TTC After a Loss

August WTO

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Re: August WTO

  • @jchpg Just saw you joined TWW! Did you get that positive OPK? :) 
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  • @silvergreen I did! I got my smile this morning  :)
    I know that is dosent gaurentee I O... but I'll take it. How are you holding up? 

  • rklinge0 said:
    @weareturtles I think we are on the same cycle. Hope the tww goes by fast. How did your mini go? I did one in May, started training right after the miscarriage. And sorry about the anniversary. 
    We didn't train as we essentially planned to just walk it, but to our surprise the enthusiasm of all of the runners + competition motivated us to run a lot of it!

    vlagrl29 said:
    That's awesome @weareturtles - is that something your doc prescribed?

    @justsuzie GL and love your gifs
    Yes - OB wanted me to use it as some research has said it improves lining. It didn't make me feel good though. Ick! ...Also I'm right with you on announcements feeling like a knife through the heart. One of our closest friends just got pregnant with her second and two other friends in the group are likely to be KU soon (if not already), so we're expecting to be the last with children, if that ever happens.  :/
    *TW*

    TTC#1 - 6.3.16
    BFP#1 - 7.1.16, (mo-di twins + singleton) due 3.15.17
    MC singleton - 7.13.16 - 5w
    MMC identical twins - 8.5.16 - 8w+2d
    Misoprostol 4x
    D&C - 9.12.16
    Hysteroscopy - 11.21.16 - Retained tissue filling half of uterus removed, blocked left tube, benched for 2 cycles, on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days
    HSG - 2.7.17 - Asherman's Syndrome. Both tubes open.
    Hysteroscopy 2.13.17 - Incomplete adhesiolysis for Asherman's, benched & on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days. At least two more surgeries needed...
    Hysteroscopy 3.21.17 - Adhesiolysis for Asherman's, benched & on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days.
    TTCAL #1: 4.24.17
    Hysteroscopy 5.23.17 - Scars reformed. Adhesiolysis. Unsure what to do next...
    Fertility acupuncture - started 6.13.17
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    I'm on CD8 so I still have a few days before hitting my fertile period, but I figured we might as well start getting busy EOD sooner rather than later to keep the supply fresh, if you know what I mean. ;)
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  • @silvergreen that gif just made me bust out laughing. Good luck starting! We aimed for ED starting CD 7.... I O on the cd 15 - we made it 7/9 days. Whew... almost more then I can handle.  :D 
    ONE more try tonight!  


  • So my lack of patience got the better of me and I requested an HCG check.  I'm still at 142. :( 
  • @ELeighMay Don't want to be a downer, but it took 7 weeks for mine to hit zero and for AF to return. My OB/GYN mentioned it could take up to 12 weeks. :/
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  • Well back from vacation and I'm here. CD8. I never bought the OPK. Maybe next month I will. 
  • @ELeighMay Ugh, that super sucks.  Did they do any quants before this one so you know your drop rate?  Unfortunately the last 50 took forever for me.  Hang in there girl. 
  • @justsuzie the only one I have to compare is the day of D&C at 10,800 on 7/31. They're doing another one Monday, so hopefully it's declining a little at least.
  • @ELeighMay I'm glad they are doing another one.  That way you can be confident that things are moving in the direction that they should.  Hoping for (at least) double digits for you!
  • Great gif @rosemaryandthyme

    told dh today this would be the week to get it on. Said no pressure to him cause I don't like that anymore.  I'm loving my mental state right now.
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  • @vlagrl29 great outlook.  
  • @justsuzie. That's why I don't want to jump to the clomid train right now. My mind is healing!! Dh leaves Tuesday night for a job 4 hours away and comes back wens night. I'm thinking sex tomorrow and then again on thurs and a couple more times thru Sunday at least. 
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  • tosh24tosh24 member
    edited August 2017
    Hi Ladies! I get to join you here now :) AF arrived today so I'm jumping into IUI #4. I have my CD 3 b/w and u/s on Wednesday morning and then I'll hopefully start shooting myself up with lots of drugs that make juicy follicles (HA! The things I look forward to.....). IUI will likely be somewhere around Aug 27th.  Happy I get to hang out here with you for a couple of weeks!

    Edit to fix capitalization...apparently not my thing today.
    Me: 35 I DH: 38
    *TW loss and children mentioned*
    DD:2006 | Dx: Unexplained Secondary Infertility | DS: 2011

    TFAS since 2012

    Oct 16: Spontaneous BFP | m/c @ 9w1d (massive SCH) | D&C
    Apr 17: IUI #1 = BFN
    May 17: IUI #2 = BFN
    Jun 17: IUI #3 = Late BFP (18 DPO) | NMC 17Jul17 @ ~6w
    Aug 17: IUI #4 = Cancelled due to premature ovulation | TI = BFN
    Sep 17: IUI #5 = Cancelled due to overstimulation (10+ follies)
    Nov 17: IVF #1 = Cancelled due to non-IF related health issue | TI = BFN
    Dec 17: IVF #1 = Puregon 200, Menopur 75, Orgalutran, Suprefact trigger due to OHSS risk | 22R, 18M, 16F, 10B frozen  
    Feb 18: FET #1 (medicated) = BFN
    Mar 18: FET #2 (natural cycle) = CP (beta 1: 54; beta 2: 0)
    Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = cancelled due to missed ovulation
    Apr 18: FET #3 (natural cycle) = BFP! Beta 1: 201  Beta 2: 585 Beta 3: 3254 Beta 4: 9715 U/S 19May - one bean measuring on track with a HB of 125!
    EDD: 07Jan2019 Team Green
    My Rainbow Baby Boy born 03Jan2019 <3 

  • @tosh24 FX that everything looks good Wednesday and that this round of IUI gets you a BFP!!
  • Wow...WTO is rocking! So many things to read. Haha. I got here now. I started late Monday night so I'm counting yesterday as CD1. I emailed my RE nurse and asked her if they have tested my progesterone (I didn't think they did but wanted to be sure). She said no, but sent me a lab slip in my email. Since I ovulate she doesn't think I have a progesterone problem but it's probably better to know for sure. I'm kinda surprised that they wouldn't have tested it since they literally tested everything else under the sun.
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  • @MooFish2364 they didnt check my progesterone either!!! I was surprised too!
  • MooFish2364 My first RE NEVER tested my progesterone either! So I went to a second RE for a second opinion. After I lose some more weight they're going to do a progesterone biopsy. AND they ran a test on ureaplasma (and a few other bacteria) that the first RE never mentioned. Glad you're able to get the test as well! I'd rather have the knowledge and check it off the list then find out much later I had a problem they didn't THINK was it!

    MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
    MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
    MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
    RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
    MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
    RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
    MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)

    RE #3: More testing 2023. 
    Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
    Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
    Lupron Depo March 2024.  Benched 3 months.

    FET #1: June 3, 2024 (failed)

    Lupron Depo June 2024. Benched 3 months again before next FET.

    FET #2: September 2024 (failed)

    FET #3: December 2024 (failed)

    #BitterHagPartyOf1

  • @MooFish2364 I had mine checked in feb my my old ob. It was in the mid/low normal range.  She suggested I try the suppositories but my current ob said I don't need them and they only help sustain pregnancy not help you get pregnant.
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  • @MooFish2364 Did your RE tell you what Cycle Day they want you to have your progesterone test done?
  • vlagrl29vlagrl29 member
    edited August 2017
    This is a new one for me but I'm bloating like I do before AF but its around O time for me.
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  • Anyone have a delayed O after a CP? Now I wish I had bought the OPK. I guess there will just have to be some extra work done around here!  ;)
  • Sorry @sprkls8506 I did not track the month following my cp. I know it was back to normal the following month.
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  • Dh got home late tonight from an out of town shoot today. He informed me he has 2 shoots tomorrow so I know he won't have energy to BD tomorrow night. Hopefully Friday. I'm thinking our timing won't be the best this month. Glad we got it in Monday.
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  • @vlagrl29 it probably won't affect my TTCAL journey, but still feel like I need to exhaust all options. I'm hoping that progesterone would give my body enough boost to at least let something implant since I have a feeling my immune system is killing everything before it can even implant due to my endo. 

    @leahcimmichael they told me to have it done 5 days after ovulation. 
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  • Got a strong + on my OPK this morning! BD'd last night and Monday night! Might try to get another in tonight. I find my OPK will test positive for two-three days at a time; usually moderate+ followed by strong+ then another moderate+. Would you ladies agree that I probably O within 12-24 hours of the strong+??
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  • @silvergreen My OPK's in the past were like that too. I O'd within the 12-24 window of my "strong" result.
  • @MooFish2364 - it can't hurt! Might as well get it tested. Mine was normal range but sometimes I wonder if I should use the cream. Then I remind myself I have a living child and a loss.
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  • @silvergreen you'd better get busy with that bd! Haha. I usually o within about 12 hours of positive OPK. 
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  • @ELeighMay
    @MooFish2364

    Thanks, ladies! I'll note today as my O day and try to get busy tonight!


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  • I had a miscarriage on Tue Aug 8th. 
    TTC right away. doctors ok'ed it
    Question. What was your cycle like immediately following mc and when did you ovulate. I'm still showing faint positives on tests. 
  • Well I've had that EWCM come out of me this morning and I told DH "too bad you're working all day and will be exhausted tonight cause I have the good stuff coming out"  LOL - I doubt it will happen as I don't like forcing BD so hoping I still have the good stuff tomorrow night!
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  • @giannavia I mc and had my D&C on 7/31 and my HCG is still not to 0 yet. It depends on what your levels were. Mine were at 10,800 on the 31st, and still at 72 this Monday, which would still register as a BFP. Some women take months for their cycles to return to normal. I'm still waiting to find out when AF will arrive for me this month, if it will yet.
  • @giannavia I had a MMC around 8 wks. Baby was measuring just under 6 wks. I had a D&C. For me, that seemed to be the start of my cycle. I ovulated 2 wks later and AF came 2 weeks after that. Didn't get reg cycles for about 6 months. My cycle had always been 28 days. It was as long as 34 days. Then finally around month 6 they started to be 28 days again. 
  • @giannavia Like @sprkls8506 I had a MMC with my baby measuring at 6 weeks when I should have been 8-9. Sadly, it still had a heartbeat the week prior, but I realized it was measuring pretty far behind so I was somewhat apprehensive about the viability of my pregnancy.

    I also opted for a D&C. My period returned 7 weeks to the day. I was testing very faint positives all the way up until that point. My cycles used to range from 25-28 days, but since their return they have all been 30 days long. The first cycle I spotted for almost 2 weeks after my period; the others have been a nice predictable 5 days. I have also had some dizziness/lightheadedness and a few episodes of vertigo upon the return of my cycle, but they have been getting gradually better. My PCP chalked it up to my hormones trying to stabilize, but I haven't seen much discussion about this.
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  • @vlagrl29 just open the door naked when he comes home.
    @silvergreen. As my therapist would say...make passionate love all the time (especially tonight), cuz just think, you could be making a baby, and it will be made out of love, not sex!  She is such a cook, but I love her!
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