told to take the trigger shot the next morning. Cames back 36 hours after that to make sure i ovulated (started progesterone and medrol next day)and then 5 days later i had the transfer. My times are a little adjusted due to my uterine lining being pre-receptive- so i meed an extra 12 hours of progesterone. Im pretty sure that affected the time I did the trigger shot and progesterone. But that should give you a general outline. Hope it helps!!
  • @northbeach3 No worries! I am always happy to answer questions. From our last ER, we had 5 of which we transferred one fresh and froze 4. So we ended up testing the 3 remaining frozen embies (since we transferred 1 for my last FET). 2 came back normal. Honestly, we were all hoping they would all be (or at least 2 would be) abnormal because my RE felt that could explain the issue—ie that we had a bad batch of eggs and should try again. Talk about surreal to be praying for all abnormals. (I should add that he feels that the embies from my first IVF cycle, at a different clinic, failed because they overcooked my eggs, but we won’t know. We have 1 remaining embie there and chose not to test it because it would take too much time to transfer it to our new clinic.) So I can’t give you a good sense of probabilities, unfortunately. FWIW, My RE did note that if we have another CP or failure, it could be because we harassed (my words, not his) the embies by thawing, biopsying, and refreezing, but he seemed to discount that possibility. He felt the risk of destroying the embryos entirely was negligible (and indeed they all survived the thaw). I was also planning to use my body as a testing ground rather than PGS-testing up until our last CP. 
  • @justharrison thanks for the info!
    also, i lurk the sept FET board - congrats on your AWESOME betas!
    TTC History in Spoiler
    Me: 29  DH:34
    TTC 21 cycles
    All TI cycles BFN (with letrozole, ovidrel, prometrium)
    Hysteroscopy + Polypectomy + D&C on 1/3
    IUI #1 February 6, BFP 2/21, CP 2/26
    IUI #2 March 14, BFN
    IUI #3 April 11, BFN
    IUI #4 May 11, BFN
    July 2018 IVF, developed lead follicle, converted to TI, BFN
    August/September 2018 IVF converted to freeze-all: 7 mature eggs; we fertilized 3 and froze 4. 3/3 fertilized and 1 blast!
    October 2018 FET-BFN
    November 2018 FET-TBD

  • @Bababatty thanks for your info too! i'm hoping they don't do any monitoring between trigger and transfer because i'm supposed to be out of town (whoops!).  will cancel or change my plans if necessary but would prefer not to.  :)
    TTC History in Spoiler
    Me: 29  DH:34
    TTC 21 cycles
    All TI cycles BFN (with letrozole, ovidrel, prometrium)
    Hysteroscopy + Polypectomy + D&C on 1/3
    IUI #1 February 6, BFP 2/21, CP 2/26
    IUI #2 March 14, BFN
    IUI #3 April 11, BFN
    IUI #4 May 11, BFN
    July 2018 IVF, developed lead follicle, converted to TI, BFN
    August/September 2018 IVF converted to freeze-all: 7 mature eggs; we fertilized 3 and froze 4. 3/3 fertilized and 1 blast!
    October 2018 FET-BFN
    November 2018 FET-TBD

  • @Bababatty good for you for sticking up for yourself!  I hope this is it for you!
  • Thanks for the rundown @Bababatty. I hear you on hoping for pgs testing to reveal the abnormalities as a explanation for the CP/MCs. IF is a mind fuck!!  

    Well I hope that all the past issues were just bad luck and that this is the lucky cycle. FX for you! 
    me: 37 dh: 42; TTC since Jan 2016
    dx: PCOS, low progesterone; 2 MMC
    Sept FET 2018 Spreadsheet
    3 failed IUIs (clomid + ovidrel), unresponsive to femara
    Jan 2 2018 - 1st IVF cycle - 9 retrieved, 7 mature/fertilized, 1 5d transfer + 5 untested snowbabies
    Jan 19 2018 - Fresh Transfer #1 one 5dt; BFP 1/25/2018; EDD 10/7/2018; MMC at 8w3d; D&C 3/6/2018
    May 16 2018 - FET #1 one 5dt; BFP with 4 betas (6.5, 24.3, 165.5, 2250) - EDD 2/1/2019; MMC at 6w; D&C 6/20/18
    Sept 17 2018 - FET #2 one 5dt; BFP 38.9 7dpt, 167 9dpt - EDD 6/5/2019  
    (3 untested embryos remain)


  • Thanks for the explanation @Bababatty. I have 9 untested remaining as my fresh transfer was a BFN. I started thinking of PGS testing but my RE wasn't really for it without giving me much details. I just hope this FET will be the one because I don't know if I will wanna go thru that 9 times or just risk to have my embies defrosted/thawed/refrozen and hope they will survive  :/ . I don't think financially,emotionally, and physically we can afford another IVF cycle. Again GL to you!
  • *lurking*
    thanks @northbeach3 for asking the same questions that I now may have to consider. And thank you @Bababatty for sharing - fx your pgs normal embryo will result your thb. 


