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IF/Testing Weekly Check In June 26

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Re: IF/Testing Weekly Check In June 26

  • It's amazing the different advice we are all given!! @lund  let us k ow what your office says!
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  • lundlund member
    @vflux33 well damn. Glad you spoke up though!


    Ok ladies, what do you think: AF arrived at 5pm today. It's light, but more than what I would consider spotting.

    Do I go in for CD3 BW tomorrow (CD 1 or 2), or Monday (CD 4 or 5)?
  • @Redpuma119 I know, clearly this is less of an "exact science" then we'd all prefer. I pretty much am never sure anymore when my RE is saying something abnormal. Whenever I offer info to other people I always put a disclaimer in. I swear, half my posts in this thread start with "Well my RE is weird, but..." 
  • lundlund member
    @Redpuma119 @vflux33 the last time I had a BW timing question (for progesterone) my RE's nurse told me to go in whenever I wanted. Sooooo I'll ask them tomorrow morning, but I'm not expecting a lot of guidance. 
     (Insert eye roll GIF here)
  • @lund I'm also rolling my eyes. But also st my Re
  • @lund I hope you get some better answers. Ugh that it so frustrating!

    @kiwi2628 Hugs girl.  I am so sorry.  Take care of yourself today and know that we are here for support.  
  • zwink1zwink1 member
    @kiwi2628 Huge Hugs girl, I am so sorry < 3

    @lund It's been so long since we talked to our RE about any testing related to me that I have sort of forgotten what their policy was on CD1, so take this with a grain of salt, but...for some reason timing similar to what @vflux33 described is tickling my mind, but that could just be from chatter here too.
  • @kiwi2628 Damn I am so sorry

    @lund I would count today as CD1 and go Monday on CD4 (and sorry about CD1 :neutral: ) Hopefully your RE's office will be helpful when you call!

    Me: 38 DH:39
    TTC #2 - August 2016
    MFI
    IUI #1-3 BFN 

    Heart Mom - DS 3/15/13
    BFP 4/21/18 MMC 6/11/18
  • @lund I have no advice but I do hope that your RE's office gives you an actual answer instead of "whenever you want"!

    @kiwi2628 I'm so so sorry for the bfn.  Sending you so many hugs. 
  • madspunkmadspunk member
    edited June 2017
    @lund GL getting an answer from the nurse. I don't have any science to back up this opinion, but just for myself, I'd probably wait for CD 4 or 5. My clinic has had me come in on CD 4 before for scheduling reasons.

    @kiwi2628 Sorry for the BFN. Hugs. I hope IUI #2 will do it for you.
  • @kiwi2628 I am so, so sorry. I second the reminder to take good care of yourself today. 


  • @kiwi2628 So sorry girl. Drink all the wine tonight. 
    32 years old (both H and I)
    Dating 7/2008
    Married 7/2014
    H Type I Diabetic
    TTC 1/2016
    12/2016 mental break from TTC-NTNP
    1/10/2017 initial appt with RE (all BW results WNL)
    1/17/2017 SA DX Virtual Azoo (3 sperm 0%morph 0%motility)
    1/18/2017 STP tubes clear
    2/1/2017 initial appt with Urologist
    2/15/2017 DX H Robertsonian Translocation
    H is on clomid and Theralogix Supplements
    6/26/17 repeat SA: 47 sperm 0% morph 13% motility
    7/26/17 IVF Consult, repeat SA (4 sperm)
    8/21/17 Starting IVF cycle with Donor Sperm backup
    9/1/17 ER ICSI PGS: only 2 donor embryos made it to freeze
    9/13/17 Started cycle for IUI with donor and clomid
    9/27/17 IUI canceled for overstim
    October Plan IUI with donor and low dose clomid

  • 50Wife50Wife member
    I'm so sorry @kiwi2628
  • @RVAmom315  sorry to hear about your DHs SA result.
    @kiwi2628 I'm so sorry for the bfn  <3


  • GG620GG620 member
    @kiwiw2628 im so sorry to hear this <3 take it easy on yourself today and have all the wine

    @50wife hoorayy for a good result!!!

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    Me: 28  Him: 30

    Married: 11/15/14

    TTC: 02/2016

    IF DX: MFI (low count & morphology) & mild PCOS

    June 2016 BFP - MC @8w2d

    August 2016 BFP - MC @6w1d

    June 2017 - 50 mg Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI = BFP 7/6/17!!

