Hey all, I’m 4 weeks and 5 days pregnant and very bloated. Just wondering if the bloating typically subsides before the baby bump appears or should I expect my clothes to be tight until I buy I new ones? I know everyone is different, just want to know what your experiences were.
Re: Bloat to Baby Bump
Congrats, @BusinessWife and @SkilledSailor ! Hopefully the September BMB will be open ina few days!
@businesswife first of all...awesome to see you here, I'm so happy for you! Second of all, with my second pregnancy I bloated IMMEDIATELY. it was brutal. But the worst was that an absolute stranger on the street stopped me at 16 weeks (16 WEEKS) to congratulate me on my pregnancy. it was January, and I was wearing a winter coat, and this complete stranger was SO SURE I was pregnant that he was willing to comment on it in public. I was NOT IMPRESSED. I can't believe someone had the gall to ask you right after the holidays if you were pregnant, given that I can't imagine you are SO BLOATED at less than 4 weeks that you actually look pregnant. like, those are Christmas cookies, lady. give me a break.
I started wearing maternity jeans at about 10 weeks with my second pregnancy just because they're hella comfortable and I heart elastic waistbands. if my sister didn't currently have all of my maternity clothes (I lent them to her and she gave birth in November) I might be convinced to put them on even earlier this time. But that is largely because this Bonus Baby came before I actually lost all the weight from the last one, so basically I am screwed now. Though I bet none of my coworkers will suspect a thing when I eventually tell them about it given that I was already heavier than normal. is that a plus? I'm not sure. haha.
Congrats to your sister!!! I did get some maternity jeans a while back, but I can't wear them at work. Luckily my work pants are all stretchy with no closure so that are still working, just some tops are more flattering than others. I made a couple comments about wanting to join the *gym*, and no one has said anything else about my chubbiness - although I'm sure they see it doesn't look like I'm exactly trying to diet bc I'm always starving at work and have been making a point to have a yogurt in the morning to get me through to lunch! Lol. I do have a few dresses I could get away with, but not every day, or people would think something was up. Those will be better after I tell work which... at this point, I'm not sure when I should. I *may* need to be able to grab a snack if I'm starving, or excuse myself if I think I'm going to throw up (thankfully we are not there yet) but I'm also afraid a bit of not being promoted as quickly once they find out... who wants to bother promoting a girl into a new role if you're just going to lose her a few short months later, right? :/
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I do notice I feel better if I avoid salt, drink lots of water, go to the gym... You know the things I keep telling myself to do
I feel way more bloated than my first pregancy.