  • Hi Ladies. I'm new to this board but not infertility. Very short story: been married since 2013, went through IVF for the 1st time in 2016 which ended with our DS in Dec 2016. We have 4 frozen PGS tested embabies left from our first retrieval. We have now started cycle number 2 with FET date of Oct 4.

    @Bababatty looks like we are on the same schedule :smile: 
    @hereforthebabies- i'm with you on the Lupron. Althgouh I do feel like I'm way more of a mess this time with all of the hormones. Maybe it's because I haven't already been on a ton for a few months but wow my poor husband is getting the rough end of my moods. lol 
    @ndz2018 - any luck today??? 

    I can't tell you ladies how incredibly amazing it is to have women to talk to that know exactly what you are going through every step of the way. I love not only the support but what we all learn from each other along the way. 

    Me: 33 (no known issues)
    DH: 33 (lower motility; 0 morphology)
    TTC since Oct 2013
    IVF round 1 January 2016 (w/ ICSI)
    ER: February 17, 2016; 15 eggs retrieved, 14 mature, 11 fertilized
    Day 5 Blastocysts: 8 sent for PGS - 5 Normal
    FET date: April 12, 2016 - DS born Dec 7, 2016
    IVF round 2: FET : Oct 4 - 1st Beta 188!



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  • @Griffin5413 welcome and congrats on getting started with #2! Hope you start October off strong
    @Bababatty same to you (both the welcome and to starting the month off strong). We are also MFI and considering testing for RPL after one CP and one MC. We have one frozen embie so doesn't make sense to test thaw and PSG that one, but we will def do PGS if this last FET failed and we have to cycle again.

    AFM, had my THIRD blood draw post D&C today, levels still not at 0.. they came back at 132. soo close. Hopefully one more week, although that's what they said last week. I hope it hurries up already or I'll def be looking at a November FET!
  • Welcome @Griffin5413!! I hope everything goes smoothly with your FET quickly approaching :) 

    @leilee101 sorry that it's not at zero yet! Hopefully it gets there sooner than later  <3
  • @Griffin5413 welcome!  Oct 4th will be here before you know it!

    @leilee101 ugh!  That’s so frustrating!  I’m sorry!

    AF started today so I called my RE and my appt isn’t until Monday.  So I think that pushes my FET back a few days 
  • Welcome @Griffin5413 and GL on starting baby #2 that's exciting and October 4th is around the corner!!! yay!
    @leilee101 sorry that your HCG is not back to 0 yet, is it possible that it could take less than a week? when is your next appt for another bloodwork?
    @purplg8r glad to know that AF showed up and you can get started! GL on your appt on Monday. I actually have my baseline appt on Monday too! I will be taking my last BCP this sunday, So glad it's almost over, finally!
  • @Griffin5413 Welcome, transfer buddy!! Good luck!! Also ditto on poor DH and my Lupron moods. I am not a nice wife right now.  :#

    @leilee101 Yeah, our RE had us do the RPL b/w after our second CP so definitely worth considering if, God forbid, another loss happens. It’s so frustrating to have an initially straightforward diagnosis and get this curveball, as you know! I’m sorry about your HCG still not 0’d out. FX for a fast drop on the remainder!

    @purplg8r and @babydust2507  Good luck with your baselines on Monday!!

    AFM CD7, b/w came back fine so continuing on with the Lupron and estrogen. Back for more b/w on Monday. I’m very lucky that my only real side effect is a complete lack of patience (sorry, DH!).
  • Thank you @Bababatty! And patience is my problem too right now! What's your lining like right now? 
  • Hi ladies!! I’m jumping in and joining this thread now I’m positive this is the route we are going. For those who don’t know me from the September IVF thread a quick intro!

    I just turned 30 a few days ago! And my husband and I have been ttc for five years. I have PCOS and Crohn’s disease which has required multiple surgeries. Unfortunately those surgeries caused injury to my tubes which cause bilateral hydrosalphix. So here I am now. I had a tubal ligation done in August to block my tubes off and keep the toxic fluid from hurting my IVF chances. And just finished my stims and had my ER yesterday! It was quite the story because my body did not react to the Lupron trigger. Apparently this happens in 1% of women. So they tried five follicles found no eggs and canceled it. Had me retrigger! And then yesterday returned and we got 17 eggs! I’m so relieved!!! 

    Now just waiting on my fertilization reports and to find out how many we will be freezing/what my schedule is for the next step in this journey. I’m so happy to be here able to share and support with all of you and good luck to everyone!! 
  • cscroncecscronce member
    edited September 2018
    Hello ladies. Got through the storm here. Got the green light to move on. My Saline and baseline US were normal. I am stopping my OCP tomorrow. Then on to retrace and then PIO. I also had an acupuncture treatment yesterday. I did this with my first IVF and it’s so relaxing. Trying to keep my stress levels down.

    So if everything keeps moving in the right direction we will have our FET on October 16th.

    Wishing everyone success in the weeks to come.
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    Married 11 years. PCOS; TTC since 2009; 3 unsuccessful IUIs;
    New RE. First & Hopefully Last IVF November 2013.
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