Questions & tips about where to register and how to maximize rewards, questions & advice about what to register for and what to skip, how to register without losing your marbles, etc.
Me: 34 DH: 38
Married: June 2011
TTC since Feb 2016
BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16
BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP
BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18
Re: All the Registry Stuff
Married: June 2011
TTC since Feb 2016
BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16
BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP
BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18
Dx: PCOS
Married: June 2013
TTC#1: January 2015
BFP #1 8/24/15 | MC 9/3/15 at 6w2d
BFP #2: 12/12/15 | DD born 8/29/16
TTC#2: June 2017
BFP #3: 7/15/17 | DS born 3/20/18
Married: June 2011
TTC since Feb 2016
BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16
BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP
BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18
I ended up doing a private share only Amazon list because everyone we planned to share it with uses Amazon (not having a shower so only shared ours with immediate family + anyone who asked us for it directly). I looked around a lot and wasn't able to find things cheaper than on Amazon for most things. When I did find something cheaper elsewhere I just took it off the registry and bought it myself where it was cheaper. I did do a Target registry at first but I ended up not sharing it with anyone and just buying a maternity hoodie, rolling laundry basket, and shower stool there (side note, now that I'm getting bigger those last 2 things have seriously saved my life, guys). Amazon's free gift box is WAY better than Target's btw. If you don't want to add all the stuff you need on the Amazon registry you can click the boxes in the "checklist" to indicate you don't need them (you can't get your goodies box until all the items are checked and someone buys one 10 dollar item). The only issue I've had is my mom is pushing 70 and not super tech savvy so she forgot to put the items in the cart from the list and clicked on the items first, which meant my list didn't register that she had purchased an item. It wasn't a big deal we just had to verbally go over what she bought so I could remove it from the list. ALSO sort of a weird quirk I noticed is that if someone puts an item in their cart but waits a few weeks to check out and in those few weeks you removed the item from your list (say because your mom who is pushing 70 clicked on it first instead of putting in her cart directly from the list...), it will pop back in to your list after they buy it. But their return policy is 90 days so you can correct that later, worse comes to worst.
I thought about Babylist but I feel like it's just lesser known than Amazon and it might get confusing for some.
I did a physical registry with the bulk of items at buybuybaby and linked that to my babylist registry, which has about 20 items on it. My items on babylist either weren't available at buybuybaby or were cheaper on amazon so I put it on the babylist one instead.
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Me: 28 Him: 30
Married: 11/15/14
TTC: 02/2016
IF DX: MFI (low count & morphology) & mild PCOS
June 2016 BFP - MC @8w2d
August 2016 BFP - MC @6w1d
June 2017 - 50 mg Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI = BFP 7/6/17!!
Beta #1 = 422 (14dpo), Beta #2 = 810, prog - 12.3 (16dpo), Beta #3 = 5023, prog - 18.9 (20dpo)
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EDD March 12, 2018
Thanks for reaching out! In order to qualify for our Hello Baby Box, your registry needs to have an arrival date, a shower date and at least 30 unique items listed.
I meet all those requirements, so she said she was going to check on getting one out to me, but she did mention it could take up to 3 weeks. Thanks for letting me know about the box!
@cford08 I'm pretty sure they do? I just looked through my registry bag and googled though and didn't see anything about it. They must offer one... right?
Anyone have any advice/suggestions on what to start out with as a FTM?
IMO, the rock and play bassinet are interchangeable... if you have one, you probably don't need both. They both are mostly just a place for babe to nap or sleep.
https://www.delish.com/food-news/news/a56951/dominos-baby-registry/
I'll probably just end up registering for one of each then go from there. I can always return an item or buy another if need be.
@i-wanna-b-the-girl-w-most-cake honestly, most stuff you probably don't need and you don't always discover that until you're in it. I will say, about the cribs though, my 16 month old hasn't slept more than 45 minutes at once in hers in her entire life. I found out late, but the pnp is better for her. This time, I'm getting a bassinet with rocking motion cuz I'm not about co-sleeping anymore, especially since #1 still does it 90% of the time lol Anyway, think about how you might want to operate on the daily and try to get things that will aid in that. Tip: apparently babywearing is a great way to still do things you need to around the house, especially if you have a clingy baby
https://www.noobiebox.com/products/noobie-box-pregnancy-edition
Pregnant with #2: