Trying to Get Pregnant
littlesharp
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Hey newbie here!!
littlesharp
member
Hello I'm cait. My husband and I have decided to have another baby. He is 40 I am 27. We have 3 beautiful daughters together and want to have another. I was on BC and had my iud removed 5-1-18 had my first af 5-4-18 now I am using opk daily to figure out when I'm ovulating. I take prenantals and do what I can to be healthy and aid in conieving. we have been blessed the longest it has taken us to become pregnant in the past is 3 months and that was without counting or charting or anything. we just decided to have another baby, pray about it, and bam suddenly I was pregnant lol. idk this time is different for me. I guess I have this fear that it wont be that way this time. idk I'm probably just crazy. I'm currently on CD5. I'm absolutely concumed with having a baby. I think about it 24/7 I stess about it I deam about taking my opks. I'm trying to relax. enjoy this time. not worry so much and not be in to big of a hurry. To just let God do his work if it is his will but it hard!!! Lol good luck to all....
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Re: Hey newbie here!!
I don’t have the energy for this tonight
"It's time to try defying gravity."
Married 6/11/16
TTC Since 6/2016
12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal
3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve
8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC
7/2018 Clomid+IUI
11/2018 Letrozole+TI
12/2018 Letrozole+IUI
2/2019 NTNP
5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
TTC since June 2016
Azoospermia diagnosis (zero count) Dec 2016
AZFc chromosome microdeletion discovery March 2017
Unsuccessful TESE for DH in August 2017
October 2017 IVF with donor sperm
29R, 24M, 16F, 2d5, 4d6 (6 embryos total)
Only 3 could have PGS. 2/3 normal. 5 embies frozen
12/15/17 FET #1 (1 embryo)--CP
2/7/17 FET #2 (2 embryos)--BFN
Chronic endometritis diagnosis May 2018
ERA Sept 2018--borderline receptive--12 more hours of progesterone
Abnormal SIS Oct 2018
Repeat hysteroscopy Nov 1. Treated recurring endometritis.
12/4/18 FET #3 (2 embryos)--BFN
Our journey has come to an end.
Also there is a post called newbie intro where you can go introduce yourself and we have daily threads you can participate in. All of this is explained in read me first post.
https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12685680/the-ultimate-ttgp-guide-newbies-read-this-first#latest
Just a side note. This community is great and full of wonderful and supporting woman. If you show support you will get some back. Keep in mind that everyone is in a different spot in their TTC journey and to be conscious of this when talking about how "fertile" you are as it comes off as braggy and no one wants to hear that.
Now if you plan on staying go read the newbie post and lurk a bit to get a feel of how it works around here.
And also
"It's time to try defying gravity."
Married 6/11/16
TTC Since 6/2016
12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal
3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve
8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC
7/2018 Clomid+IUI
11/2018 Letrozole+TI
12/2018 Letrozole+IUI
2/2019 NTNP
5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
Married May 2014
TTC # 2 Since December 2021
Baby girl W born 2/2021
Our journey so far...
(tw loss & infertility)
Working with an RE since March 2016
2 failed TI cycles
3 failed IUI cycles
IVF Feb - April 2017
23 eggs collected, 20 mature, 14 fertilized with ICSI, 4 day 3 blasts, 3 day 5 blasts, 1 PGS normal
Transferred 1 PGS normal embryo 4.12.17
BFP 4.21.17
MMC due to small gestational sac 6.8.17
Our adoption journey:
12.25.18 Agency picked and apps submitted!
5.1.19 Adoption on hold so we can buy a house!
1.1.20 Homestudy process started
3.14.20 First social worker visit
5.25.20 Homestudy Approved & Submitted to Agency
6.1.20 Surprise! Positive pregnancy test!
Healthy baby girl born 2/10/2021
I don't go here, so please, board, forgive me if I'm overstepping. However, I feel like it has to be said...
Yes, please do all the things Vanessa recommended above. There is a place where newbie intros go - one-off threads are not it. As long as someone starts it, there's also a TFAS thread where you can feel free to mention your, (I'm sure, <i>painfully</i> adorable) living children. The main board, randoms, wto/tww, gtkys etc. are not it.
Please, for the love of puppies and kitties and everything holy, <i><b>lurk the board</b></i>. Read the IF thread, too. Get to know your audience and where all these lovely women are coming from. Get to know the culture a bit before you dive into posting. That's what that 3-day waiting period is for, but it doesn't look like you did that.
I'm going to be real honest. Nobody wants to hear how easily you conceived your three living children. You're 27. Nobody wants to hear how you, "just have a feeling it might take longer (than three months) this time." That is not the backstory of a woman who waltzes in here and gets this huge outpouring of internet, "support" -- not on this board, anyway. 1. You have to give it to get it, by participating on a regular basis, responding to others' posts, and getting to know these lady-warriors. 2. Understand that there are real people here, facing a host of real fertility struggles, and many are already beyond tired of fighting. You are not one of them - yet. It doesn't mean you can't play here, but certainly not without cultivating some compassion and respect for everyone else's journey.
I sincerely hope you will be able to take what we've said to heart. People are hurting. Some have only just begun to fight. You are Bilbo Baggins, heading out on an incredible journey... But you're still in the Shire. We all hope from the bottom of our hearts you, and no one else, should have to brave the fires of Mt. Doom to get their babies. Just please understand why the board may not be much for throwing you a pocket hanky, whilst busy fighting the dragon that is IF.
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Seriously, thank you for being so eloquent and saying what many of us couldn't quite get out. Also, I love the LOTR reference (even if you did get it a tiny bit mixed up)
OP, I hope you take her advice to heart, she is truly just trying to help you.
"It's time to try defying gravity."
Married 6/11/16
TTC Since 6/2016
12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal
3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve
8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC
7/2018 Clomid+IUI
11/2018 Letrozole+TI
12/2018 Letrozole+IUI
2/2019 NTNP
5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
"It's time to try defying gravity."
Married 6/11/16
TTC Since 6/2016
12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal
3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve
8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC
7/2018 Clomid+IUI
11/2018 Letrozole+TI
12/2018 Letrozole+IUI
2/2019 NTNP
5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
Married: June 2011
TTC since Feb 2016
BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16
BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP
BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18
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