    Beta #1 = 422 (14dpo), Beta #2 = 810, prog - 12.3 (16dpo), Beta #3 = 5023, prog - 18.9 (20dpo)

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  • @kiwi2628 ugh oh no, so very sorry friend. I remember feeling so hopeful too with my first IUI. All of the hugs  <3

    @lund did you call your RE today? Did they say to come in today or Monday? 

    Question- for those of you who took progesterone after O how long did it take you to get AF after you stopped them? My last pill was Wednesday night, bfn Thursday morning (expected day of AF) and still no sign of her. Usually my LP is 12-13 days today is day 15

  • @50wife YAS, girl!! I was kind of hoping for a similar experience but my scan was clear. I hope you only need one more cycle! 
    Me: 31 DH: 32
    Dating since: 11/17/2001
    Married: 9/26/2009
    TTC: June 2016
    BFP: 9/01/2017
    EDD: 5/14/2018


  • zwink1zwink1 member
    Fantastic new @50Wife!!!!  I will have all of my fingers and toes crossed for you this cycle!
  • @kiwi2628 damnit. I was rooting for you. Take care of yourself and try to enjoy the long weekend. 

    Me: 28 | DH: 33
    EDD: March 24, 2018 - angel baby at 21 weeks <3 


  • @50Wife You have had a hell of a ride the last two days!! Glad you are doing okay and your tubes are clear woohooo!
  • @50Wife glad to hear that all went well and everything is cleared and good to go!!! 

    @lund great that's good that's it's working out! Keep us posted 
  • Clomid ladies: How do your doctors monitor your cycles? Did you have to ask for that monitoring or did your RE just order it?

    I'm asking because I did one cycle of Clomid with my ob/gyn, who wasn't doing any monitoring besides CD23 bloodwork. I switched to an RE so I could be properly monitored and also because after my CD23 BW showed no ovulation, the ob/gyn told me to just keep taking the Clomid as prescribed. I asked her well what about forcing my period with Provera? I wasn't going to get one if I hadn't ovulated, and therefore couldn't take the Clomid as prescribed. She told me I'd get a period on Clomid even though I hadn't ovulated. BUT I'd just come off a 150 day cycle before that, so I called an RE because I couldn't go through it again. I love my RE and she acknowledges my concerns instead of just telling me to wait. I am concerned, however, that she does NO monitoring of my Clomid cycles. Not even CD23 BW. She just told me to use OPKs at home. The more I read from you ladies, the more I keep thinking that this isn't right.
    Me: 24 DH: 28
    DD 6/9/15
    TTC #2 with PCOS since 10/16

    July 2017 Siggy Challenge- Animals Eating Summer Foods

  • @50wife That's fantastic news! I'll be keeping my fx that this was all it takes for you to get KU!

    @beachbunnyxo123 I've never taken progesterone post-O (because I haven't O'd in 8 months), but I've taken it to bring on AF and start a new cycle. It usually takes me about 6-7 days to get AF (with spotting during those 6-7 days). But, again, this is not post-O, so idk how helpful that is. 
  • @vflux33 Yes, I take it days 3-7. The first cycle (50 mg) I took it days 5-9 and didn't O. This cycle, my first with the RE, I took 100 mg days 3-7 and O'd on CD18. At my initial appointment and the follow-up when she told us what our treatment would be, she didn't mention any ultrasounds or bloodwork.
    Me: 24 DH: 28
    DD 6/9/15
    TTC #2 with PCOS since 10/16

    July 2017 Siggy Challenge- Animals Eating Summer Foods

  • @lund I'm glad they got back to you and you can pick whichever day fits best for your schedule! I tested on CD4, but if it's accurate for that whole window, that's even better!
    @kiwi2628 Ah, that's a frustrating BFN. :creepy internet hugs:
    @50Wife Hooray for cleared tubes!!
    Me: 35 DH: 28
    TTC since June 2016

    Azoospermia diagnosis (zero count) Dec 2016

    AZFc chromosome microdeletion discovery March 2017
    Unsuccessful TESE for DH in August 2017
    October 2017 IVF with donor sperm
    29R, 24M, 16F, 2d5, 4d6 (6 embryos total)
    Only 3 could have PGS. 2/3 normal. 5 embies frozen
    12/15/17 FET #1 (1 embryo)--CP
    2/7/17 FET #2 (2 embryos)--BFN
    Chronic endometritis diagnosis May 2018
    ERA Sept 2018--borderline receptive--12 more hours of progesterone
    Abnormal SIS Oct 2018
    Repeat hysteroscopy Nov 1. Treated recurring endometritis.
    12/4/18 FET #3 (2 embryos)--BFN
    Our journey has come to an end.
    ~*~*~Nevertheless, she persisted~*~*~
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