Weekday Randoms Week Of 10/2

krash_ · October 2017

@offtoneverland haha! Its terrible but its true! The problem is I'm just too good at my job so something that should take an hour only takes me 20-30 mins. I should probably be asking for more work buuuuuuttt

spottedginger · October 2017

Aaaand she just posted a doozy on the UO thread. (Sorry, I am lighting it up today! Two more hours until a four day weekend and I have things wrapped up. Don’t want to start something that I will have to leave mid-way and figure out where I left it on Tuesday.)

darkstar42 · October 2017

@spottedginger Thanks for the heads up! That whole UO thread is a doozy. I'm just over here cheering @doxiemoxie212 on.

doxiemoxie212 · October 2017

*lurking*

I'm going to lose my mind, guys.

Miss you all!

lurvleybunchococonuts · October 2017

@doxiemoxie212 *hugs* oh my word girl good luck with that!

Eta I'd ask her how she feels about male kindegarten teachers or just male teachers in general.

krash_ · October 2017

can we PLEASE get some more TTGP ladies over there! This is insane.

@doxiemoxie212 I agree that people with racist, sexist or homophobic, etc. opinions should be made to feel embarrassed to share their hurtful thoughts that perpetuates that thinking. This is the whole reason that people came out of the woodwork after He Who Shall Not Be Named got elected.

lurvleybunchococonuts · October 2017

Can we just make a @doxiemoxie212 safe place thread over here? Oh.my.damn. I can't even. I want to see that lady argue with a school that her precious offspring need female teachers not male teacher and see how that flies. Or have her kid in a daycare and see what happens if they dared to hire a guy. Fyi my H is waaayyy better with babies than me. He's the baby whisperer. If we ever gktfu guess who is gonna teach me what to do lmao.

SkilledSailor · October 2017

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I come back from morning meetings like^. What is happening over there? *high fives* to all you ladies for being fabulous.

krash_ · October 2017

I have to chime in more but I don't want to stir the pot over there so I'm just going to share here...why would you validate someones opinions that are prejudice by having an open discussion or debate. I'm sorry you're just wrong and I am not going to give you the benefit of the doubt. We're not talking about why someone likes dogs or cats better, we're talking about racism or sexism. You are not entitled to your opinion.

I gotta stop but I can't.

SkilledSailor · October 2017

I'm really tempted to chime in that statistically *if* (god forbid it would never happen) her kids were sexually abused, 9 times out of 10 it will be by a family member or close family friend so her logic is seriously flawed. Having taken many child development and social work classes in college I learned the best preventative is actually to talk to your kids about "secrets" vs "surprises" and their right to say no. Clearly that whole UO thread struck a nerve with me.

spottedginger · October 2017

Anyone else side-eying the user name “seedinside”?

blackhottamales · October 2017

holy cow, i was lurking the introductions and definitely missed the random thread. That was crazy. Also, in my ignorance when i was first starting i thought i had a CP, not b/c of symptoms but from an indent line--i definitely did not and admitted that and apologized to my friend that i reached out to who has **TW had multiple losses end TW** when i realized my mistake. It's just different.

I stop lurking BMB usually once i know it's not possible for me to join, so i'll probably stop now that i haven't even O'ed yet. But I like it when people let us know of "snark" (please that wasn't even snark...) I appreciate the heads up. please say hi anytime @doxiemoxie212

darkstar42 · October 2017

Erm. I couldn't help it. I commented on the crazy bmb UO thread. *must stop arguing with random people on the internet*

jrm_14 · October 2017

Yikes. I’m going out on a limb....
It is okay to say, “Hey, I did this racist/sexist thing. It wasn’t okay, I don’t know how I got that stereotype, but I will be more cognisent and challenge it in the future.”
Things are not all good or all bad. Just because you aren’t an overt racist/sexist/ageist , does not mean you do not have racist/sexist/ageist tendencies. The fact of the matter is we ALL have mannerisms, traits, biases, opinions, routines, etc that are based on oppression of someone else.
It is wrong (in my opinion) to say, “yup, that my belief and it keeps me feeling safer” when it is based in ignorance and discrimination.
Good for @doxiemoxie212 and others for standing up for a group they are not a part of (male species). If the privileged group doesn’t stand up for the oppressed, who will?
::stepping off my soapbox and runs to hide::

krash_ · October 2017

@darkstar42

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zwink1 · October 2017

Quick note based on my UO in our thread... I have NOT read the June BMB UO yet, so my O has nothing to do with that convo, just throwing that out there because based on what you've said, @krashke, it sounds like it's a debacle - one that I'm now off to read.

Edit: June, not March.

darkstar42 · October 2017

@jrm_14 Yes! Exactly. We all have tons of biases, and I for one appreciate it when someone tells me I've said or done something that shows a bias. It gives me a chance to learn and grow.

zwink1 · October 2017

@doxiemoxie212, did she honestly just "you're not a mom so you don't understand," you? Wtf.

jsnakehole · October 2017

Ooooo I want to say something so badly, but I'm on warning until Christmas so I have to keep my mouth shut.

SkilledSailor · October 2017

@jsnakehole I love that you know the exact date you can be freely snarky again.

krash_ · October 2017

did she seriously just say "when your child is physically here"

jrm_14 · October 2017

@jsnakehole is it inappropriate to PM me what you want to say?

. It may happen to be posted by someone else.....

jsnakehole · October 2017

@SkilledSailor I cannot wait! I'm gonna be off the leash!

@jrm_14 I don't think anything I say is particularly offensive, some people are just too happy with the report button. I think attitudes like certain people's are what keep highly qualified and capable males out of early childhood (my field), and I've met some exceptional male early childhood educators. I might also have wanted to add this gif, so that would have made it more problematic:

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jsnakehole · October 2017

Sorry for the double post- someone please post this on June 18, since I cannot.

Y'all know which thread I'm talking about.

@doxiemoxie212 girl, I am so with you, and wish I could jump in. With any luck, anyone of us ladies from here will end up there with you to bring some sanity.

doxiemoxie212 · October 2017

@jsnakehole girl, I'd be rooting for y'all no matter what, but my fingers and toes are all crossed SO hard. We need more sanity up in June.

krash_ · October 2017

I’ve gotten bingo like 4 times on that thread. What are the prizes?

krash_ · October 2017

**Removed for TOU violation**

nimmle · October 2017

How have I missed what has been going over here?!? Time for me to catch up on lurking The June BMB. Love you ladies!

sandbar517 · October 2017

*lurking from May2018, siggy warning*

*Also TW pregnancy*
I read the June UO board and wow. But now I'm dying to know who you don't like on May!! Anyway, we now have someone in our Introductions claiming she *knew* she was having twins because she found out she was pregnant at 3DPO. I might need some back up......

krash_ · October 2017

I just have to add that I think the drama on J18 overshadowed the great discussion on M18. Kudos @sandbar517

LaceyBee522 · October 2017

Not to turn attention away from the dumpster fire that appears to be the June BMB, but I have a random quesiton for this group: What is with all the noodle references??? Noodle testing, noodle gifts, etc. I realize my noob status is showing by even asking the question, but I'm dying to know.

Also, @krashke can you share link from M18? Would love a distraction this afternoon.

Edited to add: @doxiemoxie212 You are a saint among women for continuing to try to get through to that woman. All the medals go to you!

krash_ · October 2017

@LaceyBee522 it's their UO thread from yesterday

ETA: May 2018 fyi

jsnakehole · October 2017

My students ordered enough books on Scholastic with this book order that we got 10 free books, $15 to spend on books with this order, and 600 extra bonus points. I shouldn't be this excited... but I totally am.

lurvleybunchococonuts · October 2017

@LaceyBee522 the noodle thread!!!!
https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12708369/test

LaceyBee522 · October 2017

@lurvleybunchococonuts Thank you! I am now dying of laughter. Why didn't she ever come back and clarify? I need closure! And, I'm also now craving ramen (totes a prego symptom!)

Also, @krashke thanks for the directions to the other thread.

canucklehead123 · October 2017

OMG you guys!!! I can't believe I missed the crazy happenings on June yesterday!!! **sad face, after reading the thread I'm so amped up to charge into battle!!!!

Hollyyyyy · October 2017

Not to beat a dead horse, but saying you wouldn't hire a male as a nanny, is just as sexist as someone saying they wouldn't vote a female into office, because HORMONES AND PMS AND EMOTIONS. Just...no.

krash_ · October 2017

I need to get a life and stop lurking but she just said in the baby names thread that her DD was named Morgan for a day until her DS renamed her. You let your son just change the name of his sister? I'm I the crazy one here? Your daughter is not a puppy.

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